{"id":15674,"date":"2018-10-01T12:28:49","date_gmt":"2018-10-01T09:28:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=15674"},"modified":"2018-10-02T10:58:47","modified_gmt":"2018-10-02T07:58:47","slug":"conditia-de-snowflake","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/conditia-de-snowflake\/","title":{"rendered":"Hai s\u0103 ne asum\u0103m condi\u0163ia de snowflake"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00cen ultima vreme, de c\u00e2te ori cau\u0163i s\u0103 argumentezi pentru oricare dintre drepturile omului, fie c\u0103 o faci \u00een englez\u0103 pe Instagram, fie c\u0103 o faci \u00een rom\u00e2ne\u015fte pe Facebook, cineva o s\u0103 sar\u0103 s\u0103 te fac\u0103 “snowflake”. Mai ales pe Insta, unde nivelul de \u00eembibare al unor cretinei cu sp\u0103lare pe creieri alt-right este mai ridicat, sau poate nu am eu bula de intelectuali fini care m\u0103 \u00eenconjoar\u0103 pe Facebook \u015fi cumva sunt mai expus\u0103 intemperiilor vremii.<\/p>\n

Pentru urechea superficial\u0103, “snowflake”-ul lui 2018 ar putea p\u0103rea “hipsterul” lui 2008, \u015fi ambele ar putea \u00eensemna “cineva care nu vrea s\u0103 se f**\u0103 cu tine”.<\/p>\n

\u00cen realitate, lucrurile sunt ceva mai nuan\u0163ate. \u015ei snowflake \u015fi hipsterul au aspira\u0163ii ceva mai \u00eenalte legate de via\u0163a lor dec\u00e2t disponibilitatea de a b\u0103ga bere Bucegi la 2 litri \u015fi de a asculta manele cu \u0103la care-i contacteaz\u0103. \u015ei atunci, \u0103la care-i contacteaz\u0103 ar putea avea op\u0163iunea, desigur, s\u0103-\u015fi asume nepotrivirea de caractere \u015fi s\u0103 plece mai departe. Sau ar putea s\u0103 se civilizeze. Sau, ceea ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 ce mai des: o s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103-i fac\u0103 pe hipster, \u015fi acum pe snowflake s\u0103 se simt\u0103 prost legat de op\u0163iunile lor de via\u0163\u0103, s\u0103-i “aduc\u0103 cu picioarele pe p\u0103m\u00e2nt” (aka s\u0103-i conving\u0103 c\u0103 nu merit\u0103 mai mult dec\u00e2t Bucegi la 2 litri \u015fi manele), \u015fi o s\u0103 inventeze, cu fiecare deceniu, c\u00e2te un termen menit s\u0103 sune ca o jignire, dar \u00een realitate, recognoscibil drept compliment.<\/p>\n

\u015ei \u00een 2008 am \u00eent\u00e2mpinat termenul hipster cu entuziasm \u015fi \u00eenc\u00e2ntare.<\/p>\n

Care erau calit\u0103\u0163ile specifice ale hipsterului?<\/p>\n

Faptul c\u0103 era dispus s\u0103 experimenteze. C\u0103 asculta muzic\u0103 independent\u0103, a unor trupe mici, \u00een condi\u0163iile \u00een care industria muzicii devenise un automatism de promovat nonvalori. C\u0103 urm\u0103rea filme independente, \u00een condi\u0163iile \u00een care blockbusterele de Hollywood sufer\u0103 de stupiditate din ce \u00een ce mai flagrant\u0103. C\u0103 m\u00e2nca chestii ciudate, pentru c\u0103 se plictisea de cartofi piure cu \u015fni\u0163el \u00een fiecare zi. C\u0103 se \u00eembr\u0103ca bizar, pentru c\u0103 moda ready-to-wear din magazine era ucig\u0103tor de banal\u0103 \u015fi necarismatic\u0103.<\/p>\n

Concret, a fi hipster era un protest mut la procesul de t\u00e2mpire programatic\u0103 \u015fi lips\u0103 de idei a entertainmentului pentru mase. Am fost un hipster asumat \u015fi m\u00e2ndru de sine, \u015fi de c\u00e2te ori cineva m\u0103 f\u0103cea hipster, mul\u0163umeam din genunile sufletului.<\/p>\n

