{"id":12197,"date":"2017-02-15T03:44:42","date_gmt":"2017-02-15T00:44:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=12197"},"modified":"2017-02-15T05:38:30","modified_gmt":"2017-02-15T02:38:30","slug":"parintii-madalinei-aveti-idee-ce-gasca-sinistra-ati-crescut","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/parintii-madalinei-aveti-idee-ce-gasca-sinistra-ati-crescut\/","title":{"rendered":"P\u0103rin\u0163ii M\u0103d\u0103linei, ave\u0163i idee ce g\u00e2sc\u0103 sinistr\u0103 a\u0163i crescut?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Se pare c\u0103 se transform\u0103 \u00een rubric\u0103. V\u0103d c\u00e2te un text care duhne\u015fte de r\u0103utate, prostie, arogan\u0163\u0103, plus impresia de \u00eenalt\u0103 autoritate moral\u0103, \u015fi \u00eencep s\u0103 tic\u0103i pe din\u0103untru. Poate o facem s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2nal\u0103, \u015fi-i spunem: “Lorena te ur\u0103\u015fte” sau ceva.<\/p>\n

Ieri seara, \u00eemi savuram \u00een fotoliu un Hungarian Coffee (cafea, zah\u0103r vanilat, fri\u015fc\u0103, palinc\u0103), \u015fi am intrat pe Facebook s\u0103 dau o cugetare de genul “Drag\u0103 Game of Thrones, \u00ee\u0163i mul\u0163umesc pentru \u00eenc\u0103 un an de fidelitate \u015fi iubire, cu drag Lorena xoxo”, c\u00e2nd, ce v\u0103d? V\u0103d puhoi de oameni sharuind cu oripilare asta<\/a>.<\/p>\n

“Sunt fat\u0103 de la \u0163ar\u0103! Dar nu de la \u0163ar\u0103 pentru c\u0103 m-am n\u0103scut \u015fi am crescut \u00eentr-o gospod\u0103rie cu vaci, porci \u015fi alte or\u0103t\u0103nii, ci pentru c\u0103 \u00een buletin scrie comuna Dofteana, jude\u0163ul Bac\u0103u.”<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Eu a\u015f corecta-o pe individ\u0103: e\u015fti \u0163\u0103ranc\u0103. E\u015fti \u0163\u0103ranc\u0103 nu pentru c\u0103 e\u015fti fat\u0103 de la \u0163ar\u0103, \u015fi nu pentru c\u0103 buletinul t\u0103u men\u0163ioneaz\u0103 o comun\u0103, ci pentru c\u0103 e\u015fti at\u00e2t de infinit de meschin\u0103 \u00een spirit \u015fi viziune. Sunt o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de \u0163\u0103rani care locuiesc \u00een mari ora\u015fe, \u015fi lorzi care locuiesc \u00een sate \u015fi muncesc p\u0103m\u00e2ntul. \u0162ine de materialul uman, nu de origine geografic\u0103.<\/p>\n

Apoi, individa se laud\u0103 de zor c\u0103 p\u0103rin\u0163ii au protejat-o \u015fi n-au pus-o la muncile casei, respectiv cur\u0163ii. R\u0103u au f\u0103cut. Dac\u0103 avea parte de lipsuri \u015fi eforturi de mic\u0103, poate nu cre\u015ftea s\u0103 fie un monstru de egoism \u015fi infatuare.<\/p>\n

“Dumnezeu \u015ftie prin c\u00e2te au fost nevoi\u0163i mama cu tata s\u0103 treac\u0103 pentru ca zi de zi s\u0103 primesc bani de \u00eenghe\u0163at\u0103, chiar dac\u0103 poate bugetul familiei era destul de \u015fubred.”<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Poate ar fi fost mai bine s\u0103 te fac\u0103 s\u0103 sim\u0163i pe pielea ta faptul c\u0103 bugetul familiei era \u015fubred. Poate era mai s\u0103n\u0103tos pedagogic s\u0103 resim\u0163i un “nu avem”, un “nu se poate”, un “nu” \u00een general. Poate c\u0103 \u0163i-ar fi cultivat un pic abilitatea de a te pune \u00een \u00eenc\u0103l\u0163\u0103mintea veche \u015fi uzat\u0103 a oamenilor care debarasau mese. \u015ei poate n-ai fi ars-o deontolog \u015fi superior, pufnind a bengo\u015fenie \u00een timp ce descriai cum oamenii s\u0103raci, pl\u0103ti\u0163i exact praful de pe tob\u0103 pentru debarasarea meselor, \u00ee\u015fi opreau m\u00e2ncarea pentru ei \u00een loc s-o arunce la gunoi.<\/p>\n

