{"id":15680,"date":"2018-10-02T10:24:07","date_gmt":"2018-10-02T07:24:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=15680"},"modified":"2018-10-02T10:24:07","modified_gmt":"2018-10-02T07:24:07","slug":"o-romanca-la-frankfurt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/o-romanca-la-frankfurt\/","title":{"rendered":"O rom\u00e2nc\u0103 la Frankfurt"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Specialitatea acestui site, dup\u0103 cum \u015ftiu to\u0163i cititorii, sunt serialele. Se \u015ftie cu c\u00e2t entuziasm le \u00eencep \u015fi, mai cu seam\u0103, cu c\u00e2t\u0103 seriozitate m\u0103 \u0163in de ele. Lol.<br \/>\nAzi, urmeaz\u0103 al doilea episod din acest nou serial, dedicat diasporei. Titlul s\u0103u este: \u201cUn rom\u00e2n \u00een\u2026\u201d. Partea I, <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/un-roman-in-tenerife\/\">aici<\/a>.\u00a0<\/strong><br \/>\nCunosc nenum\u0103ra\u0163i rom\u00e2ni, pleca\u0163i care pe unde. \u00cen fiecare episod vom lua la \u00eentreb\u0103ri un rom\u00e2n str\u0103mutat \u00eentr-o \u0163ar\u0103 str\u0103in\u0103. \u00cei vom afla povestea, de unde a plecat, unde a ajuns, \u015fi cum e via\u0163a lui diferit\u0103 fa\u0163\u0103 de ce f\u0103cea \u00een Rom\u00e2nia.<\/p>\n<p>Victima de azi prefer\u0103 s\u0103 nu-\u015fi dea numele, c\u0103 anonimatul o ajut\u0103 s\u0103 fie sincer\u0103. Dar mi-a dat fotografii. A plecat taman din \u0162\u0103nd\u0103rei, iar acum domiciliaz\u0103 \u015fi \u015fofeaz\u0103 autobuze \u00een Frankfurt (Germania)<\/p>\n<p><strong>TROLLYWOOD: De ce ai plecat din Rom\u00e2nia?<\/strong><br \/>\nANONIM: De foame. Am renun\u0163at la Drept \u015fi am plecat ini\u0163ial \u00een Spania la frecat toalete.\ud83d\ude42\u00a0Au urmat Australia \u015fi iubita mea&#8230;Deutschland!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Detaliaz\u0103, te rog.\u00a0<\/strong><br \/>\nProvin dintr-o familie &#8220;tradi\u0163ional\u0103&#8221;&#8230; prea rom\u00e2neasc\u0103. B\u0103t\u0103i, scandaluri, educa\u0163ie cu parul \u015fi s\u0103r\u0103cie lucie, de\u015fi ambii p\u0103rin\u0163i munceau ca sclavii. Aveam 23 de ani \u015fi tot ce \u00eenv\u0103\u0163asem de la via\u0163\u0103 era s\u0103 fac fa\u0163\u0103 traumelor. Dar asta nu m\u0103 ajuta dec\u00e2t \u00een familie.<br \/>\nHabar nu aveam despre politic\u0103, educa\u0163ie financiar\u0103 \u015fi, cel mai important, despre vise. C\u0103 po\u0163i s\u0103 visezi \u015fi s\u0103 alegi s\u0103 lup\u0163i pentru un vis.<br \/>\nEu credeam c\u0103, dac\u0103 ai trei hamsii \u015fi dou\u0103 ro\u015fii la cin\u0103, e\u015fti un om fericit. Ca o zi f\u0103r\u0103 &#8220;mor\u0163ii m\u0103-tii&#8221; e una de s\u0103rb\u0103toare.<\/p>\n<p>Am plecat din Rom\u00e2nia \u00eempins\u0103 de s\u0103r\u0103cie, dar \u015fi de frica de a nu repeta bucla prostiei predat\u0103 de la o genera\u0163ie la alta.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cu ce te ocupai \u00een momentul plec\u0103rii?<\/strong><br \/>\nF\u0103ceam facultatea la FF, la T\u00e2rgovi\u015fte, \u015fi lucram \u00een ora\u015ful natal, \u0162\u0103nd\u0103rei, ca osp\u0103t\u0103ri\u0163\u0103 (program 24\/48!!!). La facultate, mergeam doar la c\u00e2teva seminarii \u015fi la examene. Tata \u00eemi trimitea (din Spania) banii de tax\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><strong>C\u00e2nd \u015fi cum a ap\u0103rut oportunitatea de a emigra?<\/strong><br \/>\nP\u0103i, ini\u0163ial am fost dou\u0103 luni \u00een vacan\u0163\u0103 la tata. C\u00e2nd m-am \u00eentors \u00een \u0163ar\u0103, aveam deja restan\u0163e \u015fi la materii, si la taxa si am renuntat la facultate. Fratele meu locuia \u00een Barcelona \u015fi a trimis pe un nene la poarta casei. Nenea m-a anun\u0163at c\u0103 &#8220;disear\u0103&#8221; e plecarea. Nu am mai stat pe g\u00e2nduri. Am \u00eempachetat \u015fi am plecat.\ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-15695\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42900689_629615290769348_1559939358927093760_n.jpg?resize=700%2C926\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"926\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42900689_629615290769348_1559939358927093760_n.jpg?w=1161&amp;ssl=1 1161w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42900689_629615290769348_1559939358927093760_n.jpg?resize=113%2C150&amp;ssl=1 113w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42900689_629615290769348_1559939358927093760_n.jpg?resize=227%2C300&amp;ssl=1 227w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42900689_629615290769348_1559939358927093760_n.jpg?resize=768%2C1016&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42900689_629615290769348_1559939358927093760_n.jpg?resize=774%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 774w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42900689_629615290769348_1559939358927093760_n.jpg?resize=600%2C794&amp;ssl=1 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0162i-era team\u0103 \u00een momentul \u0103la, sau sperai la ceva nou \u015fi frumos?<\/strong><br \/>\nSentimente amestecate. Habar nu aveam ce ma asteapta. Iluzii, c\u0103 o s\u0103 fac bani \u015fi o s\u0103 tr\u0103iesc o via\u0163\u0103 decent\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 griji. Eram naiv\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een m\u0103duva oaselor. Aveam s\u0103 primesc prima palm\u0103 de la via\u0163a de emigrant. M\u0103 rog, mai mult un pumn.\ud83d\ude02<\/p>\n<p><strong>Poveste\u015fte.<\/strong><br \/>\nM-am angajat \u00een 2 zile la o kebap-erie. 500\u20ac\/lun\u0103, 14 ore pe zi. Pl\u0103team 350 de euro camera, fumam trei pachete de \u0163ig\u0103ri \u015fi trimiteam \u015fi bani acas\u0103. Mie \u00eenc\u0103 mi se p\u0103rea c\u0103 tr\u0103iesc un vis frumos. \u00ce\u0163i dai seama? Barcelona! \u00cemi era a\u015fa de drag s\u0103 spun c\u0103 stau acolo! Am \u0163inut-o a\u015fa cam un an, timp \u00een care m\u0103 tot g\u00e2ndeam dac\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 \u00eendr\u0103znesc s\u0103 visez mai sus, cum ar fi o afacere proprie. M\u0103 desconsideram maxim, astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t am abandonat repede ideea.<\/p>\n<p>Am plecat \u00een alt ora\u015f spaniol. Am lucrat \u00eentr-un bordel. Am \u00eenceput ca ajutor de buc\u0103tar, apoi buc\u0103t\u0103reas\u0103, apoi recep\u0163ioner\u0103. Fetele m\u0103 tot momeau cu postul lor, dar nu era pentru mine. Mi-ar fi pl\u0103cut s\u0103 pot, dar nu am \u00eencercat.<\/p>\n<p><strong>D\u0103-mi ni\u015fte detalii despre cum era la bordel. Sun\u0103 extrem de interesant.<\/strong><br \/>\nLa \u00eenceput,\u00a0 a fost traumatizant pentru mine. Lucrau rom\u00e2nce \u015fi brazilience, \u00een mare parte. Oameni normali, care f\u0103ceau un job ca oricare altul.<br \/>\nCa o parantez\u0103, la bordel nu vin chiar fe\u0163i frumo\u015fi, oameni inteligen\u0163i \u015fi amuzan\u0163i. Cel pu\u0163in acolo nu veneau. Tot ce vezi pe strad\u0103 mai murdar, mai cocalar, \u0103ia erau acolo. Aaa, \u015fi c\u00e2\u0163iva \u00eensura\u0163i.\ud83d\ude01<br \/>\nFetele erau super! Inteligente, foarte curate, cu sim\u0163ul umorului, altruiste.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u015ei totu\u015fi: ce te-a determinat s\u0103 pleci din Barcelona?<\/strong><br \/>\nSora mea. E cu 11 ani mai mic\u0103, era ca \u015fi copilul meu. Ea locuia \u00een Castellon, cu tata. Am vrut s\u0103 fiu mai aproape de ea \u015fi \u00eemi era dor de un cr\u00e2mpei de familie.\u00a0 Dincolo de asta, Barcelona e un ora\u015f extrem de scump. Cu banii pe o camer\u0103, \u00een Castellon \u00eenchiriam un apartament cu trei dormitoare.