{"id":15228,"date":"2018-07-04T08:54:53","date_gmt":"2018-07-04T05:54:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=15228"},"modified":"2018-07-04T08:54:53","modified_gmt":"2018-07-04T05:54:53","slug":"despre-reaparitia-metodei-de-racolare-loverboy-in-moldova","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/despre-reaparitia-metodei-de-racolare-loverboy-in-moldova\/","title":{"rendered":"Despre reapari\u0163ia metodei de racolare Loverboy \u00een Moldova"},"content":{"rendered":"

Prin 2009 – 2010, metoda de proxenetism “Loverboy” f\u0103cea ravagii \u00een satele rom\u00e2ne\u015fti lovite de s\u0103r\u0103cie, unde educa\u0163ia sexual\u0103 era interzis\u0103 cu os\u00e2rdie de popa din sat \u015fi ignoran\u0163a se \u0163inea str\u00e2ns \u00een bra\u0163e cu foamea.
\nPractic, ni\u015fte fete de oameni s\u0103raci erau ademenite precum urmeaz\u0103: ap\u0103rea un b\u0103rbat \u015farmant, care le trata ca pe prin\u0163ese, le cump\u0103ra c\u00e2te-n lun\u0103 \u015fi-n stele, \u015fi le \u00eembrobodea complet. Apoi, subit b\u0103rbatul se d\u0103dea lovit de faliment, \u015fi s\u0103raca fat\u0103 iubitoare \u00ee\u015fi dorea s\u0103-i fie al\u0103turi \u015fi s\u0103-l ajute. Iar solu\u0163ia magic\u0103 era mereu s\u0103 plece \u00eempreun\u0103 \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate, unde ea s\u0103 fac\u0103 prostitu\u0163ie, dar nu mult, numai o scurt\u0103 perioad\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 i se rezolvau lui problemele. Cu mica diferen\u0163\u0103 c\u0103 nu i se rezolvau niciodat\u0103, ci se agravau misterios.<\/p>\n

Metoda Loverboy era at\u00e2t de r\u0103sp\u00e2ndit\u0103, c\u0103 regizorul C\u0103t\u0103lin Mitulescu a \u015fi f\u0103cut un film omonim, de relativ succes, \u00een 2011, cu Ada Condeescu \u015fi George Pi\u015ftereanu \u00een rolurile principale, \u015fi filmul a \u015fi pus lumina de reflector pe acest fenomen, f\u0103c\u00e2nd s\u0103 fie discutat la televiziuni, radiouri, pe re\u0163ele sociale, cre\u00e2nd senza\u0163ia c\u0103 lumea a fost suficient vaccinat\u0103 \u00eempotriva acestor metode abjecte de exploatare a naivit\u0103\u0163ii tineretului.<\/p>\n

Dar nu.<\/p>\n

Poate pentru c\u0103 s\u0103r\u0103cia \u015fi ignoran\u0163a s-au accentuat, poate c\u0103 genera\u0163ia respectiv\u0103 s-a maturizat deja \u015fi mul\u0163i au plecat \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate, la un job legitim de aceast\u0103 dat\u0103, \u015fi au venit din urm\u0103 al\u0163i copii naivi \u015fi dornici de iubire, cert e c\u0103 \u00een sudul Moldovei a reap\u0103rut fenomenul Loverboy, \u00een grup infrac\u0163ional organizat (\u00eenc\u0103 putem folosi termenul), \u015fi a f\u0103cut peste 600 de victime anul trecut.<\/p>\n

Jurnalistul Sebastian Oancea de la ziarul Realitatea de Vrancea a realizat materialul pe care \u00eel pute\u0163i vedea aici<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi m-a rugat s\u0103 r\u0103sp\u00e2ndesc \u015fi eu vorba, laolalt\u0103 cu c\u00e2teva metode de awareness.<\/p>\n

