{"id":13812,"date":"2017-12-18T14:49:08","date_gmt":"2017-12-18T11:49:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=13812"},"modified":"2017-12-18T23:08:04","modified_gmt":"2017-12-18T20:08:04","slug":"femei-cu-pla-mare-otilia-tiganas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/femei-cu-pla-mare-otilia-tiganas\/","title":{"rendered":"Femei cu p*la mare: Otilia \u0162ig\u0103na\u015f"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Nu \u015ftiu al\u0163ii cum sunt, dar mie \u00eemi plac femeile de\u015ftepte \u015fi libere-n mentalit\u0103\u0163i. De aceea, lunea pe blogul meu e a lor. A femeilor care fac lucruri, inoveaz\u0103, rup bariere \u015fi joac\u0103 rolul principal \u00een propriile lor vie\u0163i. Pe scurt, femei cu pensula mare. Azi, Otilia \u0162ig\u0103na\u015f. <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Otilia \u0162ig\u0103na\u015f e medic. Din H\u0103\u015fma\u015ful Aradului, unde locuie\u015fte \u015fi profeseaz\u0103, Otilia \u015fi-a creat o comunitate at\u00e2t de ampl\u0103 de pacien\u0163i internautici printre rom\u00e2ni din \u0163ar\u0103 sau str\u0103in\u0103tate, tineri sau \u00een etate, simpli su sofistica\u0163i, \u00eenc\u00e2t zici c\u0103 asi\u015fti zi de zi la defilarea Madonnei pe covor ro\u015fu. \u015ei oamenii au dreptate: pe blogul ei, <a href=\"http:\/\/otiliatiganas.ro\">otiliatiganas.ro<\/a>, Otilia le ofer\u0103 glosar de termeni medicali, informa\u0163ii despre cele mai r\u0103sp\u00e2ndite, tips &amp; tricks \u015fi trage semnale de alarm\u0103 \u00een privin\u0163a celui mai oropsit element al sistemului medical: medicul de familie, pe un ton gra\u0163ios \u015fi accesibil.<\/p>\n<p><em>TROLLYWOOD: Otilia, ce te-a determinat s\u0103 devii medic?<\/em><br \/>\nOtilia \u0162ig\u0103na\u015f: Totul a pornit dintr-o ambi\u0163ie, atunci c\u00e2nd eram \u00een clasa a opta: am auzit la coad\u0103 la p\u00e2ine (pe atunci, \u00een comunism, erau cozi uria\u0219e la p\u00e2ine, iar ea, p\u00e2inea, se \u201cb\u0103ga\u201d periodic), am auzit deci c\u0103 p\u00e2in\u0103reasa \u00eei spunea unui client: &#8220;A\u021bi auzit c\u0103 fata lu&#8217; doctoru&#8217; Ravasz a intrat cu zece la medicin\u0103?&#8221; A\u0219a ceva, s\u0103 intri cu zece la medicin\u0103, echivala cu primul zece al Nadiei.<\/p>\n<p><em>Practic, \u0163i-ai dorit de mic copil s\u0103 excelezi, s\u0103 fii de zece?<\/em><br \/>\nDa. \u00cen clipa aceea, mi-a r\u0103s\u0103rit visul nebunesc s\u0103 repet performan\u021ba, s\u0103 vuiasc\u0103 S\u0103tmarul. Eram s\u0103tm\u0103reanc\u0103. Tata insista s\u0103 m\u0103 fac medic, c\u0103 \u201cs\u0103 \u0219tii de-o treab\u0103\u201d, \u201co vei duce bine\u201d, m\u0103 oprea, amenin\u021b\u0103tor aproape, de la actorie sau litere \u0219i, dac\u0103 tot ne axam &#8211; \u00een consens familial &#8211; pe medicin\u0103, atunci, m-am g\u00e2ndit eu, m\u0103car s\u0103-mi fac jocul cu zecele. Nu aveam habar ce-i aia medicina de fapt, a\u0219 min\u021bi s\u0103 spun c\u0103 mi se declan\u0219ase iubirea de semeni \u0219i nevoia s\u0103 fac bine omenirii \u0219i s\u0103 oblojesc copila\u0219i bolnavi. Nici m\u0103car de perspectiva \u2013 pe atunci evident\u0103! \u2013 c\u0103 o s\u0103 m\u0103 fac full de bani, Kenturi, cafele, parfumuri &amp; deodorante sau alte ciubucuri, pe pia\u021ba medical\u0103, nu \u00eemi p\u0103sa. Voiam doar s\u0103 fiu prima \u00een propriul meu joc. Fusesem \u0219i p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci, mereu prima. Cu rarisime \u0219i devastatoare excep\u021bii&#8230; Una dintre ele fiind chiar intrarea la facultate, unde am intrat abia pe locul al patrulea.<\/p>\n<p><em>Ai avut o rela\u0163ie complex\u0103 cu tat\u0103l t\u0103u, el \u00eensu\u015fi o personalitate puternic\u0103, un om cult, inteligent, sclipitor. Cum a evoluat \u00een timp?<\/em><br \/>\nS-a modificat odat\u0103 cu v\u00e2rsta ambilor protagoni\u0219ti. Tata a fost sever. Eu, oarecum \u021binut\u0103 din scurt \u0219i obi\u0219nuindu-mi p\u0103rin\u021bii cu performan\u0163a, \u00eei derutam de cum l\u0103sam garda jos.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u015ei cum reac\u0163ionau?<\/em><br \/>\n\u0218tii&#8230; nici nu-mi mai amintesc sau nu pot analiza corect, din urm\u0103, cum reac\u021bionau. \u00ce\u021bi spun de mine. Un episod fain. \u00cen primii 4 ani de \u0219coal\u0103 nu am avut nicio not\u0103 de 9. Not\u0103, nu medie. Cu o excep\u021bie. Printr-a treia, \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103toarea m-a scos la tabl\u0103, eu culcat\u0103 senin pe lauri ca o div\u0103, \u0219i m\u0103 prinde total nepreg\u0103tit\u0103. Geografie. \u0218i mi-a dat 9. Din clas\u0103 s-a auzit &#8220;Uaaaaaaaaaau!&#8221;. Echivala cu o c\u0103dere a Nadiei de pe b\u00e2rn\u0103, \u00een finala pe aparate. De la \u0219coal\u0103 m-am dus la bunicul. Pe drum mi se p\u0103rea c\u0103 visez. Voiam s\u0103 m\u0103 trezesc din co\u0219mar.\u00a0 Bunicul (\u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103tor) a venit cu mine acas\u0103 la p\u0103rin\u021bi \u0219i familia s-a \u00eentrunit \u00een \u0219edin\u021b\u0103 extraordinar\u0103 ca s\u0103 analizeze cauzele acestui insucces. Eu am f\u0103cut febr\u0103. \u0218i episodul a fost EXACT cum \u021bi-l spun, nu-i cosmetizat sau proz\u0103 SF.<br \/>\nCu voia ta, acum revin la tata, mai ales c\u0103 \u00eel cuno\u0219ti personal \u0219i v\u0103 iubi\u021bi!<br \/>\nTata e azi un uria\u015f prieten. \u00cel ador. Cel care, la 18 ani ai mei, p\u0103rea satrapul care-mi sugrum\u0103 libert\u0103\u021bile a devenit, peste decenii, omul care m-a modelat bine, dup\u0103 ce-mi va fi virat sectoare importante de ADN. Poleiala talentelor mele este de la tata. Dou\u0103 decizii uria\u0219e \u00een via\u021b\u0103, care ulterior s-au dovedit corecte, i s-au datorat.\u00a0Alte dou\u0103 decizii cretine, a\u0219ijderea&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><em>\u015ei anume?<\/em><br \/>\nCele bune: 1. revenirea \u00een medicin\u0103, dup\u0103 ce o \u00eentrerupsesem doi ani \u00een favoarea presei, \u00een Arad. Urlase la mine c\u0103-s medic \u0219i s\u0103-mi revin c\u0103 m\u0103 ucide, iar eu mi-am reluat postul ca s\u0103 nu-l mai v\u0103d.<br \/>\n2. transformarea medicinei practicate la \u021bar\u0103 din insucces \u00een succes \u0219i performan\u021b\u0103, \u015fi aici includ faptul c\u0103 m-a \u00eencurajat s\u0103 m\u0103 mut, s\u0103 nu fac naveta.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u015ei alea cretine?<\/em><br \/>\n\u0218i cele cretine sunt: 1.m\u0103riti\u0219ul \u00een anul 3 de facultate, plus exilul la Bucure\u0219ti, doar ca s\u0103 nu-i mai v\u0103d moaca \u015fi 2. tot ceva din registrul matrimonial, dar a\u0219 intra prea ad\u00e2nc \u00een confiden\u021be erotice, or nu \u0103sta-i scopul interviului nostru.<\/p>\n<p><em>Corect.\u00a0Curiozitatea mea e cum a\u0163i evoluat \u015fi prin ce etape a\u0163i trecut, s\u0103 ajunge\u0163i de acolo \u015fi p\u00e2n\u0103 aici.