Rar auzi femei coment\u00e2nd b\u0103rba\u0163i la modul “D\u0103-l \u00een g\u00e2tu’ m\u0103-sii de gras!” \u015fi, de c\u00e2te ori se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103, femeia continu\u0103: “Se tot bag\u0103 \u00een seam\u0103 cu mine \u015fi \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103-mi insereze pionierul la ecluz\u0103 \u00een cele mai penibile moduri”.
\nDac\u0103 grasul o las\u0103 sexualmente \u00een pace pe femeie, n-are dec\u00e2t s\u0103-\u015fi st\u0103p\u00e2neasc\u0103 s\u0103n\u0103tos cele opt bur\u0163i \u015fi cinci cururi, \u015fi colesterolul, \u015fi sl\u0103nina, \u015fi dimpotriv\u0103, femeia o s\u0103-l priveasc\u0103 binevoitor, ca pe un amic hazliu \u015fi inofensiv.
\nExist\u0103 \u00eens\u0103 o \u00eentreag\u0103 tendin\u0163\u0103 a pul\u0103r\u0103ilor s\u0103 izbucneasc\u0103: “S-o pi\u015f \u00een frez\u0103 de gras\u0103 infect\u0103”. “Da’ ce-\u0163i face?” “Nimic, ce, ar trebui s\u0103-mi fac\u0103 ceva?” “Ca s-o \u00eenjuri, da. \u00cen rest, e problema ei c\u0103 are nevoie de 3 locuri la cinema, c\u00e2t timp nu i le pl\u0103te\u015fti tu.” “S-o ia dracu’ de gras\u0103.” <\/p>\n
\u00cenc\u0103 e de lucru la psihicul masculului rom\u00e2n, sau m\u0103 rog, la o bun\u0103 parte dintre reprezentan\u0163ii numitului sex, s\u0103-i obi\u015fnuim cu ideea c\u0103:
\n-muierile vin \u00een diverse forme \u015fi m\u0103rimi, exact ca b\u0103rba\u0163ii
\n-muierile nu-s create de Dumnezeu strict pentru pl\u0103cerea ochiului t\u0103u. Dac\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 asta, e un bonus de efort din partea persoanei, nu ceva cuvenit \u0163ie din na\u015ftere.
\n-muierile au tot dreptul s\u0103 se simt\u0103 \u00een largul lor \u00een orice corp, oric\u00e2t e el de larg. <\/p>\n
Asta contrazice, aparent, noti\u0163ele mele cu abstinen\u0163a de S\u0103rb\u0103tori \u015fi salate perfecte pentru diet\u0103, dar e doar o aparen\u0163\u0103. Practic e vorba de faptul c\u0103 eu sunt actri\u0163\u0103 \u015fi, prin datele mele fizice: ten alb, p\u0103r negru, tr\u0103s\u0103turi vag gotice – m\u0103 potrivesc mai mult s\u0103 joc muma p\u0103durii dec\u00e2t coana chiri\u0163a. Mie, scenic, \u00eemi st\u0103 bine slab\u0103. E o op\u0163iune ASUMAT\u0102, pe care nu vreau s-o impun nim\u0103nui altcuiva, pentru c\u0103 fiecare om are dreptul s\u0103 ocupe \u00een spa\u0163iu c\u00e2t simte el c\u0103 \u00eei trebuie. <\/p>\n
\u015ei nu, nu g\u0103sesc nici o justificare irit\u0103rii unor cet\u0103\u0163eni legat de faptul c\u0103 ni\u015fte femei c\u0103rora nu le dau ei de m\u00e2ncare sunt grase. \u015ei refuz s\u0103 pun semnul egal \u00eentre gr\u0103sime \u015fi nesim\u0163ire. <\/p>\n
Gr\u0103simea se poate datora teribil de multor cauze: de la imagine proast\u0103 asupra propriului corp, p\u00e2n\u0103 la dezechilibre hormonale \u015fi de la obiceiuri culinare \u00eentip\u0103rite \u00een om p\u00e2n\u0103 la banala nefericire. Eu m-am \u00eengr\u0103\u015fat pe criterii de nefericire, c\u00e2t am fost \u00een ni\u015fte rela\u0163ii foarte prost alese. M\u00e2ncam de nervi. Ron\u0163\u0103itul continuu m\u0103 f\u0103cea s\u0103 nu-l str\u00e2ng pe animal de g\u00e2t. <\/p>\n
\u015ei totu\u015fi, revenind la \u00eentrebarea din titlu: cui aju\u0163i, dac\u0103 umile\u015fti o gras\u0103?<\/p>\n
Celor din jur?
\nNiciodat\u0103. Fie c\u0103-s pro\u015fti influen\u0163abili, \u015fi o s\u0103 ajung\u0103 la concluzia c\u0103 e OK s\u0103 insul\u0163i grase, fie sunt oameni de\u015ftep\u0163i \u015fi o s\u0103 vomite pu\u0163in cu g\u00e2ndul la tine. <\/p>\n
\u0162ie \u00eensu\u0163i?
\nNiciodat\u0103. Impresia c\u0103 suntem buricii p\u0103m\u00e2ntului \u015fi o form\u0103 mai evoluat\u0103 de via\u0163\u0103 dec\u00e2t grasa care st\u0103 \u015fi ea \u00een \u00eenveli\u015ful ei protector de sl\u0103nin\u0103 \u015fi nu deranjeaz\u0103 cu nimic pe nimeni tr\u0103deaz\u0103 un vag \u00eenceput de autosuficien\u0163\u0103. M\u0103car grasa aia nu s-a legat de un om care nu-i datora nimic. Moral, \u00ee\u0163i e superioar\u0103 la cel pu\u0163in un capitol. <\/p>\n
“Sigur, \u00eei folose\u015fte grasei!”
\nSigur, nu. Umilirea duce la accentuarea comportamentului alimentar blamat. Tu o faci gras\u0103, ea se duce acas\u0103, pl\u00e2nge \u015fi mai baloteaz\u0103 o cutie de \u00eenghe\u0163at\u0103.
\nAm fost acolo, \u015ftiu. <\/p>\n
Dac\u0103 realmente vre\u0163i s\u0103 ajuta\u0163i o gras\u0103, face\u0163i-o neostentativ. Chema\u0163i-o la alergat cu voi, la cursul de aerobic, \u0163ine\u0163i-o la mas\u0103, la gr\u0103tar de pui \u015fi fasole verde sotat\u0103. <\/p>\n
Oamenii nu se ajut\u0103 cu lopata. Dec\u00e2t dac\u0103 e vorba de o lopat\u0103 de bani. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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