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Practic, Barcelona e Clujul Spaniei. :))) OK, de ce ai plecat de la bordel?<\/strong><br \/>\nM-am certat cu un \u015fef. Lucr\u00e2nd deja pe mai multe posturi, \u015ftiam cam cum func\u0163ioneaz\u0103 tot pe acolo, ce \u015fi cum trebuie f\u0103cut. \u00cemi tot spunea c\u0103 am l\u0103sat nu \u015ftiu ce calorifer la maxim, c\u00e2nd am f\u0103cut curat \u00eentr-o camer\u0103. Spaniolul era drogat \u00een timpul disputei, eu eram \u00een faza &#8220;n-are cum s\u0103 m\u0103 dea pe mine afar\u0103&#8221;, \u015fi ghici ce? M-a concediat.\ud83d\ude02<\/p>\n<p><strong>Exist\u0103 protec\u0163ie a drepturilor angaja\u0163ilor \u00een Spania?<\/strong><br \/>\nBine\u00een\u0163eles c\u0103 exist\u0103. Dar pe mine cine s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eenve\u0163e? Trebuia s\u0103 fi f\u0103cut c\u00e2teva demersuri \u015fi mai primeam o mie-dou\u0103 de euro \u00een plus. Oricum au dat faliment trei luni mai t\u00e2rziu, din varii motive.<\/p>\n<p>Mie mi au crescut c***e abia acum c\u00e2\u0163iva ani.\ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude02\u00a0Cu atitudinea de acum, nu ceream desp\u0103gubiri&#8230;i-a\u015f fi dat \u0103luia cu ceva \u00een cap. La propriu.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Am \u00een\u0163eles. \u015ei cam \u00een perioada aia, dac\u0103 am \u00een\u0163eles bine, l-ai cunoscut \u015fi pe so\u0163ul t\u0103u. \u00cemi poveste\u015fti un pic despre asta?<\/strong><br \/>\nP. era (o mai fi?\ud83e\udd14) un barbat carismatic. Cu\u00a014 ani mai \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103.\u00a0 Elegant, romantic, inteligent. Tocmai deschidea un restaurant italian. Eu m-am dus la interviu \u015fi am fost angajat\u0103. A \u00eenceput s\u0103 \u00eemi fac\u0103 avansuri pe care le-am respins din fa\u015f\u0103. M-am dedicat localului p\u00e2n\u0103 am ajuns s\u0103 muncesc 14, 15 ore pe zi, buc\u0103t\u0103rie, bar, marf\u0103, contabilitate.<br \/>\nCa s\u0103 nu o lungesc, dup\u0103 trei luni am hot\u0103r\u00e2t s\u0103 \u00eei cedez..din curiozitate.<br \/>\nNe-am mutat \u00eempreun\u0103, el a divor\u0163at (erau deja desp\u0103r\u0163i\u0163i, ea \u00een Germania, el \u00een Spania) \u015fi dup\u0103 ce restaurantul a dat faliment, ne-am mutat \u015fi noi \u00een Germania. Ne-am ocupat de v\u00e2nz\u0103ri de ma\u015fini, de gastronomie, apoi am plecat \u00een Australia pentru a ne stabili definitiv acolo. Dup\u0103 trei s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, ne-am \u00eentors.<\/p>\n<p>Au trecut zece ani de c\u00e2nd suntem \u00eempreun\u0103, avem un copil pe care \u00eel ador \u015fi, acum, ne tachin\u0103m pe subiectul: unde ne cump\u0103r\u0103m cas\u0103. El viseaz\u0103 Spania, pe c\u00e2nd eu din Germania nu mai plec.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-15696\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42904357_2143001472631578_1773725148541616128_n.jpg?resize=700%2C525\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"525\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42904357_2143001472631578_1773725148541616128_n.jpg?w=1548&amp;ssl=1 1548w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42904357_2143001472631578_1773725148541616128_n.jpg?resize=150%2C113&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42904357_2143001472631578_1773725148541616128_n.jpg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42904357_2143001472631578_1773725148541616128_n.jpg?resize=768%2C576&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42904357_2143001472631578_1773725148541616128_n.jpg?resize=1024%2C768&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42904357_2143001472631578_1773725148541616128_n.jpg?resize=600%2C450&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42904357_2143001472631578_1773725148541616128_n.jpg?w=1400&amp;ssl=1 1400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Frankfurt din goana autobuzului.