{"id":10601,"date":"2016-03-31T07:52:30","date_gmt":"2016-03-31T07:52:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=10601"},"modified":"2016-03-31T07:52:30","modified_gmt":"2016-03-31T07:52:30","slug":"paradoxul-misoginului","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/paradoxul-misoginului\/","title":{"rendered":"Paradoxul misoginului"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Unii b\u0103rba\u0163i au reputa\u0163ie de misogini. Ur\u0103sc crunt femeile din gur\u0103. \u00cen schimb, c\u00e2nd apuci s\u0103 interac\u0163ionezi cu ei, \u00ee\u0163i propun deals excelente, te trateaz\u0103 cu protocol 10+, sau, minimum, cu gra\u0163ie, diploma\u0163ie \u015fi stil.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u0163i b\u0103rba\u0163i au reputa\u0163ie de mari iubitori de femei. Iubesc crunt femeile. Tot din gur\u0103. Bat c\u00e2mpii \u00eendelung despre c\u00e2t de minunate \u015fi speciale sunt. \u00cen schimb, c\u00e2nd interac\u0163ionezi cu ei, \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i \u00eendese pe g\u00e2t o familiaritate coc\u0103l\u0103reasc\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 te \u00eentrebe dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 fii p\u0103rta\u015f\u0103 la a\u015fa ceva, s\u0103 te pun\u0103 s\u0103 faci nu \u015ftiu c\u00e2te rahaturi munc\u0103 patriotic\u0103 pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 deals oficiale, s\u0103 trag\u0103 de tine \u00een toate p\u0103r\u0163ile \u015fi eventual s\u0103 \u0163i-o \u015fi trag\u0103 \u00een toate p\u0103r\u0163ile. <\/p>\n<p>Ai zice c\u0103 ura b\u0103rb\u0103teasc\u0103 vine cu o evaluare corect\u0103 a a\u015ftept\u0103rilor adversarului, iar iubirea b\u0103rb\u0103teasc\u0103, numai cu stres nesolicitat \u015fi deranj. \u0102la care te ur\u0103\u015fte te trateaz\u0103 ca pe un adversar demn de respect, iar \u0103la care te iube\u015fte, ca pe proasta c\u00e2\u015ftigat\u0103 la belciuge a satului. <\/p>\n<p>Habar n-am. <\/p>\n<p>Cert e c\u0103 dintre ace\u015fti doi fl\u0103c\u0103i prezenta\u0163i mai sus, o s\u0103-l prefer \u00eentotdeauna pe misogin. <\/p>\n<p>M\u0103 doare ad\u00e2nc \u00een fund ce simt oamenii pentru mine. M\u0103 doare ad\u00e2nc \u00een fund dac\u0103 m\u0103 iubesc, dac\u0103 au postere cu mine la baie, dac\u0103 m\u0103 ur\u0103sc, dac\u0103 fac vr\u0103ji voodoo noaptea \u00een cimitir cu o p\u0103pu\u015f\u0103 modelat\u0103 dup\u0103 mine. Sentimentele lor private sunt problema lor particular\u0103 \u015fi chiar nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103 le schimb. <\/p>\n<p>Unicul lucru care m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 e tratamentul direct \u015fi corect \u00een interac\u0163iune. <\/p>\n<p>V\u0103d c\u0103 \u00eemi ascul\u0163i punctul de vedere, \u00eemi respec\u0163i priorit\u0103\u0163ile \u015fi pot lucra bine cu tine? Perfect! \u00cen rest, ai liber de la mine s\u0103 m\u0103 ur\u0103\u015fti p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i vine acru. Cu n\u0103b\u0103d\u0103i. Cu gheb. Cu ce vrei tu. <\/p>\n<p>V\u0103d c\u0103 e\u015fti un matracuc (ce bine sun\u0103 la masculin, nu?) lipsit de respect, care cau\u0163i s\u0103 m\u0103 tot iri\u0163i \/ stresezi \/ agasezi \u00een numele unei iubiri care m\u0103 las\u0103 de-a dreptul zero grade Fahrenheit de rece?<br \/>\nCum zicea o distins\u0103 amic\u0103: a\u015fa face X teste s\u0103 vad\u0103 dac\u0103 rezi\u015fti.<br \/>\nZ\u0103\u0103\u0103u? Teste, m\u00e2nca-te-ar mama? Teste ca s\u0103 ce? Ce premiu e la cap\u0103tul acelor teste? Dac\u0103 r\u0103spunsul e &#8220;\u015fi mai mult deranj nesolicitat&#8221;, b\u00e2\u015fti. \u015ei apropo de teste: C\u00e2t\u0103 vreme n-am manifestat disponibilitate s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eenscriu la test, nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103 rezist nici m\u0103car o nanosecund\u0103. Dimpotriv\u0103. M\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103 dau cea mai proast\u0103 performan\u0163\u0103 la testele tale, s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163i c\u0103 Lorena nu se testeaz\u0103, Lorena se apreciaz\u0103 a\u015fa cum e ea sau aidipa \u015fi mult\u0103 s\u0103n\u0103tate. \u015ei, desigur, virtute. <\/p>\n<p>De aceea, c\u00e2teva din cele mai corecte \u015fi stabile colabor\u0103ri le am cu misogini sini\u015ftri, \u00een timp ce \u00een lista mea de block zac sute de iubitori de femei.<br \/>\nSau, poate, conteaz\u0103 mai pu\u0163in ce declar\u0103 oamenii \u015fi mai mult ac\u0163iunile lor concrete. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Unii b\u0103rba\u0163i au reputa\u0163ie de misogini. Ur\u0103sc crunt femeile din gur\u0103. \u00cen schimb, c\u00e2nd apuci s\u0103 interac\u0163ionezi cu ei, \u00ee\u0163i propun deals excelente, te&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":9432,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10601","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/not-sure-if-compliment-or-insult-edc7be-1.jpg?fit=510%2C385&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10601","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10601"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10601\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10604,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10601\/revisions\/10604"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9432"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10601"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10601"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10601"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}