{"id":15178,"date":"2018-06-25T11:57:42","date_gmt":"2018-06-25T08:57:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=15178"},"modified":"2018-06-25T12:15:10","modified_gmt":"2018-06-25T09:15:10","slug":"unde-e-piedestalizarea-aia-bai-nene-si-cum-se-manifesta-ea","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/unde-e-piedestalizarea-aia-bai-nene-si-cum-se-manifesta-ea\/","title":{"rendered":"Unde e piedestalizarea aia, b\u0103i, nene, \u015fi cum se manifest\u0103 ea?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Periodic, citesc ranturi furioase, lungi \u015fi pline de ur\u0103 despre “piedestalizarea” femeii. C\u0103 uite, femeia, nemernica de ea, are acum atuuri \u00een plus, c\u0103 totul joac\u0103 \u00een jurul ei, c\u0103 e at\u00e2t de simplu s\u0103 fii o \u03c0zd\u0103 \u00een zilele noastre, c\u0103 blablablabla.<\/p>\n

\u015ei de fiecare dat\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb unde rahat e simplitatea aia \u015fi de ce nu se manifest\u0103 \u015fi \u00een direc\u0163ia mea.<\/p>\n

\u00cen general, cei care declar\u0103 c\u0103 femeia e “piedestalizat\u0103” au \u00een vedere un singur aspect. C\u0103 lor le este teribil de greu s\u0103 ob\u0163in\u0103 sex \u015fi, prin compara\u0163ie, orice muiere c\u00e2t de c\u00e2t suportabil\u0103 vizual are parte de 264890865 de propuneri \u00een fiecare zi.<\/p>\n

\u015ei gata, de aici piedestalizarea. Din simplul fapt c\u0103, strict din punct de vedere sexual, ai avea acces la mult mai mult “golaveraj”, dac\u0103 ai \u0163ine neap\u0103rat. \u00eenseamn\u0103 brusc c\u0103 e\u015fti privilegiat\u0103 \u015fi c\u0103 ai o via\u0163\u0103 u\u015foar\u0103.<\/p>\n

Ce omit ei este urm\u0103torul lucru:<\/p>\n

-90% din aceste propuneri sunt f\u0103cute \u00eentr-o manier\u0103 at\u00e2t de pu\u0163in elegant\u0103, \u00eenc\u00e2t reprezint\u0103 mai degrab\u0103 stres \u015fi abuz de timpul omului, dec\u00e2t cine \u015ftie ce \u00eenc\u00e2ntare.<\/p>\n

-9% din restul sunt ok ca formulare, dar de la persoane care nu te intereseaz\u0103 sexual.<\/p>\n

-\u015fi oricum, sexul nu face mare lucru pentru tine, ca om. Nu te face mai cult, nu te face mai de\u015ftept, nu-\u0163i amplific\u0103 experien\u0163a profesional\u0103, nu aduce puncte \u00een plus, prin urmare, e o activitate agreabil\u0103, \u015fi cam at\u00e2t.<\/p>\n

Dar \u00een orice alt domeniu, femeia are de muncit triplu, periodic cvadruplu, s\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi c\u00e2\u015ftige respect \u015fi o reputa\u0163ie.<\/p>\n

Indiferent de ramura de activitate, c\u0103 e business, c\u0103 sunt servicii, c\u0103 e art\u0103, c\u0103 e \u015fantierul unde se pare c\u0103 se duce mai nou cititorimea feminin\u0103 de Lorena Lupu s\u0103 se angajeze – ca femeie ai de trecut mult mai multe teste de rezisten\u0163\u0103, de r\u0103bdare, de num\u0103rat p\u00e2n\u0103 la zece ca s\u0103 nu-i fu*i una interlocutorului, \u015fi a\u015fa mai departe.<\/p>\n

\u015ei nu, \u00een aceste domenii, faptul c\u0103 e\u015fti atr\u0103g\u0103toare nu e un avantaj, ci o povar\u0103. Pentru c\u0103, pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 munca propriu-zis\u0103, se mai nimeresc lurkerii nemernici pe care trebuie perpetuu s\u0103-i trimi\u0163i \u00een banca lor, s\u0103 nu aib\u0103 impresia c\u0103 numitul contract include \u015fi ni\u015fte sexic\u0103, a\u015fa, de bonus.<\/p>\n