\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>De ce?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 Spania e \u0163ara \u00een care mori de foame cu z\u00e2mbetul pe buze, cu jointul \u00eentr-o m\u00e2n\u0103 \u015fi berea \u00een cealalt\u0103, Germania este spa\u0163iul perfect adaptabil introverti\u0163ilor, oamenilor educa\u0163i \u015fi cu bun sim\u0163.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dar cum v-a venit ideea s\u0103 pleca\u0163i exact \u00een Germania?<\/strong><br \/>\nEl a emigrat \u00een 1992 \u00een Germania. Apoi \u00een Italia, America, Elve\u0163ia. Iar Germania, Spania, \u015fi din nou, Germania.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u015ei totu\u015fi, pare s\u0103 nu-i plac\u0103 prea mult \u00een Germania.<\/strong><br \/>\nE foarte sociabil \u015fi nu suport\u0103 clima, deci tinde catre Spania. Acolo, toat\u0103 lumea vorbe\u015fte cu toat\u0103 lumea despre toat\u0103 lumea. Not for me.\ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p><strong>Unde \u00een Germania v-a\u0163i mutat prima oar\u0103?<\/strong><br \/>\nKelsterbach. \u00cenainte s\u0103 plec\u0103m din Spania, a plecat P. s\u0103 caute un apartament de \u00eenchiriat. A g\u0103sit o garsonier\u0103 \u00eentr-o mansard\u0103, casa apar\u0163in\u00e2nd unor turci.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cum \u0163i s-a p\u0103rut Germania la prima vedere?<\/strong><br \/>\nInteresant\u0103. Total diferit\u0103 de Spania \u015fi Rom\u00e2nia. Lumea bine \u00eembr\u0103cat\u0103, totul curat. Cel mai ciudat a fost cu gunoiul. Cel pu\u0163in cartierul \u0103la. Nu aveai voie s\u0103 arunci mai mult de dou\u0103 kg de gunoi pe zi, de familie!<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-15698\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42845105_249587835754791_1024145749278982144_n.jpg?resize=700%2C525\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"525\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42845105_249587835754791_1024145749278982144_n.jpg?w=1548&amp;ssl=1 1548w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42845105_249587835754791_1024145749278982144_n.jpg?resize=150%2C113&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42845105_249587835754791_1024145749278982144_n.jpg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42845105_249587835754791_1024145749278982144_n.jpg?resize=768%2C576&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42845105_249587835754791_1024145749278982144_n.jpg?resize=1024%2C768&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42845105_249587835754791_1024145749278982144_n.jpg?resize=600%2C450&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42845105_249587835754791_1024145749278982144_n.jpg?w=1400&amp;ssl=1 1400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Lacul din Hattersheim, l\u00e2ng\u0103 Frankfurt.\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00cen c\u00e2t timp \u0163i-ai g\u0103sit de lucru \u015fi ce?<\/strong><br \/>\n\u00cen dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni. Osp\u0103t\u0103ri\u0163\u0103 \u00een restaurant italian. Primii doi ani, am \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at italiana \u015fi abia apoi germana.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Chiar m\u0103 \u00eentreb cum e sentimentul \u0103sta: dup\u0103 ce ai avut propria ta afacere, s\u0103 revii la treapta de jos.