{"id":11953,"date":"2017-01-11T12:10:33","date_gmt":"2017-01-11T09:10:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=11953"},"modified":"2017-01-11T12:10:33","modified_gmt":"2017-01-11T09:10:33","slug":"indreptar-de-lungu-nasului-1-obraznic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/indreptar-de-lungu-nasului-1-obraznic\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00cendreptar de lungu&#8217; nasului 1: &#8220;obraznic&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Uneori, se nimere\u015fte c\u00e2te un om care, din tratamentul meu politicos \u015fi amabil, \u00een\u0163elege c\u0103 m-a c\u00e2\u015ftigat la belciuge \u015fi e cazul s\u0103 mi se urce \u00een cap \u015fi s\u0103 \u00eemi fac\u0103 reguli. Asta e o idee extrem de proast\u0103, dup\u0103 cum o \u015ftie orice internaut care a citit minimum dou\u0103 texte ale mele. Eu nu abuzez de timpul, spa\u0163iul, r\u0103bdarea, resursele nim\u0103nui niciodat\u0103, iar \u0103sta e un semn c\u0103 dac\u0103 \u00eencerci s\u0103 abuzezi de ale mele, \u0163i-ai pierdut orice preten\u0163ie la respectul meu, pe tot restul vie\u0163ii tale.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Dincolo de acest aspect bine cunoscut, exist\u0103 cuvinte care m\u0103 enerveaz\u0103 mai mult dec\u00e2t altele, pentru c\u0103 utilizarea lor denot\u0103 c\u0103, \u00een mintea lui, emi\u0163\u0103torul m-a c\u00e2\u015ftigat at\u00e2t de definitiv la belciuge, \u00eenc\u00e2t poate s\u0103 mi se \u015fi pi\u015fe \u00een cap, dac\u0103 nu g\u0103se\u015fte un tufi\u015f corespunz\u0103tor pe drum.<br \/>\nAzi o s\u0103 trat\u0103m un prim astfel de termen: &#8220;obraznic&#8221; \/ &#8220;obraznic\u0103&#8221;. <\/p>\n<p>S\u0103 vedem \u00een ce situa\u0163ii po\u0163i utiliza just termenul &#8220;obraznic&#8221; \/ &#8220;obraznic\u0103&#8221;. <\/p>\n<p>A) C\u00e2nd propriii t\u0103i copii, pe care \u00eei hr\u0103ne\u015fti, speli, \u00eentre\u0163ii, \u015ftergi la fund, etc., \u00ee\u0163i arat\u0103 lips\u0103 de respect.<br \/>\nB) C\u00e2nd servitorii din cas\u0103, c\u0103rora le pl\u0103te\u015fti salariu, nu \u0163i-au \u015fters praful corespunz\u0103tor \u015fi au r\u0103mas d\u00e2re, \u015fi te mint \u00een ochi c\u0103 ba da, l-au \u015fters<br \/>\nC) C\u00e2nd cineva c\u0103ruia nu-i datorezi nimic \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 \u0163i se urce \u00een cap de parc\u0103 te-ar fi achizi\u0163ionat de la t\u00e2rgul de vite. <\/p>\n<p>A \u015fi B sunt excluse din start, iar de plecat pe tarlalele altora s\u0103 le fac reguli \u015fi s\u0103 \u00eemi impun cu de-a sila dreptatea nu am plecat niciodat\u0103, deci C e o imposibilitate.<br \/>\nDar dac\u0103 tu o s\u0103 \u00eencerci s\u0103-mi invadezi spa\u0163iul, \u015fi tot tu m\u0103 faci obraznic\u0103 pentru c\u0103 nu-\u0163i permit \u015fi pentru c\u0103 te trimit la m\u0103-ta-n b\u0103t\u0103tur\u0103 s\u0103 dai tonul acolo, povestea nu se va duce dec\u00e2t \u00een jos. \u00cen foarte jos. <\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 nu \u0163i-a dat m\u0103-ta educa\u0163ia aia minim\u0103, \u015fapte ani de acas\u0103, legat\u0103 de cum e normal s\u0103 ne purt\u0103m \u00een ipostaza de musafir, m\u0103car nu-i acuza pe al\u0163ii de obr\u0103znicie. Ia o rigl\u0103, m\u0103soar\u0103-\u0163i frumos lungul nasului, noteaz\u0103 rezultatul, \u015fi stai \u00een banca ta.<br \/>\n\u00cen secunda c\u00e2nd tu ui\u0163i s\u0103 fii musafir gra\u0163ios, obliga\u0163iile mele de a fi gazd\u0103 gra\u0163ioas\u0103 se reduc la zero \u00een privin\u0163a ta.<br \/>\n\u015ei faptul c\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i dau cu flit se nume\u015fte redefinirea corect\u0103 a limitelor. \u00cenva\u0163\u0103 s\u0103 respec\u0163i, apoi po\u0163i pretinde \u015fi respect. Dar dac\u0103 tu \u00eemi invadezi la infinit terenul sub preten\u0163ia &#8220;liberei exprim\u0103ri&#8221;, \u00eemi conferi instant dreptul la libera exprimare \u00een ripost\u0103, \u015fi anume &#8220;mar\u015f \u00een pula mea&#8221;. Iar dac\u0103 nu o spun chiar cu ace\u015fti termeni, ci eventual cu &#8220;te invit politicos s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i desf\u0103\u015fori talentele la tine pe tarla&#8221;, deja sunt opusul obr\u0103zniciei. A\u015f zice c\u0103 deja sunt exagerat de diplomat\u0103 pentru tine. <\/p>\n<p>Pe scurt \u015fi pe viitor: except\u00e2ndu-i pe adev\u0103ra\u0163ii sus\u0163in\u0103tori ai acestui site, care se \u015ftiu, \u015fi care nu \u015fi-au permis \u00een via\u0163a lor s\u0103-mi adreseze un termen ofensator &#8211; de\u015fi, culmea, faptul c\u0103 m\u0103 sus\u0163in i-ar justifica s\u0103 aib\u0103 \u015fi solicit\u0103ri, cel pu\u0163in la nivel de con\u0163inut &#8211; orice fiin\u0163\u0103 vie care \u00ee\u015fi permite s\u0103 se iluzioneze at\u00e2t de grav \u00een privin\u0163a mea \u015fi \u00een privin\u0163a dreptului ei de a-mi dicta lucruri \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103-mi adreseze termenul &#8220;obraznic\u0103&#8221; o s\u0103 beleasc\u0103 pula cu aplomb \u015fi abnega\u0163ie ca pe cioc\u0103l\u0103i.  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Uneori, se nimere\u015fte c\u00e2te un om care, din tratamentul meu politicos \u015fi amabil, \u00een\u0163elege c\u0103 m-a c\u00e2\u015ftigat la belciuge \u015fi e cazul s\u0103 mi&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":9598,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-11953","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/Bang-head-on-brick-wall.jpg?fit=950%2C454&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11953","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=11953"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11953\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11957,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/11953\/revisions\/11957"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9598"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=11953"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=11953"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=11953"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}