\u00centr-una dintre zile, d\u0103dusem eu o \u00eentrebare teaser pentru unul dintre interviurile mele: cu cine fac interviu? \u015ei o gagicu\u0163\u0103 se n\u0103pustise s\u0103 dea tag la diverse doamne, ca s\u0103 creeze un moment extraordinar de jenant, \u00een care eu trebuia s\u0103 refuz un om care nu-mi ceruse nimic, uite a\u015fa, din simplul fapt c\u0103 unii oameni sunt inoportuni \u015fi needuca\u0163i p\u00e2n\u0103 la nivel de comedie cu pro\u015fti. <\/p>\n
De ce s\u0103 dai tag c\u00e2nd ni\u015fte oameni nu au obliga\u0163ii unii fa\u0163\u0103 de al\u0163ii? Fiindc\u0103 nu g\u00e2nde\u015fti. Nu g\u00e2nde\u015fti c\u0103 poate A nu vrea interviu de la B, c\u0103 poate B mai degrab\u0103 ar muri fript dec\u00e2t s\u0103-i dea interviu lui A, care l-a parodiat pe to\u0163i interne\u0163ii, important e s\u0103 \u00eei sco\u0163i tu ochii lui B, d\u00e2ndu-i tag, c\u0103 \u00eei plimbi interesul prin lume.
\nDup\u0103 ce am dat un r\u0103spuns r\u0103ut\u0103cios, pentru c\u0103, asta e, inadecvarea \u015fi inoportunismul \u00eemi asmut demonul interior s\u0103 fut\u0103 \u00een gur\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 face ploaie de din\u0163i, persoana s-a luat de mine privat c\u0103 m-am folosit de ea nu \u015ftiu cum. <\/p>\n
Ce, m\u0103?
\nA te folosi de oameni presupune s\u0103 le CERI lucruri care presupun efort din partea lor, \u015fi care presupun UN BENEFICIU pentru tine. Un b\u0103rbat pe care l-am p\u0103c\u0103lit c\u0103 vreau s\u0103 i-o trag, dar de fapt l-am jupuit doar de bani. O fat\u0103 pe care am muls-o de toate pilele \u015fi apoi i-am retezat accesul la ale mele. Etc. etc. Astea-s folosiri. S\u0103 fii tu \u0163\u0103ranc\u0103 proast\u0103 la mine pe wall \u015fi s\u0103 te taxez aferent nu \u00eemi sluje\u015fte cu absolut nimic, nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 \u015fi, p\u00e2n\u0103 alta, tu \u00eencercai s\u0103 c\u00e2\u015ftigi puncte prin mine \u00een ochii celor pe care \u00eei taguiai de zor, deci, cel mult, te foloseai tu de mine. <\/p>\n
C\u00e2nd am confruntat-o, mi-a dat o explica\u0163ie de mi-au filat toate l\u0103mpile: “\u015etii, nu trebuie ca un lucru s\u0103 fie adev\u0103rat, ca tu s\u0103 i-l spui altuia.”
\nP\u0103 bunee? <\/p>\n
Azi, un b\u0103iat posta t\u00e2mpenie dup\u0103 t\u00e2mpenie \u00een sec\u0163iunea mea de comentarii. \u015ei-mi explica ce bine se simte s-o fac\u0103. C\u00e2nd i-am spus c\u0103 starea lui de bine conteaz\u0103 foarte pu\u0163in spre absolut deloc, mi-a dat o br\u0103il\u0103 n\u0103ucitoare, \u00een exact acela\u015fi regim: “A, tu vrei s\u0103 comentez obiectiv?” <\/p>\n
Oh. Nu. Vreau ca eu s\u0103 scriu articole foarte obiective, iar voi s\u0103 bate\u0163i c\u00e2mpii foarte aiurea sub ele. Lipsa acordului \u00eentre subiect \u015fi predicat e un bonus. <\/p>\n
\u015ei acum s\u0103-mi explice \u015fi mie cineva ce e cu divor\u0163ul \u0103sta \u00eentre ce emi\u0163i \u015fi juste\u0163ea a ceea ce emi\u0163i. De ce unora valoarea de adev\u0103r \u015fi de obiectivitate li se pare op\u0163ional\u0103. De ce mai arunci cu ni\u015fte vorbe spre cineva dac\u0103 nu verifici ini\u0163ial c\u0103 spui ceva valabil, corect \u015fi justificat cu ele? <\/p>\n
Aici chiar las comentariile libere, \u015fi pe Facebook, \u015fi pe blog, \u015fi a\u015ftept s\u0103-mi explica\u0163i, cititorii mei mai de\u015ftep\u0163i dec\u00e2t mine, acest fenomen. <\/p>\n
A\u0163i m\u00e2ncat fecal\u0103 perfect con\u015ftien\u0163i de asta? Ce v-a determinat? Ce a\u0163i avut de c\u00e2\u015ftigat din asta? A\u0163i c\u00e2\u015ftigat real ce a\u0163i preconizat c\u0103 a\u0163i avut de c\u00e2\u015ftigat? <\/p>\n
Mul\u0163umesc anticipat. Cum vede\u0163i, am \u015fi eu o limit\u0103 de \u00een\u0163elegere \u015fi \u0163ine numai de voi s\u0103 m\u0103 lumina\u0163i. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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