{"id":16149,"date":"2018-12-02T13:34:16","date_gmt":"2018-12-02T10:34:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=16149"},"modified":"2021-02-21T19:21:59","modified_gmt":"2021-02-21T16:21:59","slug":"respect-loredana-groza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/respect-loredana-groza\/","title":{"rendered":"Respect, Loredana Groza!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ieri seara, am intrat pe blogul lui Silviu Iliu\u021b\u0103<strong>.<\/strong> Unde ultima postare era dedicat\u0103 modului incredibil de young &amp; sexy \u00een care arat\u0103, \u00een ultima vreme, Loredana Groza. Nefiind genul m\u00e2rlan frustrat, Silviu aprecia faptul c\u0103 lookul Loredanei a crescut \u00een poten\u021bial cam ca indexul de pe repartitorul caloriferului meu.<\/p>\n<p>Dup\u0103 ce am avut un dialog prietenesc, \u00een care am apreciat ambii modul \u00een care femeia asta a \u00een\u021beles s\u0103 stoarc\u0103 \u0219tiin\u021ba \u0219i tehnica de ce au ele mai bun, m-am dus pe Instagramul Loredanei, s\u0103 m\u0103 bucur \u0219i eu de modul \u00een care arat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i subliniez: s\u0103 m\u0103 bucur. S\u0103-mi cl\u0103tesc ochii.<\/p>\n<p>Apoi am dat cu privirea de comentarii. Pline de r\u0103utate, de &#8220;accept\u0103-\u0163i v\u00e2rsta!!&#8221;, de &#8220;nu mai semeni cu tine&#8221;, de &#8220;nu trebuia s\u0103 faci asta&#8221;, de &#8220;s\u0103 v\u0103 fie ru\u015fineee!&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Iar asta m-a scos din s\u0103rite.<\/p>\n<p>Suntem o na\u021biune de femei care folosesc v\u00e2rsta ca pe o scuz\u0103 s\u0103 se arunce \u00een cea mai teribil\u0103 neglijen\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 or fi valorile ortodoxe, alea care predic\u0103 ideea c\u0103 femeia trebuie s\u0103 fie modest\u0103 \u0219i umil\u0103. Nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 o fi pura lene \u0219i zg\u00e2rcenie. Nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 o fi buna cre\u0219tere prost \u00een\u021beleas\u0103, care o f\u0103cea, cum am relatat, pe prietena mamei mele s\u0103 ezite s\u0103-\u0219i cumpere palton ro\u0219u, pentru c\u0103 <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/despre-teama-de-batranete\/\">e prea b\u0103tr\u00e2n\u0103 s\u0103 mai poarte culoarea<\/a><\/strong>. Nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 femeia rom\u00e2nc\u0103 crede \u00een mod real c\u0103 se calific\u0103 pentru pl\u0103cere \u0219i distrac\u021bie un singur deceniu din cele opt &#8211; nou\u0103 pe care le are de tr\u0103it.<\/p>\n<p>Dar v\u0103d teribil de multe femei care, dup\u0103 ce trec de o anumit\u0103 v\u00e2rst\u0103, se arunc\u0103 cu voluptate \u00een ghearele nep\u0103s\u0103rii legate de propria \u00eenf\u0103\u021bi\u0219are.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i hai s\u0103 zicem, dac\u0103 acest lucru \u00eel face \u021aa\u021ba Mi\u021ba, nu am de ce s\u0103 m\u0103 amestec. \u021aa\u021ba Mi\u021ba e persoan\u0103 privat\u0103, \u00ee\u0219i ia singur\u0103 deciziile.