{"id":11345,"date":"2016-09-18T11:00:06","date_gmt":"2016-09-18T08:00:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=11345"},"modified":"2016-09-18T13:43:22","modified_gmt":"2016-09-18T10:43:22","slug":"de-ce-homeschooling-ul-mi-se-pare-un-risc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/de-ce-homeschooling-ul-mi-se-pare-un-risc\/","title":{"rendered":"De ce homeschooling-ul mi se pare un risc"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>E discu\u0163ia asta pe toate re\u0163elele de socializare. Eu vreau s-o desprind de context &#8211; ce face Drago\u015f Bucur, ce face Dana N\u0103lbaru, respectiv ce crede Internetul c\u0103 ar trebui ei s\u0103 fac\u0103. Din punctul meu de vedere, oamenii-s maturi, vaccina\u0163i (sau nu, c\u0103 \u00een ziua asta nu mai bagi m\u00e2na-n foc pentru nimeni) \u015fi \u00een deplin\u0103 m\u0103sur\u0103 s\u0103-\u015fi ia singuri deciziile. Orice om care \u0163ip\u0103 la altul ce s\u0103 fac\u0103, ne\u00eentrebat, ar merita dou\u0103 perechi de palme \u015fi un test <a href=\"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/testul-cetefutegrija\/\">Cetefutegrija. Detalii aici. <\/a><\/p>\n<p>Bun, acum hai s\u0103 discut\u0103m, 100% abstract, care mi se par riscurile \u00eenv\u0103\u0163\u0103m\u00e2ntului de acas\u0103. <\/p>\n<p><strong>a) Iluzia unei lumi ideale.<br \/>\n<\/strong><br \/>\nUnul din lucrurile pentru care \u00eei mul\u0163umesc din inim\u0103 \u015fcolii generale nr. 2 din Sf\u00e2ntu Gheorghe este c\u0103 m-a obi\u015fnuit de mic copil cu idio\u0163enia omeneasc\u0103. Am remarcat c\u0103 unii oameni, indiferent de v\u00e2rst\u0103, sunt pro\u015fti de bubuie, \u015fi nu ai ce s\u0103 faci \u00een privin\u0163a asta. Cel mult po\u0163i s\u0103 r\u00e2zi de ei, dac\u0103-s inofensivi, sau s\u0103-i alungi din via\u0163a ta, dac\u0103-s toxici.<br \/>\nC\u00e2nd cre\u015fti \u00eentr-o lume ideal\u0103, tinzi s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i cu impresia c\u0103, dac\u0103-i explici foarte mult \u015fi foarte frumos unui om un lucru, o s\u0103 \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103. Respectiv s\u0103 cazi \u00een capcana \u00eencerc\u0103rii de a schimba oameni. A\u015fa apar cuplurile alea: ea de familie bun\u0103, crescut\u0103 frumos, ca o floare, el un bou agresiv \u015fi b\u0103t\u0103u\u015f, dar ea nu \u00eel p\u0103r\u0103se\u015fte, pune botul la ideea c\u0103 ea e \u00eentr-un fel de vin\u0103 \u015fi c\u0103 lucrurile se pot schimba.<br \/>\nCu un om trecut prin via\u0163\u0103, \u015fmecheriile de genul \u0103sta (sau de orice alt gen) nu \u0163in. Mai concret, dup\u0103 ce ai luat p\u0103duchi prima oar\u0103, \u015ftii s\u0103 te \u0163ii departe de p\u0103duchio\u015fi.<br \/>\n<strong><br \/>\nb) Riscul ineficien\u0163ei.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>De ce un om echipat cu aparate pentru exerci\u0163ii, instruit \u015fi perfect capabil s\u0103 fac\u0103 mi\u015fcare acas\u0103 prefer\u0103 s\u0103 dea bani pe sal\u0103, unde se \u015fi expune unei infinit\u0103\u0163i de microbi?<br \/>\nR\u0103spunsul este unul singur: presiunea grupului te \u00eendeamn\u0103 la rigoare. Mai ales c\u00e2nd sunt ore de aerobic, yoga, pilates \u015fi alte exerci\u0163ii executate \u00een sincron, simplul fapt c\u0103 e lume \u00een jur \u015fi face acelea\u015fi mi\u015fc\u0103ri te oblig\u0103 la acurate\u0163e \u015fi la un anumit nivel al randamentului.<br \/>\nAcas\u0103 mai bei un lapte cald, mai vezi un film, te mai \u00eentinzi la p\u0103l\u0103vr\u0103geal\u0103 pe messenger &#8211; randamentul o ia lin \u015fi sigur la vale. <\/p>\n<p><strong>c) Riscul inadapt\u0103rii.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>E un lucru util chiar \u015fi \u00een faptul c\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163i lucruri care nu-\u0163i vor folosi niciodat\u0103, ca de exemplu istoria cosmetizat\u0103 a patriei. Pentru c\u0103 dup\u0103 aia o s\u0103 ai un job care o s\u0103 presupun\u0103 s\u0103 execu\u0163i sarcini care nu te \u00eenc\u00e2nt\u0103 \u015fi s-o faci ca \u015fi cum te-ar \u00eenc\u00e2nta. E genul de training care \u00ee\u0163i folose\u015fte pentru via\u0163a de adult.