{"id":16254,"date":"2018-12-16T12:11:04","date_gmt":"2018-12-16T09:11:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=16254"},"modified":"2018-12-16T12:11:04","modified_gmt":"2018-12-16T09:11:04","slug":"dar-de-ce-i-a-trimis-poze","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/dar-de-ce-i-a-trimis-poze\/","title":{"rendered":"Dar de ce i-a trimis poze?"},"content":{"rendered":"

De c\u00e2te ori se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 un scandal uria\u015f care are \u00een centru o form\u0103 oarecare de violen\u0163\u0103 domestic\u0103, revenge porn sau c\u00e2te un caz de individ care \u00ee\u015fi terorizeaz\u0103 fosta prieten\u0103, sec\u0163iunea de comentarii se umple mereu de acelea\u015fi \u00eentreb\u0103ri: Dar ea de ce s-a combinat cu el? De ce s-a dus acas\u0103 la el? De ce l-a chemat acas\u0103? De ce a f\u0103cut sex cu el? De ce i-a trimis nuduri? De ce de ce de ce de ce?<\/p>\n

Apoi comentacii \u0103\u015ftia plini de prejudec\u0103\u0163i dau \u015fi ei de una care nu pare s\u0103-i deteste foarte tare. \u015ei cu ce \u00eencep s\u0103 insiste pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 ea?<\/p>\n

Combin\u0103-te cu mine.<\/p>\n

Hai acas\u0103 la mine.<\/p>\n

C\u00e2nd m\u0103 chemi acas\u0103 pe la tine?<\/p>\n

C\u00e2nd facem sex?<\/p>\n

Mi-e dor de tine, hai, trimite-mi \u015fi mie o poz\u0103 cu tine goal\u0103.<\/p>\n

\u015etii ce mi-ar pl\u0103cea s\u0103 facem?<\/p>\n

\u015ei dac\u0103 una \u00eei refuz\u0103, pe baza \u015ftirilor cu abuz:<\/p>\n

“Voi, feministele astea nebune, ne crede\u0163i pe to\u0163i porci \u015fi violatori! Cum crezi c\u0103 eu a\u015f putea face a\u015fa ceva?”<\/p>\n

Iar dac\u0103 accept\u0103:<\/p>\n

“A\u015fa i-a trebuit, dac\u0103 a fost fraier\u0103 \u015fi a pus botul.”<\/p>\n

Remarc\u0103m \u00een acest pattern c\u0103 nicicum nu este ok? Dac\u0103 porne\u015fti pe premisa de \u00eencredere \u015fi oferi ce \u0163i se cere, e\u015fti fraier\u0103 \u015fi ai pus botul, iar dac\u0103 porne\u015fti pe premisa de ne\u00eencredere \u015fi refuzi totul, e\u015fti o frigid\u0103 \u015fi o feminist\u0103 rece ca ghea\u0163a care nu \u00een\u0163elege cum func\u0163ioneaz\u0103 adev\u0103rata dragoste?<\/p>\n

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O parte dintre femei au renun\u0163at s\u0103-\u015fi mai bat\u0103 capul cu aceast\u0103 rulet\u0103 ruseasc\u0103 unde riscul de a pierde e mereu mai mare dec\u00e2t acela de a c\u00e2\u015ftiga \u015fi prefer\u0103 o singur\u0103tate calm\u0103, confortabil\u0103, unde nu te freac\u0103 nimeni la icre nici c\u0103 e\u015fti fraier\u0103 \u015fi pui botul, nici c\u0103 e\u015fti frigid\u0103 rece ca ghea\u0163a \u015fi etc. Sau, m\u0103 rog, te mai freac\u0103 vreun idiot, dar numai de la distan\u0163\u0103 sigur\u0103, \u015fi \u00eei po\u0163i \u015fterge num\u0103rul de telefon din secunda \u00een care d\u0103 primele semne de prostie.<\/p>\n

Dar mai sunt \u015fi femeile care \u00eenc\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi mai doresc o poveste de dragoste. O rela\u0163ie. OMG, poate chiar o familie.<\/p>\n

Nici o poveste de dragoste nu poate fi tr\u0103it\u0103 doar din ipostaza de “nu am \u00eencredere \u00een nimic din ce spui”. Pentru c\u0103 nu a\u015fa func\u0163ioneaz\u0103 o rela\u0163ie. \u00cen general, dimpotriv\u0103, mai ales la \u00eenceput, \u015fi mai ales dac\u0103 \u00ee\u0163i place persoana, vrei s-o faci fericit\u0103.<\/p>\n

Valabil \u015fi pentru femei.<\/p>\n

C\u00e2t timp \u00ee\u0163i place tipul \u0103la, vrei s\u0103 fie fericit, vrei s\u0103-i faci pe plac \u015fi vrei s\u0103 faci nebunii cu el. C\u0103 de-aia \u00ee\u0163i place. Unde se presupune c\u0103 ar trebui o femeie aflat\u0103 \u00eentr-o rela\u0163ie s\u0103-\u015fi satisfac\u0103 kinkurile \u015fi feti\u015furile sexuale, dac\u0103 nu chiar \u00een cadrul rela\u0163iei \u00een care se afl\u0103 \u00een momentul respectiv?<\/p>\n

