{"id":16475,"date":"2019-01-21T11:23:06","date_gmt":"2019-01-21T08:23:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=16475"},"modified":"2019-01-21T11:56:43","modified_gmt":"2019-01-21T08:56:43","slug":"dreptul-sfant-si-inviolabil-la-intimitate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/dreptul-sfant-si-inviolabil-la-intimitate\/","title":{"rendered":"Dreptul sf\u00e2nt \u0219i inviolabil la intimitate"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ieri, b\u00e2ntuiam eu pe net, c\u00e2nd am dat de filmule\u0163ul \u0103sta:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div class=\"video-container\"><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"700\" height=\"394\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/5FogNIr2x40?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/div>\n<p>La un mar\u015f al indienilor nativi din State, s-au \u00eenfiin\u0163at ni\u015fte pule\u0163i obraznici, desigur albi, desigur cu \u015fepci Make America Great Again, acelea\u015fi rebuturi umane care bocesc pe net c\u0103 vai, rasa alb\u0103 nu e respectat\u0103 \u015fi c\u0103 masculii nu mai au drepturi &#8211; de parc\u0103 ar avea cineva vreun drept \u00een plus fa\u0163\u0103 de ei &#8211; dar care, prin obr\u0103znicie, nesim\u0163ire, indolen\u0163\u0103, lips\u0103 de respect, misecuvenism \u015fi batjocur\u0103, \u00ee\u015fi atrag singuri exact tratamentul de care se vaiet\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>E un cerc vicios. Te compor\u0163i ca un gunoi &#8211; vei fi tratat ca unul.<\/p>\n<p>OK.<\/p>\n<p>I-a porc\u0103it destul internetul pe albii \u0103\u0219tia care strigau c\u0103 o s\u0103 construiasc\u0103 un zid exact nativilor continentului, \u0219i probabil, erau \u0219i suficient de ignoran\u021bi s\u0103 nu \u0219tie c\u0103, istoric, dac\u0103 s-ar construi un zid, ei ar fi cei r\u0103ma\u0219i pe afar\u0103, printre mul\u021bi al\u021bi venetici \u00een decursul ultimelor c\u00e2teva secole.<\/p>\n<p>Nu e cazul s-o lungesc \u0219i eu pe tem\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Un alt detaliu mi-a prins \u00eens\u0103 aten\u021bia \u0219i mi-o \u021bine captiv\u0103: pule\u021bii \u0103\u0219tia de 14 ani erau \u0219i ei \u00eentr-un mar\u0219. Un mar\u0219 &#8220;pro-via\u0163\u0103&#8221;. C\u00e2nd a dat decretul care interzicea avorturile \u015fi umplea toate familiile de panic\u0103 legat\u0103 de num\u0103rul de copii nedori\u0163i, m\u0103car Ceau\u015fescu n-a avut tupeul obscen s\u0103-i zic\u0103 &#8220;pro via\u0163\u0103&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru c\u0103 exact vie\u0163ile deja existente au de suferit c\u00e2nd ni\u015fte oameni se \u00eencarc\u0103 de o responsabilitate pe care n-o pot duce. \u015ei cum copiii nu sunt pro\u015fti, \u015fi ei simt acut, toat\u0103 copil\u0103ria, c\u0103 sunt o povar\u0103 pe care nu \u015fi-a dorit-o nimeni.<\/p>\n<p>Toate abandonurile oribile de copii, to\u0163i copiii maltrata\u0163i, chinui\u0163i, umili\u0163i, sunt produsul unei atitudini &#8220;pro via\u0163\u0103&#8221; care a obligat persoane f\u0103r\u0103 urm\u0103 de \u00eenclina\u0163ie pentru parenting sau resurse de alocat \u00een aceast\u0103 direc\u0163ie s\u0103 nasc\u0103 ORICUM.<\/p>\n<p>Revenind: pule\u0163ii \u0103\u015ftia cu \u015fepci ro\u015fii aveau 14 ani. 14 ANI. Ce \u015ftiu ni\u015fte pu\u0163oi de 14 ani despre anatomia femeii? \u015ei nu m\u0103 refer la graficul din manual cu dou\u0103 ovare, uter \u015fi vagin. M\u0103 refer la mod de func\u0163ionare, \u015fi mod \u00een care e afectat organismul de o na\u015ftere. C\u0103 o fat\u0103 singur\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 sprijin, nu are cum s\u0103 se expun\u0103 acelui gen de efort, \u015fi nu are DE CE s-o fac\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Ce \u015ftiu ni\u015fte pu\u0163oi imaturi de 14 ani despre responsabilitatea uria\u015f\u0103, dificultatea \u015fi munca pe br\u00e2nci pe care le presupune cre\u015fterea unui copil? Despre nop\u0163ile nedormite, despre sume uria\u015fe cheltuite pe tot ce e necesar, despre faptul c\u0103 o cas\u0103 cu copil mic trebuie s\u0103 fie perpetuu lucioas\u0103 de cur\u0103\u0163enie, c\u0103 puiul se t\u00e2r\u0103\u015fte pe jos, apoi merge \u00een patru labe \u015fi nu po\u0163i expune un bebelu\u015f la cur\u0103\u0163enia aproximativ\u0103 care domne\u015fte \u00eentr-o cas\u0103 de oameni ai muncii.