{"id":10453,"date":"2016-03-08T11:23:16","date_gmt":"2016-03-08T11:23:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=10453"},"modified":"2016-03-08T13:50:57","modified_gmt":"2016-03-08T13:50:57","slug":"mama-si-eu-i","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/mama-si-eu-i\/","title":{"rendered":"Mama \u015fi eu (I)"},"content":{"rendered":"

E opt martie, ziua mamei. Ziua femeii absolute, care ne-a dat via\u0163\u0103, apoi a f\u0103cut tot posibilul s-o strice. Nu s\u0103ri\u0163i, c\u0103 glumesc. Ziua femeii absolute, care ne-a dat via\u0163\u0103, care ne-a \u0163inut la s\u00e2n, care ne-a al\u0103ptat sau ne-a amestecat cu m\u00e2na ei laptele praf \u00een ap\u0103 la temperatura camerei, care ne-a \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at s\u0103 vorbim, apoi ne-a cerut imperativ s\u0103 ne \u0163inem gura \u015fi tot a\u015fa. (Pancart\u0103 cu “Glum\u0103\u0103\u0103”.)<\/p>\n

V-am rugat pe voi, iubit\u0103 comunitate, (Pancart\u0103 cu “Glum\u0103\u0103\u0103”) s\u0103-mi trimite\u0163i poze cu voi, mamele proprii din dotare, \u015fi r\u0103spunsurile la c\u00e2teva \u00eentreb\u0103ri. Mi-a\u0163i r\u0103spuns, reprezentan\u0163i ai tuturor genera\u0163iilor posibile, ca dovad\u0103 c\u0103 omul r\u0103m\u00e2ne copil c\u00e2t tr\u0103ie\u015fte. Dar gata cu introducerea, s\u0103 intr\u0103m \u00een miez, zic.
\nDate fiind r\u0103spunsurile multe \u015fi foarte frumoase, am \u00eemp\u0103r\u0163it materialul \u00een dou\u0103 episoade, \u00een ordinea sosirilor. Mul\u0163umesc c\u0103 v-a\u0163i \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u015fit cele mai intime amintiri cu mine. <\/p>\n

Cerasela \u015fi mama ei, Anica\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

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1. Prima mea amintire cu mama este…<\/strong> Aveam 3 ani \u015fi eram la mare. La cinematograful din gr\u0103dina de var\u0103\u00a0rula un film cu un crocodil uciga\u015f. Probabil era Godzilla, nu a\u015f \u015fti precis.\u00a0Cineva a murit \u00een film \u015fi am pl\u00e2ns cu at\u00e2ta durere \u015fi amar… C\u00e2nd m-a \u00eentrebat de ce pl\u00e2ng, am r\u0103spuns “pentru c\u0103 nu o s\u0103-l mai vad niciodat\u0103”.
\n2. Mama \u015fi eu obi\u015fnuiam s\u0103<\/strong> g\u0103tim \u00eempreun\u0103. Mie \u00eemi era dor de toate m\u00e2nc\u0103rurile ei\u00a0super preparate \u015fi complicate, iar ei \u00eei pl\u0103ceau “prostioarele” mele rapide – inven\u0163ii\u00a0de tot felul, gata \u00een maximum 15 minute.
\n3. Mama \u00eemi spunea de multe ori c\u0103<\/strong> are nevoie de mine. L\u0103sam totul deoparte \u015fi m\u0103\u00a0duceam s\u0103-i \u00eemplinesc nevoia. Cele mai multe erau deosebit de absurde (observ acum), \u00eens\u0103\u00a0dependen\u0163a de ea m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 duc totul la cap\u0103t \u015fi s\u0103 consider c\u0103 \u00eei fac pl\u0103cerea pentru\u00a0c\u0103 e mama mea.
\n4. Nu i-am spus niciodat\u0103<\/strong> mamei c\u0103 o iubesc. \u015ei nici reciproca nu a existat.