<\/p>\n<p>Pe de alt\u0103 parte, o mul\u021bime de actri\u021be \u0219i c\u00e2nt\u0103re\u021be rom\u00e2nce au \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nit \u0219i s-au l\u0103\u021bit ca ni\u0219te scroafe. Da, \u0219tiu, body-positivity blabla. \u0218i, cum am punctat mai sus, persoana privat\u0103 \u021aa\u021ba Mi\u021ba are tot dreptul s\u0103 ocupe o banc\u0103 \u00eentreag\u0103 de una singur\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103-i spun\u0103 nimeni nimic. Dar ca artist, corpul t\u0103u e instrumentul t\u0103u. Ce instrument e \u0103la, mare c\u00e2t China comunist\u0103, \u0219i v\u0103duvit de orice expresivitate?<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i mai e \u0219i conceptul \u0103la, de div\u0103. O div\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 aib\u0103 carism\u0103 \u0219i sex appeal. De aceea oamenii le adorau pe Marilyn Monroe sau Liz Taylor. C\u00e2nd intrau femeile alea \u00eentr-o \u00eenc\u0103pere, se f\u0103cea brusc lini\u0219te. Nu puteai pretinde de la ele s\u0103 fie \u021aa\u021ba Mi\u021ba. Erau DIVE. Erau personaje \u0219i \u00een via\u021ba lor privat\u0103, erau primadone, erau entertaineri\u021be.<\/p>\n<p>Nu po\u021bi pretinde de la o div\u0103 s\u0103-\u0219i pun\u0103 basma \u00een cap \u0219i s\u0103 fie umil\u0103. Cum zicea Beyonce, care mi se pare ultima div\u0103 \u00een via\u021b\u0103: Diva is a female version of a hustler.<\/p>\n<p>Adic\u0103 diva nu miloge\u0219te, ci IMPUNE.<\/p>\n<p>De aceea, am pentru Loredana, \u0219i pentru modul \u00een care arat\u0103, un respect URIA\u0218. Loredana ESTE o adev\u0103rat\u0103 div\u0103. Nu are nici o preten\u021bie s\u0103 fie pe bune, a\u0219a cum nici personajul Jessica Rabbit nu era g\u00e2ndit ca o femeie pe bune. Femei pe bune ai la toate col\u021burile.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Dar, Lorena, cine e Jessica Rabbit?&#8221; o s\u0103 \u00eentrebe milenialul complet ignorant \u00een materie de pop culture.<\/p>\n<p>P\u0103i, iat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div class=\"video-container\"><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"700\" height=\"394\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/yy5THitqPBw?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/div>\n<p>E ceva realist \u00een personajul \u0103sta?<\/p>\n<p>Fuck, no.<\/p>\n<p>Totul e plusat, fiecare poz\u0103, fiecare mi\u0219care e o chintesen\u021b\u0103 a seduc\u021biei.<\/p>\n<p>Jessica Rabbit e o DIV\u0102.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i Loredana nu doar arat\u0103 a DIV\u0102, ci sun\u0103 a DIV\u0102. Femeia aia are o voce \u0219i un talent uria\u0219. Cu care face ni\u0219te bani. Faptul c\u0103 nu \u00eei investe\u0219te \u00een m\u00e2ncare \u0219i d\u0103 vina pe probleme hormonale c\u0103 e c\u00e2t batoza, ci \u00eei investe\u0219te \u00een nu \u0219tiu ce procedur\u0103 estetic\u0103, s\u0103 arate a\u0219a, mi se pare WOW.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i exact de aceea, fluxul de mizde care stau potop pe pagina ei de Instagram \u0219i o cotcod\u0103cesc c\u0103 nu-\u0219i asum\u0103 v\u00e2rsta mi se pare b\u0103tubil cu bocancul peste bot.<\/p>\n<p>Loredana nu-\u021bi datoreaz\u0103 nici \u021bie, nici mie, nici la cofet\u0103rie raport despre v\u00e2rsta ei. Ea nu vinde o v\u00e2rst\u0103, ea vinde un personaj. Diva care se urc\u0103 pe o scen\u0103 \u0219i face un spectacol de r\u0103m\u00e2i f\u0103r\u0103 aer.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cei iese chestia asta?<\/p>\n<p>DA.