<\/strong><br \/>\nE, \u00eentr-adev\u0103r, ciudat. Dar am avut foarte mult de \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at. Restaurantul nostru era frumos, dar de cartier. Cel la care m-am angajat \u00een Frankfurt (primul job) era la cel mai \u00eenalt nivel. Osp\u0103tarii din Germania stau mai bine dec\u00e2t mul\u0163i boieri de prin Rom\u00e2nia.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Asta ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 concret?<\/strong><br \/>\nCei mai mul\u0163i osp\u0103tari din Germania \u00ee\u015fi permit s\u0103 pl\u0103teasc\u0103 chiria, s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nce bine, s\u0103 aib\u0103 o ma\u015fin\u0103 decent\u0103, spre deosebire de cei din Rom\u00e2nia sau Spania. Pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 salariu, care este, depinz\u00e2nd de ore \u015fi local, undeva \u00eentre 1200 \u015fi 1800 de euro, exist\u0103 bac\u015fi\u015ful care e ca \u00een S.U.A., adic\u0103 cel pu\u0163in 10% din valoarea notei de plat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u015ei spune-mi: cum ai g\u0103sit \u00een tine puterea interioar\u0103 s\u0103 te ridici dup\u0103 fiecare e\u015fec \u00een parte \u015fi s-o iei de la cap\u0103t?<\/strong><br \/>\nP\u0103i, nu am avut \u00eencotro. Ce faci dac\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i jos? Nu te ridic\u0103 nimeni. \u00centotdeauna avem de ales: ne complacem \u00een mizerie, ne ridic\u0103m deasupra ei sau facem curat \u015fi \u00eencepem s\u0103 construim. \u015ei din nou, Germania e ideal\u0103 pentru asta.<\/p>\n<p><strong>De ce ai p\u0103r\u0103sit restaurantul de lux?<\/strong><br \/>\nAm mers \u00een Rom\u00e2nia s\u0103 ob\u0163in permisul auto categoria D pentru bus. P. era deja \u015fofer \u015fi m-a convins. De\u015fi c\u00e2\u015ftigam bine la restaurant, nu era maximul pe care mi-l doream.\u00a0\ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dar de unde \u015fi p\u00e2n\u0103 unde tocmai bus? Busul nu pare prima op\u0163iune de carier\u0103 a unei tipe.<\/strong><br \/>\nP. nu mai suporta ideea de a lucra \u00een gastronomie, \u015fi, mai ales, pentru altcineva. A f\u0103cut el primul pas. Aici e normal ca o femeie s\u0103 conduc\u0103 bus. La \u00eenceput, am fost sceptic\u0103 \u015fi mi-a fost chiar team\u0103. Acum, cred c\u0103 a fost cea mai bun\u0103 alegere pentru un job. Oricare alt\u0103 munc\u0103 a\u015f presta, trebuie s\u0103 fiu cu mintea acolo, pe c\u00e2nd pe bus, \u00ee\u0163i setezi traiectoria \u015fi devine automatism. \u00cen timp ce conduci, mintea poate s\u0103 creeze. Planuri, oportunit\u0103\u0163i, orice.<\/p>\n<p><strong>De ce ai revenit \u00een Ro s\u0103 ob\u0163ii permisul de \u015fofer? De ce nu \u00een Frankfurt?<\/strong><br \/>\nCost\u0103 10.000 de euro s\u0103 \u00eel faci aici.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bun\u0103 \u015fi Rom\u00e2nia la ceva. :))) \u00cen special pentru \u015fcoal\u0103 ieftin\u0103, haha. \u015ei ai aplicat propriu-zis la o ofert\u0103 de job pentru \u015foferi de autobuz?<\/strong><br \/>\nDa, la firma la care era deja P. angajat. Am lucrat doi ani \u00eempreun\u0103 acolo, apoi am r\u0103mas \u00eens\u0103rcinat\u0103. Am stat un an acas\u0103 \u015fi am plecat \u00een Benidorm s\u0103 deschidem o pizzerie. C\u00e2nd ne-am \u00eentors, am aplicat pentru un post de \u015fofer de bus \u00een aeroport, unde sunt \u015fi acum.