-\u015ei cum s-a mai purtat X cu tine? am \u00eentrebat-o pe o prieten\u0103, care \u00eemi povestise recent c\u0103 \u00eencepuse o colaborare cu unul care o uimise (\u00een sensul negativ) cu o ie\u015fire foarte m\u00e2rl\u0103neasc\u0103.
\n-B\u0103i, dup\u0103 episodul \u0103la, a fost ok.
\n-Bravo. \u00censeamn\u0103 c\u0103 ai trecut cu succes testul belciugelor. <\/p>\n
***<\/p>\n
Exist\u0103 o anumit\u0103 categorie de b\u0103rba\u0163i a c\u0103ror zon\u0103 de confort este s\u0103 agreseze verbal – domine – \u015ftearg\u0103 pe jos cu femeile. Fie c\u0103 au crescut \u00een case cu ta\u0163i abuzivi \u015fi au asistat zi de zi la modelul “f\u0103, mar\u015f la col\u0163 \u015fi ad\u0103 \u015fi mie o bere”, fie c\u0103 au ei o nevoie incon\u015ftient\u0103 de a fi adula\u0163i pentru simpl\u0103 posesie de penis, f\u0103r\u0103 a oferi nimic la schimb, pur \u015fi simplu, b\u0103rba\u0163ii din aceast\u0103 categorie te trec, de la primele interac\u0163iuni, prin testul belciugelor.
\nAdic\u0103, \u00ee\u0163i fac o m\u00e2rl\u0103nie sub orice critic\u0103. Una de te \u00eentrebi frapat cu ce jigodii f\u0103r\u0103 urm\u0103 de coloan\u0103 vertebral\u0103 ai de a face – dac\u0103 nu cumva e\u015fti \u015fi tu copil hiperabuzat \u015fi \u0163i se pare firesc s\u0103 fii tratat a\u015fa, caz \u00een care pici testul c\u00e2\u015ftig\u0103rii la belciuge \u015fi vei avea, ca rezultat, o rela\u0163ie uman\u0103 profund toxic\u0103 \u015fi dezechilibrat\u0103 \u00een care \u0103la \u00ee\u015fi va exercita pl\u0103cerea de a umili \u015fi controla \u00een voie.
\nDac\u0103 protestezi, \u015fi o faci calm, s\u0103 nu par\u0103 c\u0103 te-ai intimidat, dar foarte ferm, s\u0103 se \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103 clar c\u0103 nu te-a c\u00e2\u015ftigat la belciuge \u015fi c\u0103 nu ai de g\u00e2nd s\u0103 tolerezi nimic din \u00ee\u0163i \u00eencalc\u0103 demnitatea \u015fi dreptul la a fi respectat, un procent mare dintre oamenii \u0103\u015ftia se vor replia \u015fi \u00ee\u0163i vor oferi o interac\u0163iune corect\u0103.
\nUnii se vor \u00eendr\u0103gosti pasional de tine, chiar. Am avut c\u00e2\u0163iva care s-au amorezat varz\u0103 de felul \u00een care le-am retezat t\u0103ios \u015fi tran\u015fant testul belciugelor.
\nP\u0103cat c\u0103 mie-mi plac b\u0103rba\u0163ii a c\u0103ror zon\u0103 de confort e s\u0103 alinte \u015fi s\u0103 r\u0103sfe\u0163e femeile \u00een toate modurile posibile, deci, nu.
\nAl\u0163ii, cei care au \u015fi un pic de domination \u00een ei, se vor distan\u0163a amoros de tine, de cum ar\u0103\u0163i foarte clar c\u0103 refuzi ipostaza de element abuzat. Ceea ce e perfect.
\nImportant e c\u0103 aceste dou\u0103 categorii nu-s belciugari universali, \u015fi-s adaptabili la femei care pretind respect. <\/p>\n
*<\/p>\n
\u015ei, desigur, exist\u0103 a treia categorie, numit\u0103 academic gunoaiele sinistre, care va continua cu teste repetate ale belciugelor, pentru c\u0103 mintea lor pu\u0163in\u0103 \u015fi stearp\u0103 nu va pricepe c\u0103, dac\u0103 un om a dat reject unui anumit lucru, tactica de c\u00e2\u015ftig nu presupune s\u0103 \u00eei bagi pe g\u00e2t din ce \u00een ce mai mult din acel lucru.
\nIar \u0103\u015ftia ar merita eutanasia\u0163i \u015fi f\u0103cu\u0163i s\u0103pun. Dar, pentru c\u0103 un gunoi sinistru, sau mai multe, sunt o cauz\u0103 prea modest\u0103 \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 justifice ni\u015fte ani de \u00eenchisoare, solu\u0163ia e s\u0103-i elimini complet \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 urme din via\u0163a ta. Izolarea e cel mai bun profesor de bune maniere. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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