Circul\u0103 o prostie pe Facebook de 8 martie. Sigur, circul\u0103 multe prostii, kitsch-uri, siropo\u015fenii, stupidit\u0103\u0163i, platitudini, cli\u015fee, \u015fi tot ce crede lumea c\u0103 vor femeile s\u0103 aud\u0103.<\/p>\n
Dar una dintre prostiile care circul\u0103 m\u0103 irit\u0103 \u00een mod deosebit, \u015fi pentru c\u0103 o v\u0103d a treia oar\u0103, simt nevoia, de sf\u00e2nt\u0103 zi de s\u0103rb\u0103toare, s\u0103 administrez ni\u015fte \u015futuri \u00een vagin.<\/p>\n
Prostia, cu oarecare varia\u0163ii, zice ceva de genul: “Voi astea sub 18 ani nu v\u0103 mai da\u0163i femei \u015fi nu mai a\u015ftepta\u0163i flori de 8 martie, c\u0103 ziua voastr\u0103 e pe 1 iunie”.<\/p>\n
Guess what: o sharuiesc predominant femei.<\/p>\n
Pe de o parte, pentru c\u0103 un b\u0103rbat nu se va uita niciodat\u0103 la o t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103 de 16 ani ca la un copil, dac\u0103 ea nu este chiar fiica lui. Caz \u00een care o va ap\u0103ra cu for\u0163a pumnului, pentru c\u0103 \u015ftie c\u0103 al\u0163i b\u0103rba\u0163i deja t\u00e2njesc dup\u0103 ea \u015fi \u00eei dau t\u00e2rcoale.<\/p>\n
Pe de alta,\u00a0 pentru c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fii proast\u0103, rea, extrem de nesigur\u0103 pe feminitatea ta, sau o combina\u0163ie oarecare a acestor factori, s\u0103 nu-\u0163i po\u0163i celebra ziua dec\u00e2t prin umilirea unei categorii de v\u00e2rst\u0103.<\/p>\n
Apoi, tot ele: De ce tineretul de azi e at\u00e2t de rebel \u015fi nu ne ia \u00een serios?<\/p>\n
Oare de ce, lol.<\/p>\n
Adolescen\u0163a, \u015fi pentru b\u0103ie\u0163i, \u015fi pentru fete, e cea mai vulnerabil\u0103 perioad\u0103 \u00een devenirea lor ca oameni. Perioada \u00een care tinerii \u00eencep s\u0103 capete tr\u0103s\u0103turile fizice specifice v\u00e2rstei adulte, \u015fi dorin\u0163a arz\u0103toare de a demonstra universului c\u0103 sunt b\u0103rba\u0163i, respectiv femei. Nimic nu e mai nimicitor pentru ei dec\u00e2t s\u0103-i bagi cu sila \u00eenapoi \u00een cutia copil\u0103riei.<\/p>\n
Sigur, c\u00e2nd ajungi la maturitate, \u0163i-ai luptat toate r\u0103zboaiele \u015fi ai \u00eenvins \u00een cele care conteaz\u0103, ai tot timpul s\u0103 respiri, s\u0103 regre\u0163i copil\u0103ria \u015fi \u00een timp ce stai la coad\u0103 patru ore la ANAF, po\u0163i ofta: Ce bine era c\u00e2nd punea mama ciorba pe mas\u0103 \u015fi curentul p\u0103rea c\u0103 se pl\u0103te\u015fte de unul singur, \u015fi singura mea grij\u0103 era s\u0103 fac diferen\u0163a \u00eentre paralelipiped \u015fi romb.<\/p>\n
Dar \u00een adolescen\u0163\u0103, aspira\u0163ia fireasc\u0103, s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103, e s\u0103 visezi din toate col\u0163i\u015foarele inimii s\u0103 fii odat\u0103 adult. Desigur, nu ai echipamentul mintal \u015fi emo\u0163ional aferent, de aceea b\u0103ie\u0163ii \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 pozeze \u00een b\u0103rba\u0163i cu excese de agresivitate, c\u0103 a\u015fa fac b\u0103rba\u0163ii, dau cu pumnul \u00een mas\u0103, iar fetele, cu excese de decolteu \u015fi lenjerie la vedere, c\u0103 a\u015fa fac femeile, sunt vampe sexy \u015fi rele. At\u00e2t \u00een\u0163elegi la v\u00e2rsta aceea. Dac\u0103 nu ai maturitatea \u015fi bun\u0103voin\u0163a unui adult care s\u0103 te ajute s\u0103 \u00een\u0163elegi mai mult.<\/p>\n
Amuzant, dac\u0103 fac un thread pe pagina de Facebook despre abuzuri p\u0103rinte\u015fti, acelea\u015fi femei care sharuiesc imbecilitatea asta sinistr\u0103 o s\u0103 boceasc\u0103 lung despre p\u0103rin\u0163ii care nu le-au \u00een\u0163eles visele \u015fi le-au t\u0103iat aripile cu cle\u015fti\u015forul de unghii. \u015ei c\u00e2t de r\u0103u a fost.<\/p>\n
OK, dac\u0103 a fost at\u00e2t de r\u0103u, poate e o idee s\u0103 nu perpetuezi t\u0103ierea de aripi, ce zici?<\/p>\n
O fat\u0103 de 16 ani e o femeie \u00een devenire. Fizic, dac\u0103 judec\u0103m dup\u0103 balele cocalarilor care o fluier\u0103 pe strad\u0103, e femeie \u00een toat\u0103 regula. Iar mintal, are nevoie de \u00eencurajare \u015fi iubire s\u0103 devin\u0103 femeie, nu de pipi cu bolt\u0103 \u00een statusuri care flutur\u0103 o pretins\u0103 superioritate pe baz\u0103 de v\u00e2rst\u0103.<\/p>\n
Pentru c\u0103 dac\u0103 v\u00e2rsta e singurul argument pe care-l po\u0163i aduce \u00een favoarea propriei persoane, e\u015fti o pierdere inutil\u0103 de biomas\u0103.<\/p>\n
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At\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t feminismul nu va include o solidaritate REAL\u0102 \u00eentre femei de toate v\u00e2rstele, el va r\u0103m\u00e2ne o sum\u0103 de vorbe goale. At\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t femeile nu \u00eenva\u0163\u0103 s\u0103 aib\u0103 grij\u0103 real una de alta, vor avea mereu salariile mai mici \u015fi vor fi victimele propriilor r\u0103ut\u0103\u0163i.<\/p>\n
De ce termenul “nigger” a ajuns s\u0103 fie tratat drept o insult\u0103 sinistr\u0103, \u015fi \u00ee\u0163i d\u0103 Facebook 30 de zile de ban fluier\u00e2nd, chiar dac\u0103 statusul t\u0103u ironizeaz\u0103 rasismul, de ce pentru termenul “faggot” ai acela\u015fi regim, dar termenii “bitch”, “slut” \u015fi “whore” pot fi abuza\u0163i \u015fi dezabuza\u0163i p\u00e2n\u0103-n p\u00e2nzele albe, cu zero consecin\u0163e?<\/p>\n
Pentru c\u0103 negrii, pe de o parte, \u015fi LGBT, pe de alta, au o solidaritate real\u0103 unii cu al\u0163ii. \u00ce\u015fi dau seama c\u0103 dac\u0103 ei nu se ap\u0103r\u0103 \u00eentre ei, nu-i ap\u0103r\u0103 nimeni.<\/p>\n
Cumva, femeilor pare s\u0103 le scape acest am\u0103nunt.<\/p>\n
Foto: Alamy.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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