{"id":16220,"date":"2018-12-10T12:53:15","date_gmt":"2018-12-10T09:53:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=16220"},"modified":"2018-12-10T12:53:15","modified_gmt":"2018-12-10T09:53:15","slug":"posta-redactiei-as-fi-vrut-sa-fiu-faimoasa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-as-fi-vrut-sa-fiu-faimoasa\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u015fta redac\u0163iei: A\u015f fi vrut s\u0103 fiu faimoas\u0103!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Intro: Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. Nu, Gicu, nu sub form\u0103 de sex, stai jos. \u00cen schimb, lu\u0103m o dram\u0103 personal\u0103 pe care mi-o trimite\u0163i pe mail, pe birou@lorenalupu.com, \u015fi g\u0103sim o solu\u0163ie, pe care oricum n-o ve\u0163i urma, dar m\u0103car ne distr\u0103m.<\/p>\n

\u015ei misiva de data asta:<\/p>\n

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Drag\u0103 Lorena,<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Cu scuzele de rigoare c\u0103 invadez a\u0219a, pe nepus\u0103 mas\u0103, am \u0219i eu dou\u0103 probleme \u0219i sper s\u0103 m\u0103 po\u021bi ajuta. O s\u0103 le expun pe c\u00e2t de scurt \u0219i la obiect pot:\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n
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1. Am 28 de ani, sunt actri\u021b\u0103, dar de fapt m-am f\u0103cut actri\u021b\u0103 doar pentru c\u0103 speram eu c\u0103 a\u0219a o s\u0103 ajung faimoas\u0103. T\u00e2mpenie de copchil, \u0219tiu. <\/strong><\/div>\n
Ideea e c\u0103 dup\u0103 ce m-am prins eu c\u0103 n-am nicio \u0219ans\u0103 la faima mult dorit\u0103, mi s-a \u0219i acrit de jucat te-miri-ce comedioare prin b\u0103rule\u021be insalubre, eu care m\u0103 visasem \u00eentotdeauna un soi de Angelin\u0103 Jolie. <\/strong><\/div>\n
Talent cic\u0103 a\u0219 avea, a\u0219a mi-au zis to\u021bi profesorii, \u00eens\u0103 nu am suficient\u0103 determinare s\u0103-l fructific. A\u0219a c\u0103 am tot dat-o dintr-una-ntr-alta, c\u00e2nd mi s-a luat de actorie m-am apucat de c\u00e2ntat. <\/strong><\/div>\n
Era de munc\u0103 \u0219i la c\u00e2ntat \u0219i nici acolo nu p\u0103ream s\u0103 fiu mai motivat\u0103, de\u0219i, again, cic\u0103 nu eram chiar rea. <\/strong><\/div>\n
Dup-aia mi-am dat seama c\u0103 nu mai am bani \u0219i m-am apucat de alte jobule\u021be \u0219i altele \u0219i altele p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een momentul \u0103sta c\u00e2nd \u00eemi dau seama c\u0103 sunt \u00een c\u0103cat \u0219i \u00ee\u021bi scriu \u021bie. N-am f\u0103cut nimic cu via\u021ba mea, c\u00e2inii latr\u0103, caravana trece \u0219i eu nu \u0219tiu \u00een ce direc\u021bie s-o apuc. <\/strong><\/div>\n
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Problema nu e c\u0103 nu mi-ar pl\u0103cea lucruri, c\u0103 de pl\u0103cut \u00eemi plac, problema e c\u0103 vreau satisfac\u021bii repede \u0219i dac\u0103 nu le ob\u021bin, n-am r\u0103bdare s\u0103 construiesc. M\u0103 plictisesc repede, m\u0103 fur\u0103 peisajul, m\u0103 ia lenea, parc\u0103 a\u0219 ie\u0219i prin ora\u0219, a ap\u0103rut nush ce serial la TV \u0219i tot a\u0219a. Iar r\u0103m\u00e2n f\u0103r\u0103 bani, iar \u00eemi fac datorii, iar \u00eemi iau jobule\u021be de rahat ca s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentre\u021bin \u201eo perioad\u0103 doar, p\u00e2n\u0103 o s\u0103 fac eu CE-MI DORESC CU ADEV\u0102RAT\u201d, numai c\u0103 \u0103sta deja a devenit un cerc vicios, habar n-am ce-mi doresc cu adev\u0103rat, c\u00e2inii tot latr\u0103 \u0219i caravana tot trece \u0219i tare mi-e c\u0103 o s\u0103 m\u0103 trezesc murind de foame la cas\u0103 la Kaufland c\u0103 n-am fost \u00een stare s\u0103 fac nimic altceva. <\/strong><\/div>\n