\n5. A\u015f vrea ca mama \u015fi eu,<\/strong> c\u00e2nd ne vom \u00eent\u00e2lni, dac\u0103 ne vom mai \u00eent\u00e2lni, s\u0103 fim cele
\nmai bune prietene p\u00e2n\u0103 la moartea urm\u0103toare.<\/p>\n

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Adelina \u015fi mama ei, Lili\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

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1. Prima mea amintire cu mama este<\/strong> c\u0103 o ame\u0163eam cu \u00eentreb\u0103ri. Ba\u015fca, am f\u0103cut-o sa pl\u00e2ng\u0103. Eram la v\u00e2rsta la care scoteam “de ce”-uri pe band\u0103 rulant\u0103, derivau unele din altele. Cu mult tact \u015fi r\u0103bdare, \u00eemi explica, \u015fi eu tot continuam, p\u00e2n\u0103 am adus-o \u00een stadiul \u00een care mi-a zis “dac\u0103 o dat\u0103 m\u0103 mai \u00eentrebi ‘da’ de ce, te bat'”. R\u0103spunsul meu mirat a fost “da’ de ce?” \ud83d\ude42
\n\u015ei am f\u0103cut-o s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103, a plecat hohotind la munc\u0103. O vedeam rar, o dat\u0103 pe s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103, pentru c\u0103 era plecat\u0103 cu munca, \u015fi la gr\u0103dini\u0163\u0103 m\u0103 duceau bunicii. Am \u00eentrebat-o “dar tu de ce nu stai acas\u0103 cu mine, a\u015fa cum stau \u015fi
\nalte m\u0103mici cu copiii lor, nu-\u0163i place de mine?”. Efectul \u0163i l-am scris mai sus. Acum cand imi aduc aminte, realizez ca a fost o cruzime din partea mea, dar eram micu\u0163\u0103 \u015fi nu \u00een\u0163elegeam multe.<\/p>\n

2. Mama \u015fi eu obi\u015fnuim s\u0103 <\/strong> vorbim aproape \u00een fiecare zi, taclale extinse. Despre orice subiect, de munc\u0103, de planuri de viitor, de amintiri, m\u0103 cic\u0103le\u015fte c\u0103 n-am f\u0103cut curat, ne mai ciond\u0103nim \u015fi-n 5 minute a trecut
\nfurtuna, “ia, mai arat\u0103-mi pe Facebook”, “mai m\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103 \u015fi tu, mam\u0103” \u015fi termin\u0103m cu “aoleu, iar am pierdut serialul din cauza ta!”. \u015ei \u00eemi place c\u00e2nd \u00eei sabotez serialul!<\/p>\n

3. Mama \u00eemi spune de multe ori<\/strong> c\u0103 “nu toat\u0103 lumea e de\u015fteapt\u0103 ca tine”, \u00eendemn\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 s\u0103 fiu tolerant\u0103, s\u0103 explic, nu s\u0103 fiu laconic\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 am preten\u0163ia s\u0103 fiu \u00een\u0163eleas\u0103. De asemenea, tot cam a\u015fa \u00eemi spune \u015fi c\u00e2nd m\u0103 vede c\u0103 sunt bun\u0103, bleag\u0103 \u015fi luat\u0103 de fraier\u0103. C\u00e2nd e sup\u0103rat\u0103, m\u0103 amuz\u0103 c\u0103-mi spune “revizuie\u015fte-\u0163i atitudinea” \u015fi eu, de-a naibii, ghici ce fac. \ud83d\ude42 \u00cemi place c\u00e2nd ne spune “dac\u0103 nu eram eu, v\u0103 m\u00e2ncau c\u00e2inii” \ud83d\ude42 (\u015fi da, chiar face \u015fi a f\u0103cut o gr\u0103mad\u0103 pentru noi).<\/p>\n

4. Nu i-am spus niciodat\u0103 mamei c\u0103<\/strong> o apreciez pentru educa\u0163ia strict\u0103 \u015fi pentru c\u0103 mereu mi-a \u00eempins limitele, c\u0103 a \u015ftiut cum s\u0103 m\u0103 ambi\u0163ioneze \u015fi c\u0103, datorit\u0103 ei, m\u0103 consider o persoan\u0103 cu coloan\u0103 vertebral\u0103, pentru care lucrurile sunt albe sau negre, sigur\u0103 pe mine \u015fi convins\u0103 c\u0103 mereu trebuie s\u0103 ajut, cum pot. De asemenea, mereu m-a f\u0103cut con\u015ftient\u0103 c\u0103 sunt norocoas\u0103 s\u0103 fiu s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103, independent\u0103 \u015fi m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 apreciez mereu ceea ce am, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-mi doresc porc\u0103rii inutile.<\/p>\n