<\/em><br \/>\nUn moment minunat al meu cu tata,\u00a0 dovada c\u0103 AM interlocutor, c\u0103 nu-i inflexibil, este c\u0103 acum, la apus, eu fiind deja adult\u0103 sadea, mi-a spus, \u00eentr-o sear\u0103 stropit\u0103 de ambii din bel\u0219ug cu vin ro\u0219u de Reca\u0219 (sec!): &#8220;Te admir, te iubesc, sunt m\u00e2ndru, te cunosc at\u00e2t de bine acuma, de fapt e\u0219ti ca mine. \u015ei dac\u0103 a\u0219 vrea s\u0103 schimb ceva din trecutul meu, a\u0219 schimba UN singur lucru: meseria de tat\u0103 PENTRU TINE! Dar atunci n-am \u0219tiut.&#8221;<br \/>\n\u0218i exist\u0103 miliarde de p\u0103rin\u021bi, m\u0103 tem, de la care nici pe patul de moarte nu smulgi a\u0219a declara\u021bie&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-13820\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/1-1.jpg?resize=509%2C768\" alt=\"\" width=\"509\" height=\"768\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/1-1.jpg?w=509&amp;ssl=1 509w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/1-1.jpg?resize=99%2C150&amp;ssl=1 99w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/1-1.jpg?resize=199%2C300&amp;ssl=1 199w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 509px) 100vw, 509px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Dar de ce ai \u00eentrerupt atunci medicina pentru pres\u0103?<\/em><br \/>\nSimplu. Aveam prin reparti\u0163ie post \u00een S\u0103laj: noroaie, exil, bani de rahat. Un ziar local ar\u0103dean nou \u00eenfiin\u0163at m-a adoptat instantaneu, dup\u0103 o prob\u0103 de scris la foc automat pe genunchi. Arad, buricul t\u00e2rgului, salariu c\u00e2t dou\u0103 de medic.<br \/>\nVenisem din S\u0103laj pentru dou\u0103-trei zile la Arad, la ai mei, care plecaser\u0103 deja din Satu Mare \u015fi erau deja ar\u0103deni la data pove\u015ftii. V\u0103d ceva gen &#8220;angaj\u0103m bla bla&#8221;, \u00eemi trec m\u00e2na prin p\u0103r, m\u0103 rujez, intru. &#8220;A\u0219 dori sa candidez&#8221;. Mi se d\u0103 o tem\u0103 gen reportaj despre care nu \u00eenv\u0103\u0163asem nimic nic\u0103ieri. \u00cel fac. M\u0103 cheam\u0103 \u015feful:<br \/>\n-Domni\u015foar\u0103, doamn\u0103&#8230; ce \u015fcoli ave\u0163i?<br \/>\n-Medic.<br \/>\n-V\u0103 iau f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ezit, te pot tutui, da?<br \/>\n-Da<br \/>\n-Te iau, dar \u015ftiu c\u0103 nu vei r\u0103m\u00e2ne!<br \/>\nM-a luat. Ziarul a falimentat dup\u0103 1,5 &#8211; 2 ani.<\/p>\n<p><em>De ce zicea c\u0103 n-o s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i?<\/em><br \/>\nProbabil credea c\u0103 am s\u0103 revin la medicin\u0103. \u015ei dac\u0103 tata nu m\u0103 for\u0163a, nu reveneam. Nu atunci.<br \/>\nC\u00e2nd s-a anun\u0163at, seara la 18, \u00een \u015fedin\u0163a de redac\u0163ie, c\u0103 ziarul cade, a doua zi deja aveam trei alte oferte \u00een pres\u0103.<br \/>\nA treia zi aud soneria la u\u015f\u0103. Era tata. Tata nu m\u0103 vizita neanun\u0163at dec\u00e2t la catastrofe.<\/p>\n<p>Intr\u0103.\u00a0Zice: &#8220;Stai jos&#8221;. M\u0103 a\u015fez. &#8220;Ascult\u0103. Cu m\u00e2na mea te-am f\u0103cut, cu m\u00e2na mea te omor. \u015etii ce e\u015fti tu? Medic. ME-DIC! Repet\u0103m \u00eempreun\u0103. Ce e\u015fti? ME &#8211; DIC! Du-te \u015fi f\u0103-\u0163i treaba. Te omor. Sau, ce ai de g\u00e2nd de acum \u00eencolo, s\u0103 zbori din fi\u0163uic\u0103 \u00een fi\u0163uic\u0103 \u00een ritmul \u00een care ele vor falimenta? Din pozi\u0163ia de medic vei putea scrie c\u00e2t dore\u015fti, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 mori de foame, dar din jurnalist, medic nu te faci, incon\u015ftiento!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><em>Greu de comb\u0103tut aici.<\/em><br \/>\nEu m\u0103 tot rugam \u00een g\u00e2nd s\u0103 plece odat\u0103 satrapul, c\u0103 urla de-a binelea, i se umflaser\u0103 venele la t\u00e2mpl\u0103 de urlete.\u00a0Iese tr\u00e2ntind u\u015fa.\u00a0 Trag o \u0163igar\u0103, probabil \u015fi o vodc\u0103 de\u015fi era 10 diminea\u0163a. \u015ei brusc, am o revela\u0163ie. P\u0103i, eu pot s\u0103 scap urgent de nebun!<br \/>\nA\u015fa c\u0103 pun mana pe telefon \u015fi sun \u00een S\u0103laj, Zal\u0103u, la biroul personal.<\/p>\n<p><em>De unde ai plecat, practic.<\/em><br \/>\n-Bun\u0103 ziua, sunt doctori\u0163a blabla. Mai ave\u0163i liber postul meu din S\u0103rm\u0103\u015fag?<br \/>\n-Vaai, nu numai pe \u0103la, \u00eenc\u0103 zece bune! V\u0103 a\u015ftept\u0103m cu drag!<br \/>\n\u015ei, ca la performan\u0163a cu zece, am plecat la S\u0103laj nu ca decizie profesionalo-socialo-carieristic\u0103, ci ca s\u0103 nu m\u0103 mai viziteze tata a\u015fa de u\u015for neanun\u0163at!<br \/>\nAm \u00eempachetat c\u0103\u0163el-purcel (prin asta m\u0103 refer \u015fi la bietul fiu-meu de clasa a patra) \u015fi roiu&#8217;!<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00cen\u0163eleg c\u0103 prima oar\u0103 c\u00e2nd te-ai dus la S\u0103rm\u0103\u015fag, a fost nasol, cu reparti\u0163ie. Explic\u0103 un pic sistemul reparti\u0163iilor, pentru cititorii mei tineri.<\/em><br \/>\nEram absolven\u0163i de medicin\u0103, f\u0103cuser\u0103m stagiatura de trei ani la ora\u015f, eu la Arad &#8211; lucru DELOC u\u015for de ob\u0163inut &#8211; iar apoi ne trimiteau la \u0163ar\u0103. Nu se d\u0103deau examene de specialitate, era totul blocat. F\u0103ceai saco\u015fica \u015fi plecai pe coclauri. \u00cen gazd\u0103, camere de oaspe\u0163i.\u00a0 Care cum. Nu exista net, mobil, ma\u015fini.<\/p>\n<p><em>Tu cum ai nimerit?<\/em><br \/>\nOrice &#8220;nimerit&#8221; a fost, este \u015fi va fi exact cum \u0163i-l faci! Putea fi co\u0219mar, dar a fost o alt\u0103 perioad\u0103 plin\u0103\/vie\/fascinant\u0103 a vie\u021bii mele. Bazat pe &#8220;nimereal\u0103&#8221;, pe ACELE date ale problemei, am f\u0103cut tot ce am putut ca s\u0103 o colorez. Prieteni pe care \u00eei am \u0219i azi, \u0219i c\u00e2nd zic prieteni, sunt PRIETENI! Dispersa\u021bi \u0219i ei \u00een Anglia, la Zal\u0103u,la Cluj, dar p\u0103str\u0103m leg\u0103tura. Acolo, atunci, fuseser\u0103m ca fra\u021bii, a\u0219a era vremea, nu aveai alternative.<br \/>\nAzi a\u0219 putea intra pe FB, atunci m\u0103 duceam la ei, r\u00e2deam \u0219i b\u00e2rfeam. Azi a\u0219 scrie pe blog tast\u00e2nd, atunci scriam cu pixul \u00een caiet cu p\u0103tr\u0103\u021bele.\u00a0 Azi pun m\u00e2na pe mobil, atunci ie\u0219eam la cr\u00e2\u0219ma satului.\u00a0 Azi un poten\u021bial iubit mai avut mi-ar cump\u0103ra po\u0219et\u0103 de firm\u0103, atunci mi-a trimis din Arad un taxi, vineri, s\u0103 m\u0103 aduc\u0103 acas\u0103 pe weekend.\u00a0 Era imediat dup\u0103 revolu\u021bie. Deja taxiurile circulau. Eu examinam pacien\u021bi. Asistenta \u00eemi zice, privind pe geam, c\u0103 \u00een poarta minei a parcat un taxi cu num\u0103r de Arad.<br \/>\nM\u0103 traverseaz\u0103 fiorul supozi\u021biei. Da. Chiar era un taxi de Arad, trimis de un iubit, s\u0103 m\u0103 invite la ora\u0219 \u0219i s\u0103-mi cumpere m\u00e2ncare, \u021big\u0103ri, suc orice mi-a\u0219 dori eu pe drum.