{"id":16529,"date":"2019-01-30T12:19:32","date_gmt":"2019-01-30T09:19:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=16529"},"modified":"2019-01-30T12:21:29","modified_gmt":"2019-01-30T09:21:29","slug":"o-initiativa-periculoasa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/o-initiativa-periculoasa\/","title":{"rendered":"O ini\u021biativ\u0103 periculoas\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Despre revenge porn, expunerea sexual\u0103 a unor persoane f\u0103r\u0103 acordul lor, s-au scris volume. Articole de toate tipurile, relat\u0103ri, documentare, opere de fic\u021biune, you name it.<\/p>\n<p>Ceea ce \u00eencearc\u0103 \u00eens\u0103 tipii care au <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/lgbt_deva\/\">contul \u0103sta de Instagram<\/a><\/strong> s\u0103 fac\u0103, \u00een numele unei popularit\u0103\u021bi \u00eendoielnice \u0219i al unor likeuri obosite, e s\u0103 expun\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 acordul lor, orientarea sexual\u0103 a unor oameni care, probabil, nu sunt preg\u0103ti\u021bi pentru asta. Dac\u0103 ar fi preg\u0103ti\u021bi, \u0219i-ar expune-o singuri.<\/p>\n<p>Intro-ul lor spune: \u026a\u1d0d\u026a \u1d18\u1d1c\u1d1b\u1d07\u1d1b\u026a \u1d1b\u0280\u026a\u1d0d\u026a\u1d1b\u1d07 \u1d18\u1d0f\u1d22\u1d07 \u029f\u0262\u0299\u1d1b \u1d04\u1d1c \u1d18\u1d07\u0280s\u1d0f\u1d00\u0274\u1d07\u029f\u1d07 \u1d05\u026a\u0274 \u1d05\u1d07\u1d20\u1d00,\u026a\u1d00\u0280 \u1d07\u1d1c \u029f\u1d07 \u1d20\u1d0f\u026a \u1d18\u1d0fs\u1d1b\u1d00 \u0493\u1d00\u0280\u1d00 s\u1d00 s\u1d18\u1d1c\u0274 \u1d04\u026a\u0274\u1d07 \u1d0d\u026a \u029f\u1d07-\u1d00 \u1d1b\u0280\u026a\u1d0d\u026as:)<\/p>\n<p>Ei au la profil curcubeul \u0219i o sumedenie de \u00eensemne LGBT. Dar nu \u0219tii dac\u0103 sunt realmente ni\u0219te tinerei gay care tr\u0103iesc \u00een bula lor roz \u0219i au impresia c\u0103 via\u021ba din jur e numai nori\u0219ori \u0219i acceptare, sau e vorba de ceva mult mai cumplit. \u00cent\u00e2mpl\u0103tori, a\u0219a \u00eei expun g\u0103\u0219tile de macho din Rusia pe tinerii gay: se pretind a fi LGBT, pe net, \u00ee\u0219i dau \u00eent\u00e2lnire, apoi \u00eei bat, tortureaz\u0103, agreseaz\u0103 pe cei altfel prin\u0219i.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div class=\"video-container\"><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"700\" height=\"394\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/7NDOBTf5m1k?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u0218tim cumva c\u0103 nu e vorba de o ac\u021biune de identificare \u0219i bullying adresat\u0103 comunit\u0103\u021bii gay locale, similar\u0103 cu manevrele ruse\u0219ti?<\/p>\n<p>Nu \u0219tim.<\/p>\n<p>Dar hai s\u0103 ne punem o voalet\u0103 roz optimist\u0103 peste ochi \u0219i s\u0103 ne min\u021bim singuri c\u0103 expunerea \u00een acest mod a legebeteilor din Deva e o ini\u021biativ\u0103 binevoitoare.<\/p>\n<p>Chiar \u0219i a\u0219a, efectele pot fi dezastruoase.<\/p>\n<p>Sunt oameni care au familii abuzive \u0219i homofobe, \u0219i care nu se pot asuma pentru c\u0103 ar risca s\u0103 fie da\u021bi afar\u0103 din cas\u0103. Sunt oameni cu profesori abuzivi \u0219i homofobi, care le-ar face perioada petrecut\u0103 \u00een \u0219coal\u0103 un iad. E opinia public\u0103 infinit de toxic\u0103 \u0219i de agasant\u0103, de mic ora\u0219, care i-ar urm\u0103ri pe ace\u0219ti tineri oriunde s-ar duce \u0219i i-ar m\u0103cina de vii cu r\u0103ut\u0103\u021bi, b\u0103g\u0103ri inadecvate \u00een seam\u0103 \u0219i ignoran\u021be prezentate drept verdicte. Sunt nenum\u0103rate situa\u021bii reale, de via\u021b\u0103, care silesc un om s\u0103-\u0219i p\u0103streze orientarea sexual\u0103 \u00een dulap.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru c\u0103, din momentul \u00een care unul dintre ace\u0219tia &#8220;a ie\u015fit&#8221;, trebuie s\u0103 se preg\u0103teasc\u0103 mintal de o ploaie de reac\u0163ii, unele decente \u015fi ok, dar foarte multe extrem, dar extrem de nesim\u0163ite \u015fi de b\u0103g\u0103re\u0163e. Iar dac\u0103 acestea vin peste un om sensibil, labil emo\u0163ional sau aflat \u00eentr-un moment dificil din via\u0163a lui, \u00eel pot l\u0103sa cu ni\u015fte traume cumplite.<\/p>\n<p>Nimeni nu trebuie presat la coming out, expus sau &#8220;p\u00e2r\u00e2t&#8221; p\u00e2n\u0103 nu e preg\u0103tit din toate punctele de vedere, suficient de stabil pe toate planurile, s\u0103 spun\u0103 &#8220;sunt gay&#8221;. El sau ea, din proprie ini\u0163iativ\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Taman de aceea, dragii mei cititori, v\u0103 voi ruga s\u0103 merge\u0163i pe Instagram \u015fi s\u0103 raporta\u0163i acest grup. E o \u00eenc\u0103lcare a intimit\u0103\u0163ii \u015fi a vie\u0163ii private. Nu e treaba nim\u0103nui cine e gay \u015fi cine nu, p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een clipa \u00een care aleg ei s\u0103-\u0163i spun\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>\u00ce\u0163i plac textele Trollywood? 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