Un blogger b\u0103rbat nu are de ce s\u0103 tolereze r\u00e2urile de bale, sau dimpotriv\u0103, de insulte date “de fent\u0103, c\u0103 a\u015fa zic \u015fmecherii c\u0103 impresionezi femeia”. Pe el \u00eel cite\u015fte lumea, \u00eel aprob\u0103 sau nu, \u00een func\u0163ie de con\u0163inut, \u015fi asta e.<\/p>\n

Ca blogger femeie, un prost din trei are impresia c\u0103 dac\u0103-\u0163i laud\u0103 un articol – \u015fi pe bun\u0103 dreptate, pentru c\u0103 dac\u0103 tu te pricepi stelar la un lucru, acela e scrisul – \u00eei datorezi jum\u0103tate de or\u0103 de temenele. Pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 munca normal\u0103 la articole.<\/p>\n

Numai s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na trecut\u0103 m-am v\u0103zut nevoit\u0103 s\u0103 opresc un interviu la jum\u0103tate \u015fi s\u0103 renun\u0163 la a-l mai face, datorit\u0103 impresiei certe a interlocutorului c\u0103 m\u0103 c\u00e2\u015ftigase la belciuge \u015fi c\u0103, dac\u0103 i-am cerut interviu, poate abuza la infinit de timpul meu, \u015fi s\u0103 m\u0103 \u015fi insulte.<\/p>\n

Pentru c\u0103 “piedestalizarea” femeii vine \u015fi cu acest aspect: orice prost are impresia c\u0103 poate s\u0103-\u0163i vorbeasc\u0103 de sus, doar pentru c\u0103 are un organ sexual despre care lumea spune c\u0103 ar valora mai mult dec\u00e2t al t\u0103u.<\/p>\n

Orice cretin are impresia c\u0103 te “valideaz\u0103” prin complimente sau injurii. Care dintre cretinii \u0103\u015ftia ar avea tupeul s\u0103 se duc\u0103 pe wall la Lucian M\u00e2ndru\u0163\u0103, de exemplu, \u015fi s\u0103 pretind\u0103 c\u0103 ei ar fi “validatorii” lui?<\/p>\n

Exact, gen nimeni.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 un blogger b\u0103rbat c\u00e2\u015ftig\u0103 un fan, fanul \u0103la \u015ftie pentru ce e acolo: pentru calitatea textelor. Dac\u0103 un blogger femeie c\u00e2\u015ftig\u0103 un fan, fanul \u0103la va avea impresia c\u0103, pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 texte, mai trebuie s\u0103-i \u015fi acorzi timp privat, sau o s\u0103 te declare arogant\u0103.<\/p>\n

“Piedestalizarea” femeii vine cu o gr\u0103mad\u0103 de deranj nesolicitat \u015fi impresia foarte multora c\u0103 le datorezi lucruri. Vine cu ton poruncitor de la oameni fa\u0163\u0103 de care n-ai nici o obliga\u0163ie, \u015fi foarte pu\u0163in respect pentru priorit\u0103\u0163ile tale personale. Aproape c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 porne\u015fti al treilea r\u0103zboi mondial pentru lucruri pe care un b\u0103rbat obi\u015fnuit trebuie doar s\u0103 le cear\u0103.<\/p>\n

Apoi, vede un gigel care nu face nimic toat\u0103 ziua o tip\u0103 care, dup\u0103 lupte seculare, a ob\u0163inut un nume \u015fi o reputa\u0163ie \u015fi \u00eencepe s\u0103 gui\u0163e c\u00e2t de avantajat\u0103 e ea. Da, pretena\u015f, dar poate c\u0103 ea munce\u015fte de ani buni, zi de zi, s\u0103 ajung\u0103 \u00een punctul acela, \u00een timp ce tu nu po\u0163i fi deranjat s\u0103 mu\u0163i o solni\u0163\u0103 de la st\u00e2nga la dreapta.<\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 piedestalizarea asta \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu mai trimitem toate vl\u0103starele femeie\u015fti direct \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 alte verific\u0103ri la crati\u0163\u0103, merci. \u00cens\u0103, dac\u0103-mi spui c\u0103 asta e o “piedestalizare”, e semn c\u0103 \u00een forul t\u0103u interior consideri c\u0103 ar fi trebuit. Pentru c\u0103 nu-i a\u015fa, claselor inferioare le facem o favoare c\u00e2nd le acord\u0103m drepturi omene\u015fti normale.<\/p>\n

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