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-13821\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/2-1-1024x768.jpg?resize=700%2C525\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"525\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/2-1.jpg?resize=1024%2C768&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/2-1.jpg?resize=150%2C113&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/2-1.jpg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/2-1.jpg?resize=768%2C576&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/2-1.jpg?w=2048&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/2-1.jpg?w=1400&amp;ssl=1 1400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Poarta minei?<\/em><br \/>\nEra mina S\u0103rm\u0103\u0219ag. Eu eram medicul minei. Da, min\u0103. Aveam 27 de ani<\/p>\n<p><em>Ce boli specifice aveau minerii t\u0103i?<\/em><br \/>\nConcedii pe bani. \ud83d\ude00<\/p>\n<p><em>:))) At\u00e2t?<\/em><br \/>\nSigur. Erau s\u0103n\u0103to\u015fi.<br \/>\nAm avut \u00eens\u0103 un accident de min\u0103. Gestionat impecabil. Am fost apoi felicitat\u0103,\u00a0cred ca am \u015fi diplom\u0103.<br \/>\nDeci, accident de min\u0103. Brusc, apar sus la mine oameni r\u0103ni\u0163i, apar\u0163in\u0103tori pl\u00e2ng\u00e2nd, copii url\u00e2nd, conducerea minei d\u00e2nd indica\u0163ii. \u00cen c\u00e2teva, minute am \u00een\u0163eles c\u0103-s dep\u0103\u015fit\u0103 de evenimente \u015fi c\u0103 trebuie ordine. Aveam 48 de kile, moac\u0103 de copil \u015fi o codi\u0163\u0103 \u00een v\u00e2rful capului, nimeni nu m\u0103 b\u0103ga \u00een seam\u0103, fiecare f\u0103cea ce voia, pe jos t\u0103rgi cu oameni,\u00a0vuiau sirenele.\u00a0 Am adunat \u00een mine toat\u0103, TOAT\u0102 for\u0163a uman\u0103 \u015fi am r\u0103cnit &#8211; AFAR\u0102 TO\u0162I! TO\u0162I! ACUMA! AFAR\u0102! Derut\u0103. Lini\u015fte.\u00a0 S\u0103\u00a0ias\u0103 to\u0163i care nu sunt mineri, ACUM! M\u0103\u00a0\u00eentorc spre ceva \u015fef. \u00cel privesc crunt: Dac\u0103 nu scoate\u0163i imediat oamenii \u00een plus, r\u0103spunde\u0163i de urm\u0103ri! Nu pot lucra a\u015fa.<br \/>\nApoi am dat sarcini precise, scurte, seci. A fost bine.\u00a0 La faza aia, mi-a crescut de fapt cota local\u0103! Fusese ca o vraj\u0103, to\u0163i au \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 asculte supu\u015fi.\u00a0 Probabil a\u015fa schimbi, militar, un guvern!<\/p>\n<p><em>Cum, mai exact? Ard s\u0103 aflu.\u00a0<\/em><br \/>\nTe declari noul premier.<\/p>\n<p><em>Tu ai avut mult de tras \u00een via\u0163\u0103 din cauza staturii tale minione \u015fi fragile, nu?<\/em><br \/>\nNu. Mai degrab\u0103 m-a ajutat. Fiindc\u0103, dup\u0103 prima impresie \u00een care m\u0103 subestimai, te surprindeam ireversibil cu for\u021ba cuv\u00e2ntului \u0219i a atitudinii. A\u0219a se explic\u0103 c\u0103 interlocutori de 2\/2 care m-au agasat d\u0103deau trei pa\u0219i \u00een spate c\u00e2nd, brusc, \u00eencepeam s\u0103 zbier: B\u0103\u0103\u0103\u0103\u0103, te joc \u00eentre picioare, te bat de te usuc! \u0102la chiar credea&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00cen picioare, c\u0103 \u00eentre picioare ai p\u0103s\u0103rica. :)))<\/em><br \/>\n\u00ceNTRE! e formularea corect\u0103 preluat\u0103 de la colegii maneli\u0219ti! Sugereaz\u0103 jocul de picioare din box.<\/p>\n<p><em>Eu, s\u0103 fiu b\u0103rbat, dac\u0103 mi-ar zice una c\u0103 m\u0103 joac\u0103 \u00eentre picioare, a\u015f zice ok, dezbrac\u0103-te. :))<\/em><br \/>\nBag\u0103 \u0219i partea asta-n pagin\u0103! E bestial\u0103!<\/p>\n<p><em>Ceva peripe\u0163ii cu mineri ai?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ajung la mina S\u0103rm\u0103\u0219ag, ca o boare, m\u0103 cazez, trec 2-3 zile, \u0219i decid seara s\u0103 socializez. Ies la unul dintre birturile locale. Ce altceva s\u0103 fac? Intru. Moac\u0103 de copil nevinovat. Fum s\u0103-l tai cu cu\u021bitul, numai b\u0103rba\u021bi. Dup\u0103 o scurt\u0103 analiz\u0103 a situa\u021biei, \u00eemi zic c\u0103 \u0219i meseria mea e ca de b\u0103rbat ACOLO, deci locul e pentru mine.<br \/>\nPrivirile toate se \u00eentorc spre u\u0219\u0103, a intrat doamna doctor. Eu, senin, m\u0103 \u00eendrept spre barman \u0219i cer un whisky mic cu ghea\u021b\u0103 &#8211; Nu aveau ghea\u021b\u0103! &#8211; \u0219i un pahar cu ap\u0103 mineral\u0103. SINGURIC\u0102, m\u0103 a\u0219ez la o mas\u0103 \u0219i-mi sug whisky-ul, trag un Kent, z\u00e2mbind amabil \u00een jur. Mie totul mi se p\u0103rea perfect normal! Aveam s\u0103 aflu c\u0103 eram singura c\u0103reia i se p\u0103rea perfect normal. B\u00e2rfa a durat \u015fapte, maximum zece zile, c\u00e2nd mina a vuit. Apoi s-au \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat cu mine, \u0219i nu oricum&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><em>Ci?<\/em><br \/>\nMai exact, eu jucam poker cu c\u0103r\u021bi din facultate, la noi \u00een familie se juca, jucau tata, mama, m\u0103tu\u0219ile din Cluj. La una dintre ie\u0219irile deja acceptate (nimeni nu mai b\u00e2rfea c\u0103 ies \u00een sat s\u0103 beau o gur\u0103), la o mas\u0103, patru mineri jucau poker pe sume pe care nici un neurochirurg nu le-ar visa. Nu o t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103 doctori\u021b\u0103 de intreprindere. M\u0103 mai \u00eenv\u00e2rt ni\u021bel, cert e c\u0103-i determin s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eenve\u021be s\u0103 joc, m\u0103 las \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat\u0103, m\u0103 fac c\u0103 gre\u0219esc copil\u0103re\u0219te, \u00eei las s\u0103 se pileasc\u0103 \u0219i le iau pe la doi noaptea cam to\u021bi banii. At\u00e2t de mul\u021bi, \u00eenc\u00e2t m\u0103 temeam s\u0103 merg cu ei acas\u0103. A r\u0103mas c\u0103-i norocul \u00eencep\u0103torului, a fost prima \u0219i ultima dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd am jucat \u00een sat, n-am mai acceptat nicio revan\u0219\u0103 EVER, \u00een ciuda rug\u0103min\u021bilor, \u0219tiind c\u0103 se vor organiza \u00een hait\u0103 \u00eempotriva mea&#8230; \u0219i am r\u0103mas cu banii!<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-13822\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/3-1.jpg?resize=700%2C933\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"933\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/3-1.jpg?w=720&amp;ssl=1 720w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/3-1.jpg?resize=113%2C150&amp;ssl=1 113w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/3-1.jpg?resize=225%2C300&amp;ssl=1 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>AHAHAHAHHAHHAHHAHHA\u00a0 Ce \u0163i-ai luat din ei?