Practic, asta “expune” cu imens\u0103 indignare textul acestei g\u00e2\u015fte. \u00cei urecheaz\u0103 cu superioritate pe cei de la B\u0103neasa Shopping City (c\u0103, nu-i a\u015fa, st\u0103m \u00een cel mai de elit\u0103 cartier bucure\u015ftean, ca orice \u0163\u0103ran autentic), pentru c\u0103 \u00eenchid ochii \u00een\u0163eleg\u0103tor c\u00e2nd \u00eei v\u0103d pe oamenii \u0103ia s\u0103raci oprindu-\u015fi resturile de m\u00e2ncare. Ba mai mult, g\u00e2sca enun\u0163\u0103 perfect convins\u0103 de binele pe care \u00eel face: “Voi sesiza Protec\u0163ia Consumatorului \u015fi Protec\u0163ia Muncii, pentru a se face o anchet\u0103 \u00een cazul firmei HGC Facility Services, care se ocup\u0103 de cur\u0103\u0163enia din incinta mall-ului.”<\/p>\n

Adic\u0103, dac\u0103 po\u0163i face un r\u0103u altcuiva, \u015fi e\u015fti o g\u00e2sc\u0103 infinit de proast\u0103, crescut\u0103 \u00een puf \u015fi tr\u0103itoare cu impresia c\u0103 toat\u0103 lumea o duce pe roze, ca tine, de ce s\u0103 n-o faci?<\/p>\n

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Angaja\u0163ii de la cur\u0103\u0163enie iau m\u00e2ncarea neconsumat\u0103 de pe t\u0103vile clien\u0163ilor care s-au ridicat de la mese, o palmeaz\u0103 \u015fi o introduc \u00een pungi pe care le au ascunse \u00een buzunarele de la \u015for\u0163uri sau pe rafturile \u015fi sertarele de la co\u015furile de gunoi, \u00een loc s\u0103 o arunce \u00een tomberon, a\u015fa cum este nu doar etic s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple, ci \u015fi s\u0103n\u0103tos?<\/p>\n

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Dac\u0103 e\u015fti o g\u00e2sc\u0103 incapabil\u0103 s\u0103 judeci situa\u0163ia social\u0103 a altora, e greu s\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegi o realitate simpl\u0103: nimeni, absolut nimeni, nu recicleaz\u0103 m\u00e2ncare pentru c\u0103 are de ales. Nimeni nu recicleaz\u0103 m\u00e2ncare de prea mult bine. Oamenii care recicleaz\u0103 m\u00e2ncare o fac pentru c\u0103, probabil, alternativa ar fi s\u0103 fac\u0103 foamea. \u015ei munca \u00een cur\u0103\u0163enie presupune efort fizic, deci ai nevoie s\u0103 alimentezi motorul, s\u0103 po\u0163i duce.<\/p>\n

\u00cen fond, care e problema cu m\u00e2ncarea neconsumat\u0103 de pe mese? E scoas\u0103 proasp\u0103t din recipiente \u015fi servit\u0103 unui consumator. Care de obicei o consum\u0103 cu cu\u0163it \u015fi furculi\u0163\u0103. Cu\u0163itul, folosit s\u0103 taie dumicatul, nu atinge saliva pacientului. Furculi\u0163a se \u00eenfige doar \u00een bucata pe care urmeaz\u0103 s-o duci la gur\u0103. \u00cen secunda \u00een care te-ai ridicat de la mas\u0103, m\u00e2ncarea ta neconsumat\u0103 e doar cu jum\u0103tate de or\u0103 mai pu\u0163in proasp\u0103t\u0103 dec\u00e2t c\u00e2nd ai primit-o, iar contactul t\u0103u fizic cu ea e relativ redus. Asta dac\u0103 nu e\u015fti genul retardat care-\u015fi scrie \u00een piure “Te iubesc, Marcela” cu diverse organe ale corpului.<\/p>\n