5. A\u015f vrea ca mama \u015fi eu<\/strong> s\u0103 avem \u00een continuare aceea\u015fi rela\u0163ie frumoas\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103-mi fie aproape c\u00e2t mai mult timp. Ea e motorul meu, mereu al\u0103turi de mine, \u00eemi sus\u0163ine toate ideile, e sprijinul f\u0103r\u0103 de care nu eram ce sunt acum. \u015ei chiar dac\u0103 mama e v\u0103zut\u0103 ca o persoan\u0103 sever\u0103 \u015fi foarte strict\u0103, obsedat\u0103 de cur\u0103\u0163enie \u015fi repezit\u0103, are o inim\u0103 de aur, iar c\u00e2nd mi se spune “semeni cu m\u0103-ta”, pentru mine e cel mai mare compliment!<\/p>\n

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Clara \u015fi mama ei, Erzsebet\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

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1. Prima mea amintire cu mama este <\/strong>c\u00e2nd amesteca \u00eentr-un cazan imens le\u0219ie, pentru s\u0103pun, c\u0103 nu prea g\u0103seam pe vremea aia. Poate s\u0103 fi fost prima cea c\u00e2nd eram cu ea la policlinic\u0103, \u0219i ea vorbea cumva \u00een 8 direc\u021bii simultan, d\u00e2nd indica\u021bii bolnavilor ce exerci\u021bii s\u0103 fac\u0103 fiecare, \u00een timp ce \u00eemi m\u00e2ng\u00e2ia capul. M\u0103 lua des cu ea la serviciu.
\nMi-aduc aminte cum \u00eemi citea pove\u0219ti \u0219i dup\u0103 dou\u0103 pagini at\u00e2rna dormind cu b\u0103rbia-n piept, \u00een timp ce eu o \u00eempungeam cu degetul la sub\u021bioar\u0103 s\u0103-mi spun\u0103 ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 mai departe.
\nMi-aduc aminte c\u00e2t a negociat cu m\u0103tu\u0219a mea – \u0219i crizele de r\u00e2s aferente – c\u00e2nd am cerut s\u0103 \u0219tiu cum arat\u0103 \u201eo p\u0103s\u0103ric\u0103\u201d, ca p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 duc\u0103 la nudi\u0219ti ca s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg cum st\u0103\/stau? situa\u021biile. Cred c\u0103 aveam sub 6 ani.<\/p>\n
2. Mama \u015fi eu<\/strong> – \u0219i surorile mele –  obi\u015fnuiam s\u0103<\/strong> preg\u0103tim \u00eempreun\u0103 masa de duminic\u0103. \u021ain minte c\u0103 o dat\u0103 m-a sc\u0103pat din ochi \u0219i am lins tot amestecul pentru pandi\u0219pan dintr-un lighean. Niciodat\u0103 n-am s\u0103 uit ochii de desene animate pe care i-a f\u0103cut  c\u00e2nd \u0219i-a dat seama. Nici degetul pe care mi l-a b\u0103gat pe g\u00e2t \u00een secunda urm\u0103toare.
\nObi\u0219nuiam s\u0103 ne str\u00e2ngem seara la un film. NU obi\u0219nuia s\u0103 sar\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 la tavan, p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd a f\u0103cut cuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103 cu hamsterul introdus pe ascuns, ilegal, prin metode ilicite, COMPLET INTERZISE, pe teritoriul casei lui Maman. \u00cenc\u0103
\np\u0103strez ritualul \u0103sta cu iubitul meu, cu sfin\u021benie. Cu filmele, nu cu hamsterul. Poate doar trafic cu animale condamnate pentru vagabondaj, fie.<\/p>\n
3. Mama \u00eemi spunea de multe ori<\/strong> c\u0103 lumea e de c\u0103cat \u0219i c\u0103 nimeni nu face ceva gratis. \u00cen timp ce ea avea o coad\u0103 de trei cvartale de oameni pe care i-a pus pe picioare din boal\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 cear\u0103 nimic \u00een schimb.