<\/em><br \/>\nMi-am cump\u0103rat pentru apartamentul din Arad mobil\u0103 de buc\u0103t\u0103rie, covor \u00een sufragerie, combin\u0103 audio pentru S\u0103rm\u0103\u0219ag \u0219i haine:\u00a0o geac\u0103 de iarn\u0103 albastr\u0103, cizme \u00eembl\u0103nite de piele, \u00eemi amintesc exact. Prima condi\u021bie de c\u00e2\u0219tig a fost c\u0103 eu nu am b\u0103ut, minerii da. \u015ei atunci cum s\u0103 m\u0103 lamentez azi c\u0103 acolo a fost ur\u00e2t \u0219i r\u0103u \u0219i ce nefericit\u0103 am fost eu?<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00cen via\u0163\u0103 e\u015fti nefericit dac\u0103 \u0163ii neap\u0103rat s\u0103 fii nefericit &#8211; axioma Lupu.<\/em><br \/>\nA mea este a\u015fa: locul \u00een care ajungi for\u021bat de \u00eemprejur\u0103ri nu-i nici r\u0103u, nici bun, e cum \u021bi-l faci. \u015ei ca s\u0103 revin la tema interviurilor tale, Femei cu pula mare. Pula mare a femeii nu-i ca la b\u0103ie\u021bi. Din ADN. O cre\u0219ti tu.<\/p>\n<p><em>E din dotare \u015fi la noi. \u00cen func\u0163ie de curaj \u015fi de asertivitate.<\/em><br \/>\nVarianta mea e mai prietenoas\u0103 \u0219i mai \u00eencurajatoare. Faptul c\u0103 po\u021bi \u00eenvinge cu creierul dotarea anatomic\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00cemi place aceast\u0103 perspectiv\u0103. S\u0103 revenim \u00eens\u0103 la poveste. Prima oar\u0103 ai plecat la S\u0103rm\u0103\u015fag cu reparti\u0163ie. A doua oar\u0103?<\/em><br \/>\nA doua oar\u0103 m-am dus la Chie\u0219d &#8211; alt\u0103 localitate s\u0103l\u0103jean\u0103 &#8211; ca s\u0103 nu-l mai v\u0103z pe tata cu terorile lui. Episodul cu Chie\u0219d \u0219i cu tata l-a avut protagonist \u0219i pe Jenucu, adic\u0103 Eugen, b\u0103rbatul cu care \u00eemi \u00eempart nespus de fumos via\u021ba cam de pe atunci. Mai exact, \u00een epoca ar\u0103dean\u0103, c\u00e2nd lucram \u00een pres\u0103, el deja \u00eemi f\u0103cea curte, dar f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-mi fi pus inelu\u0219 pe inelar, cum vor fetele. \u015ei m\u0103 tot plimba de colo-colo de gagic\u0103, dar de c\u0103snicie, nici vorb\u0103.<br \/>\n\u015ei, a\u0219a, am profitat de solu\u021bia sc\u0103p\u0103rii de tata ca s\u0103-i ar\u0103t \u0219i lui Jenucu c\u0103 pot s\u0103 m\u0103 car dac\u0103 m\u0103 sup\u0103r! Nu i-am zis c\u0103 plec, am plecat \u00een 48 de ore dup\u0103 telefonul din diminea\u021ba cu circul cu tata. Nu existau mobile. Mizam c\u0103 va suna la u\u0219\u0103, pauz\u0103, c\u0103 va fi derutat \u0219i a\u0219a a fost! I-a zis vecina s\u0103 am plecat \u00een S\u0103laj.\u00a0Acolo-n S\u0103laj, la Chie\u0219d, eu st\u0103team cu ochii priponi\u021bi la geam \u0219i-mi ziceam: Dac\u0103-l v\u0103d pe Jenucu urc\u00e2nd dealul Chie\u0219dului pe jos, g\u00e2f\u00e2ind, am \u00eenvins!<\/p>\n<p><em>\u015ei l-a urcat?\u00a0<\/em><br \/>\nNu l-a urcat g\u00e2f\u00e2ind pe jos, ci f\u0103c\u00e2nd stopul cu o rab\u0103!<\/p>\n<p><em>Ce e aceea rab\u0103?<\/em><br \/>\nMa\u0219in\u0103 din aia uria\u0219\u0103 care duce balast sau lignit.\u00a0Bun. Deci a venit cu raba. St\u0103tea z\u00e2mbind \u00een pragul u\u0219ii, iar eu \u0219tiam c\u0103-i pierdut.<\/p>\n<p><em>L-ai ajutat s\u0103 se g\u0103seasc\u0103?<\/em><br \/>\nOarecum. Nu din prima. Fiindc\u0103 \u0219i atunci a mai atentat o navet\u0103 Arad &#8211; Chie\u0219d f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 pun\u0103 punctul pe i, ziceai c\u0103-s escort\u0103&#8230; Un gest promi\u021b\u0103tor fusese totu\u0219i c\u0103 mi-a dat h\u00e2rbul lui de Fiat Mirafiori albastru Ar 01 SBF, second-hand, la Chie\u0219d ca s\u0103 pot face terenul. Eu nu aveam ma\u0219in\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u015ei cum l-ai f\u0103cut s\u0103 se hot\u0103rasc\u0103?<\/em><br \/>\nM-am mutat la Arad. Baft\u0103 divin\u0103. Aradul era practic \u00eenchis. \u0218i fac un drum, m\u0103 duc la spital f\u0103r\u0103 pile, f\u0103r\u0103 amant local, f\u0103r\u0103 nimic, \u00eentr-o dimnea\u021b\u0103 la ora opt. Sunt primit\u0103. Zic: CHIAR nu exist\u0103 un post \u00een jude\u021b, orice, pentru mine? P\u0103\u0103i, ar mai fi ceva&#8230; eventual&#8230; ezitant&#8230; H\u0103\u0219ma\u0219 sau Archi\u0219.\u00a0 Nu-mi venea s\u0103 cred c\u0103 nu spune NU, iar vizita mea era ca \u0219i cum ai c\u0103uta tu acuma un post de actri\u021b\u0103 \u00een guvern! \u015eansa p\u0103rea NUL\u0102.<\/p>\n<p><em>Ai \u00eencasat \u00eenforma\u0163ia complet relaxat\u0103, ca \u015fi cum aveai minimum 60 de alte op\u0163iuni, nu? M\u0103 refer la spital.<\/em><br \/>\nDA! culmea.\u00a0Zic: OK, m\u0103 duc s\u0103 v\u0103d posturile.\u00a0 Debarc la H\u0103\u0219ma\u0219. privesc \u00een jur. Dragoste la prima vedere. Decid: asta-i!\u00a0La Arad, aveam \u0219i eu \u0219i Eugen apartamente, ie\u0219im la pia\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 cump\u0103r\u0103m ceva ro\u0219ii de o salat\u0103. \u00centre dou\u0103 c\u00e2nt\u0103riri, u\u0219or \u00eencurcat, zice: Vrei s\u0103 ne c\u0103s\u0103torim R\u0103spuns: Normal!<\/p>\n<p><em>Ce te-a cucerit la H\u0103\u015fma\u015f?<\/em><br \/>\nSatul era frumos. Dar de ani mul\u021bi-mul\u021bi f\u0103r\u0103 medic. G\u0103sesc acolo dou\u0103 asistente, una urma s\u0103-mi devin\u0103 colaborator, prieten drag pe via\u021b\u0103. Ambele munciser\u0103 mult singure, clar nu aveau nevoie s\u0103 le \u00eencurce una ca mine via\u021ba.<br \/>\nVizitez dispensarul \u0219i \u00eencep s\u0103 pun \u00eentreb\u0103ri. &#8220;Cum sunt oamenii aici?&#8221; &#8220;R\u0103\u0103\u0103\u0103\u0103\u0103\u0103i!&#8221; &#8220;Dar cei din Archi\u0219? (sat vecin)&#8221; &#8220;\u0102ia-s MINUNA\u021aI!&#8221; &#8220;Dar \u0219oareci \u00een dispensar sunt?&#8221; -eu av\u00e2nd fobie de \u0219oareci diagnosticat\u0103 psihiatric.- &#8220;Oioi, plin!&#8221;\u00a0Brusc decid: atunci R\u0102M\u00c2N!<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen mintea mea era a\u0219a. Dac\u0103 astea dou\u0103 vor s\u0103 m\u0103 alunge, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103-i mi\u0219to! Dup\u0103 ce am zis c\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n, au mai \u00eencercat: De ce nu merge\u021bi s\u0103 vede\u021bi \u0219i Archi\u0219ul? e MINUNAT! Nu-i cazul. \u00eemi place aici.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-13823\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/4-1.jpg?resize=640%2C960\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"960\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/4-1.jpg?w=640&amp;ssl=1 640w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/4-1.jpg?resize=100%2C150&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/4-1.jpg?resize=200%2C300&amp;ssl=1 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>Aveai cabinet? Ce dot\u0103ri avea \u015fi cum ar\u0103ta?<\/em><br \/>\nExista cl\u0103direa BUN\u0102!! s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103 a dispensarului. Urma s\u0103 fie cabinet \u015fi locuin\u021b\u0103 de serviciu. Dar \u00een care urma s\u0103 investim enorm, eu \u015fi Jenucu. Bani, munc\u0103, timp, suflet, energie, via\u021b\u0103,<\/p>\n<p><em>Care era statutul medicului de familie pe atunci?