De c\u00e2te ori vine vorba despre locul femeii \u00een societate, periodic apare acest argument.
\n“De ce n-au existat Leonarzi, Michelangeli, Edisoni \u015fi Marie Curie femei?” <\/p>\n
Uneori \u00eel aduc b\u0103rba\u0163i, iar pe ei oarecum \u00eei \u00een\u0163eleg. B\u0103rbatul e crescut tradi\u0163ional \u00een familiile rom\u00e2ne\u015fti drept fala familiei, “purt\u0103torul numelui”, mami se d\u0103 peste cap s\u0103-l caute \u00een coarne, s\u0103-i cumpere tot ce vrea el mititelul, s\u0103-i \u00eendeplineasc\u0103 toate visele, s\u0103-l g\u00e2dile tandru la coi\u0163e, iar tati \u00eel ambi\u0163ioneaz\u0103, c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fie b\u0103rbat, s\u0103 fie puternic, s\u0103 nu lase nimic s\u0103-l descurajeze, s\u0103-\u015fi cunoasc\u0103 interesul \u015fi s\u0103 lase urm\u0103 bine b\u0103tucit\u0103 pe unde trece.
\nCu o astfel de educa\u0163ie, un b\u0103rbat habar nu are cum e s\u0103 fii crescut “s\u0103 te ia \u015fi pe tine cineva”. Ca visele tale personale s\u0103 fie condamnate mereu la locul al doilea. Mai exact al treilea, dup\u0103 “s\u0103 fie o meserie b\u0103noas\u0103, mam\u0103” \u015fi setul de reguli “s\u0103 te ia cineva”. Habar nu are cum e s\u0103 fii perpetuu descurajat, dezaprobat \u015fi convins c\u0103 e\u015fti doar un cet\u0103\u0163ean de rangul al doilea.
\nPentru el, e simplu: “Vreau un lucru, \u00eel fac”. \u015ei e firesc s\u0103 fie a\u015fa. C\u00e2nd ai educa\u0163ie de \u00eenving\u0103tor, \u0163i-e simplu s\u0103 vezi p\u0103durea cea de dincolo de copaci. \u0162i-e simplu s\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegi c\u0103 da, vrei un lucru \u015fi, pur \u015fi simplu, calea cea mai scurt\u0103 e s\u0103 pui m\u00e2na \u015fi s\u0103 \u00eel faci. Habar nu are c\u00e2te jene, dubii, scrupule, ezit\u0103ri, “vai dar ce va crede lumea” \u00eenfige educa\u0163ia tradi\u0163ional\u0103 \u00een mintea unei femei.
\nN-a fost \u00een ace\u015fti pantofi, deci nu \u015ftie cum e. Dac\u0103 e inteligent, pricepe din explica\u0163ii. Dac\u0103 e prost, nici m\u0103car. <\/p>\n
***<\/p>\n
Dar c\u00e2nd v\u0103d o femeie c\u0103 vine cu “De ce n-au existat Napoleoni Bonaparte, Hitleri \u015fi Margaret Thatcheri femei” \u00eemi vine s\u0103-i rad vreo trei perechi de palme de s\u0103-i dea bor\u015ful \u015fi s-o trimit direct la crati\u0163\u0103, pentru c\u0103 nu merit\u0103 mai mult.
\nFemeie fiind, \u015ftie c\u0103 epoci la r\u00e2nd, fiul familiei era educat s\u0103-\u015fi realizeze visele \u015fi s\u0103 cucereasc\u0103 lumea,iar fiica familiei, s\u0103 fie nevasta cuiva \u015fi s\u0103 fac\u0103 toc\u0103ni\u0163\u0103 de cartofi bun\u0103. \u015ei s\u0103 nu spun\u0103 lucruri curajoase pentru c\u0103 “nu o ia nimeni”. \u015ei s\u0103 nu lupte pentru sine, pentru c\u0103 asta o face vr\u0103jitoare \u015fi “fiica Satanei.”
\nDac\u0103 Shakespeare ar fi avut o sor\u0103 la fel de talentat\u0103 precum el, posibil femeia aceea n-ar fi \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at nici m\u0103car s\u0103 scrie, pentru c\u0103 buc\u0103t\u0103ria era mai important\u0103, “s\u0103 o ia cineva”. \u015ei chiar dac\u0103 ar fi \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at, c\u0103rturarii vremii ar fi r\u00e2s superior, ar fi m\u00e2ng\u00e2iat-o p\u0103rinte\u015fte pe cre\u015ftet \u015fi nu i-ar fi deschis manuscrisele. \u015ei chiar dac\u0103 le-ar fi deschis, ar fi f\u0103cut-o s\u0103 v\u00e2neze gre\u015feli, nu s\u0103 vad\u0103 viziunea de ansamblu.
\nDac\u0103 Leonardo da Vinci ar fi avut o sor\u0103 la fel de talentat\u0103 ca el, fata aceea ar fi fost trimis\u0103 la m\u0103n\u0103stire, s\u0103 i se scoat\u0103 g\u0103rg\u0103unii ambi\u0163iei din cap, apoi m\u0103ritat\u0103 cu primul pe\u0163itor care ar fi cerut-o. <\/p>\n
Prin asta nu neg dreptul unei femei lipsite de ambi\u0163ii personale s\u0103-\u015fi asume propria mediocritate. Da, exist\u0103 femei mul\u0163umite cu pu\u0163in, a\u015fa cum exist\u0103 \u015fi b\u0103rba\u0163i mul\u0163umi\u0163i cu pu\u0163in. Altfel nu ar exista proletariatul. <\/p>\n
Dar dac\u0103 tu nu vrei mai mult de la tine, f\u0103 un bine omenirii \u015fi nu generaliza. M\u0103car at\u00e2t. <\/p>\n
Foto de geniala Amalia Savinescu.
\nFotograf femeie care acum o genera\u0163ie n-ar fi \u00eenc\u0103put de b\u0103rba\u0163i. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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