\nMereu, dar mereu \u00eemi spune c\u00e2nd \u00eei zic \u201em\u0103 descurc, maman, sunt adult vaccinat, nu trebuie s\u0103 te \u00eengrijorezi\u201d c\u0103 n-o intereseaz\u0103 detalii d-astea insignifiante, ea c\u00e2t tr\u0103ie\u0219te eu tot copilul ei sunt \u0219i se \u00eengrijoreaz\u0103 pentru mine. Mno asta e, e job description la \u201emam\u0103\u201d, deal with it.<\/p>\n
4. Nu i-am spus niciodat\u0103 mamei c\u0103<\/strong> am o via\u021b\u0103 sexual\u0103. Nici ea nu m-a \u00eentrebat, ce-i drept. Cred c\u0103 cumva consider\u0103 c\u0103 persona de cuplu (a mea \u0219i a surorilor mele) nu copuleaz\u0103.
\nNu cred c\u0103 i-am zis vreodat\u0103 c\u0103 are cel mai contagios r\u00e2s pe care l-am auzit vreodat\u0103. \u0218i c\u0103 r\u00e2de cu inim\u0103, fa\u021b\u0103, fund \u0219i urechi \u0219i c\u0103 m-a\u0219 uita la ea cu orele c\u00e2nd o face. Nu i-am spus niciodat\u0103 c\u0103 dragoste ca a ei nu cred c\u0103 o s\u0103 mai cunosc vreodat\u0103, p\u00e2n\u0103 o s\u0103 mor.<\/p>\n
5. A\u015f vrea ca mama \u015fi eu s\u0103<\/strong> petrecem mai mult timp b\u00e2rfind nimicuri. \u0218i a\u0219 vrea s\u0103 m\u0103 lase s\u0103 am mai mult\u0103 grij\u0103 de ea.<\/p>\n
Ralu \u015fi mama ei, Marina<\/strong><\/p>\n
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1. Prima mea amintire cu mama este<\/strong> c\u00e2nd m\u0103 l\u0103sa la \u0163ar\u0103 la bunici, c\u0103 am\u00e2ndoi erau la serviciu \u015fi nu puteau avea grij\u0103 de mine. Plecau pe ascuns \u015fi m\u0103 l\u0103sau acolo. Iar eu pl\u00e2ngeam p\u00e2n\u0103 f\u0103ceam febr\u0103 \u015fi veneau \u00eenapoi s\u0103 m\u0103 ia. A\u015ftept\u00e2ndu-i, \u00eemi amintesc c\u0103 umblam prin lucrurile mamei de la \u0163ar\u0103, doar ca s\u0103 \u00eei simt mirosul \u015fi s\u0103 o simt mai aproape.
\n2. Mama \u015fi eu obi\u015fnuim s\u0103<\/strong> r\u00e2dem cu lacrimi. Avem un umor al nostru \u015fi numai al nostru.
\n3. Mama \u00eemi spune de multe ori c\u0103 <\/strong> eu sunt sensul vie\u0163ii ei.
\n4. Nu i-am spus niciodat\u0103 mamei c\u0103<\/strong> ea e sensul vie\u0163ii mele.
\n5. A\u015f vrea ca mama \u015fi eu <\/strong> s\u0103 fim aproape. (eu locuiesc \u00een Fran\u0163a, iar p\u0103rin\u0163ii mei au r\u0103mas \u00een Rom\u00e2nia). <\/p>\n
Florin \u015fi mama lui, Lenu\u0163a<\/strong><\/p>\n
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1) Io, prunc mic, printre sc\u00e2nduri, grinzi \u0219i coarne, \u0219i cu suzeta \u00een gur\u0103. Ai mei erau v\u00e2nz\u0103tori de materiale lemnoase, \u0219i m\u0103 luau cu ei, s\u0103 nu fiu singur acas\u0103. Erau multe stive de lemne, \u00eempr\u0103\u0219tiate pe un teren mare \u0219i larg. Mai erau vreo al\u021bi 10-15 comercian\u021bi, nu doar ai mei, fiecare cu stivele lui, dar pe acela\u0219i teren comun.