<\/em><br \/>\n\u00cenainte de reform\u0103, eram \u00eenc\u0103 salariatul spitalului din Arad. C\u00e2nd nici n-am investit nimic. Dup\u0103 conturarea reformei, am \u00eencercat s\u0103-i \u021binem pasul.<\/p>\n<p><em>D\u0103-mi detalii din cum era sistemul atunci \u015fi cum l-a modificat reforma, pas cu pas, s\u0103 priceap\u0103 lumea \u00een ce moduri a\u0163i fost futu\u0163i.<\/em><br \/>\nNoi nu am fost futu\u0163i cu reforma, ci cu abera\u0163iile care au blocat aplicarea ei! Ca s\u0103 m\u0103 fac \u00een\u0163eleas\u0103. Nici Doamna Florica, fost\u0103 salariat\u0103 la aprozarul comunist, nu a fost futut\u0103 c\u00e2nd i s-a permis privatizarea aprozarului. Pentru asta au murit tineri la revolu\u021bie! Ci atunci c\u00e2nd, o dat\u0103 privatizat\u0103, s-a reintervenit &#8220;comunist&#8221; \u00een blocarea independen\u0163ei ei antreprenoriale, plus cople\u015firea cu institu\u0163ii de control care s-o poat\u0103 amenda periodic, \u00een voie. Ca s\u0103 smulg\u0103 bani politici.<br \/>\nDin salaria\u0163i, am devenit manageri. Mai exact, \u00een contul meu au \u00eenceput s\u0103 intre bani cu care s\u0103 pl\u0103tesc tot ce \u0163ine de activitatea dispensarului, inclusiv salaria\u0163ii.\u00a0 DAR acei bani erau oarecum fic\u015fi, nu-i puteai cre\u015fte, veneau din contractul cu Casa de Asigur\u0103ri. \u00cencepea o stru\u0163oc\u0103mil\u0103 comunist-capitalist\u0103.\u00a0 Banii \u00ees \u0103\u015ftia. ziceau ei. Din care tu ai obliga\u0163ia s\u0103&#8230; Urmau obliga\u0163ii comuniste, ca \u015fi cum ai avea un \u015fef.\u00a0 Cele mai elementare decizii liberale ale unui patron: s\u0103 decid\u0103 pe cine angajeaz\u0103, ce orar \u00eei este benefic, s\u0103 investeasc\u0103 \u0163intit, ca s\u0103 creasc\u0103 corect, erau anulate.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u015ei, probabil, obliga\u0163ii mult peste bugetul prev\u0103zut realist pentru ele, nu?<\/em><br \/>\nDA. Un exemplu simplu: OBLIGA\u0162IA de a avea un asistent angajat. Dac\u0103 eu sunt sarac, sunt la \u00eenceput, nu-mi permit financiar, atunci stau eu \u015fi fac munca de femeie de serviciu, cazangiu, asistent, p\u00e2n\u0103 ce produc \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103-mi PERMIT s\u0103 angajez asistent. Nu invers. Alta:\u00a0orar obligatoriu! Impus. Ar trebui s\u0103 fie decizia mea, s\u0103 analizez financiar orarul, c\u00e2nd m\u0103 coafeaz\u0103, c\u00e2nd m\u0103 ajut\u0103 s\u0103 produc.\u00a0 Nicio cr\u00e2\u015fm\u0103 privat\u0103 nu-i controlat\u0103 dac\u0103 st\u0103 deschis\u0103. Dimpotriv\u0103. S\u0103 nu stea peste orar! Cr\u00e2\u015fma st\u0103 deschis\u0103, fiindc\u0103 doar a\u015fa produce. Eu poate a\u015f avea\u00a0 s\u00e2mb\u0103ta zece clien\u0163i, nu luni \u00een orarul obligatoriu. Vara n-am, c\u0103-s la sap\u0103, la coas\u0103, \u00eei am acuma. Dar nu pot deconta s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103, nici trei oameni vara \u015fi 1000 acum, fiindc\u0103 am LIMITA de 20\/zi.\u00a0 20 de consulta\u021bii DECONTATE prin asigur\u0103ri pe zi lucr\u0103toare, la un orar FIX, dinainte stabilit! Nemaleabil. \u00cen care, dac\u0103 stau \u00een plus nu mi se pl\u0103te\u015fte, iar dac\u0103 stau \u00een minus, chit c\u0103 n-am clien\u0163i, e penalizat<\/p>\n<p><em>\u015ei dac\u0103 se \u00eemboln\u0103vesc 21?<\/em><br \/>\nReport pe alt\u0103 zi, sau dac\u0103-i urgen\u0163\u0103, la 112. Sau pl\u0103te\u015fte din buzunar.<\/p>\n<p><em>Chiar dac\u0103 to\u0163i 21 sunt asigura\u0163i.<\/em><br \/>\nNumai atunci. Neasigura\u0163ii nu exist\u0103, nu se pun. Doar urgen\u0163e cod ro\u015fu, care pun via\u0163a \u00een pericol<\/p>\n<p><em>Nu pot veni la tine nici m\u0103car pentru o consulta\u0163ie pl\u0103tit\u0103? Neasigura\u0163ii, zic.<\/em><br \/>\nBa da, asa da. Am taxa afi\u015fat\u0103, emit chitan\u0163\u0103, asta se poate. Aici mai intervine \u00eens\u0103 tradi\u0163ia:\u00a0 Ce, m\u0103 l\u0103sa\u0163i s\u0103 mor cu zile? Tradi\u0163ia neasigur\u0103rii, tradi\u0163ia gratuit\u0103\u0163ii mereu la orice or\u0103, oriunde. comunist. \u015ei dac\u0103 \u00eei zici cum st\u0103 treaba, face apel la con\u015ftiin\u0163\u0103: A\u0163i jurat! Nu se asigur\u0103, mizeaz\u0103 pe jur\u0103m\u00e2ntul meu. \ud83d\ude01<br \/>\nFii atent\u0103, exemplu fain. Ea emigrat\u0103 \u00een Germania, mama ei e pacienta mea din H\u0103\u0219ma\u0219, r\u0103mas\u0103 acas\u0103. M\u0103 sun\u0103 interna\u021bional \u00eentr-o s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eemi cear\u0103 telefonic un sfat medical propriu, o doare ceva. Cum am exerci\u021biul Facebookului \u0219i r\u0103spund deloc arogant, \u00eei explic, dar o \u00eendrum s\u0103-\u0219i sune MF-ul de acolo crez\u00e2nd eu c\u0103-i grav. R\u0103spunde: Ooo, dar NU-MI PERMIT s\u0103-l sun acuma!<\/p>\n<p><em>Dar pe tine \u00ee\u015fi permite. :))<\/em><br \/>\nEXACT. Descria EXACT diferen\u021ba de respect, aten\u021bie, reguli clare, dintre Germania \u0219i Rom\u00e2nia de H\u0103\u0219ma\u0219. Nu a vrut s\u0103 m\u0103 jigneasc\u0103, at\u00e2ta a dus-o mintea.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00cen condi\u0163iile \u00een care pe \u0103la din Germania nu \u015fi-ar fi permis s\u0103-l ia cu &#8220;a\u0163i jurat&#8221;.<\/em><br \/>\nNUUUUUUUUUUUUU. Nici \u00een co\u0219mar. Chiar dac\u0103\u00a0ea crede de mii de ori mai mult \u00een mine ca profesionist, dar pe \u0103la \u00eel &#8220;respect\u0103&#8221;. E\u00a0ca \u00een cazul amantelor: el \u00ee\u0219i respect\u0103 so\u021bia, dar pentru tine, amanta, are o pasiune zdrobitoare: te ador\u0103, te vrea, numai c\u0103 te bate dup\u0103 futai \u0219i nu te ia de nevast\u0103!<\/p>\n<p><em>C\u00e2t de grea \u0163i-ar fi fost adaptarea de la medic angajat la manager al propriului cabinet, \u00een condi\u0163iile unei pie\u0163e corecte?<\/em><br \/>\nGrea? DELOC grea. Sunt hardworker, lucrez cu deadline, \u0219tiu s\u0103 conduc, s\u0103 deleg sarcini, s\u0103 \u00eenvestesc, \u0219tiu meserie, g\u0103sesc zonele de pierderi, inventez zone de intr\u0103ri. DELOC grea<\/p>\n<p><em>Ce investi\u0163ii a presupus &#8220;reforma&#8221; din partea ta \u015fi c\u00e2t anume s-a recuperat?<\/em><br \/>\nA \u00eensemnat a\u0219a, din mers: canalizare, ap\u0103 proprie din f\u00e2nt\u00e2n\u0103 (azi deja are tot satul, dar atunci nu avea), \u00eenc\u0103lzire cu cazan plus calorifere, gresie, faian\u0163\u0103, lavabil, mobilier nou, detalii, acareturi renovate, acoperi\u015f ref\u0103cut, ma\u015fin\u0103 SEPARAT\u0102, nu cea familial\u0103, pe cabinet, formarea (\u015fi financiar\u0103) a dou\u0103 asistente dup\u0103 ce vechea ie\u015fise la pensie, re\u0163ea info + logistic\u0103 etc. Obosesc.<br \/>\nE de amintit aici interven\u0163ia excelent\u0103 a primarului \u015fi a autorit\u0103\u0163ilor locale, care m-au ajutat enorm, dar dup\u0103 ce eu am f\u0103cut deja pa\u0219ii de mai sus!