<\/p>\n<p>NIMIC.<\/p>\n<p>Ce-i \u00eendrept\u0103\u0163e\u015fte pe muco\u015fii \u0103\u015ftia ne\u015ftiutori de nimic s\u0103 se bage cu obr\u0103znicie \u00een vie\u0163ile altora \u015fi s\u0103 le spun\u0103 cum s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 \u015fi cum s\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi planifice viitorul?<\/p>\n<p>NIMIC.<\/p>\n<p>Bref, pu\u0163oii \u0103ia obraznici n-aveau ce s\u0103 caute acolo in the first place.<\/p>\n<p>Iar eu admir calmul indianului \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103. S\u0103 fi fost Lorena \u00een locul lui, pumnul ei ar fi pornit de undeva din fundul gr\u0103dinii din spate \u015fi i-ar fi deformat \u0103luia fasolea aia g\u0103lbuie, obraznic r\u00e2njit\u0103, de s-ar fi l\u0103sat cu vizite la stomatolog. \u015ei prostul ar fi \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at nu neap\u0103rat genul de curtoazie care spune s\u0103 nu te bagi ca r\u00e2ia peste unul care execut\u0103 un performance, dar m\u0103car no\u0163iunea c\u0103 de nebuni te apropii cu precau\u0163ie sau deloc.<\/p>\n<p>Discutam pe Facebook despre animale abuzate \u015fi un b\u0103iat pe nume Arpi Nistor, care colecteaz\u0103 hran\u0103 pentru ad\u0103posturile de c\u00e2ini din Arad \u015fi periodic fostere\u015fte c\u00e2\u0163iva, zice c\u0103 s-a dus la poli\u0163ie s\u0103 reclame un abuz f\u0103ptuit de un d\u00e2rl\u0103u. Prima \u00eentrebare a poli\u0163istului: Domnule, ave\u0163i copii?<\/p>\n<p>Ave\u0163i copii, adic\u0103? Dac\u0103 am copii, voi g\u0103si brusc abuzul asupra animalelor corect? Faptul c\u0103 am copii extirp\u0103 empatia \u015fi capacitatea de a ap\u0103ra fiin\u0163e slabe? Eu zic c\u0103, dimpotriv\u0103, dac\u0103 ai copii, latura miloas\u0103 se accentueaz\u0103, \u015fi nu mai pierzi timp s\u0103 reclami cretinul la poli\u0163ie ci-l ba\u0163i pe persoan\u0103 fizic\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 se cac\u0103 pe el, apoi \u00eel mai ba\u0163i o dat\u0103 c\u0103 s-a c\u0103cat pe el.<\/p>\n<p>Desigur, \u015ftiu ce voia s\u0103 transmit\u0103 garcea. C\u0103 dac\u0103 facem copii, o s\u0103 fim ocupa\u0163i \u015fi n-o s\u0103 ne pese de animale. Dar din nou, asta NU e, \u00een mor\u0163ii m\u0103-tii, o decizie pe care o iei tu pentru altul.<\/p>\n<p>Nu v\u0103 mai b\u0103ga\u0163i \u00een vie\u0163ile altora, nu le mai spune\u0163i s\u0103 se m\u0103rite, s\u0103 se \u00eensoare, s\u0103 fac\u0103 copii. E alegerea lor.<\/p>\n<p>V-am povestit de pro\u015ftii care latr\u0103 tipa singur\u0103 cu pisic\u0103, de parc\u0103 anim\u0103lu\u0163ul era obstacolul din calea p**ii lor.<\/p>\n<p>Din nou. De ce f\u0103cea grija amor cu ei? De ce le-ar fi datorat cineva explica\u0163ie, sau justificare, unor persoane care nu-i pl\u0103tesc facturile?<\/p>\n<p>Eu v\u0103d treaba \u00een felul urm\u0103tor: unicele obliga\u0163ii pe care le are un om fa\u0163\u0103 de al\u0163ii sunt cele sociale \u015fi de civiliza\u0163ie. Adic\u0103: dac\u0103 tot e\u015fti cet\u0103\u0163ean al ora\u015fului \u015fi folose\u015fti ce ofer\u0103 el, pl\u0103te\u015fte-\u0163i facturile \u015fi impozitele. Dac\u0103 alt om te-a angajat s\u0103-i faci o munc\u0103, f\u0103-o onest, c\u00e2t po\u0163i tu de bine, \u015fi las\u0103 loc de bun\u0103 ziua \u015fi de apreciere. Vorbe\u015fte frumos cu cei care te \u00eenconjoar\u0103 &#8211; sigur, p\u00e2n\u0103 se treze\u015fte vreunul cu tupeu; nesim\u0163irea trebuie pedepsit\u0103 adecvat.