{"id":15411,"date":"2018-08-16T09:20:48","date_gmt":"2018-08-16T06:20:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=15411"},"modified":"2018-08-16T09:48:34","modified_gmt":"2018-08-16T06:48:34","slug":"despre-mustratorii-nesolicitati","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/despre-mustratorii-nesolicitati\/","title":{"rendered":"Despre mustr\u0103torii nesolicita\u0163i"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dup\u0103 cum bine \u015ftie toat\u0103 lumea, am luat din nou ban de 30 de zile pe Facebook. \u015ei de data asta, nici m\u0103car nu am ce contesta. L-am luat c\u0103 m-au raportat goarnele PSD pentru profanitate (cuvinte ur\u00e2te, Gicu\u0163\u0103) \u015fi realitatea e c\u0103, dup\u0103 \u015focul de pe 10 august, a plouat pe wallul meu cu m***e, fela\u0163ie, papacioac\u0103 \u015fi decalotare oral\u0103 PSD, cum nu mai scrisesem de prin 2012.<\/p>\n

Nu am cum s\u0103 scriu celor de la Facebook c\u0103 m-au blocat pe nedrept. Realitatea e c\u0103 am \u00eenjurat pe rupte.<\/p>\n

Iar explica\u0163ia e simpl\u0103. Ceea ce am tr\u0103it pe 10 august a fost un \u015foc \u015fi o traum\u0103.<\/p>\n

Momentul \u00een care ni\u015fte oameni \u00eencep s\u0103-\u0163i \u00eemproa\u015fte, propriu-zis, gaze toxice \u00een direc\u0163ia ta general\u0103, iar tu ai, pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 arsurile \u015fi usturimile specifice, o reac\u0163ie alergic\u0103 sever\u0103, \u015fi sim\u0163i c\u0103 te sufoci \u015fi nu po\u0163i respira – toate astea reprezint\u0103 un \u015foc \u015fi o traum\u0103. \u015ei din secunda aia, de cum v\u0103d propagandist pesedist invent\u00e2nd pretexte t\u00e2mpite s\u0103 se ia de 10 august \u015fi de lumea din pia\u0163\u0103, \u015fi ignor\u00e2nd senin iadul prin care au trecut zeci de mii de oameni nevinova\u0163i, vine cu bullshit f\u0103r\u0103 leg\u0103tur\u0103, \u00eei iau mor\u0163ii la p*** pe loc.<\/p>\n

Pe 10 august am sim\u0163it pentru prima oar\u0103 moartea ca posibilitate imediat\u0103.<\/p>\n

\u015ei pe cale de consecin\u0163\u0103, primele dou\u0103-trei zile de dup\u0103, am \u00eenjurat ca la u\u015fa cortului.<\/p>\n

Dou\u0103 tipologii de reac\u0163ii au fost de la sine \u00een\u0163elese.<\/p>\n

A) Adeziunea<\/p>\n

To\u0163i ceilal\u0163i care au fost acolo, \u015fi unii care n-au fost, dar au auzit pove\u015fti, au un prieten, o rud\u0103, un coleg, care au fost r\u0103ni\u0163i, agresa\u0163i, lovi\u0163i, afuma\u0163i cu gaz lacrimogen, r\u0103spund cu empatia fireasc\u0103 \u00een situa\u0163ie, \u015fi nu am de ce s\u0103 lungesc ideea foarte tare. E nevoie de un nivel de tic\u0103lo\u015fie extrem s\u0103 \u00eencepi s\u0103 ba\u0163i c\u00e2mpii pe l\u00e2ng\u0103, cum a f\u0103cut l\u0103tura asta uman\u0103 care a zburat ieri cu bolt\u0103 din lista mea:<\/p>\n

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Oook, v\u0103d c\u0103 l\u0103tura uman\u0103 mi-a dat block. Ideea e c\u0103 o tentativ\u0103 e\u015fuat\u0103 de om postase o imagine de la protest, cu doi oameni \u00een negru \u00eencercui\u0163i din paint, \u015fi scrisese ceva de genul “\u0102stora le-a murit feti\u0163a acum c\u00e2teva zile \u015fi lor le arde de protestat, \u0103\u015ftia sunt rezist.” Cam at\u00e2t sunt de josnici.<\/p>\n

B) \u00cenjur\u0103turile \u00een ripost\u0103<\/p>\n

Sincer, dintre postacul ordinar care m\u0103 \u00eenjur\u0103 \u015fi cel care m\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103 rahat despre vie\u0163ile private ale participan\u0163ilor la protest ca s\u0103 justifice cu idio\u0163enii neconcludente abuzurile, \u00eel voi prefera \u00eentotdeauna pe primul.<\/p>\n