<\/p>\n<p><em>Ce au f\u0103cut?<\/em><br \/>\nM-au ajutat s\u0103 ob\u0163in \u015fi bani din afar\u0103, jum\u0103tate de miliard, cu un proiect Rompetrol.\u00a0 Proiectul f\u0103cut de ei, vizitele reprezentan\u0163ilor sus\u0163inute de ei, voluntariat s\u0103teni prin ei.\u00a0 Cl\u0103direa nu-i a mea, nu-i cump\u0103rat\u0103, e \u00een chirie, o chirie de TOTAL bun sim\u0163. E\u00a0construit\u0103 de s\u0103teni, \u00een comunism, prin MUNC\u0102 VOLUNTAR\u0102 s\u00e2mb\u0103ta \u015fi duminica, pe familii! C\u00e2nd s-a dat legea cump\u0103r\u0103rii \u015fi m-am oferit s\u0103 cump\u0103r, iar satenii s-au revoltat, am \u00een\u0163eles imediat c\u0103 au dreptate. Am dat imediat \u00eenapoi. &#8220;B\u0103, au muncit, genera\u0163ii, cu palma lor, s\u00e2mb\u0103ta \u015fi duminica! Nu mi se cuvine ca proprietar.\u00a0 Biznisul meu aici ca medic nu-i unul imobiliar, ci pe meserie!&#8221;\u00a0 V\u0103z\u00e2nd c\u0103 am dat U\u015eOR \u00eenapoi, \u015fi prim\u0103ria a \u00eentors placa \u015fi a \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 sus\u0163in\u0103. \u00cen TOT: costuri, lemne, ajutor, oameni, materiale, orice am solicitat. \u00cen acest ajutor, deci, a intrat \u015fi Proiectul Rompetrol, pe care, f\u0103r\u0103 primar, nici nu \u015ftiam, nici nu-l f\u0103ceam! \u015ei INSIST pe cele dou\u0103 condi\u0163ii vitale ca s\u0103 po\u0163i face performan\u0163\u0103 la \u0163ar\u0103, \u00een aceast\u0103 ordine ierarhic\u0103: familia ta (so\u0163ul\/so\u0163ia) \u015fi primarul.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u015ei cum ai investit banii din proiect?<\/em><br \/>\n\u00cen extensia cabinetului \u0219i pe fosta stomatologie dezafectat\u0103, t\u00e2mpl\u0103rie, termopan, izola\u0163ie termic\u0103, dar \u015fi aparate importante: EKG SCUMP, c\u00e2ntar electronic sugari, taliometru, al doilea glucometru, aparat pentru coagularea s\u00e2ngelui, sterilizator, scaun de recoltare SCUMP, mas\u0103 ginecologic\u0103 etc.<\/p>\n<p><em>Tu oferi toate acestea la tine-n cabinet?<\/em><br \/>\nDa. E ca o policlinic\u0103.\u00a0 Mai ofer, \u00een afara contractului cu CAS, privat, urm\u0103torul pachet: consult interne medic primar + ecografie complet\u0103 abdomen + pelvis + EKG cu interpretare + consult medic de familie =50 lei. \u015ei am ar\u0103deni care conside\u0103 c\u0103 merit\u0103 drumul. Am socotit, analizat, calculat avantaje\/dezavantaje. \u015ei mi-am permis acest pachet la pre\u0163 mic, fiindc\u0103 am mul\u0163i doritori. Mai am aici, privat, \u015fi consulturi ORL, oftalmo, psihiatrie,\u00a0laborator, recoltare.\u00a0 Toate \u00een afara orarului contractat cu CAS.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u015ei pe toate astea le faci tu singur\u0103 cu dou\u0103 asistente?<\/em><br \/>\nDeja trei asistente \ud83d\ude01\u00a0Fiindc\u0103 fac \u0219i medicina muncii. A\u00a0treia e acuma \u00een formare.<\/p>\n<p><em>Dai locuri de munc\u0103 popula\u0163iei, cum ar veni. \ud83d\ude42<\/em><br \/>\nDa. \u015ei cu c\u00e2t adun mai multe, niciunul la negru,cu at\u00e2t cre\u0219te \u0219ansa s\u0103 vin\u0103 ITM s\u0103 m\u0103 fut\u0103. C\u0103 nu are careva ecuson. Nu-l poate fute pe zugravul care lucreaz\u0103 la negru, nici tarabele de la mare \u00een sezon, nici croitoreasa din bloc. M\u0103 fute pe mine fiindc\u0103 eu m\u0103 expun! Aici am urm\u0103toarea opinie apropo de munca la negru \u0219i cum s-o sco\u021bi la alb. Fiindc\u0103 legisla\u021bia muncii poate amenda pe oricine oric\u00e2t, f\u0103r\u0103 limite, ar fi nevoie de o LEGE, un simplu act normativ care s\u0103 protejeze patronul alb cu munc\u0103 declarat\u0103: c\u0103 CELELALTE amenzi dispar dac\u0103 e\u0219ti declarat. Ar s\u0103ri to\u021bi s\u0103 se declare ca tax\u0103 de protec\u021bie.<\/p>\n<p><em>Hai s-o lu\u0103m \u00een etape, cum s-a \u00eempu\u0163it treaba. Au b\u0103gat sistemul informatic trei sferturi din program nefunc\u0163ional.<\/em><br \/>\nInt\u00e2mpl\u0103tor a picat pe actualii gaia. Putea fi UDMR la guvern, sau Partida rromilor, sau ucrainienii, tot aia li se \u00eent\u00eempla. Au intrat c\u00e2nd buba deja a pocnit, \u0219i orice mic c\u0103cat (cum \u0219i preceden\u021bii au c\u0103cat multe!) devenea insuportabil.<\/p>\n<p><em>Ai scris recent un articol despre acreditare \u015fi despre comisia A.N.M.C.S.<\/em><br \/>\nDa. A\u0219a-i. \u0102la-i din zona &#8220;ultimul c\u0103cat&#8221;, cronologic vorbind. Cirea\u0219a. Dar tortul nu-i PSD-ist. E apolitic. E rom\u00e2n. Mioritic postdecembrist. Al TUTUROR guvernelor, cu o singur\u0103 excep\u021bie: guvernul cu Nicol\u0103escu Ministru al S\u0103n\u0103t\u0103\u021bii.<\/p>\n<p><em>Ce a f\u0103cut diferit?<\/em><br \/>\nNicol\u0103escu a virat un an (cred!) procentul CORECT alocat din banii s\u0103n\u0103\u0103t\u021bii medicinei primare.\u00a0Vir\u00e2nd, a prins \u00een joc sute, mii de MF entuzia\u0219ti care, bazat pe intr\u0103ri, au contractat credite ca s\u0103 investeasc\u0103 \u00een cabinete. \u0218i dup\u0103 ce el a picat au aflat c\u0103&#8230; tun. Au plecat din \u021bar\u0103 ca s\u0103 poat\u0103 acoperi ratele, \u0219i vorbesc cu exemple concrete ar\u0103dene!\u00a0Cazul concret din Arad &#8211; Policlinica Ignat, o policlinc\u0103 superb\u0103 f\u0103cut\u0103 din funda\u021bie pe credit bancar, bazat pe finan\u021bare Nicol\u0103escu, iar dup\u0103 doi ani doamna doctor a plecat \u00een Germania, l\u0103s\u00e2ndu-\u0219i so\u021bul inginer \u0219i b\u0103ie\u021bii mici acas\u0103, ca s\u0103 achite ratele.<br \/>\nNicol\u0103escu a finan\u021bat multhulita evaluare a s\u0103n\u0103t\u0103\u021bii tuturor rom\u00e2nilor, un scor de risc \u0219i ni\u0219te analize gratis.<br \/>\nVeneau \u00een mas\u0103, ca la moa\u0219te, oamenii s\u0103-\u0219i fac\u0103 analizele. A\u0219a am depistat cel pu\u021bin ZECE diabetici, (cu 1000 de \u00eenscri\u0219i total) \u0219i cel pu\u0163in trei oameni tineri cu colesterol URIA\u0218, f\u0103r\u0103 ca ei s\u0103 \u0219tie, boal\u0103 familial\u0103, \u0219i care poate, azi, erau mor\u021bi dac\u0103 nu-i depistam \u00ceN ACEL PROGRAM. Pe ce spun, am nume, date, fi\u0219e, dovezi! A\u0219 vrea s\u0103 confirm pozi\u021bia mea ha\u0219tagist\u0103 de rezist, dar \u0219tiu \u0218TIU precis!! c\u0103 \u00een s\u0103n\u0103tate, \u00een afara Ministrului Nicol\u0103escu, au fost doar \u021bepe.<\/p>\n<p><em>Chiar \u015fi Vlad Voiculescu? Ce ai s\u0103-i repro\u015fezi?<\/em><br \/>\nNu am s\u0103-i repro\u015fez nimic ca individ, dar baza de plecare era deja pervertit\u0103: banii colecta\u021bi pentru s\u0103n\u0103tate intr\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2i la un co\u0219 comun, se amestec\u0103 \u0219i apoi se re\u00eempart. \u0218i nici dracu nu mai poate \u0219ti circuitul lor.<br \/>\nNicol\u0103escu a jucat butoanele corecte c\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 le avea, VV nu le mai avea deloc. Alminteri, ca \u0219i creier, a fost \u00eenc\u00e2nt\u0103tor! Un om cu care a\u0219 deschide un biznis.