<\/p>\n<p>De ce e problema ta ce v\u00e2rst\u0103 are, \u00een rest? Te-a cerut de b\u0103rbat sau de nevast\u0103? \u021ai-a promis c\u0103-\u021bi face copii \u0219i, oops, abia acum \u00ee\u021bi zice c\u0103 e la menopauz\u0103? A dat de \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 ar fi dispus\u0103 s\u0103 aga\u021be pe net?<\/p>\n<p>NU.<\/p>\n<p>Pe scurt, nu ai o rela\u021bie de natur\u0103 privat\u0103 cu Loredana, deci v\u00e2rsta ei NU este problema ta. Problema ta e s-o vezi \u00een concert, unde e cu adev\u0103rat spectaculoas\u0103, \u0219i acum, c\u0103 arat\u0103 at\u00e2t de bine, e \u0219i mai spectaculoas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Da\u021bi-v\u0103 jos de pe Instagramul femeii \u0219i nu mai \u00eencerca\u021bi s-o reduce\u021bi la ur\u00e2\u021benia \u0219i banalitatea \u00een care v\u0103 l\u0103f\u0103i\u021bi voi, \u00een primul r\u00e2nd pentru c\u0103 alege\u021bi s\u0103 v\u0103 l\u0103f\u0103i\u021bi, \u0219i nu face\u021bi nimic s\u0103 ie\u0219i\u021bi de acolo.<\/p>\n<p>Exist\u0103 multe milioane de Tanti Mi\u021be, \u0219i o singur\u0103 Jessica Rabbit.<\/p>\n<p>Iar cea mai crud\u0103 jignire mi-a adus-o un coleg actor. Care zice\u00a0 urm\u0103toarele:<\/p>\n<p>-\u00cemi place c\u0103 e\u0219ti autentic\u0103, sincer\u0103, genul care nu \u0219i-ar face niciodat\u0103 opera\u021bii estetice.<\/p>\n<p>Pfffff.<\/p>\n<p>-Ce vorbe\u0219ti, boss?<\/p>\n<p>-Pari foarte mul\u021bumit\u0103 de tine, \u00een sensul \u0103sta zic.<\/p>\n<p>-Deocamdat\u0103 sunt. N-am nevoie de nimic. Nici nu cred \u00een bisturiu de dragul bisturiului. Dar s\u0103 moar\u0103 Jeac \u0219i Rac, \u00een secunda \u00een care nu-mi va pl\u0103cea ce v\u0103d \u00een oglind\u0103, o s\u0103 remediez cu viteza luminii.<\/p>\n<p>Avem o singur\u0103 via\u021b\u0103. Una singur\u0103. \u0218i o singur\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103. Nu zece. Unicul mod \u00een care merit\u0103 tr\u0103it\u0103 aceast\u0103 singur\u0103 via\u021b\u0103 este s\u0103 fii fericit cu tine \u00eensu\u021bi. Dar dac\u0103 e\u0219ti performer de orice gen, faptul c\u0103 te ui\u021bi \u00een oglind\u0103 \u0219i \u00ee\u021bi place ceea ce vezi te motiveaz\u0103 pentru consumul uria\u0219 de energie pe care \u00eel pretinde orice alt performativ.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen concluzie: Loredana e o div\u0103, c\u00e2nt\u0103 ca o div\u0103 \u0219i str\u0103luce\u0219te ca o div\u0103. Femeie realist\u0103 e acas\u0103, cu ai ei, iar asta NU e problema publicului.<\/p>\n<p>Bravo, Loredana. Ar\u0103\u021bi ca o zei\u021b\u0103. C\u00e2nd urci tu pe scen\u0103, v\u0103d vedeta spectacolului. Nu am nici o \u0219ans\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb dac\u0103 nu cumva a intrat tanti de la cur\u0103\u021benie pe u\u0219a gre\u0219it\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Cu multe altele, am frecvent aceast\u0103 iluzie.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>\u00ce\u0163i plac textele Trollywood? Po\u0163i sus\u0163ine \u015fi tu proiectul.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14577\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>\nVrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ieri seara, am intrat pe blogul lui Silviu Iliu\u021b\u0103. 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