<br \/>\nC\u00e2nd cre\u015fti cu iluzia c\u0103 po\u0163i s\u0103 faci doar lucrurile care-\u0163i convin, ri\u015fti s\u0103 te por\u0163i \u015fi la 30 de ani ca un copila\u015f mofturos \u015fi s\u0103-i tratezi pe al\u0163ii ca \u015fi cum ar fi p\u0103rin\u0163ii t\u0103i care-\u0163i datoreaz\u0103 lucruri. \u015ei unii s-ar putea s\u0103 nu fie de acord cu asta. Unii s-ar putea chiar s\u0103-\u0163i dea crunt peste nas.<br \/>\n<strong><br \/>\nd) Riscul rigidit\u0103\u0163ii. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Aveam ora de religie imediat dup\u0103 cea de biologie. Iar \u0103sta a fost un lucru minunat. Doi profesori care, cu autoritatea lor de adul\u0163i, \u00ee\u0163i spun lucruri diametral opuse te \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 c\u0103 orice informa\u0163ie este relativ\u0103 \u015fi c\u0103 nu trebuie s\u0103 fii sut\u0103 la sut\u0103 sigur de nimic. S\u0103 nu g\u00e2nde\u015fti \u00een alb \u015fi negru, ci \u00een multe-multe nuan\u0163e de gri, \u015fi s\u0103 tratezi via\u0163a ca pe o sum\u0103 de posibilit\u0103\u0163i, nu de certitudini.<br \/>\nO educa\u0163ie din care lipse\u015fte diversitatea risc\u0103 s\u0103 te transforme \u00eentr-un verdictolog. <\/p>\n<p><strong>e) Riscul erorilor de op\u0163iune. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>O program\u0103 \u015fcolar\u0103 acceptat\u0103 la nivel de minister \u015fi testat\u0103 prin examene anuale e un lucru care, de\u015fi prost, func\u0163ioneaz\u0103 c\u00e2t de c\u00e2t pentru toat\u0103 lumea.<br \/>\nO curicul\u0103 aleas\u0103 de tata \u015fi de mama poate s\u0103 a) devin\u0103 desuet\u0103 m\u00e2ine b) nu-\u0163i ofere informa\u0163ii vitale pentru o viitoare carier\u0103 c) nu \u0163in\u0103 cont de adev\u0103ratele tale aptitudini.<br \/>\nSunt genul \u0103la de p\u0103rin\u0163i care decid ferm \u015fi demiurgic pentru tine: copilul meu va deveni X. \u015ei te for\u0163eaz\u0103 s-o iei pe poteca prestabilit\u0103 de ei, de\u015fi poate tu e\u015fti \u00eenzestrat \u00een cu totul alte direc\u0163ii. Dac\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 asta \u00een cadrul \u00eenv\u0103\u0163\u0103m\u00e2ntului public, \u00eenc\u0103 po\u0163i redresa situa\u0163ia ob\u0163in\u00e2nd o burs\u0103, lu\u00e2nd un summer job s\u0103 pl\u0103te\u015fti medita\u0163ii, etc.<br \/>\nC\u00e2t de c\u00e2t, tu, \u00een calitatea ta de copil, ai anumite arme cu care s\u0103 te opui atotcunosc\u0103toarei tiranii p\u0103rinte\u015fti.<br \/>\nDac\u0103 e\u015fti \u00een regim de home schooling, ai belit bastonul. Faci ce vor tata \u015fi mama \u015fi punct. Dac\u0103 tata \u015fi mama vor ca tu s\u0103 fii idiotul lor util pe tot restul vie\u0163ii tale, nu ai porti\u0163\u0103 de ie\u015fire. E\u015fti condamnat. <\/p>\n<p>Da, \u015fcoal\u0103 public\u0103, nu ai fost perfect\u0103, dar m-ai preg\u0103tit pentru via\u0163a imperfect\u0103 de apoi, \u015fi pentru asta \u00ee\u0163i mul\u0163umesc. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>E discu\u0163ia asta pe toate re\u0163elele de socializare. Eu vreau s-o desprind de context &#8211; ce face Drago\u015f Bucur, ce face Dana N\u0103lbaru, respectiv&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":11346,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11345","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/school.jpg?fit=800%2C600&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11345","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11345"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11345\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11350,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11345\/revisions\/11350"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11346"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11345"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11345"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11345"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}