Nu \u015ftiu care dobitoc b\u0103tut \u00een cap a \u00eenceput-o pe asta cu “La nervi se vede caracterul”. Probabil unul dintre t\u00e2rle\u0163ii care aveau o pl\u0103cere secret\u0103 \u00een a-\u015fi trata oribil persoanele din jur \u015fi, pentru a sc\u0103pa necafti\u0163i pe c\u00e2t mai mult timp, c\u0103utau un argument penibil cu care s\u0103-i for\u0163eze pe al\u0163ii s\u0103 suporte ac\u0163iunile de h\u0103r\u0163uial\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 cr\u00e2cneasc\u0103. <\/p>\n
\u015ei pentru c\u0103 mul\u0163i oameni sunt conformi\u015fti ca ni\u015fte oi \u015fi ajunge s\u0103 le enun\u0163i ceva care sun\u0103 a lege, pentru ca ei s\u0103 se supun\u0103 ma\u015final, o bun\u0103 parte din popula\u0163ie face efort supranatural s\u0103 nu se enerveze vulcanic, s\u0103 nu-i bage pe h\u0103r\u0163uitori \u00een vagin de mam\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 par\u0103 c\u0103 au un caracter armonios \u015fi diafan.
\nDe ce? <\/p>\n
Caracterul unui om este dat de suma valorilor pe care le \u00eembr\u0103\u0163i\u015feaz\u0103 \u015fi dup\u0103 care se ghideaz\u0103, de calitatea rela\u0163iilor umane pe care le \u00eentre\u0163ine \u015fi de faptele bune pe care e dispus s\u0103 le fac\u0103.
\nCare e leg\u0103tura cu a adopta o masc\u0103 cool \u00een timp ce un idiot f\u0103r\u0103 ocupa\u0163ie pretinde s\u0103-\u0163i consume timpul cu h\u0103r\u0163uial\u0103 dezagreabil\u0103?
\nAbsolut nici una sub soare. <\/p>\n
Exist\u0103 criminali \u00een serie \u015fi corup\u0163i de ultim\u0103 spe\u0163\u0103 care \u00ee\u0163i vor r\u0103spunde cu un z\u00e2mbet la insulte.
\nExist\u0103 oameni buni, integri \u015fi de perfect\u0103 bun\u0103 credin\u0163\u0103 care \u00ee\u0163i vor r\u0103spunde furibund dac\u0103 h\u0103r\u0163uirea ta e nedorit\u0103. Iar vestea este: nu are nici o leg\u0103tur\u0103 cu caracterul lor.
\nE vorba strict de termenii \u00een care sunt dispu\u015fi s\u0103 accepte sau nu o interac\u0163iune. Iar dac\u0103 tu dore\u015fti aceast\u0103 interac\u0163iune mai mult dec\u00e2t ei, e mult mai simplu s\u0103 le respec\u0163i termenii (mai ales dac\u0103 nu cer nimic care s\u0103-\u0163i \u00eencalce demnitatea \u015fi principiile), dec\u00e2t s\u0103 \u00eencerci s\u0103 for\u0163ezi nota \u00een direc\u0163ia \u00een care \u0163i s-a comunicat explicit c\u0103 nu merge for\u0163at\u0103. <\/p>\n
Omul care are \u00eencredere \u00een persoana lui nu va ceda la manipulare ieftin\u0103 de tip: “dac\u0103 aveai caracter, nu m\u0103 \u00eenjurai de\u015fi m\u0103 comport ca un dobitoc”. Omul care are \u00eencredere \u00een persoana lui \u015ftie c\u0103 nu s-a \u00eenscris la un concurs s\u0103-\u0163i c\u00e2\u015ftige \u0163ie aprobarea \u015fi \u015ftie c\u0103 nu are s\u0103-\u0163i demonstreze \u0163ie nimic. Dimpotriv\u0103. Dac\u0103 tu \u00eencordezi musculatur\u0103 \u015fi cau\u0163i s\u0103 cer\u015fe\u015fti aten\u0163ie pe tarlaua lui, mai degrab\u0103 tu ai s\u0103 demonstrezi c\u0103 meri\u0163i timpul lui. <\/p>\n
La nervi nu se vede altceva dec\u00e2t disponibilitatea omului de a r\u0103bda mitoc\u0103nie. Bravo celor care sunt dispu\u015fi la asta, de\u015fi pe o list\u0103 a priorit\u0103\u0163ilor, mi se pare ultimul lucru la care ar trebui s\u0103 se concentreze.
\nIar cine vrea “the best” din altcineva, ar trebui s\u0103 \u00eenceap\u0103 s\u0103 ofere “the best”. Ca s\u0103 aib\u0103 \u015fi cel\u0103lalt o motiva\u0163ie. <\/p>\n
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