{"id":13070,"date":"2017-08-12T10:13:47","date_gmt":"2017-08-12T07:13:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=13070"},"modified":"2017-08-12T10:15:03","modified_gmt":"2017-08-12T07:15:03","slug":"tabara-de-masculinitate-lorena-lupu-episodul-al-ii-lea-eu-bengosul","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/tabara-de-masculinitate-lorena-lupu-episodul-al-ii-lea-eu-bengosul\/","title":{"rendered":"Tab\u0103ra de Masculinitate “Lorena Lupu”, episodul al II-lea – “Eu, bengosul”"},"content":{"rendered":"

C\u00e2te un amuzant se g\u0103se\u015fte mereu s\u0103 comenteze: Da’ ce, Lorena, tu numai boi cuno\u015fti? Nu, nu cunosc numai boi, ca dovad\u0103 c\u0103 sunt mii de b\u0103rba\u0163i cu care convie\u0163uiesc pa\u015fnic, \u015fi \u00een via\u0163\u0103 \u015fi pe internet. Dac\u0103 tu nu faci pe prostul, eu nu te tratez ca pe unul.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

Pe scurt, dac\u0103 tu nu te recuno\u015fti \u00een simptomele descrise de mine aici \u015fi nu te intereseaz\u0103 tema, nu citi. Unii \u00eens\u0103 au \u00een mod evident nevoie s\u0103-i \u00eendrume cineva cum s\u0103 se poarte, \u015fi textele astea sunt pentru ei.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

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Zilele trecute, mi-am schimbat poza de profil. Nu \u00een vodc\u0103, cum zice un vechi banc cu ru\u015fi.<\/p>\n

Am pus un desen f\u0103cut de un cititor al meu care mi-a m\u0103rturisit c\u0103 are o pasiune, la nivel de hobby, fa\u0163\u0103 de artele vizuale.<\/p>\n

Toat\u0103 lumea a b\u0103gat complimente, polite\u0163uri – na, ca \u00een societate. Apoi a venit un tip care absolvise chiar Artele Plastice, s\u0103 \u00eencordeze musculatur\u0103, s\u0103-l insulte interminabil pe tipul care f\u0103cuse desenul \u015fi s\u0103 o ard\u0103 expert.<\/p>\n

Iar asta, v\u0103 spun eu, e o ipostaz\u0103 \u00een care nu ve\u0163i impresiona pozitiv pe absolut nimeni.<\/p>\n

Nimeni n-o s\u0103 zic\u0103: “Mam\u0103, specialistule, pi\u015f\u0103-te pe pieptul nostru”. Nimeni n-o s\u0103 fie dat pe spate cu cracii larg desf\u0103cu\u0163i de c\u00e2t de special \u015fi de bengos e\u015fti. Cel mult, o s\u0103 zic\u0103 c\u0103 ai o ratare care se r\u0103zbun\u0103, cum fac \u00eendeob\u015fte rat\u0103rile, pe ter\u0163i inocen\u0163i \u015fi pe victime colaterale.<\/p>\n

Eu sunt actri\u0163\u0103 profesionist\u0103. S\u0103 zicem c\u0103, m\u00e2ine a\u015f nimeri pe peretele unui grup de amatori. S\u0103 zicem, C\u0103minul Cultural Spermezeu. \u015ei s\u0103 zicem c\u0103 C\u0103minul Cultural Spermezeu, care nu s-a dat niciodat\u0103 trup\u0103 de actori profesioni\u015fti \u015fi nu s-a marketat ca atare, ar face o produc\u0163ie cu “O noapte furtunoas\u0103” de I. L. Caragiale.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 eu m\u0103 \u00eenfig sub pozele lor de spectacol \u015fi-i acop\u0103r de spermezeu, c\u0103-s amatori de doi lei, \u015fi c\u0103 nu \u015ftiu ce fac \u015fi c\u0103 uite ce penibil, care sunt \u015fansele s\u0103 zic\u0103 cineva: “Uite, m\u0103, Lorena, mare om, mare caracter?”<\/p>\n

V\u0103 zic eu.<\/p>\n

Nici unele sub soare.<\/p>\n

Lumea ar zice: “Uite, b\u0103, \u015fi pe distrusa asta cum se d\u0103 rotund\u0103 c\u00e2nd n-a \u00eentrebat-o nimeni nimic, ce penibil\u0103 e!”<\/p>\n

Valabil pentru oricare dintre voi care face pe de\u015fteptul la modul acesta.<\/p>\n

Deci, l\u0103tratul meschin, ofuscat, r\u0103uvoitor \u015fi veninos nu te face s\u0103 pari b\u0103rbat. Te face s\u0103 pari un ins de 40 de ani care st\u0103 cu m\u0103-sa, nu a realizat nimic \u00een via\u0163\u0103 \u015fi \u00eenjur\u0103 pe unde nimere\u015fte, s\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi mai descarce din frustr\u0103ri.<\/p>\n

Cum ar ac\u0163iona un b\u0103rbat adev\u0103rat, fa\u0163\u0103 \u00een fa\u0163\u0103 cu pozele de spectacol ale C\u0103minului Cultural Spermezeu?<\/p>\n

“Bravo, m\u0103i, copii, ave\u0163i mult curaj, \u0163ine\u0163i-v\u0103 de treab\u0103 \u015fi bucura\u0163i-v\u0103 de experien\u0163\u0103”.<\/p>\n

Nu doar c\u0103 bucuri ni\u015fte suflete f\u0103r\u0103 mare efort, dar mai e\u015fti \u015fi onest fa\u0163\u0103 de tine \u00eensu\u0163i. Pentru c\u0103, s\u0103 nu uit\u0103m, toat\u0103 lumea a fost penibil\u0103 \u015fi jenant\u0103 \u00een primele stadii ale unei meserii. E meritul profesorilor c\u0103 au avut r\u0103bdare cu tine \u015fi te-au ajutat s\u0103-\u0163i dezvol\u0163i poten\u0163ialul.<\/p>\n

\u015ei mai departe, dac\u0103 C\u0103minul Cultural Spermezeu nici nu pretinde c\u0103 ar fi profesionist, de ce rahat i-ai umili tu c\u0103-s vai de mama lor? Ei se bucur\u0103 de ceea ce fac, se bucur\u0103 \u015fi familiile, c\u0103 uite-l pe Gheorghi\u0163\u0103 ce m\u00e2ndru e, \u0163uc\u0103 mama pe el, \u015fi m\u0103car au o preocupare frumoas\u0103 \u015fi educativ\u0103.<\/p>\n

Iar dac\u0103 nu \u00eencapi \u015fi nu \u00eencapi de C\u0103minul Cultural Spermezeu, d\u0103 x din col\u0163 \u015fi mergi undeva unde-\u0163i place. De exemplu, la profesioni\u015fti, unde apar\u0163ii.<\/p>\n

B\u0103rbatul adev\u0103rat e generos. Nu neap\u0103rat cu bani, dac\u0103 n-are; dar \u00een primul r\u00e2nd cu bun\u0103voin\u0163\u0103, care nu cost\u0103 nimic. \u015etie c\u0103 muismele meschine sunt pentru gigei insignifian\u0163i cu pu\u0163a mic\u0103, care o s\u0103 moar\u0103 virgini \u015fi url\u0103 a disperare de cauz\u0103.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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