Ieri, am citit o \u015ftire care mi-a f\u0103cut inima praf. Doi tineri, alpini\u015fti de renume, de\u0163in\u0103tori de titluri na\u0163ionale \u015fi interna\u0163ionale, inclusiv recorduri pe v\u00e2rfuri de peste 6000 de metri, au murit \u00een Retezat. Au vrut s\u0103 se antreneze pentru noile competi\u0163ii \u015fi au \u00eencercat un traseu dificil, de var\u0103, ignor\u00e2nd ninsorile, dar natura nu iart\u0103: s-a pornit o avalan\u015f\u0103, au fost lovi\u0163i de pietre \u015fi au murit la fa\u0163a locului. Aveau 13, respectiv 14 ani. <\/p>\n
Mi se pare cumplit de dureros \u015fi nedrept. \u00centr-o lume \u00een care mediocritatea e emblem\u0103 de fal\u0103 \u015fi dorin\u0163a de a face ceva ie\u015fit din comun e taxat\u0103 bovin cu “ce, f\u0103, te crezi special\u0103?”, \u00eentr-o lume plin\u0103 de drone inutile, destinul pedepse\u015fte performan\u0163a cu un deces timpuriu \u015fi nemeritat.
\nDar mai dureros \u015fi mai nedrept a fost dialogul care a ap\u0103rut pe ni\u015fte pere\u0163i de Facebook. <\/p>\n
O g\u0103in\u0103 lobotomizat\u0103 a \u00eenceput s\u0103 cotcod\u0103ceasc\u0103 precum urmeaz\u0103: “Da, \u00eentotdeauna am dezaprobat p\u0103rin\u0163ii care-\u015fi dau copiii la sport, balet, pian, limbi str\u0103ine \u015fi nu-i las\u0103 s\u0103-\u015fi tr\u0103iasc\u0103 copil\u0103ria”. \u015ei alte \u0163a\u0163e \u00een jur: “Da, da, m\u0103car al meu tr\u0103ie\u015fte!” Sparge semin\u0163e \u00een fa\u0163a blocului, nu va face nimic util niciodat\u0103, dar e esen\u0163ial c\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u015fte. <\/p>\n
Cu alte cuvinte, de vin\u0103 sunt p\u0103rin\u0163ii care au \u00een vedere un poten\u0163ial viitor al copilului lor \u015fi caut\u0103 s\u0103 investeasc\u0103 \u00een el, s\u0103-l educe, nu recurg la cele mai ieftine solu\u0163ii, strict s\u0103-l vad\u0103 mare \u015fi s\u0103 se chinuie bietul copil s\u0103 compenseze pe banii lui \u015fi \u00een timpul lui liber educa\u0163ia sumar\u0103 \u015fi de minim\u0103 rezisten\u0163\u0103 pe care a primit-o. <\/p>\n
\u00cen plus, oric\u00e2t efort \u015fi suflet ar pune un p\u0103rinte, dac\u0103 acel copil nu are \u00een interior acea flac\u0103r\u0103 aprins\u0103, motiva\u0163ia care s\u0103-l fac\u0103 s\u0103 viseze \u015fi s\u0103-\u015fi doreasc\u0103 excelen\u0163a, va fi \u00een gol.
\nS\u0103-i \u00eenjuri pe p\u0103rin\u0163ii acestor copii c\u0103 n-au vrut s\u0103 creasc\u0103 alte specimene autosuficiente, incapabile s\u0103 dea ceva valoros societ\u0103\u0163ii, ci c\u0103 au recunoscut talentul \u015fi au investit \u00een el, e cea mai sinistr\u0103 mentalitate de prost cu ifose.
\nC\u00e2\u0163i copii talenta\u0163i nu se pierd pentru c\u0103 nu investe\u015fte nimeni \u00een ei! Pentru c\u0103 p\u0103rin\u0163ii sunt ocupa\u0163i cu alcool, violen\u0163\u0103 domestic\u0103, fug\u0103rirea sexului f\u0103r\u0103 responsabilit\u0103\u0163i, sau poate doar s\u0103-\u015fi pl\u00e2ng\u0103 de mil\u0103, \u015fi nu fac absolut nimic pentru propriile lor progenituri! <\/p>\n
Da, ok, ar fi trebuit ca un adult responsabil s\u0103 opreasc\u0103 expedi\u0163ia aceea de s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103. \u015ei tragedia ar fi putut fi evitat\u0103. <\/p>\n
Dar chiar \u015fi a\u015fa: \u00een scurta lor via\u0163\u0103, copiii \u0103ia au tr\u0103it mai cu sens \u015fi mai frumos dec\u00e2t 80% din cotcod\u0103citoarele care le blameaz\u0103 p\u0103rin\u0163ii. Au descoperit nivelul de lupt\u0103 necesar pentru performan\u0163\u0103, au cunoscut victoria, au cunoscut senza\u0163ia de efort din greu, r\u0103spl\u0103tit ca atare.
\n\u015ei dac\u0103 ar fi s\u0103 aleg un destin, \u00eentre al unuia dintre ei \u015fi al proastei care prosl\u0103vea mediocritatea pe Facebook, l-a\u015f alege f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ezit pe al lor. Spre deosebire de ei, proasta tr\u0103ie\u015fte: dar ce via\u0163\u0103 inutil\u0103 \u015fi banal\u0103 duce. <\/p>\n
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