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\nvia Renata-Adelina Ionescu. <\/p>\n
\u00cen ultima vreme, fie c\u0103 a venit sezonul \u00eens\u0103m\u00e2n\u0163\u0103rilor de toamn\u0103, fie c\u0103 a \u00eenceput s\u0103 func\u0163ioneze propaganda aia alt-right cu “comportamentul natural b\u0103rb\u0103tesc e s\u0103 dai t\u00e2rcoale oric\u0103rei femei ca unei g\u0103uri cu ceva celule \u00een jur”, cert e c\u0103 din cinci b\u0103rba\u0163i cu care te \u00eemprietene\u015fti pe Facebook, minimum trei o s\u0103 sar\u0103 direct \u00een mailboxul t\u0103u privat, cu cf frumoasa, ar\u0103\u0163i bine \u00een poze, hai s\u0103 ne antalnim, video call, curv\u0103 ur\u00e2t\u0103 \u015fi proast\u0103, de ce nu r\u0103spunzi.<\/p>\n
Nu r\u0103spund, sau r\u0103spund politicos \u015fi expeditiv, dintr-un motiv foarte simplu: contul meu de Facebook e integral dedicat bloggingului \u015fi celorlalte proiecte ale mele. At\u00e2t. Nu caut un b\u0103rbat. \u015ei, noi fiind cu des\u0103v\u00e2r\u015fire str\u0103ini, atitudinea de parc\u0103 ne tr\u0103geam de \u015fireturi pe maidan mi se pare total deplasat\u0103 \u015fi nelalocul ei. De ce i-ai vorbi unui om care nu te cunoa\u015fte pe un ton ca \u015fi cum ai fi trecut minimum o dat\u0103 prin dormitorul lui? What the actual fuck?<\/p>\n
A\u015f putea face un poll pe Facebook printre gagici, \u015fi probabil c\u0103 100% ar vota c\u0103 nu le place s\u0103 le sar\u0103 mailboxul \u00een aer din secunda \u00een care dau accept pe o re\u0163ea social\u0103 unui b\u0103rbat. Dar stai. A existat \u015fi un #metoo, recent, unde sute de mii de femei au povestit c\u00e2t de tare le displace h\u0103r\u0163uirea de la necunoscu\u0163i nedori\u0163i, \u015fi totu\u015fi, pe site-uri alt-right, #metoo e un fel de statu’ paralel care nu ne las\u0103 s\u0103 conducem.<\/p>\n
Serios, b\u0103rba\u0163i. O tot spun. Arunca\u0163i un ochi pe wallul femeii, \u00eenainte s\u0103 \u00eencepe\u0163i s-o freca\u0163i la icre. Ve\u0163i vedea care e \u00een c\u0103utare \u015fi care nu. Care are poten\u0163ial de a pune botul \u015fi care nu. Aia care poveste\u015fte numai despre subiecte care n-au leg\u0103tur\u0103, ba poate, chiar a dat un rant fix pe tema messengerelii private, categoric NU se va l\u0103sa ag\u0103\u0163at\u0103. \u015ei guess what.<\/p>\n
E dreptul omului s\u0103 nu vrea.<\/p>\n
\nvia Renata-Adelina Ionescu. <\/p>\n
Acest blog e \u00een mare m\u0103sur\u0103 ajutat de dona\u0163iile cititorilor, \u015fi e tare bine c\u00e2nd vin. Dar diferen\u0163a \u00eentre a fi un blog normal sus\u0163inut de cititori \u015fi a fi eu o javr\u0103 agasant\u0103 e exact asta: nu m\u0103 apuc s\u0103 h\u0103r\u0163uiesc privat orice nou friend, s\u0103 extrag cu sila bani. Unii devin donatori \u00een timp, de la sine, pentru c\u0103 textele le spun ceva. Cam a\u015fa e \u015fi cu dragostea. Dac\u0103 \u00eencerci s-o extragi repede \u015fi cu sila, pari un c\u0103cat cu ochi. Indiferent ce bra\u015foave \u00ee\u0163i vinde alt right.<\/p>\n
Hai s\u0103 facem o compara\u0163ie \u00eentre “cf frumoasa” al vostru privat \u015fi spamurile nigeriene.<\/p>\n
Exact ca Mwagungu Bheregenge, tu, \u00een momentul acceptului, e\u015fti un simplu nume. F\u0103r\u0103 identitate. M\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 o declara\u0163ie de amor de la tine cam c\u00e2t m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 s\u0103 primesc o promisiune de mo\u015ftenire de la\u00a0Mwagungu Bheregenge. \u015ei o declara\u0163ie de amor de la tine e exact at\u00e2t de credibil\u0103, \u00een momentul unui accept pe social media, ca promisiunea de mo\u015ftenire de la Mwagungu Bheregenge. <\/p>\n
\u015ei dup\u0103 aceea cau\u0163i cu diverse tertipuri s\u0103 lunge\u015fti conversa\u0163ia, de\u015fi \u0163i s-a spus s\u0103 nu o faci. \u00cen secunda aia, ai picat exact testul abilit\u0103\u0163ii de a respecta boundaries. “Ce e \u0103la boundaries, Lorena, la noi la Cucuie\u0163i nu s\u0103 g\u0103se\u015fte la magazin.” Boundaries e limita natural\u0103 a disponibilit\u0103\u0163ii unui om. Unii sunt gata s\u0103 te ia acas\u0103 din prima \u015fi s\u0103-\u0163i dea p\u00e2ine \u015fi sare. Acestea sunt boundaries ale lor \u015fi nu e nimic \u00een neregul\u0103. Dar E TOTUL \u00een neregul\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eencerci s\u0103 for\u0163ezi asta asupra unui om care nu e disponibil \u00een acest fel.<\/p>\n
