Dup\u0103 ce au adunat 3.000.000 de semn\u0103turi \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 asmut\u0103 popula\u0163ia de la sate \u015fi s\u0103racii de la ora\u015fe \u00eempotriva comunit\u0103\u0163ii LGBT din Rom\u00e2nia, b\u0103ie\u0163ii de la Coali\u0163ia pentru Evul Mediu izbesc iar. De data asta, \u00een forma unor conferin\u0163e idioate care s\u0103 ne explice “diferen\u0163ele dintre b\u0103rba\u0163i \u015fi femei”. <\/p>\n
“Diferen\u0163ele dintre b\u0103rba\u0163i \u015fi femei” fiind, exact cum b\u0103nuiam, setul de a\u015ftept\u0103ri retardate \u00eempotriva c\u0103ruia am luptat toat\u0103 via\u0163a. Setul de a\u015ftept\u0103ri retardate care dau dreptul oricui s\u0103 se poarte cu tine de parc\u0103 te cump\u0103raser\u0103 de pe pia\u0163a de “totul la zece lei” \u015fi care legitimeaz\u0103, \u00een mintea bizonilor sp\u0103la\u0163i pe creier, tonul superior, pentru simpl\u0103 de\u0163inere de penis. <\/p>\n
Citez: <\/p>\n
Datorit\u0103 anatomiei \u0219i hormonilor, b\u0103rba\u021bii au roluri sociale la nivel macro, se ocup\u0103 de procurarea mijloacelor financiare \u0219i materiale ale familiei, de transport dar nu se descurc\u0103 \u00een spa\u021bii mici (frigider, dulapul de haine). Femeile au roluri la nivel micro, \u00een cas\u0103 (gospod\u0103rie), \u00een educa\u021bia copiilor, sunt delicate si ambidextre, dar nu se descurc\u0103 \u00een spa\u021bii ample (de exemplu la volan)
\nnevoia de comunicare (b\u0103rba\u021bii au \u00een medie 7.000 \u2013 10.000 de semne comunicative pe zi iar femeile 20.000 \u2013 25.000)
\nreac\u021biile la stres (b\u0103rba\u021bii au tendin\u021ba de a se lupta cu stresul prin deconectare iar femeile prin comunicare).<\/em>. <\/p><\/blockquote>\nPovestea asta n-a fost adev\u0103rat\u0103 niciodat\u0103. Nici m\u0103car \u00een Evul Mediu, de unde provin credin\u0163ele astea stupide. \u015ei \u00een evul mediu, \u0163\u0103ranca muncea c\u00e2mpul cot la cot cu so\u0163ul ei, iar femeia s\u0103rac\u0103 de la ora\u015f f\u0103cea menaj, s\u0103 completeze veniturile familiei. Doar b\u0103rba\u0163ii boga\u0163i \u015fi-au permis “s\u0103 se ocupe de procurarea mijloacelor etc”, \u015fi minune: \u00een cazul acelor b\u0103rba\u0163i, treburile gospod\u0103re\u015fti erau f\u0103cute de personal angajat. <\/p>\n
Vr\u0103jeala cu “nu se descurc\u0103 \u00een spa\u0163ii mici” e basm de pule\u0163i r\u0103zg\u00e2ia\u0163i de mame prea protectoare. Orice om dotat cu un creier \u015fi cu dou\u0103 m\u00e2ini se descurc\u0103 \u00een orice spa\u0163iu \u00een care dore\u015fte cu adev\u0103rat s\u0103 se descurce, \u015fi nu caut\u0103 scuze stupide care s\u0103-i justifice nedescurcarea.
\nToate rela\u0163iile mele serioase au fost – mi-e \u015fi jen\u0103 s\u0103 recunosc – cu tipi ordona\u0163i care au adunat dup\u0103 mine de n-au \u015ftiut de ei. \u015ei genul \u0103sta de tipi nu-s deloc pu\u0163ini. Apoi, dup\u0103 ce m-am prins c\u0103 libertatea absolut\u0103 e mai convenabil\u0103 pentru mine dec\u00e2t continuul compromis cu un partener, am \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at s\u0103 adun \u015fi singur\u0103 dup\u0103 mine, pentru c\u0103 asta e via\u0163a.