<\/p>\n<p><em>Dar unde au disp\u0103rut butoanele corecte, \u015fi de ce Ministrul S\u0103n\u0103t\u0103\u0163ii nu mai are acces la ele?<\/em><br \/>\nV. Voiculescu nu mai putea muta bugete. Putea g\u00e2ndi, \u00een\u0163elege, coagula idei, dar nu \u015fi s\u0103 mute bani REALI de la un palier la altul.<br \/>\nNu din banii TOTALI ai \u0163\u0103rii vorbim. Ci din banii s\u0103n\u0103t\u0103\u0163ii! Acel un leu al s\u0103n\u0103t\u0103\u0163ii. Dac\u0103 nu mu\u0163i 9-10% la MF \u015fi \u00eei bagi pe to\u0163i \u00een spitale, la mari clinici, \u00een Bucure\u015fti, mori ca sistem. \u0162ara care se bazeaz\u0103 pe spitale, nimicind medicina de familie, e \u0163ar\u0103 de lux! E \u0162iriac. Cu c\u00e2t e mai s\u0103rac\u0103 tara, cu at\u00e2t bag\u0103 mai jos banii, dar acolo \u00eei controleaz\u0103 fascist!<\/p>\n<p><em>Practic, sunte\u0163i subfinan\u0163a\u0163i masiv.\u00a0<\/em><br \/>\n\u015ei nu numai c\u0103 nu bag\u0103 procent DIN BANII S\u0102N\u0102T\u0102\u0162II corect la MF, ci mai \u015fi blocheaz\u0103 ace\u015fti bani. Adic\u0103\u00a0NU M\u0102 LAS\u0102 S\u0102 FAC DE BANII \u0102IA CE A\u015e PUTEA FACE. Nu-\u0163i pot da re\u0163et\u0103 pentru astm f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 te trimit la pneumolog care s\u0103-mi dea scrisoare c\u0103 am voie. Nu te pot coordona, ca diabetic necomplicat, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 te trimit. tot la trei luni, la ora\u015f la diabetolog. Deci, prin protocoale, m\u0103 oblig\u0103 s\u0103 NU TE TRATEZ,\u00a0 s\u0103 te trimit mereu mai departe.<\/p>\n<p><em>Ceea ce pentru un profesionist e o insult\u0103 la adresa inteligen\u0163ei.<\/em><br \/>\nDA! Nemaivorbind de stresul \u015fi eforturile pacientului. O analiz\u0103 elementar\u0103 pentru diabetici, numit\u0103 hemoglobina A1 C, pe care \u015fi Togo o face senin, la noi eu nu pot s\u0103 o fac compensat, numai diabetologul. Deci tu, decident, m\u0103 iei de cretin prin lege,\u00a0 \u0219i apoi a\u0219tep\u021bi din partea mea s\u0103 m\u0103 port academic. Prin analogie: te por\u021bi cu mine de parc\u0103 a\u015f fi o curv\u0103, \u0219i apoi te miri c\u0103 nu-\u0163i r\u0103spund ca un reprezentant al casei regale.<\/p>\n<p><em>S\u0103 trecem la subiectul care te face s\u0103 te \u00eenfiori de pl\u0103cere: amenzile. Ai primit una recent. Pe ce motiv?<\/em><br \/>\nRelu\u0103m contextul. Al unui cabinet \u00een care eu, plus prim\u0103ria prin Programul Rompetrol, am investit enorm, nu doar sco\u0163\u00e2nd din anonimat un cabinet obscur rural la poale de munte \u015fi sortit pieririi, ci chiar ridic\u00e2ndu-l la cote europene.\u00a0 DAR legea \u00ee\u0163i permite (\u015fi chiar \u00ee\u0163i permite!) s\u0103 i-o tragi \u00een moac\u0103 iepura\u015fului european c\u0103 nu are must\u0103\u021buca a\u015fa cum ai vrea tu.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen acest context, am luat amend\u0103 c\u0103 c\u0103 nu am etichetat conform legii cutia cu de\u0219euri biologice.<br \/>\nChit c\u0103 eu, cu fobie de \u0219oareci, nu am un \u0219oarece nici \u00een curte, m-au sim\u021bit \u0219i \u0103ia c\u0103-s criminal\u0103, dar legea m\u0103 oblig\u0103 s\u0103 am contract de deratizare cu Aradul&#8230;<br \/>\nLi se f\u00e2lf\u00e2ie de confortul asiguratului, de protec\u021bia consumatorului, c\u0103 de fapt vin la furat! Fiecare leu amend\u0103 e furat din banii h\u0103\u0219m\u0103\u0219enilor. Le pl\u0103tesc amenda, dar musai s\u0103 scad aici confortul lor! Ace\u015fti 600 la DSP pentru&#8221;eticheta conform legii&#8221; echivaleaz\u0103 cu lemnele pentrui c\u0103ldura h\u0103\u0219m\u0103\u0219enilor pe o lun\u0103 \u015fi jum\u0103tate, fiindc\u0103 am central\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><em>Cutia cu de\u015feuri biologice? Hai, m\u0103, cum s\u0103-\u0163i dea amend\u0103 pe a\u015fa ceva?<\/em><br \/>\nESTE lege, fiindc\u0103 cele 4 seringi unifolosibile uzate ale mele intr\u0103 la categoria de materiale biologic active, adic\u0103, \u00een fa\u021ba legii, echivaleaz\u0103 cu fe\u021bi mor\u021bi avorta\u021bi sau membre amputate.<br \/>\n\u00cen schimb, fac miliarde de chestii pe care nici nu le po\u021bi visa la \u021bar\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><em>Ce alte pretexte idioate de amenzi ai mai auzit de la confra\u0163i?<\/em><br \/>\nAlte amenzi s-au dat colegilor c\u0103 n-au dovada SCRIS\u0102 c\u0103 au informat mamele cu vaccinul. Mai exact dovada SCRIS\u0102 c\u0103 reduci birocra\u021bia! Asta-i bestial\u0103. Trebuie &#8211; nu s\u0103 faci curat, (la noi e lun\u0103, lins pe jos!), ci s\u0103 afi\u0219ezi pe perete un grafic cu cur\u0103\u021benia zilnic\u0103. Bife color. Persoana desemnat\u0103 s\u0103 r\u0103spund\u0103. Deci, nu-i bai c\u0103-i jeg, c\u0103 fuge \u0219oarecele, dac\u0103-i fain graficul de pe perete c\u0103 ai f\u0103cut curat, e ok!\u00a0Mi-am \u00eentrebat retoric colegii: &#8220;Bey care dintre voi, UNUL!! chiar spal\u0103 pe jos \u00een clipa c\u00e2nd a pus bifa color?&#8221;\u00a0 R\u0103spuns: ZERO. Facem s\u0103 fie curat, s\u0103 fie bine, \u0219i c\u00e2nd suntem liberi s\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103, facem graficul.<\/p>\n<p><em>Ai mai abandona profesia, dac\u0103 \u0163i-ar ajunge h\u0103ituiala \u015fi batjocura la os?<\/em><br \/>\nNu, nu a\u0219 abandona, a\u0219 pleca din \u021bar\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><em>Ai pleca din \u0163ar\u0103 s\u0103 practici medicina afar\u0103?<\/em><br \/>\nNumai cu cu\u021bitul la os, atunci c\u00e2nd voi avea de ales, \u00een Rom\u00e2nia, \u00eentre prostitu\u021bia pe centur\u0103 \u0219i medicin\u0103. Dar \u0219i asta, doar fiindc\u0103 pe centur\u0103 nu cred s\u0103 mai fac performan\u021b\u0103. Individual\u0103. Fizic\u0103. Posibil totu\u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 apuc s\u0103 eficientizez inteligent respectivele servicii. Am antrenament.<\/p>\n<p><em>Adev\u0103rul e c\u0103 ai fi o matroan\u0103 de bordel redutabil\u0103. \u015ei ai asigura medicina muncii printre angajate, ceea ce e mare lucru.<\/em><br \/>\nCategoric. Pot face, gra\u021bie ofertei divine, orice performan\u021b\u0103, \u00een afara instrumentului muzical, al canto-ului \u0219i al baletului. M-au testat ai mei la 5 ani. N-a mers!<\/p>\n<p><em>C\u00e2t de greu \u0163i-a fost s\u0103 fii mam\u0103 singur\u0103, cu at\u00e2tea g\u0103rzi, navete \u015fi schimb\u0103ri de domiciliu?<\/em><br \/>\nDeloc. \u00cen primii ani am fost mam\u0103 singur\u0103 cu copilul la ai mei, apoi mam\u0103 singur\u0103 cu un poten\u021bial adorator \u00eenc\u0103 indecis s\u0103 fie tat\u0103. De fapt, nu m-am sim\u021bit mai niciodat\u0103 singur\u0103.<br \/>\nAu fost \u0219i momente \u00een care mi-l f\u0103cusem pe fiu &#8211; minuscul! &#8211; confident \u0219i prieten. \u00cei pl\u00e2ngeam senin pe um\u0103r, p\u00e2n\u0103 m-a dezmeticit el!