{"id":12457,"date":"2017-04-14T13:54:57","date_gmt":"2017-04-14T10:54:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=12457"},"modified":"2017-04-14T13:54:57","modified_gmt":"2017-04-14T10:54:57","slug":"despre-iertarea-planificata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/despre-iertarea-planificata\/","title":{"rendered":"Despre iertarea planificat\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Azi am avut o zi destul de antipatic\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 acum, \u015fi am \u015fi stat la o coad\u0103 lung\u0103 la magazin, doar ca s\u0103 descop\u0103r la \u00eentoarcere c\u0103 mi s-a terminat h\u00e2rtia igienic\u0103, deci fie mai fac un drum \u015fi mai stau la o coad\u0103, fie m\u0103 \u015fterg cu pliante de la Carrefour \u015fi Billa tot weekendul, drept care textul de azi va fi la fel de antipatic precum e ziua mea. <\/p>\n<p>Anul \u0103sta, mai mult dec\u00e2t \u00een al\u0163i ani, a circulat trendul \u00eemp\u0103c\u0103rii cu tot dinadinsul \u015fi iert\u0103rii obligatorii de pa\u015fte, c\u00e2nd nu-i a\u015fa, m\u00e2ntuitorul nostru s-a sacrificat pe cruce \u015fi a ob\u0163inut iertare pentru mine, tine, \u015fi to\u0163i<br \/>\nnesim\u0163i\u0163ii care nu-\u015fi pl\u0103tesc datoriile. <\/p>\n<p>Drept care, e un fel de tendin\u0163\u0103 de un fals absolut sinistru s\u0103 \u00eei cau\u0163i pe X, Y \u015fi Z \u015fi s\u0103 le \u0163ii un speech sinistru de ipocrit \u00een care nu crede\u0163i nici tu, nici X, \u00een spirit cre\u015ftinesc \u015fi blabla.<br \/>\nS\u0103 v\u0103 pupa\u0163i de \u00eemp\u0103care. Apoi s\u0103 merge\u0163i pe r\u00e2nd la bud\u0103, s\u0103 v\u0103 \u015fterge\u0163i cu \u015ferve\u0163el dezinfectant, s\u0103 nu lua\u0163i herpes \u015fi mitoc\u0103nit\u0103 acut\u0103. <\/p>\n<p>M\u0103 scuza\u0163i, eu nu cred \u00een \u00eemp\u0103carea cu tot dinadinsul, nici \u00een iertarea cu tot dinadinsul, nici \u00een faptul c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 ne batem pe burt\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 ne frec\u0103m pe sf\u00e2rcuri to\u0163i cu to\u0163i. Cred c\u0103 rela\u0163iile interumane au un mod de a ap\u0103rea natural, \u00een func\u0163ie de reciprocitatea nevoilor pe care \u015fi le \u00eendeplinesc oamenii, \u015fi de emo\u0163iile pe care \u015fi le st\u00e2rnesc. \u015ei au un mod de a disp\u0103rea natural, de cum dispar nevoile de mai sus, iar emo\u0163iile precizate \u00een amonte se estompeaz\u0103 sau, God forbid, se uzeaz\u0103 pe la cus\u0103turi.<\/p>\n<p>Drept care, e perfect uman, normal \u015fi firesc s\u0103 nu ne mai simpatiz\u0103m, s\u0103 nu ne mai lu\u0103m limba-n gur\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 nu ne mai dorim s\u0103 ne vedem.<br \/>\nEu nu sunt genul care s\u0103 nutreasc\u0103 activ ur\u0103 fa\u0163\u0103 de nimeni. A ie\u015fit din peisaj? Pa la revedere \u015fi-un fir de praz verde. S\u0103n\u0103tate \u015fi mult\u0103 virtute. \u00cemi v\u0103d de lucrurile \u015fi de oamenii care-mi produc bucurie. <\/p>\n<p>\u00cen schimb, m\u0103 irit\u0103 la culme \u00eemp\u0103ciuiala cu anas\u00e2na. Nu, m\u00e2nca-te-ar tata. Nu \u00eemi placi. Nimic nu schimb\u0103 asta. Nimic nu m\u0103 va face s\u0103 m\u0103 simt vinovat\u0103 c\u0103 nu \u00eemi placi. M\u0103 doare-n partea din spate c\u0103 e acea zi din an c\u00e2nd Isus a urcat golgota cu o cruce grea \u00een spinare, tot nu \u00eemi placi. Du-te \u00een col\u0163i\u015forul t\u0103u de univers \u015fi las\u0103-m\u0103 \u00een pace. <\/p>\n<p>\u00cemi face mai mult r\u0103u s\u0103 mimez c\u0103 iert \u015fi s\u0103-mi aduc aminte c\u0103caturi dec\u00e2t s\u0103 scot omul de tot din via\u0163a mea, cu c\u0103caturi cu tot. \u015ei mai e un lucru: odat\u0103 ce un om \u0163i-a f\u0103cut c\u0103caturi, nu ai nici o secund\u0103 certitudinea c\u0103 nu va recidiva. Unii pot tr\u0103i cu suspiciuni \u015fi scenarit\u0103. Eu nu am nici chef, nici structura sufleteasc\u0103 pentru a\u015fa ceva.<br \/>\nSingurele mele intrigi sunt cele scrise. <\/p>\n<p>Drept care, hai s\u0103 fim mai cruzi de s\u0103rb\u0103tori \u015fi hai s\u0103 nu mim\u0103m iubirea cu tot dinadinsul. Pretinsa superioritate moral\u0103 nu justific\u0103 deranjul. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Azi am avut o zi destul de antipatic\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 acum, \u015fi am \u015fi stat la o coad\u0103 lung\u0103 la magazin, doar ca s\u0103 descop\u0103r&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":12287,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12457","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/gfy-e1489011466880.jpg?fit=510%2C271&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12457","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12457"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12457\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12458,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12457\/revisions\/12458"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12287"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12457"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12457"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12457"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}