M\u0103 cheam\u0103 X, stau \u00een Y, am 32 de ani \u015fi te citesc din 2014, c\u00e2nd m-a adus o prieten\u0103 la lansarea c\u0103r\u0163ii tale Dona Juana. Cumva, prin ceea ce scrii \u00een fiecare zi, ne faci pe foarte mul\u0163i s\u0103 ne sim\u0163im ca \u015fi cum am fi prietenii t\u0103i personali, \u015fi pentru asta \u00ee\u0163i mul\u0163umesc.\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Problema despre care \u00ee\u0163i scriu nu e a mea, pentru c\u0103 eu sunt foarte happy. \u015etiu, nu e la mod\u0103 \u00een zilele noastre, c\u00e2nd toat\u0103 lumea e plin\u0103 de depresii, s\u0103 fie cineva happy, dar eu chiar sunt. Lucrez \u00eentr-un domeniu care-mi place, am un salariu ok. Pl\u0103tesc rate pentru apartament, \u015fi \u00een c\u00e2\u0163iva ani, voi spune c\u0103 am propriul meu acoperi\u015f. \u00cemi place via\u0163a mea. \u00cemi place s\u0103 citesc mult, s\u0103 aflu lucruri noi, s\u0103 v\u0103d spectacole, s\u0103 tr\u0103iesc pur \u015fi simplu.\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Cam de la 25 de ani \u00een sus, m-am pomenit c\u0103 m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 din ce \u00een ce mai pu\u0163in s\u0103 am o rela\u0163ie, \u015fi c\u0103, exact cum ai scris \u015fi tu \u00een ni\u015fte articole, singur\u0103tatea e starea perfect\u0103 pentru mine, \u00een care m\u0103 odihnesc \u015fi m\u0103 re\u00eencarc. Nu vreau o familie, nu vreau copii, nu vreau nimic altceva dec\u00e2t s\u0103 m\u0103 bucur de via\u0163\u0103 a\u015fa cum e ea.\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Dar ai mei m\u0103 tot ceart\u0103 c\u0103 sunt ciudat\u0103, excentric\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103rit\u0103 de pe fix, \u015fi c\u0103 e timpul s\u0103 m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc la familie \u015fi copii, c\u0103 o s\u0103-mi par\u0103 r\u0103u mai \u00eencolo, c\u00e2nd o s\u0103 fiu singur\u0103 la b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u0163e.\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Tu ce zici?\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Spor la scris,\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n X.”\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Drag\u0103 X.,<\/p>\n Apropo de p\u0103reri de r\u0103u, ar trebui s\u0103 \u0163i-o prezint pe mama. Ea a cedat presiunii p\u0103rinte\u015fti \u015fi l-a luat de b\u0103rbat pe tata. Un bou care n-a iubit-o nici m\u0103car o zi \u00een via\u0163a lui. Ea a tras de c\u0103s\u0103torie c\u00e2t a putut, c\u0103 era ru\u015fine s\u0103 divor\u0163ezi. Ne-a f\u0103cut pe noi, care, idem, nu ne-am sim\u0163it iubi\u0163i nici m\u0103car cinci minute, accidental. Nici de el \u0219i, tbh, absolut deloc de ea. Acum, e b\u0103tr\u00e2n\u0103, p\u0103r\u0103sit\u0103 de bou pentru una mai t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103, as it happens, \u015fi dac\u0103 o \u00eentrebi, \u00ee\u0163i spune c\u0103 n-a sim\u0163it c\u0103 a tr\u0103it cu adev\u0103rat nici m\u0103car o zi \u00een toat\u0103 via\u0163a ei.<\/p>\n Tot despre p\u0103reri de r\u0103u, \u0163i-o pot chema pe fosta mea vecin\u0103, doamna Geta. A peticit \u015fosete \u015fi a c\u0103lcat c\u0103m\u0103\u015fi de i s-a acrit. Exact ca mama, are aceea\u015fi fraz\u0103: nu simte c\u0103 a tr\u0103it cu adev\u0103rat nici m\u0103car o zi \u00een toat\u0103 via\u0163a ei. \u015ei ea a f\u0103cut doi copii.<\/p>\n Acum, so\u0163ul e mort, copiii s-au mutat \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate \u015fi uit\u0103 cu lunile s-o sune, iar doamna Geta e exact at\u00e2t de singur\u0103, cum o s\u0103 fii tu nem\u0103ritat\u0103 la v\u00e2rsta ei, cu diferen\u0163a c\u0103 tu ai tr\u0103it, \u015fi ea a f\u0103cut ciorb\u0103 \u015fi a peticit \u015fosete \u00een fiecare zi.<\/p>\n Tot despre p\u0103reri de r\u0103u, am putea s-o lu\u0103m consilier pe fosta mea tanti menajer\u0103, doamna Rada. Nevast\u0103 de om be\u0163iv \u015fi b\u0103t\u0103u\u015f. A divor\u0163at de el abia acum, spre v\u00e2rsta a treia, dup\u0103 ce au murit p\u0103rin\u0163ii care o pisau s\u0103 nu fac\u0103 neamul de r\u00e2s cu divor\u0163. Citat: “Abia acum simt c\u0103 tr\u0103iesc”.<\/p>\n Ce vreau s\u0103 spun cu aceste trei exemple? C\u0103 mariajul nu e o garan\u0163ie c\u0103 nu vei fi singur la b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u0163e.<\/p>\n Dar \u015ftii ce au \u00een comun mama, doamna Geta \u015fi doamna Rada?<\/p>\n Toate trei au un cerc de prieteni loiali de v\u00e2rsta lor, oameni care se ajut\u0103, se sus\u0163in, sar la nevoie \u015fi stau cu orele de vorb\u0103 la telefon.<\/p>\n Iar un cerc de prieteni po\u0163i s\u0103-\u0163i faci la orice v\u00e2rst\u0103.<\/p>\n Sigur, dac\u0103 m\u00e2ine \u00ee\u0163i iese \u00een cale b\u0103rbatul al\u0103turi de care te vezi, mi se pare firesc s\u0103-i acorzi o \u015fans\u0103. C\u0103 nu se \u015ftie niciodat\u0103 cum fata singur\u0103 de azi ar putea fi mam\u0103 de trei m\u00e2ine. Mi s-au m\u0103ritat ni\u015fte prietene despre care a\u015f fi putut jura c\u0103 vor r\u0103m\u00e2ne aventuriere p\u00e2n\u0103 la moarte.<\/p>\n Dar n-o face la presiunea rudelor, n-o face f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 sim\u0163i tu c\u0103 e omul ok, \u015fi mai ales, nu face un compromis.<\/p>\n \u0162ine minte instructajul din avioane: \u00cen caz de probleme, pune-\u0163i masca de oxigen \u00een primul r\u00e2nd \u0163ie.<\/p>\n Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost de folos,<\/p>\n Lorena.<\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n \u00ce\u0163i plac textele Trollywood? Po\u0163i sus\u0163ine \u015fi tu proiectul.<\/p>\n *** Intro: Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. 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