O gr\u0103mad\u0103 de oameni normali din lista mea de prieteni o s\u0103 spun\u0103, citind acest articol: Mersi, Lorena, ne \u00eenve\u0163i pe unde se cac\u0103 g\u0103ina.
\nO gr\u0103mad\u0103 de oameni normali nu realizeaz\u0103 accentuata degradare a calit\u0103\u0163ii interac\u0163iunii. Prime\u015fti mailuri de la pr-i agrama\u0163i, de la pr-i obraznici care \u00ee\u0163i PRETIND s\u0103 publici ceva de zici c\u0103 site-ul \u0103sta mi l-a f\u0103cut cadou mama lor, de la advertiseri idio\u0163i, de la oameni care vor lucruri, dar pretind s\u0103 fie suna\u0163i \u015fi, preferata mea, de la oameni care te informeaz\u0103 c\u0103 o s\u0103 bei o cafea cu ei, de parc\u0103 timpul t\u0103u era curva lor. <\/p>\n
Deci, comunicarea \u00een zilele noastre este o problem\u0103. Respectul fa\u0163\u0103 de timpul celuilalt este \u00eenc\u0103 o problem\u0103. Aproape c\u0103 ajungi s\u0103 ba\u0163i oameni cu b\u00e2ta, s\u0103 te lase s\u0103 respiri \u015fi tu. <\/p>\n
Dar se poate remedia.
\nSe poate remedia dac\u0103 to\u0163i deodat\u0103 \u015fi fiecare \u00een parte \u00een\u0163elegem c\u0103 NIMENI NU NE DATOREAZ\u0102 NIMIC.
\nDe aceea, dac\u0103 vrem ceva de la al\u0163ii, exist\u0103 dou\u0103 elemente: <\/p>\n
A) Cerem frumos. <\/p>\n
Majoritatea oamenilor sunt people pleasers, iar dac\u0103 \u00eei rogi frumos s\u0103 fac\u0103 un lucru pentru tine, o vor face. Dar faptul c\u0103 o fac e un efort, e timpul lor, e munca lor, e amabilitatea lor, iar acestea trebuie apreciate. <\/p>\n
B) Ne revan\u015f\u0103m. <\/p>\n
Dac\u0103 ai primit o m\u00e2n\u0103 la nevoie, ofer\u0103 o m\u00e2n\u0103 la r\u00e2ndul t\u0103u. Dac\u0103 un prieten face lucruri pentru tine, f\u0103 \u015fi tu lucruri pentru el. Dac\u0103 solici\u0163i ajutor profesional, \u00eentreab\u0103 c\u00e2t cost\u0103 \u015fi las\u0103-l pe cel\u0103lalt s\u0103 refuze s\u0103 fie pl\u0103tit, dac\u0103 prietenia dintre voi e suficient de apropiat\u0103 sau ai f\u0103cut suficiente lucruri care s\u0103 justifice s\u0103 fii ajutat moca. Nu de alta, dar se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 ca prietenia s\u0103 nu fie deloc apropiat\u0103 \u015fi \u0103la sau aia s\u0103 nu simt\u0103 c\u0103-\u0163i datoreaz\u0103 ceva. <\/p>\n
C) Respect\u0103m timpul \u015fi priorit\u0103\u0163ile altora. <\/p>\n
Oric\u00e2t de importan\u0163i avem impresia c\u0103 suntem, exist\u0103 oameni care nu au timp \u015fi chef de noi. E perfect \u00een regul\u0103. E o lume larg\u0103 \u015fi putem \u00eenc\u0103pea unii de al\u0163ii. Nu ne apuc\u0103m s\u0103-i frec\u0103m la icre, s\u0103-i stalkerim \u015fi s\u0103 le ar\u0103t\u0103m c\u00e2t de glorios le \u00eenc\u0103lc\u0103m demnitatea, pentru c\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegem c\u0103 nu ne sunt datori cu nimic. <\/p>\n
Revenind la print screenul de aici.
\nCopilul care mi l-a trimis voia un job. Companiile pe care le-a abordat aveau jobul dorit de el. El era omul care cerea, ele erau entit\u0103\u0163ile care aveau de dat. <\/p>\n
S\u0103 trimi\u0163i \u00een cc mail \u015fi la Coca Cola, \u015fi la Pepsi, \u015fi la Sucuri Dulci R\u00e2ureni, e ca \u015fi cum ai da un mass invitation la \u00eent\u00e2lnire romantic\u0103 \u015fi la Adriana, \u015fi la Rodica, \u015fi la Geta. Te vor refuza toate trei f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 clipeasc\u0103. <\/p>\n
Asta pentru c\u0103 firmele, exact ca femeile, vor s\u0103 \u015ftie c\u0103 e mai mult dec\u00e2t “Am nevoie de ceva bani, indiferent cine mi-i d\u0103”, respectiv “Am nevoie de o gaur\u0103 umed\u0103, indiferent cui apar\u0163ine”.
\nSucuri Dulci R\u00e2ureni vrea s\u0103 vad\u0103 c\u0103 \u015ftii lucruri despre firm\u0103, c\u0103 \u00eei respec\u0163i activitatea, c\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegi spiritul \u015fi c\u0103 sim\u0163i vibeul.
\nNu, nu e pentru c\u0103 Sucuri Dulci nu \u015ftie c\u0103 tu aplici \u015fi la Coca Cola, a\u015fa cum \u015fi Adriana \u015ftie c\u0103 tu ai un backup \u00een Geta. E vorba de respectul elementar \u015fi diploma\u0163ia abord\u0103rii.
\nAi de demonstrat c\u0103 tu, \u015fi nu altcineva, meri\u0163i s\u0103 fii omul lor. \u015ei cc-ul cu Frutti Fresh e dovada singur\u0103, \u00eenc\u0103 de la nivelul 1 al jocului, c\u0103 nu e\u015fti. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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