Ieri, din c\u00e2te am \u00een\u0163eles, a \u00eenceput noul sezon de Rom\u00e2nii au mame eroine, \u015fapte fra\u0163i acas\u0103, boli incurabile \u015fi ta\u0163i violen\u0163i care i-au b\u0103tut cu cureaua \u00een copil\u0103rie. Parc\u0103 a\u015fa se nume\u015fte emisiunea. Un reality show \u00een care participan\u0163ii \u00ee\u015fi compar\u0103 dramele \u015fi care o are mai mare, c\u00e2\u015ftig\u0103 un purcoi de b\u0103net.\u00a0 Sau a\u015fa ceva.<\/p>\n
\u015ei subit, feedul meu de Facebook a \u00eenceput s\u0103 arate a\u015fa:<\/p>\n
Dorela M\u00e2nz: S\u0103-i zic\u0103 cineva R\u0103duleasc\u0103i s\u0103-\u015fi adune fa\u0163a de pe jos.<\/p>\n
Aurica Viezure: Am g\u0103sit o m\u0103tur\u0103 \u00een plus \u00een c\u0103mar\u0103. Nu \u015ftiam de unde e, dar v\u0103d c\u0103 R\u0103duleasca a ajuns la emisiune f\u0103r\u0103.<\/p>\n
Elefteriu Br\u00e2nz\u0103: Mihaela, au sunat \u0103ia de la Expo Plast. Vor s\u0103 te expun\u0103 la urm\u0103toarea edi\u0163ie a t\u00e2rgului.<\/p>\n
N-am \u00een\u0163eles nimic, prin reflec\u0163ia acestei oglinzi a societ\u0103\u0163ii care e Facebook \u00een zilele noastre, dec\u00e2t c\u0103 Mihaela a fost \u015fi ea atins\u0103 un pic de patina timpului.<\/p>\n
OK, \u015fi?<\/p>\n
S-a l\u0103udat femeia pe undeva c\u0103 e de\u0163in\u0103toarea tinere\u0163ii ve\u015fnice?<\/p>\n
Fuck no.<\/p>\n
E cumva singura din univers care e supus\u0103 procesului natural de \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nire?<\/p>\n
Fuck no.<\/p>\n
Crede\u0163i c\u0103, la aproape 50 de ani, c\u00e2t are femeia \u00een prezent, v\u0103 ve\u0163i prezenta mai glorios?<\/p>\n
M\u0103 \u00eendoiesc. Mult\u0103 baft\u0103 dac\u0103 v-a\u0163i propus asta. Probabil, dac\u0103 renun\u0163a\u0163i la tot alcoolul, toate dulciurile \u015fi toate gr\u0103simile universului, \u015fi b\u0103ga\u0163i program de milit\u0103rie, v\u0103 iese. Dar cu pre\u0163ul unei vie\u0163i de c\u00e2ine. V\u0103 b\u0103ga\u0163i la un efort \u015fi o disciplin\u0103 supraumane, strict pentru looks, c\u00e2nd \u015fti\u0163i c\u0103 ave\u0163i o singur\u0103 via\u0163\u0103 \u015fi de la 50 \u00een sus oricum nu mai e cine \u015ftie ce distractiv?<\/p>\n
\u00cemb\u0103tr\u00e2nirea NU e o boal\u0103. NU e o ru\u015fine. NU e un flagel. E o etap\u0103 natural\u0103 a vie\u0163ii, prin care o s\u0103 trecem to\u0163i de la un punct \u00eencolo. \u015ei dac\u0103 tu faci mi\u015fto pe Facebook de b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u0163ea cuiva, cineva cap\u0103t\u0103 karmic dreptul s\u0103 fac\u0103 mi\u015fto de b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u0163ea maic\u0103-tii.<\/p>\n
“Totul p\u00e2n\u0103 la mama!”<\/p>\n
OK. \u015ei Mihaela e mama cuiva.<\/p>\n
Aminti\u0163i-v\u0103 cum, acum zece ani, femeile trecute de 40 de ani erau deja considerate rebuturi \u015fi refuzate pe la joburi, de\u015fi, prin experien\u0163\u0103, disponibilitate de munc\u0103 \u015fi lipsa vanit\u0103\u0163ii inutile care le \u0163ine pe cele tinere mult \u00een fa\u0163a oglinzii \u015fi pe la petreceri de rahat, aveau mult mai mult de oferit.<\/p>\n
Era bine c\u00e2nd maic\u0103-ta r\u0103mas\u0103 \u015fomer\u0103 \u00een urma falimentului unui gigant comunist b\u0103tea din poart\u0103 \u00een poart\u0103 s\u0103 caute de lucru \u015fi n-o lua nimeni, c\u0103 trecuse de 40? Nu. Era \u00eengrozitor. Pentru c\u0103, la un moment dat, to\u0163i facem 40. \u015etiu, e trist, e de neconceput, e un afront la adresa tinere\u0163ii noastre f\u0103r\u0103 b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u0163e \u015fi a vie\u0163ii f\u0103r\u0103 de moarte, dar timpul nu st\u0103 \u00een loc pentru nimeni.<\/p>\n
Vrei s\u0103 te bucuri de respectul aferent lucrurilor pe care \u015ftii s\u0103 le faci \u015fi la v\u00e2rsta aia? OK. \u00cencepe prin a nu umili oameni strict pe baza v\u00e2rstei.<\/p>\n
F\u0103 mi\u015fto de presta\u0163ia lor. Dac\u0103 e cazul. F\u0103 mi\u015fto de b\u00e2lbele lor. Dac\u0103 e cazul. F\u0103 mi\u015fto de neprofesionalismul lor. Dac\u0103 e cazul. Chiar eu am f\u0103cut la mi\u015ftouri de accesele de vedetism ale Mihaelei, de mi-a obosit tastatura. C\u00e2nd a fost cazul.<\/p>\n
Dar, ieri sear\u0103, n-am citit nici un status de aceast\u0103 natur\u0103, legat de Mihaela. De unde deduc c\u0103 femeia a fost coerent\u0103 \u015fi cu cuvintele la ea. Adic\u0103, exact ce trebuie \u00eentr-o emisiune TV.<\/p>\n
Am aflat doar, obositor de redundant, c\u0103 a \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nit.<\/p>\n
A\u015fa, \u015fi? Ce caut\u0103 autorul s\u0103 comunice cu aceast\u0103 constatare?<\/p>\n
C\u0103 n-ar mai fute-o? E ok, oricum nu era p\u0103scut de acest pericol nici \u00eenainte. M\u0103car s-a reglat problema de la sine.<\/p>\n
\u015ei chiar am c\u0103utat-o \u00een diminea\u0163a asta pe Mihaela pe Google, s\u0103 v\u0103d care e faza. \u015ei c\u00e2t de sinistru e dezastrul. M\u0103 a\u015fteptam cel pu\u0163in la baba cloan\u0163a cotoroan\u0163a din desene animate.<\/p>\n
Am dat de o doamn\u0103 matur\u0103, de o frumuse\u0163e specific\u0103 v\u00e2rstei. Singurul lucru penibil din situa\u0163ia asta mi se pare preten\u0163ia unora ca o femeie de 50 de ani s\u0103 arate ca una de 20.<\/p>\n
Lua\u0163i o carte de anatomie, de gimnaziu. Unii chiar ave\u0163i nevoie. Deschide\u0163i la capitolul \u0103la cu v\u00e2rstele omului. Lectura\u0163i cu aten\u0163ie. \u015ei \u00eenceta\u0163i s\u0103 v\u0103 mai mira\u0163i de lucruri normale.<\/p>\n
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