Unui prieten i-a murit zilele trecute c\u00e2inele.<\/p>\n
Omul sufer\u0103 cr\u00e2ncen, dup\u0103 cum u\u015for se poate b\u0103nui. \u00ce\u015fi trece prin minte, iar \u015fi iar, momentele petrecute \u00eempreun\u0103 cu el.<\/p>\n
Apoi, vin diver\u015fi idio\u0163i s\u0103-i spun\u0103: “Nu-\u0163i face griji, sunt at\u00e2\u0163ia c\u0103\u0163ei f\u0103r\u0103 st\u0103p\u00e2n, adop\u0163i tu altul.”<\/p>\n
A\u015fa, la modul: e ok, se g\u0103sesc becuri ieftine, te duci, cumperi \u015fi-l schimbi.<\/p>\n
Iar eu r\u0103m\u00e2n iar \u015fi iar n\u0103uc\u0103 de c\u00e2t de pro\u015fti \u015fi lipsi\u0163i de empatie pot fi ni\u015fte oameni.<\/p>\n
Orice st\u0103p\u00e2n de animal de companie v\u0103 poate spune c\u0103 rela\u0163ia care se creeaz\u0103 \u00eentre om \u015fi c\u00e2inele \/ pisica preferat\u0103 trece de prietenie, trece de intimitate, devine un fel de fuziune emo\u0163ional\u0103.<\/p>\n
Dat fiind c\u0103 nici una dintre aceste minunate f\u0103pturi nu vorbe\u015fte, nu-\u0163i poate strepezi mintea cu c\u00e2te o tic\u0103lo\u015fie n\u0103ucitoare, principalul lucru care te dezgust\u0103 la semenii t\u0103i bipezi. \ud83d\ude42 C\u00e2nd tr\u0103ie\u015fti zi de zi cu un animal de companie, ritualul lui de via\u0163\u0103 se \u00eentre\u0163ese cu al t\u0103u. M\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103 cu tine. Doarme cu tine. Vine la bud\u0103 cu tine. Dac\u0103 lucrezi acas\u0103, \u0163i se pune cuminte \u00een poal\u0103 sau la picioare c\u00e2t \u00ee\u0163i faci treaba. Dac\u0103 lucrezi \u00een alt\u0103 parte, te a\u015fteapt\u0103 cu un dor nem\u0103rginit. Dac\u0103 ie\u015fi p\u00e2n\u0103 la col\u0163 s\u0103-\u0163i iei h\u00e2rtie igienic\u0103, \u00ee\u0163i sare \u00een bra\u0163e la \u00eentoarcere de zici c-ai fost \u00een excursie pe Himalaya.<\/p>\n
Animalul t\u0103u de companie nu joac\u0103 jocule\u0163e de strategie cu tine, ci \u00ee\u0163i arat\u0103 de 543322589 de ori pe zi c\u00e2t de mult te iube\u015fte. \u015ei mai ales \u00een zilele noastre, destul de aride de tandre\u0163e altminteri, ajungi s\u0103 depinzi de asta.<\/p>\n
Ajungi s\u0103-\u0163i cuno\u015fti at\u00e2t de bine animalul de companie, \u00eenc\u00e2t \u015ftii exact ce simte, din fiecare mic sunet \u015fi privire. Iar el \u015ftie exact unde te doare, \u015ftie exact c\u00e2nd s\u0103 se joace \u015fi c\u00e2nd s\u0103 stea empatic \u015fi t\u0103cut l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine.<\/p>\n
Un animal de companie iubit \u015fi \u00eengrijit e un alter ego.<\/p>\n
\u015ei vii tu s\u0103-i spui omului \u00eendoliat dup\u0103 o astfel de pierdere: Las\u0103, g\u0103se\u015fti tu altul.<\/p>\n
Dac\u0103 omul e bine crescut, n-o s\u0103 te \u00eenjure. N-o s\u0103-\u0163i ureze s\u0103 mori, c\u0103 nu-i problem\u0103, garantat b\u0103rbatu – tu \/ nevast\u0103-ta \u00ee\u015fi g\u0103se\u015fte pe alta \/ altul.<\/p>\n
Dar o s\u0103 aib\u0103 revela\u0163ia brusc\u0103 \u015fi profund\u0103 a prostiei \u015fi nesim\u0163irii tale \u015fi o s\u0103 se \u00eentrebe serios c\u00e2nd a ajuns s\u0103 se \u00eemprieteneasc\u0103 cu cretini.<\/p>\n
Dac\u0103 nu \u015ftii ce s\u0103-i spui unui om care \u015fi-a pierdut companionul, ureaz\u0103-i s\u0103 aib\u0103 putere. Scurt \u015fi la obiect. Oricum, n-o va avea, cel pu\u0163in nu \u00een primele zile.<\/p>\n
Sau scoate-l la o bere \u015fi taci. Taci \u00een semn de respect. Taci \u00een semn de consolare. C\u0103 o t\u0103cere \u00een\u0163eleapt\u0103 valoreaz\u0103 de zece ori mai mult dec\u00e2t o cascad\u0103 de cuvinte imbecile.<\/p>\n
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