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De prin 2014, a ap\u0103rut acest val de neo-coc\u0103l\u0103real\u0103 deliberat\u0103, datorat – hai s\u0103 fim sinceri – sc\u0103derii accesului la sex. Din ce \u00een ce mai multe fete prefer\u0103 s\u0103 aib\u0103 cariere, care nu se trezesc m\u00e2ine diminea\u0163\u0103 s\u0103-\u0163i spun\u0103 “\u015etii, p\u0103s\u0103, cred c\u0103 de fapt nu te mai iubesc”, \u015fi dup\u0103 ce mai pui m\u00e2na pe o carte, mai faci un cornet, subit perspectiva de a pierde timpul cu Gicu \u015fi cu Fane devine mai pu\u0163in tentant\u0103, drept care Gicu \u015fi cu Fane stau singuri pe net, cu sentimentul c\u0103 cineva le datoreaz\u0103 sex \u015fi nu livreaz\u0103.<\/p>\n

Concret, fraza care l-a ales pe Trump pre\u015fedinte este “grab them by the p*ssy”. Cine a scos discu\u0163ia aia telefonic\u0103 din neantul materialelor de \u015fantajat oameni politici \u015fi a f\u0103cut-o public\u0103 i-a f\u0103cut cel mai mare serviciu. Pentru c\u0103 \u00een secunda a doua Gicu \u015fi cu Fane s-au sim\u0163it \u00eencuraja\u0163i \u015fi \u00eendrept\u0103\u0163i\u0163i s\u0103 h\u0103r\u0163uiasc\u0103 femei care nu le datorau nimic.<\/p>\n

\u00cen contextul \u0103sta, ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 “snowflake”?<\/p>\n

Pornind de la faptul c\u0103 fiecare fulg de nea are o form\u0103 unic\u0103, s-a inventat aceast\u0103 nou\u0103 insult\u0103, “snowflake”, care vrea s\u0103 spun\u0103 c\u0103 te crezi mult mai interesant \u015fi mai special dec\u00e2t e\u015fti de fapt.<\/p>\n

\u015ei de ce ar trebui s\u0103 fie treaba lui Gicu \u015fi a lui Fane c\u00e2t de interesant \u015fi de special m\u0103 cred eu \u00een sinea mea? se impune \u00eentrebarea fireasc\u0103.<\/p>\n

Sigur, \u00eentr-un univers s\u0103n\u0103tos cu capul, nu e treaba nim\u0103nui c\u00e2t de interesant sau special te crezi tu, \u00een m\u0103sura \u00een care nu vii s\u0103 deranjezi pe nimeni. Problema e c\u0103 mentalitatea neo-coc\u0103l\u0103reasc\u0103 nu e una s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103 cu capul. E bazat\u0103 pe “sau ascul\u0163i manele \u015fi bei Bucegi la 2 litri cu mine de bun\u0103 voie, sau te insult p\u00e2n\u0103 te conving c\u0103 nu meri\u0163i mai mult.”<\/p>\n

\u015ei, exact cum hipster penaliza \u00eencercarea de a nu consuma c*cat generic \u015fi lipsit de personalitate, snowflake penalizeaz\u0103 refuzul de a te l\u0103sa agasat \u015fi umilit de gigei.<\/p>\n

Personal, am fost hipster \u015fi snowflake \u00eenc\u0103 de dinainte s\u0103 se inventeze termenii. Probabil, orice om ok pe care-l cunosc a fost hipster \u015fi snowflake \u00eenc\u0103 de dinainte s\u0103 se inventeze termenii.<\/p>\n

Nu e nimic gre\u015fit \u00een a vrea s\u0103 devii mai bun. De a \u00eencerca s\u0103 creezi valoare \u00een via\u0163a ta, zi de zi. De a selecta priorit\u0103\u0163i, \u015fi de a \u015fti ce e mai bine pentru tine. De a nu-i l\u0103sa pe al\u0163ii s\u0103 te conving\u0103 c\u0103 e\u015fti mas\u0103 manipulabil\u0103. De a nu ceda presiunii f\u0103r\u0103 miz\u0103.<\/p>\n

\u015ei tocmai de aceea, c\u00e2nd vin rata\u0163ii s\u0103 te fac\u0103 snowflake, r\u0103spunsul corect este: “At least snowflakes are pretty, garbage is ugly.”<\/p>\n

Pentru c\u0103 dac\u0103 te ui\u0163i cine lanseaz\u0103 insulta “snowflake” – cumva nu vine niciodat\u0103 din partea cuiva cu care s\u0103-\u0163i dore\u015fti, din proprie ini\u0163iativ\u0103, s\u0103 petreci timp.<\/p>\n

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