<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-15700\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42905178_269336940365022_3517325508138237952_n.jpg?resize=700%2C1244\" alt=\"\" width=\"700\" height=\"1244\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42905178_269336940365022_3517325508138237952_n.jpg?w=1080&amp;ssl=1 1080w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42905178_269336940365022_3517325508138237952_n.jpg?resize=84%2C150&amp;ssl=1 84w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42905178_269336940365022_3517325508138237952_n.jpg?resize=169%2C300&amp;ssl=1 169w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42905178_269336940365022_3517325508138237952_n.jpg?resize=768%2C1365&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42905178_269336940365022_3517325508138237952_n.jpg?resize=576%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 576w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/42905178_269336940365022_3517325508138237952_n.jpg?resize=600%2C1067&amp;ssl=1 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>M\u0103 fascinezi. Alte femei c\u00e2nd sunt \u00eens\u0103rcinate stau pe forumuri de m\u0103mici \u015fi cump\u0103r\u0103 scutece. Tu men\u0163ionezi a\u015fa, en passant, plecatul la Benidorm s\u0103 deschizi pizzeria de parc\u0103 ar fi un drum dup\u0103 \u0163ig\u0103ri. Cum po\u0163i?<\/strong><br \/>\nNu pot s\u0103 zic c\u0103 nu a fost stresant. A fost. Dar am avut-o pe mama cu noi. F\u0103ceam cu schimbul. Diminea\u0163a se ducea ea cu P., eu r\u0103m\u00e2neam cu feti\u0163a \u015fi cu comenzile de cozonaci, eclere etc. Seara r\u0103m\u00e2nea mama acas\u0103 \u015fi eu plecam cu P.<br \/>\nEu nu am fost de acord s\u0103 plec\u0103m, dar omul meu zicea c\u0103 el viseaz\u0103 \u015fi eu \u00eei tai aripile. \u015ei zic, hai, m\u0103, s\u0103 merg cu el s\u0103 mai zboare un pic.\u00a0\ud83d\ude02<\/p>\n<p><strong>Gravid\u0103 fiind?<\/strong><br \/>\nFeti\u0163a avea un an c\u00e2nd am plecat \u00een Benidorm.<br \/>\nGravid\u0103 fiind, am lucrat p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een a cincea lun\u0103 de sarcin\u0103, pentru c\u0103 mi-a interzis medicul s\u0103 mai conduc.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00cen\u0163eleg. Tu, ca om activ, presupun c\u0103 ai \u00eendurat teribil de greu arestul la domiciliu care venea la pachet cu sarcina \u015fi l\u0103uzia.<\/strong><br \/>\nDaaa!! Dar cum totdeauna ai ceva de frecat prin cas\u0103, cam asta f\u0103ceam \u00eens\u0103rcinat\u0103. Apoi, am n\u0103scut prin cezarian\u0103, \u015fi mi-am revenit destul de greu. De\u015fi, c\u00e2t am stat la spital, a fost ca \u015fi cum a\u015f fi n\u0103scut cu \u00eengeri \u00een rai. Extraordinar\u0103 experien\u0163\u0103!<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00cen ce sens?\u00a0<\/strong><br \/>\nNumai dac\u0103 spun c\u0103 medicul (nu asistenta!) \u00ee\u015fi cerea scuze dac\u0103 te \u00een\u0163epa prea tare cu acul, \u00een\u0163elegi. To\u0163i te menajeaz\u0103 de parc\u0103 ai fi singura care na\u015fte acolo, c\u00e2nd, de fapt, e\u015fti una dintre sutele care vin s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2nal! Ca la un spital privat \u00een Rom\u00e2nia. Poate mai frumos! Nu numai cur\u0103\u0163enia \u015fi profesionalismul sunt de top. Calitatea uman\u0103 face s\u0103 fie de vis!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cred c\u0103, pentru tine personal, plecarea din Germania, cu copilul mic, pentru un nou business incert, a fost o povar\u0103. Gre\u015fesc?<\/strong><br \/>\nNu gre\u015fe\u015fti deloc. A fost obositor, enervant.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u015ei a\u0163i \u015fi renun\u0163at pe parcurs, din c\u00e2te \u00een\u0163eleg. N-a mers businessul, sau v-a\u0163i s\u0103turat voi pur \u015fi simplu?<\/strong><br \/>\nA, nu. Nu a mers a\u015fa cum speram noi. Nu am ie\u015fit \u00een pierdere, dar st\u0103team pe loc. Acum avem o firm\u0103 de transport care e mult mai profitabil\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u015ei pariez c\u0103 omul care a insistat pe revenirea \u00een Germania ai fost tu.<\/strong><br \/>\n\ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude02\u00a0Da, da!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Te \u00eendr\u0103gostise\u015fi de munca de \u015fofer.