<\/p>\n<p><em>Cum te-a dezmeticit?<\/em><br \/>\nPicasem \u00een extrem\u0103. Voiam s\u0103 nu repet atitudinea str\u00e2ns\u0103, sever\u0103 a alor mei \u0219i l-am declarat liber de ORICE pe fiu.<br \/>\n-Mam\u0103, am m\u00e2ine lucrare la geogra!<br \/>\n-D\u0103-o-n m\u0103-sa, stai acas\u0103 \u0219i-\u021bi fac motivare. E\u0219ti liber. Te duci la geogra c\u00e2nd sim\u021bi c\u0103-i momentul t\u0103u!<br \/>\nIar copilu&#8217; s-o dus la bunici.<br \/>\n&#8211; Lua\u021bi-m\u0103 la voi, c\u0103 la mine e debandad\u0103.\u00a0Vreau \u0219i eu o mam\u0103 normal\u0103 s\u0103 lucreze la fabric\u0103 \u00een schimburi! S\u0103 \u0219tiu c\u00e2nd m\u00e2nc\u0103m, c\u00e2nd facem baie, c\u00e2nd ne facem temele.<br \/>\nIoaaaaaaai, \u0219i iar apare tata neanun\u021bat la u\u0219\u0103, s\u0103-mi vorbeasc\u0103 despre familie, responsabilitate, punctualitate, onoare.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-13824\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/5-1024x682.jpg?resize=700%2C466\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"466\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/5.jpg?resize=1024%2C682&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/5.jpg?resize=150%2C100&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/5.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/5.jpg?resize=768%2C512&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/5.jpg?w=2048&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/5.jpg?w=1400&amp;ssl=1 1400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>HAHAHA! \u015ei tu nu te-ai sim\u0163it tr\u0103dat\u0103?<\/em><br \/>\nOh, ba daaaaaaaaaaaaa! Dar \u00eel uram tot pe tata, nu pe copil! C\u0103-s complex\u0103 \u0219i nu m-a \u00een\u021beles, iar puiul nu pricepe c\u0103-i mic! &#8220;Mam\u0103, ce m\u00e2nc\u0103m?&#8221;\u00a0 &#8220;Pit\u0103 cu pateu.&#8221; Zice azi fiu-meu: ur\u0103sc pateul pe via\u021b\u0103!<br \/>\nLa Chie\u0219d, acolo-n S\u0103laj, noaptea, m\u0103 treze\u0219te copilul: m\u0103 doare burta. Eu: Ai indigestie. \u015ei am adormit la loc. \u015ei azi zice:\u00a0M-ai rupt cu diagnosticul nocturn!<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00cen loc s\u0103-l iei la ceiu\u0163 \u015fi lugu-lugu, ca mamele normale. :))<\/em><br \/>\nDada. Aaaa, faz\u0103 la Chie\u015fd. Copilul merge la \u015fcoal\u0103 acolo, ceva coleg de clas\u0103 \u00eel tot bate. Al meu, nepreg\u0103tit s\u0103 sparg\u0103 mutre. Aflu, zic: nu-i bai, vin maine la \u015fcoal\u0103. \u00cen\u0163eleg de la copil c\u0103 agresorul i-ar fi spus c\u0103-l bate de-l duce m\u0103-sa cu salvarea!<br \/>\nM\u0103 echipez de doamna doctor \u015fi apar la scoal\u0103, eu VIP local, normal. Doamna dirigint\u0103 m\u0103 prime\u015fte ca pe intelectual.\u00a0 Specific c\u0103 doresc s\u0103 vorbesc cu elevul X cu care are fiul meu regretate conflicte.<br \/>\nE scos \u00een fa\u0163\u0103 agresorul, clasa \u015fi diriga a\u015fteapt\u0103 din partea mea o lec\u0163ie frumoas\u0103, INTELECTUAL\u0102 de coabitare.\u00a0 C\u0103\u00a0o s\u0103-i explic frumos, argumentat, cum e bine s\u0103 te compor\u0163i. Eu \u00eemi preg\u0103tesc ni\u0163el intrarea, cu o pauz\u0103 de voce, apoi, pe un ton jos dar ferm: &#8220;Dragule, \u00eemi spune Andrei c\u0103 l-ai amenin\u0163at cu b\u0103taia c\u0103-l duc cu salvarea&#8230;.&#8221;. Clasa a\u015fteapt\u0103 decizii, Lini\u015fte morm\u00e2ntal\u0103.<br \/>\nEu: Uite ce-i. Dac\u0103 vreodat\u0103, O DAT\u0102!! te mai apropii de Andrei &#8211; de aici urc tonul &#8211; eu personal te bat de te duce pe tine m\u0103-ta cu salvarea. \u015ei o duce \u0219i pe m\u0103-ta, \u0219i pe tac-tu.&#8221;\u00a0 Urlu: &#8220;B\u0102\u0102\u0102\u0102\u0102\u0102\u0102\u0102\u0102\u0102\u0102\u0102\u0102\u0102\u0102\u0102. C\u00e2nd \u00eel vezi, te mu\u0163i pe trotuarul cel\u0103lalt, ca te toc! Priceput? TE TOC!&#8221; A\u00a0fost destul pentru doi ani.<br \/>\nMucles a fost tot. Iar copilul, respect deplin p\u00e2n\u0103 la plecare, doar fiindc\u0103-i fiu&#8217; lu Na\u015fu!<\/p>\n<p><em>\u00cen continuare cred c\u0103 cel mai bun tratament pentru bullying sunt mor\u0163ii de mum\u0103. pe verificate.<\/em><br \/>\nDA. Merg \u015fi \u00een raportul medic de familie &#8211; pacient, \u00een H\u0103\u015fma\u015f.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u0162i-ai creat un fanclub uria\u015f pe net, prin educa\u0163ia medical\u0103 gratuit\u0103 pe care o oferi. Ce te determin\u0103 s\u0103 faci \u015fi aceast\u0103 munc\u0103 \u00een folosul comunit\u0103\u0163ii?<\/em><br \/>\nMu\u021bumesc pentru onoranta \u00eentrebare! Nu-i \u00een folosul comunit\u0103\u021bii. Nici m\u0103car nu o consider &#8220;proiect educa\u021bional&#8221;. Nu conteaz\u0103 c\u0103 nu produce. Este doar o preocupare egoist\u0103, fiindc\u0103 o ador. Este ceva ce \u00ceMI face bine. M\u0103 bucur\u0103, \u00eemi d\u0103 sens, are reply, m\u0103 simt important\u0103, bun\u0103, iubit\u0103, performer. M\u0103 face fericit\u0103. E\u0219ti actri\u021b\u0103. Bun\u0103. E ca \u0219i cum te-a\u0219 \u00eentreba: De ce joci? Pentru bani? Pentru fani? Iar tu ca orice alt actor, ai r\u0103spunde greu. \u0218i ai ajunge tot la egoistul &#8220;Joc, fiindc\u0103 acolo-s eu. Fiindc\u0103 ASTA m\u0103 face fericit\u0103&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p><em> Care e principalul avantaj al unui cont popular de social media, din punctul t\u0103u de vedere, \u015fi care e principalul dezavantaj?<\/em><br \/>\nNU i-am g\u0103sit niciun dezavantaj. Nici m\u0103car la \u00eenceputuri c\u00e2nd eu, deloc antrenat\u0103 \u00een exerci\u021biul notoriet\u0103\u021bii, g\u0103seam \u00een mesaje private poze de penis erect ca semn al pre\u021buirii, sau invita\u021bii agramate la un suc, la Ineu. Z\u00e2mbeam \u00een mine. Erau lec\u021bii live. \u00cenv\u0103\u021bam.<br \/>\nIar potopul de dragoste cald\u0103 a cititorilor devine drog. \u00eencepi s\u0103 depinzi de el.. Nu-i avantaj, e drog.<\/p>\n<p><em>Deci tot dezavantaj. :))<\/em><br \/>\nNaiba \u0219tie. Da&#8217; beutura c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u021bi pic\u0103 bine, e dezavantaj?<\/p>\n<p><em>Dac\u0103 lu\u0103m \u00een calcul mahmureala care urmeaz\u0103, cam da.<\/em> \ud83d\ude42<br \/>\nConstruc\u021bia acestei notoriet\u0103\u021bi revine la tine cu premii.<br \/>\nS\u0103 zicem, o zi REAL\u0102 cretin\u0103, cu doamnele de la DSP caligrafiindu-\u021bi un proces verbal. Nu conteaz\u0103 c\u00e2t cost\u0103. D\u0103-i \u00een m\u0103-sa de bani. Conteaz\u0103 revolta. E\u0219ti turbat&#8230;<br \/>\nToat\u0103 contruc\u021bia ta precedent\u0103 pe re\u021belele de socializare \u00ee\u021bi permite s\u0103 ie\u0219i, s\u0103 zici scurt: M-or futut dou\u0103 doamne de la DSP. \u00ces stresat\u0103&#8230;. \u0218i brusc, mii MII!! de oameni s\u0103-\u021bi zic\u0103 c\u0103 te ador\u0103, c\u0103 \u0103lea-s t\u00e2mpite. 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