Toat\u0103 lumea care cite\u0219te acest blog \u0219tie c\u0103 eu sunt un suporter fervent \u0219i implicat al drepturilor omului, \u0219i implicit, ale minorit\u0103\u021bilor. Am scris articole pro-LGBT \u00een 2006, c\u00e2nd se \u00eent\u00e2mpla unul dintre primele mar\u0219uri Pride din Rom\u00e2nia \u0219i \u00eenc\u0103 riscai s\u0103 \u00eencasezi o piatr\u0103 de la babele de pe margine, am \u00eendurat sute de mii de \u00eenjur\u0103turi \u0219i h\u0103r\u021buiri pentru crezul meu c\u0103 via\u021ba intim\u0103 a omului trebuie respectat\u0103 \u0219i sunt gata s-o fac \u00een continuare, p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd senilitatea sau securitatea m\u0103 va desp\u0103r\u021bi. Ceva cu s, mai devreme sau mai t\u00e2rziu. <\/p>\n
Bun. \u00cen lista mea de prieteni, aveam o transexual\u0103. Pentru cine nu \u0219tie, transexualele sunt n\u0103scute b\u0103ie\u021bi, dar cu identitate feminin\u0103, \u0219i au de dus tratament hormonal \u0219i multiple opera\u021bii, s\u0103 se transforme \u0219i fizic \u00een ceea ce sunt pe interior. E o lupt\u0103 pe care o \u00een\u021beleg, de aceea o tratam cu mult respect (ca pe orice alt om care \u00eemi ofer\u0103 la r\u00e2ndu-i respect) pe persoana asta \u0219i inten\u021bionam inclusiv s\u0103 fac un articol despre lupta ei cu societatea \u0219i cu diversele situa\u021bii personale \u0219i profesionale \u00een care a fost judecat\u0103 nu dup\u0103 competen\u021ba profesional\u0103, ci dup\u0103 ce al\u021bii percepeau drept o anomalie. <\/p>\n
OK. S\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na trecut\u0103, o prieten\u0103 care lucreaz\u0103 la o cas\u0103 de produc\u021bie TV a postat un anun\u021b de job pentru un b\u0103iat de 25 de ani – iar eu i-am dat share, pentru c\u0103 am lista plin\u0103 de oameni pe domeniu \u0219i mi se pare ok s\u0103 ajut un om s\u0103 ob\u021bin\u0103 un job. <\/p>\n
De ce un b\u0103iat de 25 de ani? C\u0103 a\u0219a era proiectul TV. Oric\u00e2t de emo\u021bionant\u0103 \u0219i expresiv\u0103 a\u0219 fi eu ca actri\u021b\u0103, dac\u0103 se d\u0103 casting pe un rol de b\u0103rbat p\u0103ros de 50 de ani, \u0219tiu c\u0103 nu m\u0103 potrivesc. Sau dac\u0103 e casting de bebelu\u0219 mascul, logica \u0219i ra\u021biunea \u00eemi spun c\u0103 nu-l voi lua. <\/p>\n
Nici o femeie normal\u0103 nu s-a postat sub anun\u021b s\u0103 fac\u0103 t\u0103r\u0103boi \u0219i s\u0103 urle discriminare. Pentru c\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem. C\u00e2nd castingul e la Nor\u0103 pentru mama, se caut\u0103 soacre, nu socri, c\u0103 a\u0219a e scenariul. C\u00e2nd castingul e pentru un serial de b\u0103ie\u021bi de cartier, fetele care nu \u0219tiu s\u0103 fac\u0103 dou\u0103 flot\u0103ri legate (\u0219i b\u0103ie\u021bii care nu \u0219tiu s\u0103 fac\u0103 dou\u0103 flot\u0103ri legate, dac\u0103 tot vine vorba) stau acas\u0103, c\u0103 \u0219tiu c\u0103 nu se potrivesc \u00een proiect. Sunt lucruri care se \u00een\u021beleg de la sine, intuitiv, \u0219i nimeni nu \u00eencepe scandal. <\/p>\n
Cine a \u00eenceput totu\u0219i t\u0103r\u0103boi incalificabil, acuz\u00e2ndu-m\u0103 de discriminare pe mine (!!!) \u0219i pe prietena mea c\u0103 de fapt \u00ee\u0219i caut\u0103 amant t\u00e2n\u0103r \u0219i nu recunoa\u0219te? Cine a \u00eenceput s\u0103 fac\u0103 spume, s\u0103 urle c\u0103 e ilegal s\u0103 vrei doar b\u0103rba\u021bi, \u0219i pe scurt, s\u0103 se dea cu curu de p\u0103m\u00e2nt c\u0103 sunt o terorist\u0103 (\u00een timp ce, ironic, eu documentam efortul grupurilor pro-gay din Cluj s\u0103 ob\u021bin\u0103 de la Boc dreptul la un mar\u0219 Pride)? <\/p>\n
Logic, transexuala pe care o tratasem ca pe o prieten\u0103 \u0219i pe care o respectasem. <\/p>\n
Dragi minorit\u0103\u021bi,
\nNu pute\u021bi cere respect dac\u0103 voi, totodat\u0103, nu-l oferi\u021bi. Nu permit ca un om pe care investesc efort s\u0103-l sus\u021bin s\u0103 caute s\u0103 m\u0103 submineze \u0219i s\u0103-mi fac\u0103 procese de inten\u021bie, s\u0103-mi atace prietenii cu acuza\u021bii t\u00e2mpite \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 h\u0103r\u021buiasc\u0103. A\u0219a cum voi vre\u021bi \u00een\u021belegere pentru priorit\u0103\u021bile voastre (\u0219i din partea mea, a\u021bi avut-o mereu), trebuie s\u0103 oferi\u021bi \u00een\u021belegere. \u0218i at\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t sunt at\u00e2\u021bia al\u021bii, care caut\u0103 activ s\u0103 v\u0103 umileasc\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 v\u0103 \u00eencalce drepturile, ideal ar fi s\u0103 lupta\u021bi \u00eempotriva \u0103lora, \u00een loc s\u0103 c\u0103uta\u021bi, prin comportamente de prin\u021bese misecuveniste, s\u0103 v\u0103 aliena\u021bi pu\u021binii alia\u021bi pe care-i ave\u021bi. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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