Asta, apropo de s\u0103n\u0103tate. Iar legat de etic\u0103, ar trebui s\u0103 te preocupe mai mult r\u0103ul pe care-l faci acestor oameni tu, din postura ta de g\u00e2sculi\u0163\u0103 protejat\u0103 de p\u0103rin\u0163i prea iubitori \u015fi incapabil\u0103 s\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegi s\u0103r\u0103cia, dec\u00e2t falsa problem\u0103 etic\u0103 a unor bunuri destinate gunoiului, dar care, prin sustragere, v\u0103duvesc sacul de gunoi de ofranda cuvenit\u0103.<\/p>\n

“Vai”, sufer\u0103 sacul de gunoi \u00een t\u0103cere. “Aici trebuia s\u0103 se afle un copan de pui cu un orez cu legume, dar pentru c\u0103 Marioara le-a luat s\u0103 dea la copil, sau poate doar la c\u0103\u0163el, eu voi r\u0103m\u00e2ne singur \u015fi gol”.<\/p>\n

Serios? Cam c\u00e2t de inuman de proast\u0103 s\u0103 fii?<\/p>\n

“de altfel pun \u00eentr-o situa\u0163ie ingrat\u0103 \u00eens\u0103\u015fi clien\u0163ii B\u0103neasa Shopping City care v\u0103d acest lucru”<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Uite un hint, g\u00e2sco: exist\u0103 \u015fi direc\u0163ia opus\u0103. Pur \u015fi simplu, nu te ui\u0163i. Altminteri, preten\u0163ia ca ni\u015fte oameni s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 fl\u0103m\u00e2nzi doar ca s\u0103 nu fii tu pus\u0103 \u00een “situa\u0163ie ingrat\u0103” mi se pare apogeul egoismului monstruos. \u015ei repet \u00eentrebarea din titlu: P\u0103rin\u0163ii M\u0103d\u0103linei, ave\u0163i idee ce g\u00e2sc\u0103 sinistr\u0103 a\u0163i crescut?<\/p>\n

“Dac\u0103 nu te ajungi cu banii de la locul de munc\u0103, obliga\u0163ia ta este s\u0103 cau\u0163i solu\u0163ii prin care s\u0103 c\u00e2\u015ftigi mai mul\u0163i bani, nu s\u0103 cau\u0163i \u00een gunoaie \u015fi cu at\u00e2t mai mult s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i \u00eensu\u015fe\u015fti m\u00e2ncarea pe care un client a decis s\u0103 o arunce pentru c\u0103 nu a mai dorit s\u0103 o consume”, continu\u0103 g\u00e2sca.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Sigur. Cei care lucreaz\u0103 \u00een cur\u0103\u0163enie sunt to\u0163i oameni care abund\u0103 \u00een op\u0163iuni profesionale, dar au ales cur\u0103\u0163enia, de hobby. Nu, Doamne fere\u015fte, \u00een nici un caz nu e un job epuizant fizic \u015fi mintal, dup\u0103 care te duci acas\u0103 \u015fi \u00eencepi s\u0103 speli, calci, freci, etc. \u00een propria cas\u0103.<\/p>\n

“Oare familiile lor \u015ftiu c\u0103 hrana pe care o au seara sau diminea\u0163a pe mas\u0103 provine din resturile clien\u0163ilor?”<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Nu, p\u0103pushe. Sigur \u00ee\u015fi imagineaz\u0103 c\u0103 e comandat\u0103 special pentru ei de la Chefs Experience.<\/p>\n

Un singur lucru te rog. NU te face jurnalist. \u00cenainte de a toci informa\u0163ie \u015fi a asimila tehnici de scriere, jurnalismul presupune o calitate elementar\u0103: \u00een\u0163elegerea vie\u0163ii de zi cu zi. \u015ei sunt destui pro\u015fti \u00een pres\u0103 deja. \u00cenc\u0103 o g\u00e2sc\u0103 egoist\u0103 \u015fi lipsit\u0103 de cea mai vag\u0103 umbr\u0103 de compasiune e ultimul lucru de care jurnalismul rom\u00e2nesc are nevoie.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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