Dragi copila\u015fi, to\u0163i cei obi\u015fnui\u0163i cu jargonul internautic cunoa\u015fte\u0163i termenul de drama queen. Adic\u0103, persoana care face o dram\u0103 din absolut orice rahat. V\u0103leu, plou\u0103. V\u0103leu, ninge. V\u0103leu, \u00eent\u00e2rzie trenul cinci minute. V\u0103leu, mi-a calculat \u0103la gre\u015fit \u00eentre\u0163inerea. V\u0103leu, v\u0103leu, v\u0103leu, oioioi, tulai, doamne, i\u015ftenem.<\/p>\n
Enervant, nu?<\/p>\n
Azi vom analiza nivelul urm\u0103tor, care e cu cam 50% mai enervant \u015fi mai dramatic f\u0103r\u0103 rost, \u015fi mai solicitant de bocanci \u00een dantur\u0103. \u015ei anume, drama whoringul.<\/p>\n
Ce este drama whoringul?<\/p>\n
Drama whoringul se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een urm\u0103toarea situa\u0163ie:<\/p>\n
Por\u0163i o conversa\u0163ie absolut normal\u0103 \u015fi de bun sim\u0163 cu o persoan\u0103. Zero inten\u0163ii ofensive. Toat\u0103 lumea recunoa\u015fte o inten\u0163ie ofensiv\u0103, atunci c\u00e2nd o vede. \u015ei subit, persoana ia o \u00eentors\u0103tur\u0103 de fraz\u0103 din discu\u0163ia aia, un cuv\u00e2nt care nici m\u0103car n-o viza pe ea, \u015fi transform\u0103 toat\u0103 discu\u0163ia \u00eentr-o ceart\u0103 inutil\u0103, un schimb de jigniri sau o dram\u0103 penibil\u0103. Imun\u0103 la orice dialog ra\u0163ional.<\/p>\n
Apoi, c\u00e2nd tu \u00eencerci s\u0103 explici c\u0103 nu exist\u0103 nici o inten\u0163ie ofensiv\u0103 acolo, drama whore se leag\u0103 de c\u00e2te o chestie din fiecare fraz\u0103, \u015fi umfl\u0103 bulg\u0103rele p\u00e2n\u0103-l transform\u0103 \u00eentr-o avalan\u015f\u0103 de tensiune negativ\u0103 \u015fi de agresivitate f\u0103r\u0103 scop. Doar a\u015fa, s\u0103 fie.<\/p>\n
Scopul? Probabil s\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi c\u00e2\u015ftige o form\u0103 oarecare de autoritate nejustificat\u0103 asupra ta. Ceea ce, dup\u0103 cum \u015ftie orice cititor al acestui site, este culmea penibilului. Sau s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i induc\u0103 o form\u0103 oarecare de vinov\u0103\u0163ie \u00eenchipuit\u0103. Ceea ce etc. Sau s\u0103 hr\u0103neasc\u0103 pl\u0103cerea de dram\u0103 absolut stupid\u0103 \u015fi gratuit\u0103, care-i caracterizeaz\u0103 pe unii oameni. Ceea ce etc.<\/p>\n
Singurele drame de care am timp \u015fi disponibilitate sunt problemele reale. Ceva nu func\u0163ioneaz\u0103. Cineva s-a \u00eemboln\u0103vit. Arde casa. Nu te prime\u015fte fiscul, dup\u0103 patru ore de coad\u0103, pentru c\u0103-\u0163i lipse\u015fte a treia copie legalizat\u0103 dup\u0103 nu \u015ftiu ce c\u0103cat de h\u00e2rtiu\u0163\u0103 \u015fi \u015fina de la dosar. Probleme care chiar afecteaz\u0103 omul cu ceva.<\/p>\n
Dramele n\u0103scocite din nimic mi se par distrac\u0163ii de oameni f\u0103r\u0103 ocupa\u0163ii constructive. \u015ei nici m\u0103car nu c\u00e2\u015ftigi respect sau apreciere cu genul \u0103sta de rahaturi, mai degrab\u0103 le pierzi. Pentru c\u0103, except\u00e2ndu-i pe masochi\u015ftii profesioni\u015fti, lumea are o doz\u0103 relativ sc\u0103zut\u0103 de r\u0103bdare cu scandalul artificial \u00eentre\u0163inut. Trece cu vederea o dat\u0103, trece cu vederea de dou\u0103 ori, dar la un moment dat se satur\u0103 \u015fi pleac\u0103.<\/p>\n
Plus, ceea ce face de fapt un sau o drama whore, cu obsesia lui sau a ei de a v\u00e2na con\u0163inut de care s\u0103 se atace sinistru \u00een orice comunicare neutr\u0103, este chiar mai insult\u0103tor dec\u00e2t preten\u0163ia de jignire sau de triggering de la care opteaz\u0103 s\u0103 fac\u0103 spume nejustificate. Nevoia aia de negativitate doar a\u015fa, s\u0103 fie, conflictul doar a\u015fa, s\u0103 fie, cuvintele jignitoare doar a\u015fa, s\u0103 fie – vorbesc despre o colosal\u0103 lips\u0103 de respect fa\u0163\u0103 de persoana cu care drama whore \u00ee\u015fi d\u0103 arama pe fa\u0163\u0103.<\/p>\n
\u015ei tind s\u0103 cred c\u0103, \u00een secunda \u00een care \u00ee\u0163i permi\u0163i s\u0103 fii drama whore cu cineva, ai o \u00eencredere absolut obscen\u0103 \u00een tine \u00eensu\u0163i \/ \u00eens\u0103\u0163i \u015fi \u00een faptul c\u0103 interlocutorul n-o s\u0103 te bage \u00een mor\u0163ii m\u0103-tii. Ceea ce e o idee proast\u0103, \u00een general. Interlocutorul modern obosit de corectitudine politic\u0103 \u00eencepe s\u0103 aib\u0103 o toleran\u0163\u0103 din ce \u00een ce mai sc\u0103zut\u0103 fa\u0163\u0103 de drama whoring.<\/p>\n
\u015ei nu \u00een ultimul r\u00e2nd: c\u00e2nd v\u00e2nezi jigniri inexistente acolo unde CHIAR NU sunt – \u015fi o pal\u0103 de common sense elementar te-ar ajuta \u00een direc\u0163ia asta – te expui la jigniri ceva mai profunde. Pentru c\u0103 ri\u015fti s\u0103 st\u00e2rne\u015fti \u00een interlocutorii mai sadici pl\u0103cerea de a te jigni cu premeditare, s\u0103 savureze cum te crizezi ca apucatul sau apucata. A\u015fa, pentru spectacolul gratuit.<\/p>\n
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