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Nu \u0219tiu cum s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi explic, parc\u0103 de fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd m\u0103 apuc de ceva \u0219i zic \u201egata, domne, asta e, m\u0103 concentrez pe asta p\u00e2n\u0103 la moarte\u201d, apare ceva \u0219i mai interesant \u0219i m\u0103 las de prima chestie. \u0218i tot a\u0219a. Help!<\/strong><\/div>\n
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2. Previzibil, treaba asta se \u00eentinde \u0219i \u00een via\u021ba personal\u0103, nu doar \u00een aia profesional\u0103. Mi se pune pata pe unul, sunt \u00eendr\u0103gostit\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 la Dumnezeu, ne combin\u0103m, trec 2-3 ani, m\u0103 plictisesc. Parc\u0103-i mai mi\u0219to \u0103la. Sau \u0103l\u0103lalt. Nici nu \u0219tiu s\u0103 m\u0103 despart de om, o trenez a\u0219a p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd ori \u00eemi ajunge la os \u0219i r\u0103bufnesc, ori \u00eennebune\u0219te \u0103la cu toanele mele \u0219i se car\u0103 el.\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Anyway, ideea e c\u0103 acum m\u0103 lupt de la o lun\u0103 la alta s\u0103-mi pl\u0103tesc chiria, n-am bani nici s\u0103 mor, am \u00eencercat s\u0103-mi lansez un canal de streaming dar \u0219i pentru \u0103la trebuie r\u0103bdare \u0219i continuitate ca s\u0103 ias\u0103 banul \u0219i evident c\u0103 dup\u0103 ce a trecut entuziasmul \u00eenceputului \u0219i am v\u0103zut c\u0103 nu rup norii cu el, mi s-a t\u0103iat, mai am un part-time vai mor\u021bii lui din care \u00eemi mai scot vreo 200 de lei pe s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103, cu chiu cu vai, \u0219i \u00een rest m\u0103 tot g\u00e2ndesc ce naiba s\u0103 fac \u0219i, mai ales, cum s\u0103 scap de boala asta cu pierdutul interesului din primele 10 secunde.\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Sunt cu un tip de c\u00e2\u021biva ani, locuim \u00eempreun\u0103, mi s-a luat \u0219i de el \u0219i mi-am dat seama c\u0103 nu-i ce-mi trebuie mie, dar nici nu-l las, fiindc\u0103 \u021bin la om, \u0219tiu c\u0103 m\u0103 iube\u0219te \u0219i \u0219tiu c\u0103 l-a\u0219 r\u0103ni dac\u0103 l-a\u0219 p\u0103r\u0103si, ne \u00een\u021belegem bine etc. etc. Deci nu m\u0103 v\u0103d nici cu el a la long, dar nici f\u0103r\u0103 el momentan.\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Spune-mi, te rog, ce s\u0103 fac.\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Mul\u021bumesc!<\/strong><\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n
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Drag\u0103 X.,<\/div>\n
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Din ce \u00eemi poveste\u015fti, se pare c\u0103 \u015ftii exact care e problema ta. E inclus\u0103 \u00een bile\u0163el. “problema e c\u0103 vreau satisfac\u021bii repede \u0219i dac\u0103 nu le ob\u021bin, n-am r\u0103bdare s\u0103 construiesc.”<\/strong><\/div>\n
