Au n\u0103v\u0103lit evenimentele peste noi \u015fi nu am apucat s\u0103 scriu despre Balena Albastr\u0103.
\nCe e Balena Albastr\u0103? Un joc online inventat de un t\u00e2n\u0103r rus – a\u015f fi zis psihopat, dar a\u015f fi gre\u015fit, diagnosticul speciali\u015ftilor a fost c\u0103 era perfect s\u0103n\u0103tos – care racola adolescen\u0163i neiubi\u0163i \u015fi ne\u00een\u0163ele\u015fi \u015fi, profit\u00e2nd de nevoia lor natural\u0103 de a apar\u0163ine \u00eentr-un grup, le d\u0103dea diverse sarcini care constau \u00een automutil\u0103ri, gesturi cu risc mare \u015fi alte frumuse\u0163i similare. La un moment dat, \u0163i se ordona s\u0103 te sinucizi \u015fi \u0103sta era finalul jocului. <\/p>\n
Dac\u0103, la un moment dat, adolescentul sau adolescenta \u00ee\u015fi d\u0103dea seama \u00een ce cerc vicios a intrat, \u015fi c\u0103uta s\u0103 ias\u0103, era h\u0103r\u0163uit(\u0103) online, urm\u0103rit(\u0103), agresat(\u0103) p\u00e2n\u0103 ceda nervos.
\nFaptul c\u0103 exist\u0103 c\u00e2teva sute de tineri care au ajuns pe la spitale, ba unii \u015fi-au pus \u015fi cap\u0103t vie\u0163ii, demonstreaz\u0103 c\u0103 jocul are “lipici”.
\nPe de o parte, e nevoia de apartenen\u0163\u0103 la un grup cu o misiune palpitant\u0103 \u015fi interesant\u0103. \u00cen adolescen\u0163\u0103, vrei s\u0103 faci lucruri grandioase \u015fi s\u0103 demonstrezi c\u0103 e\u015fti cel mai tare.
\nPe de alt\u0103 parte, e depresia rezultat\u0103 din faptul c\u0103 mul\u0163i p\u0103rin\u0163i nu \u0163in pasul cu evolu\u0163ia copiilor, \u015fi tind s\u0103 \u0163ipe peste tine c\u00e2nd vorbe\u015fti la telefon, s\u0103 intre peste tine f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 bat\u0103 la u\u015f\u0103 \u015fi alte gesturi invazive, care subit te enerveaz\u0103 \u00eengrozitor, dar orice tentativ\u0103 de a comunica acest lucru se termin\u0103 \u00eentr-o palm\u0103 r\u0103sun\u0103toare. E un motiv pentru care jocul prinde av\u00e2nt DOAR \u00een Europa Estic\u0103, nu? \u015ei acest motiv e stima de sine \u00eengrozitor de sc\u0103zut\u0103, rezultat\u0103 din parentingul tradi\u0163ional cu palme \u015fi \u00eenjur\u0103turi. <\/p>\n
Bun. \u00cen secunda \u00een care au \u00eenceput s\u0103 curg\u0103 \u015ftirile despre noul joc uciga\u015f, o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de p\u0103rin\u0163i rom\u00e2ni au \u00eenceput s\u0103 vocifereze \u00een sec\u0163iunile de comentarii: “A\u015fa. Da\u0163i numele jocului. Da\u0163i-le idei”. <\/p>\n
N-o s\u0103 intru EVER \u00een polemici cu o mam\u0103 isterizat\u0103, pentru c\u0103 e genul de r\u0103zboi pe care n-ai cum s\u0103-l c\u00e2\u015ftigi, dar: <\/p>\n
IGNORAN\u0162A ESTE CEA MAI PROAST\u0102 POLITIC\u0102. MEREU A FOST \u015eI MEREU VA FI. <\/p>\n
P\u0103rin\u0163ii au o pornire natural\u0103 s\u0103-\u015fi subestimeze odraslele. S\u0103 cread\u0103 c\u0103 nu pot face fa\u0163\u0103 adev\u0103rurilor. S\u0103 am\u00e2ne educa\u0163ia sexual\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 le vine fata acas\u0103 gravid\u0103 la 14 ani. S\u0103-i \u0163in\u0103 pe prunci \u00eentr-un univers iluzoriu, unde totul e roz bombon cu pic\u0103\u0163ele, p\u00e2n\u0103 se arunc\u0103 \u0103la de pe bloc, c\u0103 a\u015fa i s-a poruncit pe grupul online Fr\u0103\u0163ia Pantalonilor Maro. <\/p>\n
Ei o boteaz\u0103 protec\u0163ie. Dar adev\u0103rul e c\u0103 aceast\u0103 “protec\u0163ie” nu este dec\u00e2t “ne\u00eencredere \u00een judecata copilului”, ambalat\u0103 \u00een cuvinte frumoase. <\/p>\n
Cu c\u00e2t un t\u00e2n\u0103r este mai informat \u015fi mai vaccinat, legat de adev\u0103rurile nepl\u0103cute ale acestei lumi, fie ele Balena Albastr\u0103, SIDA sau nenea care-\u0163i d\u0103 bomboane \u00een parc – cu at\u00e2t va \u015fti s\u0103 se apere \u015fi s\u0103 seteze limite. \u00cen fond, simplul fapt c\u0103 negi existen\u0163a unui lucru nu va face ca acel lucru s\u0103 dispar\u0103 \u00een mod magic. El va co-exista \u015fi va pluti mut \u015fi amenin\u0163\u0103tor prin proximitate. <\/p>\n
Abia dac\u0103 pui lumina de reflector asupra acelui lucru \u015fi \u00eei ar\u0103\u0163i consecin\u0163ele, po\u0163i proteja cu adev\u0103rat un om t\u00e2n\u0103r. Prin singurul scut real de care beneficiaz\u0103 \u00een acest univers. \u015ei anume, creierul personal din dotare. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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