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dar de cum am intrat \u00een cas\u0103, sau m\u0103 rog, m-am retras din treburile publice, ce fac eu este STRICT \u015fi EXCLUSIV problema mea, \u015fi nu am de ce s\u0103 dau socoteal\u0103 nim\u0103nui. \u015ei prin &#8220;eu&#8221; \u00een\u0163eleg &#8220;oricine&#8221;.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Vreau copii? Fac. Dar fac dac\u0103 \u015fi c\u00e2nd vreau, nu pentru c\u0103 mi-o spun ni\u015fte pu\u0163oi obraznici cu \u015fepci ro\u015fii.<\/p>\n<p>(Apropo, to\u0163i \u0103ia care a\u0163i sus\u0163inut c\u0103 periodic copilul trebuie b\u0103tut \u015fi m-am certat cu voi \u00eentr-un flamewar de o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103. Dac\u0103 a\u0163i fi postat careva poza acestui pulifrici, mi-a\u0163i fi \u00eenchis gura.<\/p>\n<p>\u0102sta, da, ar fi trebuit b\u0103tut preventiv, de bebelu\u015f, apoi b\u0103tut medicinal, diminea\u0163a, la pr\u00e2nz \u015fi seara, \u015fi poate n-ar fi ie\u015fit un asemenea c\u0103cat arogant \u015fi m\u00e2rlan.)<\/p>\n<p>Nu vreau copii? Nu fac. \u00cen fond, eu \u015ftiu dac\u0103 am cu ce s\u0103-i cresc, nu ni\u015fte pu\u0163oi obraznici cu \u015fepci ro\u015fii.<\/p>\n<p>Vreau un c\u00e2ine, o pisic\u0103, un papagal, un \u015foarece? Doi? Cinci? Nu te g\u00e2dil\u0103 grija. Nu tu \u00eei \u00eentre\u0163ii, ci eu.<\/p>\n<p>Op\u0163iunile intime NU sunt treaba nim\u0103nui altcuiva, \u015fi unicii oameni \u00eendrept\u0103\u0163i\u0163i s\u0103 le comenteze sunt cei pe care \u00eei invi\u0163i tu s-o fac\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>\u00ce\u0163i plac textele Trollywood? Po\u0163i sus\u0163ine \u015fi tu proiectul.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/paypal.me\/Trollywood\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-14577\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=160%2C160&amp;ssl=1 160w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=320%2C320&amp;ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=184%2C184&amp;ssl=1 184w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?resize=100%2C100&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea.jpg?w=931&amp;ssl=1 931w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>***<br \/>\nVrei s\u0103 m\u0103 urm\u0103re\u015fti \u00een social media? \u00cemi po\u0163i da like pe <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/lorenaalmighty\/\"><strong>Facebook<\/strong><\/a>, follow pe <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/lorenalupu\">Twitter<\/a><\/strong> \u015fi <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lorena.lup\/\">Instagram<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ieri, b\u00e2ntuiam eu pe net, c\u00e2nd am dat de filmule\u0163ul \u0103sta: &nbsp; La un mar\u015f al indienilor nativi din State, s-au \u00eenfiin\u0163at ni\u015fte pule\u0163i&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":16476,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16475","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/yuck.jpg?fit=857%2C482&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16475","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16475"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16475\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16483,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16475\/revisions\/16483"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16476"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16475"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16475"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16475"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}