There you have it.<\/div>\n
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Or, chiar dac\u0103 \u00een anumite domenii apar satisfac\u0163ii repede, \u015fi \u00een altele nu, chiar dac\u0103, dup\u0103 satisfac\u0163ii ob\u0163inute repede apar insatisfac\u0163ii de nedescris,\u00a0trebuie s\u0103-\u0163i impui, tu \u0163ie, r\u0103bdare s\u0103 construie\u015fti.\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Blogul \u0103sta mi-a oferit \u015fi \u00eemi ofer\u0103 satisfac\u0163ii neb\u0103nuite, \u015fi astea au venit relativ repede, la c\u00e2teva luni dup\u0103 ce am \u00eenceput s\u0103-l \u0163in. Dar vara asta, c\u00e2nd au fost cele dou\u0103 luni de ban pe Facebook, unde, nu \u015ftiu cum naiba, s-a concentrat toat\u0103 cititorimea, a fost crunt. Unde nu e trafic, nu sunt nici reclame, nu sunt nici dona\u0163ii dec\u00e2t de la bruma de fideli, \u015fi dintr-un proiect de sine st\u0103t\u0103tor, cum e \u00een lunile lui bune, s-a transformat \u00eentr-o povar\u0103 de tras.<\/div>\n
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Dar beneficiile au ap\u0103rut dup\u0103 ce au trecut cele dou\u0103 luni de ban, pentru c\u0103 acum am dou\u0103 conturi pe Facebook, fiecare cu traficul \u015fi prietenii proprii.<\/div>\n
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Asta se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 pe alocuri \u015fi cu o carier\u0103 actoriceasc\u0103, \u015fi cu una muzical\u0103, \u015fi cu orice profesie care presupune voca\u0163ie, nu sarcini fixe \u015fi program de la 9 la 5.<\/div>\n
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Sunt momente de glorie \u015fi momente \u00een care \u00ee\u0163i vine s\u0103 dai cu pl de mas\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 pleci. \u015ei exact momentele alea separ\u0103 copiii de adul\u0163i.<\/div>\n
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Nu te mai l\u0103sa \u00een voia toanelor. D\u0103-\u0163i un \u015fut pe interior \u015fi impune-\u0163i: \u00cen mor\u0163ii m\u0103-tii, azi o s\u0103 faci asta! Nu discut\u0103m! Azi! O s\u0103 faci! Asta.<\/strong><\/div>\n
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\u015ei po\u0163i \u00eencepe \u00een felul urm\u0103tor.<\/div>\n
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Te \u00eentrebi serios, tu pe tine, ce vrei. Un job 9 – 5 sau o carier\u0103 artistic\u0103. Dar pentru prima oar\u0103 \u00een via\u0163a ta, ia o decizie de care s\u0103 te \u0163ii. Definitiv, orice ar fi.<\/div>\n
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Dac\u0103 vrei un job de oameni obi\u015fnui\u0163i, \u00eel cau\u0163i, te apuci de munc\u0103 \u015fi aia e.<\/div>\n
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Dac\u0103 \u00eens\u0103 vrei un job artistic, te preg\u0103te\u015fti de investi\u0163ie. \u015ei prin investi\u0163ie, m\u0103 refer nu doar la bani, ci mai ales la efort serios \u015fi devotament. Adic\u0103, exact ce n-ai f\u0103cut tu niciodat\u0103.<\/div>\n
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Alege un proiect. Ce vrei tu, actorie, muzic\u0103, sculptur\u0103 \u00een rahat turcesc, orice e mai aproape \u00een momentul \u0103sta de sufletul t\u0103u.<\/div>\n