Ah, stai, \u015fi femeilor le place s\u0103 fac\u0103 sex, \u015fi femeile au lucruri care le excit\u0103, \u015fi femeile au perversiunile lor?<\/p>\n

Da.<\/p>\n

Absolut toate.<\/p>\n

Unele au noroc de nepro\u015fti, \u015fi sunt dezl\u0103n\u0163uite doar \u00een intimitatea unei\/unor pove\u015fti de amor din care nu se scurg poze unde nu ar trebui.<\/p>\n

Altele mai pu\u0163in.<\/p>\n

Mai bine, c\u00e2nd se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 o desp\u0103r\u0163ire extrem de ur\u00e2t\u0103, iar dobitocul \u00eencepe s\u0103 fac\u0103 publice poze \u015fi filmule\u0163e cu fosta, \u00eentreba\u0163i-v\u0103 ce e \u00een neregul\u0103 cu voi. \u00cen momentul c\u00e2nd o \u00eenvinui\u0163i pe tip\u0103 exact de lucrurile pe care le-a\u0163i a\u015ftepta \u015fi voi \u00eentr-o poten\u0163ial\u0103 rela\u0163ie.<\/p>\n

\u00centre doi oameni care se iubesc – sau m\u0103car cred c\u0103 se iubesc – \u015fi vor s\u0103 fie \u00eempreun\u0103, singurul tabu valabil e o chestie cu care minimum un partener nu consimte.<\/p>\n

Dar dac\u0103 barierele consim\u0163\u0103m\u00e2ntului au fost dep\u0103\u015fite, unde, dac\u0103 nu \u00een cazul unei rela\u0163ii, se presupune c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 te eliberezi de toat\u0103 cenzura restric\u0163iilor sociale \u015fi s\u0103 fii, din punct de vedere sexual, tu \u00eensu\u0163i?<\/p>\n

\u015ei da, tu \u00eensu\u0163i din punct de vedere sexual poate \u00eensemna exact asta.<\/p>\n

El (mesaj la 12): Mi-e dor de tine.<\/p>\n

Ea: \u015ei mie.<\/p>\n

El: \u00cen ce e\u015fti \u00eembr\u0103cat\u0103?<\/p>\n

Ea: \u00cen nimic.<\/p>\n

El: Trimite o poz\u0103. Vreau s\u0103 te v\u0103d.<\/p>\n

Ea e cu el pentru c\u0103 e atras\u0103 de el. \u00cel place. O excit\u0103 ideea c\u0103 el vrea s\u0103 o vad\u0103 goal\u0103 \u015fi c\u0103 probabil o s\u0103 fac\u0103 o lab\u0103 la poza ei.<\/p>\n

Ea: Pac. Pac. Pac.<\/p>\n

\u00cen secunda aia, ultimul lucru din mintea ei e c\u0103 el o s\u0103 se apuce la un moment dat \u00een viitor s\u0103 se poarte ca un idiot \u015fi s\u0103-i pun\u0103 pozele pe siteuri. E o rela\u0163ie pe care o dore\u015fte \u015fi aproape c\u0103 are orgasm de la distan\u0163\u0103 cu g\u00e2ndul c\u0103 \u0103la e cu bale la bot \u015fi cu ochii \u00een anatomia ei. Poate e chiar mai excitant dec\u00e2t penetrarea propriu-zis\u0103.<\/p>\n

Taman de aceea, nu e cazul ca sexul din intimitatea unei rela\u0163ii s\u0103 fie expus \u015fi s\u0103 ajung\u0103 pe toate col\u0163urile internetului, indiferent c\u00e2t de ur\u00e2t\u0103 a fost desp\u0103r\u0163irea.<\/p>\n

\u015ei c\u00e2nd tu, Gigel, e\u015fti super vocal la mine pe perete \u015fi gui\u0163i: Ce fraier\u0103 e aia c\u0103 i-a trimis poze, \u015ftii ce comunici eventualelor cititoare?<\/p>\n

C\u0103 \u015fi tu ai fi la fel de bou ca \u0103la. \u015ei nici \u00een tine nu se poate avea \u00eencredere.<\/p>\n

Ce e o rela\u0163ie lipsit\u0103 de \u00eencredere \u015fi intimitate?<\/p>\n

O minciun\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 sens.<\/p>\n

\u0162ine\u0163i-v\u0103 via\u0163a sexual\u0103 privat\u0103 \u015fi respecta\u0163i-i pe \u0103ia cu care a\u0163i \u00eemp\u0103r\u0163it momente de iubire, sau m\u0103car de pl\u0103cere \u00eempreun\u0103. E singurul mod \u00een care dovedi\u0163i c\u0103 mai merita\u0163i vreodat\u0103 iubire \u015fi pl\u0103cere.<\/p>\n

Foto: pixabay.com<\/p>\n

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