A \u00eenjura \u00een replic\u0103 la o \u00eenjur\u0103tur\u0103 e o reac\u0163ie sincer\u0103, visceral\u0103 \u015fi oarecum fireasc\u0103. A l\u0103f\u0103i pe net drama personal\u0103 a altora ca s\u0103-\u0163i justifici propria intoleran\u0163\u0103 abject\u0103 e strict un gest m\u00e2rl\u0103nesc p\u00e2n\u0103-n profunzimi \u015fi de neiertat pe toate planurile.<\/p>\n

C\u00e2nd tu postezi pe wall #mpsd, \u00ee\u0163i asumi c\u0103 la un moment dat cineva va veni la tine pe wall \u015fi va intona nazal: “\u015ei duuuuuhuuuului t\u0103\u0103u”, deci nu e nimic \u00een neregul\u0103 cu asta din punctul meu de vedere.<\/p>\n

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Apoi a existat \u015fi genul de reac\u0163ie care m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 desprietenesc \u015fi s\u0103 blochez 30 de persoane, iar aia a fost “Oh, vai, cum poate o femeie s\u0103 \u00eenjure”.<\/p>\n

Ei, uite, c\u0103 poate. Alt\u0103 \u00eentrebare?<\/p>\n

Dar, obiectiv, preten\u0163ia asta ca femeile s\u0103-\u015fi cenzureze public tr\u0103irile \u015fi emo\u0163iile umane naturale, s\u0103 po\u0163i face tu laba la ele mai cu spor, mi se pare o pozi\u0163ie a dracu’ de egoist\u0103. Sora bun\u0103 a lui “De ce s\u0103 aib\u0103 gay-ii rela\u0163ii, mie mi-e sil\u0103 s\u0103 v\u0103d pe strad\u0103 b\u0103rba\u0163i care se \u0163in de m\u00e2n\u0103.”<\/p>\n

\u00cen via\u0163\u0103, e vorba de mai mult dec\u00e2t pl\u0103cerile tale. Oamenii \u00ee\u015fi datoreaz\u0103 \u00een primul r\u00e2nd LOR \u00ceN\u015eI\u015eI lucruri, \u015fi abia dup\u0103 aceea, dac\u0103 ALEG EI, \u00een cadrul unui raport contractual bine definit, \u0163ie. S\u0103-i ceri unui om traumatizat s\u0103 nu \u00eenjure e ca \u015fi cum i-ai cere unuia r\u0103nit s\u0103 nu s\u00e2ngereze, c\u0103 nu te excit\u0103 pe tine.<\/p>\n

Sorry, via\u0163a e despre mult mai mult dec\u00e2t ce te excit\u0103 pe tine, iar eu nu-mi voi coafa \u00een via\u0163a mea reac\u0163iile s\u0103 corespund\u0103 listei de preten\u0163ii a cuiva care nu are niciun temei obiectiv pentru preten\u0163ii.<\/p>\n

P\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, atitudinea asta pudic\u0103 e ca veganismul.<\/p>\n

Duci tu o via\u0163\u0103 pudic\u0103 \u015fi traduci “fuck” cu “la naiba” ca doamna Nistor?<\/p>\n

More power to you.<\/p>\n

Eventual faci la tine pe wall teoria limbajului elevat \u015fi te umfli \u00een pene pentru nefolosirea anumitor cuvinte?<\/p>\n

More power to you.<\/p>\n

Dar nu veni s\u0103-mi spui mie ce s\u0103 fac. Am aceea\u015fi libertate de exerci\u0163iu al op\u0163iunilor, pe care o ai \u015fi tu. \u015ei o p\u0103sare sub nivelul m\u0103rii legat\u0103 de ce ar trebui s\u0103 fac\u0103 o femeie. Iar asta pentru c\u0103 niciodat\u0103 un predicator al regulilor aplicabile la femeie n-a folosit asta s\u0103 ofere ceva. N-a fost niciodat\u0103 “E\u015fti femeie, deci f\u0103 ce vrei tu.” \/ “Cucere\u015fte universul.” \/ “Ia de aici.”<\/p>\n

Mereu, a fost “e\u015fti femeie, deci nu ai voie s\u0103.”<\/p>\n

Iar \u00een condi\u0163iile astea, m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 foarte pu\u0163in spre deloc s\u0103 fiu femeie. \u015ei spre norocul meu, avem acum \u015fi terminologia pentru asta. Sunt non-binary.<\/p>\n

Lua\u0163i-v\u0103 lec\u0163ioarele referitoare la feminitate \u015fi \u00eempl\u00e2nta\u0163i-vi-le ad\u00e2nc \u00een partea dorsal\u0103.<\/p>\n

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\u00ce\u0163i plac textele Trollywood? Po\u0163i sus\u0163ine \u015fi tu proiectul.<\/p>\n

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Urm\u0103torul spectacol “NCSF” al trupei mele de parodii ZZ Bottom e pe 25 august, la Bispen Restaurant, Calea 13 Septembrie 108 – 112 (dincolo de Marriott, pe acela\u015fi trotuar), iar \u00een pre\u0163ul biletului intr\u0103 \u015fi un free drink de la S\u00e2mbure\u015fti.
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