<\/strong><br \/>\nNormal! P. nici nu \u00een\u0163elegea c\u0103 personalul angajat f\u0103cea parte tot din investi\u0163ie. Noi nu eram \u015fefi, eram muncitori cu norm\u0103 \u00eentreag\u0103. I-am \u015fi spus: mai bine angajat \u00een Germania, dec\u00e2t patron \u00een Spania. Nu mai aveam timp s\u0103 evoluez. Eram \u015fi fizic, \u015fi psihic b\u0103gat\u0103 acolo.<\/p>\n<p><strong>P\u0103i da, f\u0103 aprovizionare, g\u0103te\u015fte, livreaz\u0103, interac\u0163ioneaz\u0103 cu clien\u0163ii. Pare mult mai mult stres dec\u00e2t a te urca lini\u015ftit\u0103 la volan \u015fi a nu fi obligat\u0103 s\u0103 vorbe\u015fti cu nimeni p\u00e2n\u0103 la finalul turei.<\/strong><br \/>\nExact!<br \/>\n\u015ei m\u0103car dac\u0103 exista un profit care s\u0103 te motiveze. C\u0103 asta e ideea, nu? Ei bine, nu era.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Cum o s\u0103 previi viitoare \u00eencerc\u0103ri ale lui P. de a v\u0103 trage iar covorul de sub picioare \u015fi de a pleca haihui prin lume?<\/strong><br \/>\nAsta e \u00eentrebarea de un milion de dolari!<br \/>\nAtitudinea mea fa\u0163\u0103 de el s-a schimbat radical \u00een ultimele luni. Cum ziceam, trec printr-un proces continuu de autoeducare. Astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t, a \u00eenceput s\u0103 devin\u0103 important ce vreau eu, mai mult dec\u00e2t ce vrea el sau noi.<br \/>\nDe\u015fi e \u015focat de comportamentul meu, \u015fi de\u015fi tot \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 fac\u0103 pe durul, nu prea \u00eei mai merge.\ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p><strong>OK, acum, spre \u00eencheierea interviului, avem un jocule\u0163. S\u0103 zicem c\u0103 a\u015f vrea s\u0103 emigrez \u015fi nu \u015ftiu unde. Vinde-mi Frankfurtul ca destina\u0163ie ideal\u0103.<\/strong><br \/>\nDac\u0103 vrei o schimbare total\u0103, spre bine. Dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i oferi o via\u0163\u0103 echilibrat\u0103, de calitate, atunci \u00ee\u0163i recomand Frankfurt\/Main. E cosmopolit, plin de verde, are oportunit\u0103\u0163i de dezvoltare profesional\u0103, de relaxare sau entertainment. Sistemul sanitar german nu te va dezam\u0103gi niciodat\u0103, infrastructura e de vis, iar oamenii mai educa\u0163i ca oriunde.<br \/>\nIndiferent c\u0103 prestezi un job sau lucrezi la propria afacere, c\u0103 vrei s\u0103 te dedici unui hobby sau pur \u015fi simplu s\u0103 stai acas\u0103 pe banii statului (\ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude02\ud83d\ude02), Frankfurt \u00ee\u0163i ofer\u0103 variante verosimile.<br \/>\nSingurul dezavantaj ar fi num\u0103rul rom\u00e2nilor, care e \u00een cre\u015ftere. Nu rom\u00e2nii \u0103ia muncitori \u015fi cumin\u0163i, ceilal\u0163i.<\/p>\n<p>Sper c\u0103 te-am convins. Chiar \u015fi a\u015fa, dac\u0103 ai vreodat\u0103 drum pe aici, d\u0103 un semn. Mi-ar pl\u0103cea s\u0103 bem o cafea.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Wow. \u015ei acum, spune \u015fi ce e nasol.<\/strong><br \/>\nPentru mine, doar limba. Eu vorbesc, m\u0103 descurc la munc\u0103, la medic, la banc\u0103&#8230; dar niciodat\u0103 nu o s\u0103 pot purta o conversa\u0163ie complex\u0103 cu un neam\u0163, a\u015fa cum o pot face, de exemplu, \u00een spaniol\u0103 sau italian\u0103. Nu am f\u0103cut cursuri de limb\u0103, am \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at dup\u0103 ureche.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u015ei \u00eentrebarea capac: te vezi revenind vreodat\u0103 \u00een Rom\u00e2nia?<\/strong><br \/>\nDa, c\u00e2nd o s\u0103 \u00eenfiin\u0163ez un ONG la care tot visez. Nu s\u0103 locuiesc acolo, nu m-a\u015f mai putea acomoda.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>\u00ce\u0163i plac textele Trollywood? 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