{"id":11067,"date":"2016-07-06T09:10:28","date_gmt":"2016-07-06T09:10:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=11067"},"modified":"2016-07-06T09:20:54","modified_gmt":"2016-07-06T09:20:54","slug":"doamna-cu-pantofi-albastri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/doamna-cu-pantofi-albastri\/","title":{"rendered":"Doamna cu pantofi alba\u015ftri"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Text de M\u0103d\u0103lina Scutelnicu<\/p>\n<p>Ora 8:45. Clienta mea, mam\u0103 a unui b\u0103ie\u0163el de aproape 8 ani, \u00ee\u015fi z\u0103re\u015fte copilul dosit de taic\u0103-s\u0103u, \u00eentr-un col\u0163 al Judec\u0103toriei. Nu l-a mai v\u0103zut pe R. de un an \u015fi \u015fase luni.<br \/>\nMama izbucne\u015fte \u00een pl\u00e2ns \u015fi merge \u0163int\u0103 c\u0103tre pu\u015ftiul ei, se apleac\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 ajunge perfect egal\u0103 cu \u00een\u0103l\u0163imea lui, \u015fi-i \u015fopte\u015fte cu inima: \u201cR.! Vaaaai, ce mare ai crescut! O mai \u015ftii pe mama? D\u0103-mi m\u00e2nu\u0163ele, s\u0103 \u0163i le pupe mama!\u201d.<br \/>\nFostul so\u0163 al femeii \u00ee\u015fi bruscheaz\u0103 fiul \u015fi-l trage tare, mai aproape de el, url\u00e2nd spre clienta mea s\u0103 plece de unde a venit, c\u0103 ei doi, b\u0103ie\u0163ii, se descurc\u0103 singuri. Se ridic\u0103 tonul, copilul \u00eencepe s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng\u0103, apare jandarmul, \u00eei spun c\u0103 nu-i niciun risc de scandal, dispare jandarmul.<br \/>\nOra 8:55. Reu\u015fesc, \u00eentr-un final, s\u0103 o lini\u015ftesc pe mama copilului, care s-a l\u0103sat aproape f\u0103r\u0103 via\u0163\u0103 \u00een banca din sala de judecat\u0103, cu sufletul sf\u00e2\u015fiat \u015fi privirea pierdut\u0103 undeva, departe. Foarte departe.<br \/>\nOra 9:00. Reu\u015fesc \u015fi eu, cu mare greutate, s\u0103-mi \u0163in \u00een fr\u00e2u lacrimile. A\u015f fi pl\u00e2ns \u00een hohote, dar nu-mi permiteam luxul asta. Aveam nevoie de concentrare maxim\u0103, pentru audierea a patru martori \u015fi luarea interogatoriului tat\u0103lui copilului, probe de care eram con\u015ftient\u0103 c\u0103 va depinde, de-acum \u00eencolo, leg\u0103tura mam\u0103 &#8211; fiu. Nu-i u\u015for deloc s\u0103 fii responsabil de a\u015fa ceva, crede\u0163i-m\u0103!<br \/>\nOrele 9:05 \u2013 10:45. Se audiaz\u0103 cei 4 martori, tat\u0103l b\u0103iatului r\u0103spunde la cele 9 \u00eentreb\u0103ri. Am avut grij\u0103 s\u0103 fie \u201ecapcan\u0103\u201d. <\/p>\n<p>Spe\u0163a e asta: \u00een timp ce clienta mea era \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate, la munc\u0103, so\u0163ul a ob\u0163inut \u015fi divor\u0163ul, \u015fi custodia exclusiv\u0103 asupra copilului. Am v\u0103zut dosarul: proces f\u0103cut repede, cu heirupul, s\u0103 dea bine la bilan\u0163.<br \/>\nRe\u00eentoars\u0103 \u00een \u0163ar\u0103, femeia a g\u0103sit totul ferecat. U\u015fa locuin\u0163ei. Inima fiului ei, \u0163inut\u0103 sub lac\u0103t de c\u0103tre fostul so\u0163. Martorii no\u015ftri au ar\u0103tat c\u0103, de nenum\u0103rate ori, mama a venit s\u0103-\u015fi vad\u0103 copilul, i-a adus plase cu daruri, l-a sunat \u00eencontinuu, dar individul i-a interzis total fostei so\u0163ii orice form\u0103 de acces la minor. A\u015fa, de-a naibii! Martorii lui au spus lec\u0163ia dinainte \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at\u0103: nu tat\u0103l e cauza, ci copilul, dom&#8217;le, care nici nu vrea s\u0103 aud\u0103 de mam\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Ora 10:46. Instan\u0163a dispune audierea minorului.