\nO bucat\u0103 mare dintr-o zi de lucru obi\u0219nuit\u0103 \u0219i-o petreceau omor\u00e2nd timpul, neav\u00e2nd clien\u021bi prea mul\u021bi \u0219i st\u00e2nd l\u00e2ng\u0103 stive de diminea\u021ba p\u00e2n\u0103 seara.  \u0218i taaare se mai bucurau comercian\u021bii (to\u021bi b\u0103rba\u021bi, maic\u0103-mea singura femeie) c\u00e2nd zburdam eu nepriponit p’acolo. Le eram drag. \u0218i pentru c\u0103 era de adorat o mog\u00e2ldea\u021b\u0103 s\u0103lt\u0103rea\u021b\u0103 prin ditai plictiseala de peisaj, dar \u0219i pentru c\u0103 mul\u021bi nu aveau copii.
\n\u00cenc\u0103.
\n\u0102\u0219tia m\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021bau s\u0103 \u00eenjur. “Scoate tu suzeta din gur\u0103, c\u0103 e\u0219ti b\u0103rbat mare \u0219i tre’ s\u0103 vorbe\u0219ti ca unul!”. Se amuza \u0219i maic\u0103-mea asist\u00e2nd la h\u0103h\u0103itul colectiv st\u00e2rnit de sudalmele st\u00e2lcit ie\u0219ite din gura mea.
\n\u0218i-ntr-o zi, vine o doamn\u0103 \u0219i-un domn. El, clientul, ea, \u00eenso\u021bitoare lui. Asta, v\u0103z\u00e2ndu-se numai printre b\u0103rba\u021bi, se apropie de maic\u0103-mea \u0219i se iau la vorbe. Eu, v\u0103z\u00e2nd o str\u0103in\u0103, iau picioarele maic\u0103-mii ca straj\u0103.
\n“Vaai, ce b\u0103ie\u021bel dr\u0103gu\u021b! S\u0103 nu-\u021bi fie fric\u0103 de tanti, c\u0103 nu pap!”
\n\u0218i str\u00e2ng mai tare picioarele maic\u0103-mii.
\n“Nu dai tu la tanti suzeta, c\u0103 am \u0219i eu acas\u0103 un nepo\u021bel micu\u021b ca tine \u0219i i-o aduc lui?”
\n\u0218i dau, \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it, slobod la gur\u0103, i\u021bindu-mi doar capul \u0219i sco\u021b\u00e2ndu-mi suzeta din gur\u0103:
\n“T\u0103-ti iei \u00een pula mea suset\u0103, c\u0103 ata mie m-a luat-o mami!”
\nDup\u0103 c\u00e2teva secunde r\u0103mas\u0103 perplex\u0103, pe doamn\u0103 o bu\u0219e\u0219te r\u00e2sul.
\n\u00cemi amintesc foarte limpede cum m-a ridicat maic\u0103-mea \u0219i m-a s\u0103rutat cu drag pe frunte.
