Sau… De ce nu voi mai participa vreodat\u0103 la un Cenaclu al Muzeului:<\/p>\n
1. Nu e ok s\u0103 \u00eentrerupi un om care recit\u0103, at\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t \u0103la a adus o bun\u0103 parte din publicul s\u0103lii, iar ascult\u0103torii sunt vizibil captiva\u0163i de ceea ce aud.<\/p>\n
2. Nu e ok s\u0103 retezi feedback-ul pozitiv al unei s\u0103li afirm\u00e2nd c\u0103 omul respectiv a “p\u0103c\u0103lit”. Oric\u00e2t a\u015f fi eu de actri\u0163\u0103, dac\u0103 mi-ai da s\u0103 citesc cartea de telefoane, tot nume \u015fi numere a\u015f citi.<\/p>\n
3. O afirma\u0163ie de genul: “nu am citit-o, dar e o veleitarist\u0103” e grav\u0103. Nu pentru veleitarist, s\u0103racul. Ci pentru tine, c\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i pune sub semnul \u00eentreb\u0103rii profesionalismul de critic.<\/p>\n
4. Nu e ok s\u0103-i ceri unui autor s\u0103 nu r\u0103spund\u0103 la comentariile din sal\u0103. \u00cen fond, oamenii au venit s\u0103 dialogheze cu el, s\u0103-i spun\u0103 lui ce au de spus. Dac\u0103 \u0163ii neap\u0103rat s\u0103 tac\u0103, e mai bine s\u0103 aduci dou\u0103 mom\u00e2i, sau dou\u0103 poze cu autorii. Sigur vor sta cumin\u0163i \u015fi te vor l\u0103sa s\u0103 faci pe stentorul c\u00e2t vrei tu.<\/p>\n
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5. E inexact s\u0103 afirmi despre un om c\u0103:
\na) \u00ee\u015fi croie\u015fte poteca \u015fi merge singur pe ea – mint, de fapt e m\u0103gulitor, e teribil de m\u0103gulitor c\u0103 nu e \u00een r\u00e2nd cu hoarda, \u015fi \u00ee\u015fi creeaz\u0103 propria lume.
\nb) \u015fi c\u0103 nu vrea dec\u00e2t s\u0103-\u015fi plac\u0103 sie\u015fi – de fapt, mint din nou, e o alt\u0103 afirma\u0163ie extrem de m\u0103gulitoare, s\u0103 spui c\u0103 omul are un sistem propriu de valori, \u015fi caut\u0103 s\u0103-\u015fi satisfac\u0103 propriile a\u015ftept\u0103ri
\nAceste complimente, de\u015fi m\u0103gulitoare, sunt u\u015for absurde, \u00een clipa \u00een care individul a st\u00e2rnit interesul unora, pe care i-a urnit s\u0103-\u015fi lase treburile cotidiene pentru un recital de poezie. Sau doar pu\u0163in inexacte: omul a mers pe poteca lui, \u015fi l-au urmat al\u0163ii. S\u0103 le spui \u00een fa\u0163\u0103 c\u0103 nu exist\u0103 este o mic\u0103 insult\u0103. Fa\u0163\u0103 de ei, nu fa\u0163\u0103 de mine.<\/p>\n
6. \u015ei e de-a dreptul (completa\u0163i voi cu ce adjectiv vre\u0163i) s\u0103 \u0163ii minte de acum un an, c\u00e2nd omul a venit s\u0103 citeasc\u0103 textele unui prieten, c\u0103 \u015fi-a v\u0103rsat cafeaua \u00een poal\u0103. Da, mi-am v\u0103rsat cafeaua \u00een poal\u0103 acum un an, a\u015fa \u015fi?<\/p>\n
\u00cen concluzie: \u00cemi pare r\u0103u c\u0103 nu mi-am urmat impulsul \u015fi nu am p\u0103r\u0103sit sala din clipa \u00een care am fost \u00eentrerupt\u0103. Dar aceasta ar fi fost o lips\u0103 imens\u0103 de respect. Fa\u0163\u0103 de cei care m-au urmat pe poteca mea, desigur. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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