{"id":15557,"date":"2018-09-12T13:58:46","date_gmt":"2018-09-12T10:58:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=15557"},"modified":"2018-09-12T13:58:46","modified_gmt":"2018-09-12T10:58:46","slug":"aceste-clisee-ne-dor-lupt-pentru-familia-formata-din-tati-mami-si-copil","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/aceste-clisee-ne-dor-lupt-pentru-familia-formata-din-tati-mami-si-copil\/","title":{"rendered":"Aceste cli\u015fee ne dor: “Lupt pentru familia format\u0103 din tati, mami \u015fi copil”"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nu are cum s\u0103 nu m\u0103 amuze cum se umfl\u0103 t\u0103r\u00e2\u0163a zilele astea \u00een to\u0163i facebucarii tradi\u0163ionali\u015fti, \u0103ia care cic\u0103 ap\u0103r\u0103 familia tradi\u0163ional\u0103. “Suntem \u00een slujba mai binelui. Ap\u0103r\u0103m familia format\u0103 din mam\u0103, tat\u0103 \u015fi copila\u015f adorabil nevinovat”.
\n\u015ei, desigur, eternele poze cu familia \u00een haine albite \u00een Photoshop, plutind feeric la loc cu verdea\u0163\u0103, ca \u015fi cum \u00een eterica lume a familiei tradi\u0163ionale hainele nu se murd\u0103resc \u015fi copiii nu se \u00eempiedic\u0103 de un ciot \u015fi nu cad \u00een fund. <\/p>\n

A\u015fa \u00eei inflameaz\u0103 CPF pe to\u0163i boii f\u0103r\u0103 un neuron activ. “Dac\u0103 lup\u0163i pentru noi, lup\u0163i pentru familia perfect\u0103, aia cu mu\u015fcate \u00een pridvor \u015fi cear\u015fafuri albe la uscat. Aia care are mereu buc\u0103t\u0103ria lun\u0103 \u015fi z\u00e2mbete de reclam\u0103 la Dero”. P\u0103i cum c\u0103cat s\u0103 nu lup\u0163i pentru a\u015fa ceva? <\/p>\n

Vestea tragic\u0103 pentru to\u0163i cretinii \u0103\u015ftia e c\u0103 nimeni nu te \u00eempiedic\u0103 s\u0103-\u0163i creezi o astfel de familie exact acum, cu legile astea, \u00een timp ce cite\u015fti acest text. Nimeni nu te \u00eempiedic\u0103 s\u0103 te \u00eensori cu Marioara, s\u0103 v\u0103 pune\u0163i mu\u015fcate la pridvor, cear\u015fafuri albe la uscat, buc\u0103t\u0103rie lun\u0103 \u015fi z\u00e2mbete de reclam\u0103 Dero. <\/p>\n

Nici o parad\u0103 gay nu a avut vreodat\u0103 scopul s\u0103-l limiteze pe Dorel \u00een dreptul lui de a o lua pe M\u0103rioara de nevast\u0103. Dac\u0103 asta \u00ee\u015fi doreau am\u00e2ndoi. Tot ce cereau paradele gay din toat\u0103 lumea era ca Dorel \u015fi M\u0103rioara s\u0103 fie at\u00e2t de amabili s\u0103-\u015fi vad\u0103 de familia lor tradi\u0163ional\u0103 \u015fi de crati\u0163a lor de tocan\u0103, \u015fi s\u0103-i lase \u015fi pe al\u0163ii s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 \u00een lini\u015fte. <\/p>\n

O lume deschis\u0103, divers\u0103 nu e o lume care s\u0103 vrea s\u0103 anuleze dreptul t\u0103u de a-\u0163i lua nevast\u0103 \u015fi a face copii. Degeaba \u00eencerci s\u0103 potrive\u015fti narativa \u00een a\u015fa fel, \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103-\u0163i dea cu opresiune \u0163ie. \u00centr-o lume deschis\u0103, divers\u0103, tu po\u0163i continua s\u0103 te \u00eensori, s\u0103 faci copii \u015fi s\u0103-i cre\u015fti, \u00een timp ce al\u0163ii pot tr\u0103i, \u00een lini\u015fte \u015fi pace, cum vor ei s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103. <\/p>\n

Dar modificarea prezent\u0103 a constitu\u0163iei nu este despre dreptul de a avea familie, ci despre obliga\u0163ia b\u0103gat\u0103 pe g\u00e2t cu for\u0163a de a avea famile tradi\u0163ional\u0103, fie c\u0103 e\u015fti preg\u0103tit de a\u015fa ceva, fie c\u0103 nu. Despre coerci\u0163ie \u015fi intruziune \u00een via\u0163a privat\u0103. Despre f*tere de grij\u0103 legat\u0103 de via\u0163a intim\u0103 a altora. Despre un mod de g\u00e2ndire profund toxic, umilitor, despre presiune social\u0103: “E\u015fti ca noi sau te elimin\u0103m.” <\/p>\n

Aceia\u015fi idio\u0163i vin s\u0103 latre c\u0103 paradele gay au rolul s\u0103 “\u00eenmul\u0163easc\u0103 num\u0103rul gay-ilor”, ca \u015fi cum a fi gay ar fi o boal\u0103 contagioas\u0103. M\u0103 atr\u0103geau b\u0103rba\u0163ii, dar nu \u015ftiu ce era \u00een aer la parada gay, c\u0103 de atunci m\u0103 uit numai la femei”. <\/p>\n

\u015etim c\u0103 NU FUNC\u0162IONEAZ\u0102 A\u015eA. \u015etim, fiecare dintre noi, ce anume ne atrage, \u015fi al\u0163ii pot s\u0103 stea \u015fi-n cap, \u015fi-n c*r, \u015fi tot nu va func\u0163iona. <\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 vin coerci\u0163ia \u015fi intruziunea, putem cel mult s\u0103 min\u0163im. S\u0103 ne neg\u0103m pe noi \u00een\u015fine, s\u0103 desen\u0103m o aparen\u0163\u0103, s\u0103 tr\u0103im vie\u0163i care nu-s ale noastre, \u00een numele unui poster de Dero. \u015ei asta nu e o societate \u00een care s\u0103 vreau s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentorc. <\/p>\n

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