{"id":15751,"date":"2018-10-09T10:22:26","date_gmt":"2018-10-09T07:22:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=15751"},"modified":"2022-01-11T15:08:36","modified_gmt":"2022-01-11T12:08:36","slug":"pericolul-insultelor-din-familia-lexicala-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/pericolul-insultelor-din-familia-lexicala-man\/","title":{"rendered":"Pericolul insultelor din familia lexical\u0103 “man-“"},"content":{"rendered":"

E adev\u0103rat, sunt mul\u0163i jego\u015fi pe lume. De ambele sexe, a\u015f prefera s\u0103 adaug. Jego\u015fi care abuzeaz\u0103 de al\u0163ii, jego\u015fi care-i manipuleaz\u0103 pe al\u0163ii, jego\u015fi care \u00ee\u015fi fac titlu de glorie din disconfortul provocat altora, jego\u015fi care au preten\u0163ia s\u0103 poat\u0103 face orice rahat le fat\u0103 mintea \u015fi s\u0103 nu aib\u0103 parte de consecin\u0163e.<\/p>\n

De-a lungul istoriei, evident, jego\u015fii de sex feminin aveau parte de pedepse crunte, pentru adulter, pentru vr\u0103jitorie, pentru orice p\u0103cat posibil, \u00een timp ce jego\u015fii de sex masculin sc\u0103pau scurt cu “Eh, a\u015fa-s b\u0103rba\u0163ii”. \u015ei mi se pare extrem de tare c\u0103 \u00een zilele noastre nu mai merge a\u015fa, c\u0103 dac\u0103 unul are un comportament oribil, din ce \u00een ce mai multe femei iau atitudine \u015fi-i bag\u0103 \u00een deceda\u0163i de ordin matern, \u015fi \u00eencet-\u00eencet, mentalitatea c\u0103 abuzul e firesc, c\u0103 doar e\u015fti femeie \u00eencepe s\u0103 dispar\u0103.<\/p>\n

Ce m\u0103 \u00eengrijoreaz\u0103 \u00eens\u0103 e picatul \u00een extrema opus\u0103. Cea \u00een care to\u0163i b\u0103rba\u0163ii sunt du\u015fmani de clas\u0103, doar pentru c\u0103 de\u0163in \u015fi un cromozom Y. \u015ei din acest punct de vedere, mi se pare c\u0103 mi\u015fcarea #notallmen are dreptate.<\/p>\n

\u00ce\u0163i convine s\u0103 auzi c\u0103 toate femeile sunt cu… \u0103sta, u\u015foare? \u00ce\u0163i convine s\u0103 auzi c\u0103 toate femeile trebuie s\u0103 stea la crati\u0163\u0103? \u00ce\u0163i convine s\u0103 auzi c\u0103 toate femeile trebuie s\u0103 cutare?<\/p>\n

OK.<\/p>\n

Atunci \u00eei \u00een\u0163elegi \u015fi pe #notallmen.<\/p>\n

Sunt destui imbecili pe lume, dar sunt \u015fi destui b\u0103rba\u0163i demni, civiliza\u0163i, buni, sufleti\u015fti, corec\u0163i. Am avut \u015fi am astfel de prieteni, \u015fi pot s\u0103 spun c\u0103 personalitatea mea n-ar fi cea de acum f\u0103r\u0103 sus\u0163inerea, \u00eencurajarea, afec\u0163iunea, umorul lor.<\/p>\n

De la b\u0103rba\u0163i am \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at s\u0103-mi bag p*** \u00een du\u015fmani, nu s\u0103 stau s\u0103 suf\u0103r ca Sf\u00e2nta Pulofteia \u015fi s\u0103 a\u015ftept s\u0103-l rezolve Dumnezeu pe \u0103la pe t\u0103r\u00e2mul cel\u0103lalt.<\/p>\n

De la b\u0103rba\u0163i am \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at c\u0103 omul trebuie s\u0103 lupte pentru visele lui, nu s\u0103 se vaiete c\u0103 lumea-i rea.<\/p>\n

De la b\u0103rba\u0163i am \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at c\u0103 dac\u0103 ai o problem\u0103, cel mai simplu e s-o rezolvi \u015fi s\u0103 mergi mai departe, nu s\u0103 te vaie\u0163i interminabil \u015fi s\u0103 nu mi\u015fti un deget.<\/p>\n

De la b\u0103rba\u0163i am \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at c\u0103 omul trebuie s\u0103 se respecte \u00een primul r\u00e2nd pe sine \u00eensu\u015fi, iar asta \u00eei va conferi coloana vertebral\u0103 s\u0103-i respecte \u015fi pe al\u0163ii.<\/p>\n

Nu c\u0103 femeile n-ar avea aceste calit\u0103\u0163i, dar \u00eentr-o \u0163ar\u0103 ca Rom\u00e2nia, ele sunt educate gre\u015fit, s\u0103 fie neputincioase \u015fi dependente, \u015fi atunci, cei care m-au influen\u0163at pe mine personal au fost b\u0103rba\u0163i. B\u0103rba\u0163i onorabili.<\/p>\n

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Taman de aceea, expresiile de tip “manhandling”, “manspreading” \u015fi “mansplaining” m\u0103 insult\u0103 personal.<\/p>\n

