Bun\u0103, Lorena, <\/em><\/p>\n Exact cum zici tu, am o dram\u0103 personal\u0103 \u0219i o s\u0103 \u021bi-o trimit pe mail, \u0219i chiar adresa de pe care \u00ee\u021bi scriu acum este fals\u0103, penntru c\u0103 sunt \u00eentr-un moment foarte complicat. Este numai din vina mea, dar acum, c\u0103 recunosc, treaba nu devine mai pu\u021bin complicat\u0103.<\/p>\n Mi-e greu s\u0103 scriu despre asta. Iart\u0103-m\u0103 pentru introducerea lung\u0103. Nu vreau s\u0103 te plictisesc.<\/p>\n Uite care este treaba: eu fac videochat din anul I de facultate. Vin de la \u021bar\u0103, p\u0103rin\u021bii mei sunt oameni cumsecade, dar abia au bani s\u0103 cumpere p\u00e2ine \u0219i nu au cu ce s\u0103 m\u0103 \u021bin\u0103 la Bucure\u0219ti. \u0218tiu, nu e o scuz\u0103. Puteam s\u0103-mi caut un job serios. Dar \u0103sta e stabil \u0219i c\u00e2\u0219tig ok. Nu chiar cum zic reclamele, nu-mi cump\u0103r Mercedes \u00een trei luni, dar ok.<\/p>\n Problema e c\u0103, de vreo dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni, am cunoscut un b\u0103iat. E minunat. \u0218tiu, nu am \u00een dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni cum s\u0103 \u0219tiu dac\u0103 e minunat sau nu. Dar eu \u0219tiu. E un moment din \u0103la \u00een care \u0219tii pur \u0219i simplu. E at\u00e2t de bl\u00e2nd, de bun, nimic din ce spune nu e \u00een plus sau o m\u0103g\u0103rie f\u0103r\u0103 sens \u0219i se bucur\u0103 de o cafea \u00een ora\u0219 cu mine de parc\u0103 ar fi o vizit\u0103 la regina Angliei.<\/p>\n Numai c\u0103 eu nu-mi pot petrece serile cu el pentru c\u0103 fac videochat. \u0218i trebuie s\u0103 fac videochat s\u0103 am bani s\u0103 termin facultatea. \u0218i mai e un lucru: nu \u0219tiu cum s\u0103-i spun. Mi-e fric\u0103 de reac\u021bia lui. Mi-e fric\u0103 s\u0103-l dezam\u0103gesc \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 dispre\u021buiasc\u0103.<\/p>\n Gata, am zis-o. Poate c\u0103 totul e o prostie \u0219i n-o s\u0103 publici mailul \u0103sta, c\u0103 al\u021bii au mame cu cancer \u0219i alte probleme, iar eu sunt varz\u0103 \u0219i at\u00e2t.<\/p>\n S\u0103 scrii frumos \u00een continuare,<\/p>\n X.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n Drag\u0103 X.,<\/p>\n Crede-m\u0103 c\u0103 eu sunt ultimul om care s\u0103 te judece c\u0103 te chinui s\u0103 spargi cercul vicios al lipsurilor \u0219i al s\u0103r\u0103ciei. Sincer, dintre un om care are ambi\u021bii \u00eenalte, dar se resemneaz\u0103 cu “nu avem”, \u015fi unul care e gata s\u0103 stea \u015fi-n cap, \u015fi-n… m\u0103 rog, s\u0103 se ridice deasupra unei condi\u0163ii modeste, o s\u0103-l respect \u00eentotdeauna mai mult pe lupt\u0103tor.<\/p>\n Apoi, nu e vina ta c\u0103 societatea e dispus\u0103 s\u0103 pl\u0103teasc\u0103 mai mult pentru p\u0103s\u0103ric\u0103 dec\u00e2t pentru munc\u0103. Tu n-ai f\u0103cut dec\u00e2t s\u0103 te adaptezi unei realit\u0103\u0163i \u00een care te-ai nimerit f\u0103r\u0103 voia ta: familie s\u0103rac\u0103, lipsa unor condi\u0163ii de evolu\u0163ie, lipsa unor joburi decent pl\u0103tite \u00een domenii mainstream.<\/p>\n \u015ei \u00een\u0163eleg \u015fi faptul c\u0103, de la un job obi\u015fnuit, pleci cu capul vuind de munc\u0103 \u015fi de proiecte care trebuie \u00eendeplinite, pe c\u00e2nd de la un job de, s\u0103 zicem, agrement, pleci \u015fi po\u0163i da log out mintal de cum dai log out internautic. Iar c\u00e2nd ai materii de \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at, seminarii, sesiuni, examene, lucr\u0103ri de scris, nu ai avea nici un chef s\u0103 te sune \u015fefa de la munc\u0103 s\u0103 \u0163ipe la tine c\u0103 dosarul nu \u015ftiu care nu corespunde.<\/p>\n Acum, s\u0103-\u0163i zic un secret despre oamenii cu adev\u0103rat buni, cum pare a fi tipul \u0103sta. Oamenii cu adev\u0103rat buni nu sunt buni doar cu cei care sunt cum le convine lor, ci sunt buni pentru c\u0103 a\u015fa sunt ei. Mai exact, sunt buni cu tanti de la magazin, cu cer\u015fetorul de la col\u0163, cu m\u0103tur\u0103toarea de pe casa sc\u0103rilor, cu nea portarul, \u015fi dac\u0103 cineva vine s\u0103 le spun\u0103 o problem\u0103, caut\u0103 s-o \u00een\u0163eleag\u0103.<\/p>\n P\u0103rerea mea e s\u0103-l a\u015fezi pe tip la o cafea \u015fi, pur \u015fi simplu, s\u0103-i spui. Exact cum mi-ai scris mie. C\u00e2t mai repede, c\u0103 dac\u0103 reac\u0163ioneaz\u0103 nasol, s\u0103 n-o fac\u0103 DUP\u0102 ce ai apucat s\u0103 pui suflet \u00een rela\u0163ie.<\/p>\n C\u00e2nd un om decent, cu coloan\u0103 vertebral\u0103, te iube\u015fte, \u00eei e mult mai u\u015for s\u0103 se confrunte cu adev\u0103ruri, fie ele \u015fi incomode, dec\u00e2t cu senza\u0163ia c\u0103 i se spun minciuni \u015fi c\u0103 e luat de idiot.<\/p>\n Spune-i. Ce poate s\u0103 fac\u0103? S\u0103 te p\u0103r\u0103seasc\u0103? E mai fair s\u0103 te p\u0103r\u0103seasc\u0103 \u015ftiind adev\u0103rul de la tine, dec\u00e2t s\u0103 ajung\u0103 s\u0103 descopere accidental \u015fi s\u0103 se vad\u0103 pus \u00een situa\u0163ia de prostul satului.<\/p>\n S\u0103 te fac\u0103 troac\u0103 de porci public, Vlad Andrei style? Din ce \u00eemi descrii, nu pare genul. \u015ei \u00eel intuie\u015fti pe dobitocul care ar face genul \u0103sta de mizerii unei persoane pe care pretinde c\u0103 o place. Pur \u015fi simplu, \u00eel tr\u0103deaz\u0103 vibe-ul.<\/p>\n Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103,<\/p>\n Lorena.<\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n \u00ce\u0163i plac textele Trollywood? Po\u0163i sus\u0163ine \u015fi tu proiectul.<\/p>\n *** Intro: Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. 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