{"id":15118,"date":"2018-06-13T10:31:02","date_gmt":"2018-06-13T07:31:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=15118"},"modified":"2018-06-13T10:31:02","modified_gmt":"2018-06-13T07:31:02","slug":"nu-esti-suficient-de-eroina","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/nu-esti-suficient-de-eroina\/","title":{"rendered":"Nu e\u015fti suficient de eroin\u0103!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ieri, am asistat (printre pic\u0103turi, c\u0103 am muncit pe rupte, \u015fi n-am avut timp de conversa\u0163ii pe net), am asistat, cum ziceam, la un spectacol de r\u0103utate internautic\u0103 absolut gratuit\u0103.<\/p>\n

Spe\u0163\u0103: un copil are doi p\u0103rin\u0163i. Tat\u0103l p\u0103r\u0103se\u015fte familia, uit\u0103 de orice fel de responsabilitate p\u0103rinteasc\u0103 \u015fi tr\u0103ie\u015fte cum tr\u0103iam eu la 20 de ani: party, afterparty, preparty, party, afterparty. \u015ei ce face\u0163i voi? Veni\u0163i s\u0103-mi \u00eenjura\u0163i mama, c\u0103 nu e suficient de eroin\u0103.<\/p>\n

Uite, un lucru care descurajeaz\u0103 o parte dintre femei s\u0103 fac\u0103 copii, pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 \u015fansa de a se trezi \u00een ipostaza c\u0103 sunt p\u0103r\u0103site \u015fi trebuie s\u0103 duc\u0103 de unele singure, e exact acest interminabil bullshit al societ\u0103\u0163ii, care spune c\u0103 unicul mod de a fi mam\u0103 e cu steagul virtu\u0163ii la piept \u015fi cu sacrificiul \u00eenainte.<\/p>\n

“De ziua ta, m\u0103mico, \u00een dar \u0163i-am adus inima. \u015ei crede-m\u0103, m\u0103mico,\u00a0 un dar mai frumos nu se putea”.<\/p>\n

Ba se putea. O sticl\u0103 de vin sau o pereche de ciorapi de dam\u0103, negri, cu model, m\u0103sura 4, ar fi fost perfec\u0163i.<\/p>\n

Mamele singure mi se par eroi \u00een sine. Nu trebuie s\u0103 se mai bat\u0103 cu pumnul \u00een piept, s\u0103 recite cli\u015fee din Popt\u0103ma\u015f sau s\u0103 arunce privirea metafizic \u00een zare, ca Decebal c\u0103tre popor, s\u0103 fie eroi.<\/p>\n

Simplul fapt c\u0103, zi de zi, alearg\u0103 s\u0103 v\u00e2neze prada, apoi se \u00eentorc acas\u0103, o jupoaie, o preg\u0103tesc pentru \u0103la mic, \u00eei ascult\u0103 pove\u015ftile adeseori nu foarte coerente, se joac\u0103 cu el, fac noapte alb\u0103 dac\u0103 e bolnav, \u015fi a doua zi se \u00eentorc s\u0103 v\u00e2neze prada ca \u015fi cum nimic nu s-ar fi \u00eent\u00e2mplat mi se pare un efort uria\u015f.<\/p>\n

S\u0103 faci asta f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 te ajute nimeni \u015fi nimic, \u015fi s\u0103 duci asta zi de zi mi se pare adev\u0103ratul eroism al zilelor noastre.<\/p>\n

Pentru c\u0103 \u015ftii c\u0103 e\u015fti singurul st\u00e2lp de rezisten\u0163\u0103 al acelui sufle\u0163el. \u015ei pentru\u00a0 c\u0103 dac\u0103 pe tine te calc\u0103 accidental ma\u015fina, nu mori doar tu, ci \u015fi viitorul lui.<\/p>\n

\u00cen condi\u0163iile astea, eu nu \u00een\u0163eleg cum pot oamenii s\u0103 insulte mamele singure pentru c\u0103 se simt periodic epuizate, pentru c\u0103 se simt periodic dep\u0103\u015fite fizic \u015fi moral, pentru c\u0103 se simt uneori ur\u00e2te \u015fi grase, pentru c\u0103 au\u00a0 pusee de nemul\u0163umire legate de pozi\u0163ia \u00een care au ajuns.<\/p>\n

“Dar cine te-a pus?” am v\u0103zut ieri o \u00eentrebare cretin\u0103.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 faci copii, \u015fi r\u0103m\u00e2i singur\u0103, lumea sare cu “cine te-a pus”.<\/p>\n

Dar dac\u0103 nu-i f\u0103ceai, lumea s\u0103rea s\u0103-\u0163i peroreze c\u0103 TREBUIE s\u0103 faci, c\u0103 menirea femeii e s\u0103 fie mam\u0103 \u015fi altele asemenea. Inclusiv pe Simona Halep, una dintre cele mai mari sportive ale zilelor noastre, s-a g\u0103sit o bovin\u0103 s-o \u00eentrebe \u00een interviu c\u00e2nd are de g\u00e2nd s\u0103 fac\u0103 copii. Dar dac\u0103 \u00een locul ei ar fi fost un ipotetic Simon Halep, \u00eentrebarea asta nesim\u0163it\u0103, intruziv\u0103 \u015fi m\u00e2rl\u0103neasc\u0103 n-ar fi existat. De\u015fi ipoteticul Simon Halep n-ar fi fost blocat fizic de la a face performan\u0163\u0103 timp de doi ani, apoi s\u0103-\u015fi recl\u0103deasc\u0103 pas cu pas nivelul de antrenament din prezent.<\/p>\n

Revenind la faza cu mamele singure:<\/p>\n

\u015eti\u0163i cli\u015feul \u0103la cu “\u00cen spatele fiec\u0103rui b\u0103rbat puternic e o femeie care-i face zilnic ciorb\u0103”?<\/p>\n

Am \u015fi eu:<\/p>\n

“\u00cen spatele fiec\u0103rei mame singure care scrie articole care nu v\u0103 plac e un m\u0103gar odios c\u0103ruia nu i se pare c\u0103 a fi tat\u0103 implic\u0103 vreun efort de orice natur\u0103.”<\/p>\n

Hai s\u0103 nu mai ur\u00e2m f\u0103r\u0103 discern\u0103m\u00e2nt.<\/p>\n

Fi\u0163i \u00een\u0163elep\u0163i, dragii mei.<\/p>\n

Foto: pixabay.com<\/p>\n

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