“Manhandling” e c\u00e2nd pune un idiot m\u00e2na pe tine total nepotrivit, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ai cu el rela\u0163ia adecvat\u0103. O face doar din prezum\u0163ia c\u0103 femeile “trebuie luate, dac\u0103 le vrei”. “Manspreading” e c\u00e2nd stai \u00een autobuz \/ tren \/ metrou l\u00e2ng\u0103 un idiot, iar \u0103la se cr\u0103ce\u015fte \u015fi-\u0163i ia \u015fi \u0163ie jum\u0103tate de scaun, c\u0103 lui i se cuvine. “Mansplaining” e c\u00e2nd un idiot are despre tine impresia c\u0103 e\u015fti chiar mai proast\u0103 dec\u00e2t el \u015fi \u00eencepe s\u0103-\u015fi explice pe un ton sf\u0103tos eviden\u0163e la mintea coco\u015fului.<\/p>\n

De ce m\u0103 insult\u0103 personal aceste expresii?<\/p>\n

Datorit\u0103 prefixului “man”.<\/p>\n

Pentru c\u0103 b\u0103rba\u0163ii onorabili pe care-i cunosc nu s-ar deda la acest tip de comportamente nici pica\u0163i cu cear\u0103. Pur \u015fi simplu nu. Pur \u015fi simplu, ar fi contrar firii \u015fi caracterului lor s\u0103 fac\u0103 din astea. E la fel de random \u015fi de injust s\u0103-i b\u0103nuie\u015fti de astfel de lucruri, ca prezum\u0163ia unui prost la nimereal\u0103 c\u0103 ai fi disponibil\u0103 doar pentru c\u0103 por\u0163i fust\u0103 scurt\u0103 \u00een poza de profil pe Facebook.<\/p>\n

Cred sincer c\u0103 nici retorica de tip “toate femeile sunt curve”, nici cea de tip “to\u0163i b\u0103rba\u0163ii sunt porci” nu ajut\u0103 pe absolut nimeni, nici la nivel individual, nici la nivel de societate. Da, individul concret Costel este un porc. Ia m\u0103suri adecvate \u00een direc\u0163ia lui Costel \u015fi \u00eenchide nemul\u0163umirea legat\u0103 de Costel \u00een sertarul Costel, n-o proiecta peste toat\u0103 lumea.<\/p>\n

Ca s\u0103 \u00eencheiem acest text cu o analogie, a\u015fa, s\u0103 r\u00e2dem.<\/p>\n

Hai s\u0103 zicem c\u0103 b\u0103rba\u0163ii ar vrea s\u0103 se r\u0103zbune pe familia lexical\u0103 “man” \u015fi ar crea familia lexical\u0103 de apuc\u0103turi feminine “woman”.<\/p>\n

“Womancomplaining” – c\u00e2nd tu ai o zi de kkt, ajungi acas\u0103, \u00eencepi s\u0103 te vaie\u0163i, \u015fi te vaie\u0163i, \u015fi te vaie\u0163i, \u015fi te vaie\u0163i, \u015fi te toooot vaie\u0163i, \u015fi trec patru ore, \u015fi \u00eenc\u0103 n-ai terminat s\u0103 te vaie\u0163i, oarb\u0103 la faptul c\u0103 \u0103la zace mort pe podea, cu urechile explodate \u015fi tancul de empatie golit pe urm\u0103torul cincinal.<\/p>\n

“Womanblaming” – e atunci c\u00e2nd uneia i se c\u0103\u015fun\u0103 pe prietenul ei. \u015ei \u00eencepe ditamai circul, \u00een care-l face vinovat de tot. E cel mai ur\u00e2t, prost, s\u0103rak, zg\u00e2rkit,\u00a0 nu face nimic \u00een cas\u0103, nu duce gunoiul, nu las\u0103 capacul la toalet\u0103, nu \u015ftie s\u0103 se \u00eembrace, are o singur\u0103 pereche de teni\u015fi care put deja a specie disp\u0103rut\u0103, cu cadavre g\u0103site la o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 dup\u0103 deces, se uit\u0103 dup\u0103 altele, blablablablabla.<\/p>\n

Practic, omul st\u0103, ascult\u0103, \u015fi se \u00eentreab\u0103 de ce mai st\u0103 femeia asta \u00eentr-un asemenea travaliu de rela\u0163ie.<\/p>\n

Ca dup\u0103 aia s\u0103 rezulte c\u0103 tot circul a fost pentru c\u0103 el a uitat s\u0103 salute c\u00e2nd a intrat \u00een cas\u0103.<\/p>\n

“Womanabstinence” – c\u00e2nd decide femeia s\u0103-i pedepseasc\u0103 \u015fi nu face sex cu ei mai multe zile la r\u00e2nd, s\u0103 se \u00eenve\u0163e minte idiotul dracului c\u0103 NU se face a\u015fa ceva, indiferent ce ar fi acel a\u015fa ceva.<\/p>\n

\u015ei ultimul de pe list\u0103: “Womanspending”. C\u00e2nd ai o sear\u0103 depresiv\u0103, st\u0103 s\u0103-\u0163i vin\u0103 ciclul sau \u0163i-a sc\u0103zut magneziul, sau \u00eent\u00e2rzie o veste pe care o a\u015fteptai. \u015ei te chinuie a\u015faaa o stare vag\u0103 de nervozitate. Pac, intri pe emag, elefant, amazon, sephora, ce nimere\u015fti primul. \u015ei pacpacpacpac umpli co\u015ful virtual de tot ce-\u0163i pic\u0103 sub ochi. Total 2400 lei. Pl\u0103ti\u0163i cu card? Da \u00een plm, doar nu cu brelocul de la chei! \u0218i \u00een timp ce cardul se u\u0219ureaz\u0103, tu: Aaaah, ce bine m\u0103 simt. Acum, s\u0103 vin\u0103 ciclul!<\/p>\n

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