Iubesc s\u0103 abordez teme mari, cum ar fi condi\u0163ia femeii, pe Facebook. Volens – nolens, o s\u0103 apar\u0103 oamenii care o s\u0103 debiteze t\u00e2mpenii. Mai ales acum, c\u0103 se simt \u00eencuraja\u0163i de faptul c\u0103 un pussy-grabber notoriu a fost ales pre\u015fedinte \u00een State. <\/p>\n
Poate cea mai crunt\u0103 t\u00e2mpenie, dintre toate t\u00e2mpeniile, e reprezentat\u0103 de urm\u0103toarea atitudine: “Voi sunte\u0163i femei. Adev\u0103rata voastr\u0103 fericire, dar n-o \u015fti\u0163i c\u0103 v-a sp\u0103lat feminismul la cerebel, este s\u0103 fi\u0163i menajera noastr\u0103 gratuit\u0103. (M\u0103 rog, vr\u0103jeala oficial\u0103 e ceva cu c\u0103min fericit \u015fi bla-bla, dar basically orice tip care eman\u0103 sintagma ‘c\u0103min fericit’ are \u00een minte banii pe care \u00eei economise\u015fte nepl\u0103tind-o pe tanti Mi\u0163a, care vine o dat\u0103 pe s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103, dac\u0103 ai face tu munca ei.) <\/p>\n
Realitatea e c\u0103 b\u0103rba\u0163ii nu au respectat niciodat\u0103 munca din cas\u0103 a unei femei \u015fi mentalitatea care a circulat a fost “Eu te \u00eentre\u0163in.” Abia dup\u0103 ce au r\u0103mas singuri au con\u015ftientizat c\u00e2t efort lipsit de farmec \u015fi demolator pentru spirit presupune corvoada domestic\u0103 \u015fi subit au decis c\u0103 \u015ftiu ei ce e mai bine pentru o femeie: s\u0103 fac\u0103 ea tot acest efort. Pe baza “tradi\u0163iei”. De c\u00e2te ori un om nu poate justifica ra\u0163ional o preten\u0163ie, vine cu cuv\u00e2ntul magic “tradi\u0163ie” \u015fi s-a scos. <\/p>\n
De-a lungul istoriei, femeile au fost convinse de mici, prin educa\u0163ia “s\u0103 te ia \u015fi pe tine cineva”, c\u0103 adev\u0103rata lor fericire e s\u0103 slug\u0103reasc\u0103 un b\u0103rbat. \u015ei aveam cinci ani sau ceva de genul, \u015fi habar nu aveam de no\u0163iunea de feminism, c\u00e2nd am privit-o pe bunic\u0103-mea \u00een ochi \u015fi am \u00eentrebat-o: “\u00cen clipa mor\u0163ii, c\u00e2nd te vei \u00eentreba ‘pentru ce am tr\u0103it eu’, o s\u0103 te satisfac\u0103 r\u0103spunsul ‘am f\u0103cut ciorb\u0103 \u015fi am m\u0103turat zi de zi’?” Pe bunic\u0103-mea a bu\u015fit-o pl\u00e2nsul, apoi mi-a povestit c\u0103 a\u015fa a fost educat\u0103 \u015fi ea. <\/p>\n
E absolut \u00eengrozitoare impresia unor b\u0103rba\u0163i pro\u015fti c\u0103 pot decreta ei care e re\u0163eta fericirii unor femei pe care nu le cunosc. \u015ei, sincer, oric\u00e2t de obraznice sunt feministele – multe dintre ele sunt – n-o s\u0103 vezi pe niciuna dintre ele duc\u00e2ndu-se la un b\u0103rbat s\u0103-i spun\u0103: “\u015etii, adev\u0103rata ta fericire e s\u0103-mi dai mie mun\u0163i, dealuri, coline de bani”. Niciuna nu are nesim\u0163irea s\u0103 pretind\u0103 c\u0103 lucrurile care \u00eei plac din partea unui b\u0103rbat sunt “adev\u0103rata lui fericire”. “Bag\u0103 bani \u00een mine, Gogule, \u015ftii c\u0103 vrei. Nu e\u015fti un om fericit dac\u0103 nu faci asta.” <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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