Am \u00een list\u0103 nenum\u0103rate fete \u015fi femei. \u015ei asist frecvent la urm\u0103toarea argumenta\u0163ie: <\/p>\n
Sigur m\u0103 place.
\nM\u0103 place, dar \u00eei este fric\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 plac\u0103.
\nM\u0103 place, dar \u00eei este fric\u0103 s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103.
\nM\u0103 place, dar \u00eei este fric\u0103 de dragostea adev\u0103rat\u0103.
\nM\u0103 place, dar simte c\u0103 nu merit\u0103 o femeie special\u0103 ca mine.
\nM\u0103 place, dar \u00eei este ru\u015fine de emo\u0163iile lui.
\nM\u0103 place, dar e prins \u00eentr-o capcan\u0103 existen\u0163ial\u0103 \u00een care sentimentele sunt pe planul al doilea.
\nM\u0103 place, dar nu e obi\u015fnuit s\u0103 simt\u0103 acest gen de sentimente. <\/p>\n
Nu intervin niciodat\u0103, c\u0103 nu \u00eemi place s\u0103 m\u0103 bag ca musca-n lapte. Dar remarc un numitor comun. <\/p>\n
Toate pretextele astea sun\u0103 a genul de bullshit pe care-l serveam la 20 de ani persoanelor care nu m\u0103 interesau \u00een mod deosebit. Acum, la maturitate, mi-au crescut suficiente coi\u0163e s\u0103 spun direct, sec \u015fi la obiect: “Iart\u0103-m\u0103, nu m\u0103 simt atras\u0103 de tine”.
\nFetelor, dac\u0103 unul e mereu ocupat, \u00eentr-o capcan\u0103 existen\u0163ial\u0103 \u015fi \u00eei e ru\u015fine c\u0103 are emo\u0163ii, exist\u0103 o singur\u0103 explica\u0163ie. Nepl\u0103cut\u0103 \u015fi lipsit\u0103 de romantism. \u015ei anume:
\nNu e interesat. Plain and simple. Asuma\u0163i-v\u0103 cu luciditate e\u015fecul \u015fi move on. Nu e sf\u00e2r\u015fitul lumii, \u015fi m\u0103car nu v\u0103 irosi\u0163i at\u00e2rn\u00e2nd degeaba dup\u0103 oameni care nu v\u0103 vor.
\nAh, \u015fi cru\u0163a\u0163i o ton\u0103 de abuz.
\nPentru c\u0103, dup\u0103 observa\u0163ii strict empirice, orice form\u0103 de abuz \u00eencepe cu un partener care nu e realmente interesat, \u015fi care simte c\u0103 poate s\u0103-\u0163i joace disperarea dup\u0103 pofta inimii. <\/p>\n
Tandre\u0163ea real\u0103 e evident\u0103, clar\u0103, \u015fi nu prezint\u0103 variabile de interpretare. E unul care e vizibil acolo, sare c\u00e2nd ai o problem\u0103 \u015fi nu \u00ee\u0163i vine cu rahat patetico-l\u0103cr\u0103mos? Ei, uite, \u0103la te place. Restul doar \u00ee\u015fi hr\u0103nesc egourile din adora\u0163ia ta. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Am \u00een list\u0103 nenum\u0103rate fete \u015fi femei. \u015ei asist frecvent la urm\u0103toarea argumenta\u0163ie: Sigur m\u0103 place. M\u0103 place, dar \u00eei este fric\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":11486,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13546","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/X0A5925.jpg?fit=2007%2C2075&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13546","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13546"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13546\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13550,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13546\/revisions\/13550"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/11486"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13546"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13546"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13546"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}