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Alege un mesaj. Ceva care s\u0103 te reprezinte. Un lucru pe care, dac\u0103 nu-l exprimi, mori sufocat\u0103.<\/div>\n
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Alege oamenii cu care s\u0103 faci proiectul. Conteaz\u0103 incredibil s\u0103 fie cei potrivi\u0163i. Oric\u00e2t de mi\u015fto ar fi un proiect, dac\u0103-l zide\u015fti pe oameni de kkt, se va surpa precum un castel de c\u0103r\u0163i de joc.<\/div>\n
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\u015ei apuc\u0103-te de treab\u0103. D\u0103-\u0163i deadline-uri, impune-\u0163i s\u0103 nu-\u0163i mai fug\u0103 mintea pe coclauri \u015fi \u0163ine-te. Investe\u015fte tot ce ai \u00een proiectul \u0103la. Pune ambi\u0163ie \u00een el. Sau iese cum vrei tu, sau ziua de m\u00e2ine nu are sens. Bag\u0103 energie, efort, implicare.<\/div>\n
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\u015ei o s\u0103 vin\u0103 s\u0103 te b\u00e2z\u00e2ie diverse tenta\u0163ii. D\u0103-le flit. Nu ie\u015fi \u00een ora\u015f dec\u00e2t \u00een interes de proiect, nu te ui\u0163i la seriale dec\u00e2t seara la culcare s\u0103 te relaxezi, nu joci bambilici pe net, nu \u00ee\u0163i dai matchuri pe Tinder. TE CONCENTREZI S\u0102 FACI ASTA.<\/div>\n
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\u00cen m\u0103sura \u00een care po\u0163i, \u00eel rogi pe prietenul t\u0103u s\u0103 fie un pic patriarhal cu tine \u015fi s\u0103 te pun\u0103 la treab\u0103 c\u00e2nd vede c\u0103 o l\u0103b\u0103re\u015fti. Numai c\u0103 \u00een loc s\u0103 \u0163ipe “La crati\u0163\u0103, f\u0103!”, zi-i s\u0103 \u0163ipe “La proiect, f\u0103!”.<\/div>\n
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Ah, \u015fi \u00eenc\u0103 o chestie. E teribil de ur\u00e2t, de nedemn \u015fi de lipsit de respect s\u0103 folose\u015fti un om pe post de Plan B, s\u0103 nu-l r\u0103ne\u015fti. Eu totdeauna am preferat singur\u0103tatea ipostazei de plan B \u00een via\u0163a cuiva, \u015fi \u00eentotdeauna am preferat s\u0103 spun un “nu” cinstit dec\u00e2t s\u0103 tratez pe cineva cu infinita arogan\u0163\u0103 \u015fi preten\u0163ie de superioritate a unui “sunt cu tine de mil\u0103”.<\/div>\n
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Via\u0163a merit\u0103 tr\u0103it\u0103 numai \u00een plan A. Chiar dac\u0103 asta presupune s\u0103 ne impunem ni\u015fte disciplin\u0103, \u015fi pe alocuri, s\u0103 ne d\u0103m singuri palme. Poate c\u0103 unde d\u0103 tata nu cre\u015fte, dar unde dai tu, \u00eentru responsabilizare \u015fi punerea osului la treab\u0103, categoric da.<\/div>\n
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Iar \u00een b\u0103rule\u0163e insalubre am v\u0103zut c\u00e2teva dintre cele mai impresionante, cutremur\u0103toare, sensibile, sau dimpotriv\u0103, infinit de cinice spectacole, pe care le am \u00een suflet p\u00e2n\u0103 azi \u015fi care m-au format ca om. Problema nu era b\u0103rule\u0163ul insalubru, ci lipsa unui crez artistic valid, at\u00e2t din sufle\u0163elul t\u0103u, c\u00e2t \u015fi din produc\u0163ie.<\/div>\n
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Sper c\u0103 am fost util\u0103,<\/div>\n
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Lorena.<\/div>\n
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