<br \/>\nO doamn\u0103 judec\u0103tor, \u00een jur de 40 de ani, cere jandarmului s\u0103-i fie adus copilul \u00een sal\u0103. C\u00e2nd \u00eel vede pe pu\u015fti, magistratul coboar\u0103 de pe podium, parcurge sala p\u00e2n\u0103 aproape de u\u015f\u0103, se apropie de micu\u0163 \u015fi-i spune, f\u0103c\u00e2nd un gest larg cu m\u00e2na: \u201eVezi, R., am pantofi alba\u015ftri! Tu ai pantofiori alba\u015ftri? Uite, am \u015fi pelerin\u0103! D\u0103-mi m\u00e2nu\u0163a \u015fi hai cu mine, s\u0103-\u0163i ar\u0103t c\u00e2t de maaare e castelul \u0103sta!\u201d.<br \/>\nCopilul, cu ochii mari, negri, \u015fi extrem de tri\u015fti, se uit\u0103 c\u00e2nd la doamna, c\u00e2nd la taic\u0103-su, de care st\u0103tea lipit, p\u00e2n\u0103 ce acesta \u00eei d\u0103 ok-ul s\u0103 mearg\u0103 cu doamna. <\/p>\n<p>Ora 11:20. Se deschide u\u015fa de acces a instan\u0163ei, magistratul intr\u0103 \u00een sal\u0103, de m\u00e2n\u0103 cu copilul, \u00eei spune s\u0103 coboare atent de pe podium, s\u0103 nu se loveasc\u0103, \u015fi-l trimite la mami sau la tati, unde vrea el. B\u0103ie\u0163elul trece pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 mama sa, care hohotea de pl\u00e2ns \u00een prima banc\u0103, \u00ee\u015fi trece u\u015for m\u00e2nu\u0163a peste piciorul ei drept, ca din \u00eent\u00e2mplare, dup\u0103 care fuge c\u0103tre tata \u015fi-i caut\u0103 acestuia privirea, s\u0103 nu cumva s\u0103-l fi sup\u0103rat c\u0103 s-a dezlipit de l\u00e2ng\u0103 el. Se dispune, din nou, evacuarea minorului din sal\u0103. <\/p>\n<p>Ora 11:25. Instan\u0163a ne cite\u015fte, pe scurt, ce a declarat copilul \u00een cursul audierii \u015fi ne d\u0103 s\u0103 lectur\u0103m, mie \u015fi avocatului p\u0103r\u0163ii adverse, cele c\u00e2teva cuvinte scrise pe o foaie de c\u0103tre b\u0103ie\u0163el: \u201eMama&#8230; tata zice s\u0103 sc\u0103p\u0103m de tine. R.\u201d.<br \/>\nSe \u00eenchide cercetarea judec\u0103toreasc\u0103, ni se d\u0103 cuv\u00e2ntul final, pe fondul cauzei. Eu m\u0103 lupt pentru ca mama s\u0103 ob\u0163in\u0103 dreptul de a-\u015fi vedea copilul, de a-l lua la ea \u00een weekenduri \u015fi \u00een vacan\u0163e. Ceilal\u0163i se lupt\u0103 ca mama s\u0103 nu-\u015fi poat\u0103 vedea fiul dec\u00e2t \u00een prezen\u0163a tat\u0103lui s\u0103u, \u015fi doar \u00een locuin\u0163a acestuia. Un fel de arest la domiciliu, ce mai!<br \/>\nOra 11:40. Magistratul \u00eenchide dosarul, cade pe g\u00e2nduri pre\u0163 de c\u00e2teva secunde \u015fi spune: \u201eInstan\u0163a suspend\u0103 \u015fedin\u0163a 15 minute!\u201d. <\/p>\n<p>\u015ei doamna judec\u0103tor cu pantofi alba\u015ftri coboar\u0103 de pe podium, traverseaz\u0103 sala, iese pe u\u015fa destinat\u0103 oamenilor obi\u015fnui\u0163i, \u015fi, ajuns\u0103 \u00een hol, \u00eentinde m\u00e2na st\u00e2ng\u0103 c\u0103tre clienta mea, iar cea dreapt\u0103 c\u0103tre copil. Uite a\u015fa, to\u0163i trei, ca \u00eentr-o poveste din cea mai frumoas\u0103 carte, intr\u0103 \u00een camera destinat\u0103 Arhivei \u015fi nu mai ies de acolo dec\u00e2t dup\u0103 un sfert de ceas. Ce camere mirifice sunt \u00een castelul \u0103sta \u2013 \u00eemi zic \u00een g\u00e2nd.<br \/>\nDe-acum, nu mai aveam nevoie de niciun pic de concentrare, a\u015fa c\u0103 mi-am permis s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng \u00een hohote, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-mi pese c\u0103 oamenii cu rob\u0103 nu trebuie s\u0103 l\u0103crimeze din cauza problemelor clien\u0163ilor. \u015ei, \u00een niciun caz, nu pl\u00e2ng niciodat\u0103 \u00een fa\u0163a acestora. D\u0103-le-ncolo de reguli!