{"id":10521,"date":"2016-03-12T12:23:29","date_gmt":"2016-03-12T12:23:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=10521"},"modified":"2016-03-12T12:23:29","modified_gmt":"2016-03-12T12:23:29","slug":"fa-ti-coming-out-ul-dar-acum-da","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/fa-ti-coming-out-ul-dar-acum-da\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;F\u0103-\u0163i coming out-ul! Dar acum, da??&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Am mul\u0163i prieteni din toate literele care alc\u0103tuiesc LGBT. Unii, activi\u015fti \u00een gura mare. \u015ei e ok. Al\u0163ii, timizi, \u00eenchi\u015fi \u00een ei, speria\u0163i, introverti\u0163i. \u015ei, de asemenea, E OK.<\/p>\n<p>Apoi, am cuno\u015ftin\u0163e &#8211; c\u0103 \u0103\u015ftia nu-s prietenii nim\u0103nui &#8211; care-s heterosexuali \u015fi activi\u015ftii pulii de cal, \u015fi \u00eei tot preseaz\u0103 pe to\u0163i legebeteii de mai sus: &#8220;Tu c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u0163i faci coming out-ul? Trebuie s\u0103-i spui cu m\u00e2ndrie lumii c\u0103 e\u015fti. Trebuie s\u0103 \u015ftie to\u0163i pro\u015ftii \u015fi mamele lor! Hai. Dac\u0103 n-o faci, n-ai coaie.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Apoi, am \u00een cas\u0103 o m\u0103tur\u0103 cu coada lung\u0103. \u015ei visez \u00een secret cu c\u00e2t\u0103 pl\u0103cere a\u015f sparge dantura celor din a treia categorie, d\u00e2nd cu sete.<\/p>\n<p>A\u015fa cum, \u00een general, a\u015f sparge dantura oricui are sfaturi de dat legat de vie\u0163ile altora, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 vizualizeze \u015fi eventualele consecin\u0163e.<\/p>\n<p>Sunt gay discre\u0163i cu vie\u0163ile lor, a\u015fa cum sunt heterosexuali 100%, care-s discre\u0163i cu vie\u0163ile lor. \u015ei-s discre\u0163i FIX pentru c\u0103 nu vor comentarii, p\u0103reri \u015fi impresii nesolicitate de la to\u0163i gigeii respiraci pe gur\u0103. De c\u00e2nd ai tu c\u0103derea s\u0103 le spui ce s\u0103 fac\u0103?<\/p>\n<p>Nu activistul ultrastresant cu &#8220;come out, come out&#8221; o s\u0103 aib\u0103 de \u00eenfruntat tone de dialog antipatic \u015fi gesturi de rahat de la al\u0163ii. Lui \u00eei e simplu. Lumea \u015ftie c\u0103 nu e gay, doar prost, \u015fi n-are preten\u0163ii. Nici nu trebuie s\u0103-\u015fi fac\u0103 coming-out-ul ca prost, c\u0103 e vizibil de la o po\u015ft\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Iar voi, dragi gay \u015fi lesbiene, sim\u0163i\u0163i-v\u0103 liberi s\u0103 v\u0103 face\u0163i coming-out-ul c\u00e2nd v\u0103 e vou\u0103 confortabil \u015fi dac\u0103 v\u0103 e vou\u0103 confortabil. Nu e problema absolut nim\u0103nui altcuiva. Iar discre\u0163ia era, ultima oar\u0103 c\u00e2nd am verificat, o rar\u0103 virtute.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Am mul\u0163i prieteni din toate literele care alc\u0103tuiesc LGBT. Unii, activi\u015fti \u00een gura mare. \u015ei e ok. Al\u0163ii, timizi, \u00eenchi\u015fi \u00een ei, speria\u0163i, introverti\u0163i.&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":10522,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10521","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/rainbow.jpg?fit=1150%2C550&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10521","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10521"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10521\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10523,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10521\/revisions\/10523"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10522"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10521"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10521"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10521"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}