vizita la service<\/a>: RAPORTAT LA CE? \u00ceN COMPARA\u0162IE CU CE? Raportat la acuzator? Dar cine spune c\u0103 e normal \u015fi firesc s\u0103 te iei agresiv de oameni care \u00ee\u015fi v\u0103d de treaba lor? Drept care, ce te calific\u0103 pe tine ca judec\u0103tor de normalitate \u015fi ce te calific\u0103 drept etalon de normalitate? <\/p>\n\u0162ine\u0163i minte cum, la \u015fcoal\u0103, copilul care f\u0103cea efort s\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163e \u015fi s\u0103 aib\u0103 rezultate bune era exclus din ga\u015fc\u0103 \u015fi era tratat ca anormal, pentru c\u0103 normale erau chiulitul \u015fi fumatul \u00een bud\u0103? \u0162ine\u0163i minte cum, pe c\u00e2nd eram noi adolescen\u0163i, frizura \u015fi machiajul emo te etichetau din start ca anormal, \u015fi d\u0103deau fr\u00e2u liber tuturor pro\u015ftilor s\u0103 te h\u0103r\u0163uiasc\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 ca tu s\u0103 faci concret ceva s\u0103 meri\u0163i asta? \u0162ine\u0163i minte cum copilul timid, c\u0103ruia \u00eei era greu s\u0103-\u015fi g\u0103seasc\u0103 vorbele, era tratat ca anormal \u015fi \u0163inta preferat\u0103 de abuz a tuturor vitejilor? Aceia dintre voi care au crescut la \u0163ar\u0103 sunt extrem de familiari cu ipostaza \u00een care un cocalar nu reu\u015fe\u015fte s\u0103 seduc\u0103 o domni\u015foar\u0103, apoi \u00eei scoate o reputa\u0163ie de curv\u0103 s\u0103 se r\u0103zbune \u015fi o h\u0103r\u0163uie\u015fte verbal \u015fi ocazional fizic.
\nToate acestea sunt cazuri de pedepse necuvenite pentru o perceput\u0103 “anormalitate”. \u015ei to\u0163i oamenii care au fost h\u0103r\u0163ui\u0163i vreodat\u0103 pe nedrept \u00een vie\u0163ile lor ar trebui s\u0103 se g\u00e2ndeasc\u0103 c\u0103 o persoan\u0103 gay este h\u0103r\u0163uit\u0103 pe nedrept tot timpul. <\/p>\n
“P\u0103i s\u0103 se ascund\u0103, s\u0103 nu-i v\u0103d eu”.
\nOric\u00e2t te-ai ascunde, tot te b\u00e2ntuie groaza c\u0103 \u00eentr-o zi, haita de oligofreni b\u0103tu\u0163i \u00een cap o s\u0103 afle c\u0103 e\u015fti gay \u015fi o s\u0103 se n\u0103pusteasc\u0103 pe tine cu spume la gur\u0103, pentru c\u0103 “e\u015fti anormal”. <\/p>\n
Hai s\u0103 ne maturiz\u0103m. S\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegem c\u0103 diferen\u0163ele sunt lucrurile minunate care ne fac interesan\u0163i unii pentru al\u0163ii. C\u0103 sarcina mea e s\u0103 te amuz \u015fi s\u0103 te \u00eenveselesc, iar sarcina ta e s\u0103 faci foarte bine lucrurile la care te pricepi. C\u0103 eu nu atentez la p\u0103tr\u0103\u0163ica ta \u015fi tu nu atentezi la p\u0103tr\u0103\u0163ica mea. C\u0103 putem s\u0103 convie\u0163uim pa\u015fnic, fiecare cu felul lui diferit de a fi.
\nC\u0103 poate la asta se refer\u0103 mitul biblic cu m\u0103rul. Nu era vorba despre adev\u0103ratul bine \u015fi despre adev\u0103ratul r\u0103u, ci despre impresia ta c\u0103 po\u0163i ar\u0103ta cu degetul spre mine, care nu \u0163i-am gre\u015fit cu nimic, \u015fi s\u0103-mi spui c\u0103 sunt “r\u0103ul”, \u015fi s\u0103 m\u0103 agresezi nejustificat pentru asta.
\nE valabil \u015fi pentru na\u0163iuni, \u015fi pentru religii, \u015fi pentru indivizi.
\nIar singura normalitate pe care eu o recunosc este normalitatea de a fi tu \u00eensu\u0163i \u015fi de a-\u0163i vedea de treaba ta. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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