<br \/>\nM-am pr\u0103v\u0103lit pe un scaun de la prima teras\u0103, col\u0163 cu Judec\u0103toria, \u015fi-am a\u015fteptat-o pe femeia pentru care m-am luptat azi ca o leoaic\u0103. Am b\u0103tut recordul la nicotin\u0103 pe secund\u0103, p\u00e2n\u0103 a venit. Clienta mea a ap\u0103rut radiind de fericire, pentru c\u0103 avusese \u015fansa s\u0103-\u015fi \u0163in\u0103 copilul \u00een bra\u0163e, dup\u0103 un an \u015fi jum\u0103tate.<br \/>\nCe dialog au avut mama \u015fi copilul, sub ochii doamnei judec\u0103tor cu pantofi alba\u015ftri? \u201eTe iubesc, mami! Am nevoie de ochelari noi, c\u0103 tati nu mi-a cump\u0103rat, \u015fi \u0103\u015ftia sunt rup\u0163i! S\u0103 vii la mine! S\u0103 m\u0103 iei la tine, mami! Te iubesc, mami!\u201d.<br \/>\nC\u00e2nd a sc\u0103pat de sub influen\u0163a total ira\u0163ional\u0103 a tat\u0103lui, copilul s-a cuib\u0103rit \u00een bra\u0163ele mamei sale, ca \u015fi cum nu ar fi fost desp\u0103r\u0163i\u0163i nici m\u0103car o secund\u0103. Asta a vrut s\u0103 verifice magistratul, pentru a fi sigur c\u0103 va da o solu\u0163ie corect\u0103, c\u0103-\u015fi va pune semn\u0103tura pe o hot\u0103r\u00e2re corect\u0103, c\u0103 va putea dormi \u00eemp\u0103cat, c\u0103 a decis corect \u015fi nu s-a jucat de-a justi\u0163ia cu vie\u0163ile oamenilor. Doamne, ce fiin\u0163e nemai\u00eent\u00e2lnite or fi \u00een castelul \u0103sta? <\/p>\n<p>&#8211; \u201eVre\u0163i o bomboan\u0103, doamn\u0103 avocat?\u201d<br \/>\n&#8211; \u201e\u0102\u0103\u0103\u0103&#8230;.\u201d<br \/>\n&#8211; \u201eDoamna judec\u0103tor i-a dat lui R. un pumn de bomboane, iar \u00eenainte s\u0103 plec, copilul mi-a dat \u015fi mie c\u00e2teva.\u201d<br \/>\n&#8211; \u201e\u015ei a v\u0103zut doamna judec\u0103tor gestul \u0103sta?\u201d<br \/>\n&#8211; \u201eDaaa, p\u0103i, cum s\u0103 nu? Sta\u0163i s\u0103 v\u0103 ar\u0103t, c\u0103 ne-a f\u0103cut \u015fi poz\u0103, mie \u015fi lui R.\u201d<br \/>\n&#8211; \u201eCine? Doamna judec\u0103tor?\u201d<br \/>\n&#8211; \u201eDaaa. P\u0103i, am scos telefonul \u015fi i-am zis lui R. s\u0103 z\u00e2mbeasc\u0103, s\u0103-i fac o poz\u0103. \u015ei, imediat, doamna ne-a spus s\u0103 trecem unul l\u00e2ng\u0103 altul, s\u0103 ne fac\u0103 una la am\u00e2ndoi. Uita\u0163i poza! Doamne, am poz\u0103 cu R., nu-mi vine s\u0103 cred!\u201d<br \/>\n&#8211; \u201eSunt praf! Nici mie nu-mi vine s\u0103 cred!\u201d<br \/>\n&#8211; \u201eDaaa. \u015ei, \u015fti\u0163i, eu mi-am cerut scuze fa\u0163\u0103 de doamna, c\u0103 st\u0103tea dup\u0103 noi. Aveam at\u00e2tea de vorbit cu R., dup\u0103 un un an jumate. Da` doamna a zis c\u0103 pentru ea nu e nicio grab\u0103. Nu vre\u0163i o bombonic\u0103 de la R., doamna avocat?\u201d.<br \/>\nN-am tr\u0103it a\u015fa ceva \u00een 10 ani de avocatur\u0103. Am v\u0103zut magistra\u0163i pentru care audierea minorului \u00eensemna urm\u0103torul dialog, purtat fix \u00een fa\u0163a u\u015fii s\u0103lii de judecat\u0103, a\u015fa, din voleu, cum ar veni: &#8211; \u201eC\u00e2\u0163i ani ai, cu cine vrei s\u0103 stai, cu mama sau cu tata? Bine, pa!\u201d.<br \/>\nDoamna cu pantofi alba\u015ftri a alocat trei ore cauzei noastre. Con\u015ftient\u0103 c\u0103 lucreaz\u0103 cu destinele oamenilor, cu sufletele lor, iar nu cu chei de 14.<br \/>\nDomnilor magistra\u0163i, permite\u0163i-mi o sugestie: cump\u0103ra\u0163i-v\u0103 pantofi alba\u015ftri, poate \u00een asta st\u0103 magia! Nu exist\u0103 nici castel, \u015fi nici pelerin\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 un strop de magie, nu-i a\u015fa?<\/p>\n<p>****<\/p>\n<p><em>M\u0103d\u0103lina Scutelnicu e avocat. O g\u0103si\u0163i <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lucamada\/posts\/1135387659816856\">aici<\/a>. <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Text de M\u0103d\u0103lina Scutelnicu Ora 8:45. 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