\n*Chiar dac\u0103 unii ar vedea gestul acesta al mamei ca unul de \u00eencurajare – s\u0103-njure pruncu’, c\u0103 bine a f\u0103cut, eu, acum c\u00e2nd sunt mare, \u00eenjur rareori \u0219i doar cu foarte-apropia\u021bii \u00eemi permit. <\/p>\n
2) Mama \u0219i eu obi\u0219nuim s\u0103<\/strong> c\u0103ut\u0103m frenetic re\u021bete noi de pr\u0103jituri, iar apoi intervine competitivitatea \u00eentre noi \u0219i fiecare \u00ee\u0219i face versiunea proprie. Test\u0103m rezultatele pe taic\u0103-miu \u0219i sor\u0103-mea. Cheesecake-ul \u00eemi iese divin – de fiecare dat\u0103 am c\u00e2\u0219tigat voturile la o re\u021bet\u0103 noua de cheesecake. <\/p>\n
3) Mama \u00eemi spune de multe ori<\/strong>, mai \u00een glum\u0103, mai \u00een serios, c\u0103 nu-s normal la cap. :))<\/p>\n
4) Nu i-am spus niciodat\u0103 mamei c\u0103<\/strong> eu sunt “boii dracu care au luat iar curentu”. Obi\u0219nuiesc s\u0103 \u00eentrerup complet curentul electric \u00een toat\u0103 casa atunci c\u00e2nd vreau ca ei (mama, tata, sor\u0103-mea) s\u0103 nu se mai uite la tv. <\/p>\n
5) A\u0219 vrea ca mama \u0219i eu<\/strong> s\u0103 fim parteneri de lectur\u0103. Niciunul din familia mea nu-i cititor (eu am ajuns cititor din influen\u021ba a dou\u0103 profesoare superbe). Jur c\u0103 le sparg televizoarele \u00eentr-o bun\u0103 zi!<\/p>\n
Ecaterina \u015fi mama ei, Otilia<\/strong><\/p>\n
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1. Nu \u0219tiu care e prima, a doua, a mia, dar \u0219tiu una care-mi vine-n minte, sporadic. Mama dormind. \u0218i eu \u00een pat l\u00e2ng\u0103 ea, privind. \u0218i mie f\u0103c\u00e2ndu-mi-se frig, iar ea fiind sursa mea de c\u0103ldur\u0103. At\u00e2t de cald\u0103 c\u0103 transmite c\u0103ldur\u0103 \u0219i c\u00e2nd doarme. De ce mi-o fi pl\u0103c\u00e2nd s-o v\u0103d dormind, oare? Cred c\u0103-mi place s\u0103 \u0219tiu c\u0103 se odihne\u0219te. Ador\u0103 odihna, ador\u0103 s\u0103-\u0219i \u00eentind\u0103 picioarele; e o femeie-pisic\u0103.
\n2. Eu \u0219i mama obi\u0219nuim s\u0103<\/strong> facem multe poze \u00eempreun\u0103. \u0218i s\u0103 ne film\u0103m. \u0218i s\u0103 r\u00e2dem copios dup\u0103 aceea. Fiindc\u0103 eu sunt super-mega-modelu\u2019 lu\u2019 Pe\u0219te, iar ea nu e fotogenic\u0103 deloc. \u0218edin\u021bele foto au o finalitate care ne place am\u00e2ndurora: eu \u0219i mama plus o sticl\u0103 de vin f\u0103cut de tata.
\n3. Mama \u00eemi spune de multe ori c\u0103<\/strong> m\u0103 ador\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 sunt minunea ei. Mama \u00eemi spune de multe ori c\u0103 \u0219i-ar da via\u021ba pentru mine \u0219i frate-miu. Mama \u00eemi spune demulte ori c\u0103 o femeie puternic\u0103 pl\u00e2nge trei minute \u0219i-apoi gata, uit\u0103. Mama \u00eemi spune de multe ori c\u0103 sunt dezordonat\u0103 \u0219i nu mai are ce s\u0103 spun\u0103 c\u00e2nd \u00eei replic c\u0103 sunt artist\u0103. Mama \u00eemi spune de nenum\u0103rate ori ce visuri are. \u00cemi spune ,,frumoas\u0103\u201d \u0219i ,,enervant\u0103\u201d, ,,de\u0219teapt\u0103\u201d \u0219i ,,rea\u201d; le \u00eembin\u0103 pe toate de la ,,iubirea mea\u201d la ,,scroafo\u201d, p\u00e2n\u0103 ajunge s\u0103 m\u0103 fac\u0103 a\u0219a\u2026 de sus \u00een jos, numai
\noximoroane.
\n4. Nu i-am spus niciodat\u0103 mamei c\u0103<\/strong> o iubesc. Nu \u00een cuvinte. \u0218i nici c\u0103 sunt alcoolic\u0103. Dar m\u0103car \u0219tie c\u0103 sunt bisexual\u0103. \u0218i aproape totul despre mine.