\u015ei anume:<\/p>\n

1. Ladies, nu mai crede\u0163i \u00een dragostea feroce \u015fi cu gheb la prima vedere<\/strong><\/p>\n

Un b\u0103rbat cu \u0163iglele pe cas\u0103 nu are de ce s\u0103 fac\u0103 ca o \u00eentreag\u0103 gr\u0103din\u0103 zoologic\u0103 doar pentru c\u0103 a sc\u0103pat o privire spre voi. Unul care real caut\u0103 o rela\u0163ie e mai precaut, vrea s\u0103 v\u0103 cunoasc\u0103 mai bine, o ia pas cu pas \u015fi v\u0103 acord\u0103 respect.<\/p>\n

2. Ladies, nici un b\u0103rbat cu un minimum de demnitate \u015fi de verticalitate nu-\u015fi va proiecta problemele financiare \u00een capul vostru.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Am \u00eent\u00e2lnit b\u0103rba\u0163i c\u0103rora am \u00eencercat eu s\u0103 le ofer bani \u015fi au s\u0103rit \u00een sus de parc\u0103-i \u00eenjurasem. \u015ei ok, poate omul vostru va trece \u015fi prin perioade grele, dar \u00een nici un caz nu se va a\u015ftepta de la voi s\u0103-l scoate\u0163i din ele, \u015fi mai ales nu v\u0103 va pretinde s\u0103 v\u0103 prostitua\u0163i pentru asta.
\nDac\u0103 o face, a\u0163i c\u0103zut \u00een capcana unui Loverboy. Rupe\u0163i rela\u0163ia \u015fi vede\u0163i-v\u0103 de ale voastre.<\/p>\n

3. P\u0103rin\u0163i, fi\u0163i mai prieteni cu copiii vo\u015ftri<\/strong><\/p>\n

Un copil care are \u00eencredere c\u0103 e iubit de p\u0103rin\u0163i \u015fi prime\u015fte suficient\u0103 afec\u0163iune din partea lor \u00eei va pune \u00een tem\u0103 cu tot ce i se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103. Unul bruftuluit \u015fi perpetuu umilit va umbla pe \u015festache. \u015ei, next thing you know, ia-\u0163i copilul de unde nu e, \u015fi da, numai tu e\u015fti de vin\u0103. C\u0103 ai preferat s\u0103-l educi prin metoda strivirii, nu prin aceea a construc\u0163iei.
\nUn copil pe care l-ai strivit tu, ca s\u0103 \u0163i-l faci maleabil, e gata victim\u0103 pentru oricine va avea chef s\u0103-i mai zg\u00e2rme pu\u0163in r\u0103nile suflete\u015fti.<\/p>\n

4.<\/strong> Dac\u0103 prostitu\u0163ia ar fi o cale de ie\u015fire din s\u0103r\u0103cie, toate tanti \u015ftirbe care p\u0103zesc diversele ie\u015firi ale Bucure\u015ftiului n-ar exista.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Da, se produc mul\u0163i bani, dar ace\u015ftia \u00eel \u00eembog\u0103\u0163esc DOAR pe proxenet. \u015ei, pentru c\u0103 prostitu\u0163ia e ilegal\u0103, \u015fi prin urmare, nu exist\u0103 un Credidam al breslei, orice form\u0103 de protec\u0163ie a intereselor tale fa\u0163\u0103 de acesta este egal\u0103 cu zero.<\/p>\n

5. \u00cen multe locuri, poli\u0163ia \u00ee\u015fi ia \u015fpaga ei, \u015fi nu v\u0103 va proteja.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

De vin\u0103 e mereu victima, c\u0103 purta fust\u0103 scurt\u0103.<\/p>\n

6. Dac\u0103 o ofert\u0103 sun\u0103 mult prea bun\u0103 s\u0103 fie adev\u0103rat\u0103, probabil c\u0103 este.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Fi\u0163i vigilen\u0163i. Fi\u0163i cu capul pe umeri. Nu ave\u0163i nimic de demonstrat nim\u0103nui, \u015fi un om care v\u0103 iube\u015fte nu v\u0103 va cere s\u0103 v\u0103 compromite\u0163i sistemul de valori pentru el.<\/p>\n

Foto: Marius Filipoiu.<\/p>\n

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