\nMitul cu “b\u0103rbatul nu poate face curat” e la fel de distrug\u0103tor pentru familie precum e mitul cu “b\u0103rbatul e dator s\u0103 aduc\u0103 to\u0163i banii”.
\nNu e\u015fti om dac\u0103 nu resim\u0163i frustrarea dat\u0103 de faptul c\u0103 numai tu contribui la cheltuielile cuplului. \u015ei nu e\u015fti om dac\u0103 nu te \u00eenfurie la culme ca numai tu s\u0103 freci du\u015fumele \u015fi cel\u0103lalt s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i saboteze deliberat efortul. <\/p>\nOricum, dac\u0103 ar fi s\u0103 aleg dintre a sus\u0163ine material o familie (\u015fi zero munci casnice) \u015fi a presta munci casnice (\u015fi a investi zero lei din banii mei personali), a\u015f alege varianta A. Mi-e mai u\u015for s\u0103 c\u00e2\u015ftig bani dec\u00e2t s\u0103 fac ciorb\u0103. Asta m\u0103 face, dup\u0103 mintea imbecililor de la Coali\u0163ia pentru Familie, b\u0103rbat. <\/p>\n
Faza cu spa\u0163iile ample e din nou o prostie f\u0103r\u0103 limite. Ba da, m\u0103 descurc \u00een spa\u0163ii ample. Leap\u0103d\u0103-m\u0103 \u00een orice ora\u015f \u015fi p\u00e2n\u0103 seara m-am \u00eemprietenit cu trei g\u0103\u015fti distincte, mi-am g\u0103sit cazare, \u015fi eventual \u015fi un job. Da, sunt un animal social, atunci c\u00e2nd vreau. \u015ei nu-mi pas\u0103 foarte tare de riscuri. Spre deosebire de mul\u0163i b\u0103rba\u0163i, care ar b\u00e2ntui dezechilibra\u0163i \u015fi nesiguri de ei de colo p\u00e2n\u0103 colo \u015fi la final ar dormi \u00een gar\u0103. <\/p>\n
Ce vreau s\u0103 spun cu asta?
\nNu exist\u0103 rol b\u0103rb\u0103tesc \u015fi rol femeiesc. Exist\u0103 doar indivizi diferi\u0163i cu aptitudini \u015fi nevoi diferite. Acestea pot include – desigur – b\u0103rba\u0163i care \u015ftiu s\u0103 asigure unei familii tot ce trebuie – dar, uimire: \u0103lora nu trebuie s\u0103 le explici tu, coali\u0163ia pulii, cum trebuie s\u0103 fie un b\u0103rbat. Exist\u0103 \u015fi femei deosebit de talentate \u00een frecat suprafe\u0163e \u015fi tocat p\u0103trunjel, dar uimire: nici \u0103lora nu trebuie s\u0103 le explici tu, un parazit f\u0103r\u0103 utilitate, cum trebuie s\u0103 fie o femeie. <\/p>\nApoi, exist\u0103m noi, cei atipici. Care func\u0163ion\u0103m dup\u0103 reguli proprii. Singurele reguli care ar trebui, de fapt, s\u0103 i se impun\u0103 unui om:
\n1. fii decent cu semenii t\u0103i, cu condi\u0163ia ca \u015fi ei s\u0103 fie decen\u0163i cu tine.
\n2. respect\u0103-\u0163i obliga\u0163iile contractuale.
\n3. c\u00e2\u015ftig\u0103 mai mult dec\u00e2t cheltuie\u015fti \u015fi nu avea mai mul\u0163i copii dec\u00e2t po\u0163i \u00eentre\u0163ine \u015fi educa.
\n4. pl\u0103te\u015fte-\u0163i impozitele. <\/p>\n\u00cen rest, dac\u0103 nu ai calit\u0103\u0163i umane reale, m\u0103 pi\u015f cu bolt\u0103 pe anatomia \u015fi hormonii t\u0103i. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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