\n5. A\u0219 vrea ca mama \u0219i eu s\u0103<\/strong> c\u0103l\u0103torim \u0219i mai mult dec\u00e2t p\u00e2n\u0103 acum. A\u0219 vrea ca mama \u0219i eu s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2nem best friends forever. A\u0219 vrea ca mama \u0219i eu s\u0103 ne-n\u021belegem \u00eentotdeauna din priviri, ca \u0219i p\u00e2n\u0103 acum. A\u0219 vrea ca mama \u0219i eu s\u0103 distrugem lumea. \u00centr-un mod frumos, bine\u00een\u021beles. A\u0219 vrea s-o protejez de orice r\u0103utate sau suferin\u021b\u0103. Merit\u0103 mai mult dec\u00e2t tot ce se poate afla pe lume, merit\u0103 mai mult dec\u00e2t ce-\u0219i pot imagina poe\u021bii, merit\u0103 p\u00e2n\u2019 la Dumnezeu de mult. \u0218i poate c\u0103 vrea doar s\u0103 \u00eei zic ce nu i-am zis niciodat\u0103; ,,\u0219i eu pe tine\u201d.<\/p>\n
Liliana \u015fi mama ei, Florica<\/strong><\/p>\n
\"12837163_10153995150253139_423545129_o\"<\/p>\n
1. Eram cu bunicii \u015fi verii, \u015fi ei, p\u0103rin\u021bii, se preg\u0103teau de un revelion. Si mama, \u00een oglind\u0103, \u00eentr-o rochie superb\u0103, neagr\u0103, lung\u0103, cu m\u00e2inile goale \u015fi cea dreapt\u0103, pe corp. Se farda. N-o s\u0103 uit niciodat\u0103 c\u00e2t de frumoas\u0103 era!
\n2. Ce f\u0103ceam fantastic de nemuritor, cu mama? Ea buc\u0103t\u0103rea, si eu f\u0103ceam cump\u0103r\u0103turile. C\u0103-mi era interzis \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie, cu ea. Fie o \u00eencurcam, fie voia s\u0103 m\u0103 protejeze, n-o s\u0103 \u0219tiu niciodat\u0103! Ea \u00eemi spunea c\u0103 nu va fi nevoie sa coc\u0103lesc, o va face ea pentru mine. (Ha! Ce plas\u0103 am luat, \u015fi eu, \u015fi ea!! O credeam \u015fi eu nemuritoare!)<\/p>\n
3. Mama \u00eemi spunea de multe ori c\u0103<\/strong>….nu va trebui s\u0103-mi fac griji pentru nimic! Iar, plas\u0103! Am acum la griji, c\u00e2t nu cred c\u0103 \u015fi-a imaginat ea vreodat\u0103! Una dintre cele mai mari griji, acum, e dac\u0103 sufer\u0103, dac\u0103 o doare ceva. (E afazic\u0103, scoate mai mult sunete dec\u00e2t cuvinte).<\/p>\n
4. Ce a\u015f vrea sa-i spun si nu i-am spus? C\u0103-i mul\u0163umesc pentru oferta cu degetele pentru Mihai! (Nepotul viselor \u015fi fiul viselor are trei degete lips\u0103 prin sindrom de brid\u0103 amniotic\u0103). Si bun\u0103-sa, zice, odat\u0103: nu mor io p\u00e2n\u0103 n-o s\u0103 pot s\u0103-i dau c\u00e2te degete trebe!
\nN-a murit, dar are Alzheimer, ceea ce-i gr\u0103be\u0219te sf\u00e2r\u0219itul.<\/p>\n
5. As vrea ca mama \u015fi eu s\u0103 mai avem o zi, sau dou\u0103, \u00een care s\u0103-i spun c\u0103 voi fi ok, c\u0103 Mihai e mare, \u015fi frumos, \u015fi bun – a\u015fa cum l-a pornit ea!-, \u015fi s\u0103 \u015fi priceap\u0103 treaba asta.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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