\u015ei revin cu exemplul dona\u0163iilor, c\u0103 banii sunt nongendered \u015fi, miracol, pe ei \u00eei \u00een\u0163eleg \u015fi b\u0103rba\u0163ii, \u015fi femeile.<\/p>\n
Am donatori de 100 de euro, \u015fi am donatori de 2 euro. Fiecare dup\u0103 cum \u00eei permite bugetul. Ar fi culmea nesim\u0163irii s\u0103 m\u0103 n\u0103pustesc pe \u0103la de 2 euro \u015fi s\u0103 \u00eencep s\u0103-l frec atroce la icre, c\u0103 uite, al\u0163ii ce fac. Ce fac al\u0163ii e treaba, bugetul, posibilitatea altora. Corect e s\u0103-i respec\u0163i pe fiecare, \u015fi s\u0103-i exprimi o apreciere la fel de sincer\u0103 \u015fi primului, \u015fi celui de-al doilea.<\/p>\n
Poate c\u0103 pe termen scurt e teribil de satisf\u0103c\u0103tor s\u0103 agasezi oameni, dar tocmai ai pierdut, \u00een interac\u0163iune, respectul unui om.<\/p>\n
\u015ei\u00a0Mwagungu Bheregenge o s\u0103 \u00eenceap\u0103 s\u0103 te frece agasant cu noi, \u015fi noi mailuri, dac\u0103 \u00eel bagi \u00een seam\u0103. Diferen\u0163a e c\u0103 \u0103la are de c\u00e2\u015ftigat c\u00e2teva mii de dolari de la prost, dac\u0103-l p\u0103c\u0103le\u015fte, iar tu, maximum un act sexual impersonal \u015fi lipsit de sare \u015fi piper de la vreo g\u00e2sculi\u0163\u0103 cu care \u0163ine figura.<\/p>\n
Merit\u0103?<\/p>\n
Nu mai bine te duci tu frumos pe anuntul.ro, unde de 100 lei ora, te f*te aia pe toate p\u0103r\u0163ile \u015fi mai \u015fi pleac\u0103 la final, \u015fi r\u0103m\u00e2i la interac\u0163iuni umane normale pe Facebook?<\/p>\n
Serios, faptul c\u0103 tu ai nevoie disperat\u0103 s\u0103 te acuplezi NU e treaba nim\u0103nui. Nimeni nu are datoria magic\u0103 s\u0103 fie r\u0103spunsul la problemele tale. \u015ei poate \u00een dou\u0103-trei zile chiar o s\u0103 fac acel poll, s\u0103 vezi \u015fi tu negru pe alb c\u0103 femeile NU vor s\u0103 fie abordate la gr\u0103mad\u0103, \u00een stil spam nigerian,\u00a0 c\u0103 abordarea \u00een stil spam nigerian ne e la fel de transparent\u0103 cum \u0163i-e \u0163ie un mail de la\u00a0Mwagungu Bheregenge \u015fi c\u0103 nu ai nimic real de c\u00e2\u015ftigat.<\/p>\n
Nu, nu-mi mul\u0163umi pentru accept, e ok. \u015ei tu, \u015fi eu \u015ftim c\u0103 e un pretext ca dup\u0103 aceea s\u0103 \u00eentrebi. “\u015ei ce faci, frumoasa?” Exact ce se vede pe wall \u015fi nimic \u00een plus \u00een ceea ce te prive\u015fte.<\/p>\n
“\u015ei atunci, eu cum socializez totu\u015fi cu femei pe Facebook”.<\/p>\n
Comenteaz\u0103 la post\u0103ri publice. F\u0103 un dialog interesant, pe o tem\u0103 pe care o st\u0103p\u00e2ne\u015fti. Spune lucruri noi. F\u0103-o s\u0103 se bucure c\u00e2nd prime\u015fte un comment de la tine, nu s\u0103 dea ochii peste cap, a “mam\u0103, ce jenant e \u0103sta, fraaate, din ce copac a c\u0103zut.”<\/p>\n
Cum se v\u0103ic\u0103rea un specimen zilele trecute: “Din cincizeci de femei, numai una vrea s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 cu mine.”<\/p>\n
Iar eu \u00eentreb: nu e \u0103sta un hint suficient de clar de la karma c\u0103 abordarea “ag\u0103\u0163at” e o pierdere cr\u00e2ncen\u0103 de vreme? Nu e dovada mai mult dec\u00e2t limpede c\u0103 nu a\u015fa merge treaba?<\/p>\n
Cum se face c\u0103 nu vedem nici un PUA cu adev\u0103rat fericit vreodat\u0103? Unul care real s\u0103 z\u00e2mbeasc\u0103 larg, din toat\u0103 inima, \u015fi s\u0103-l sim\u0163i c\u0103 e satisf\u0103cut de via\u0163a pe care o duce? Cum se face c\u0103 to\u0163i arat\u0103 ca ni\u015fte animale lihnite, h\u0103ituite \u015fi agasate?<\/p>\n
R\u0103spuns: pentru c\u0103 oamenii \u0103\u015ftia caut\u0103 s\u0103 extrag\u0103 de la al\u0163i oameni lucruri pe care acei al\u0163i oameni NU AU DE CE s\u0103 le ofere. Cam ca\u00a0Mwagungu Bheregenge.<\/p>\n
\u00cenceteaz\u0103 s\u0103 mai prive\u015fti femeile ca pe acest grup de manevr\u0103 care trebuie “p\u0103c\u0103lit”, \u015fi subit, o s\u0103 te relaxezi maxim. Iar un b\u0103rbat relaxat e cam cu 50% mai sexy dec\u00e2t unul care \u00eencearc\u0103 foarte tare s\u0103 v\u00e2nd\u0103 kktul drept diamant.<\/p>\n
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