{"id":16543,"date":"2019-02-01T12:30:58","date_gmt":"2019-02-01T09:30:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=16543"},"modified":"2019-02-01T12:45:18","modified_gmt":"2019-02-01T09:45:18","slug":"ortodoxia-nu-are-nimic-de-oferit-unei-femei","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/ortodoxia-nu-are-nimic-de-oferit-unei-femei\/","title":{"rendered":"Ortodoxia nu are nimic de oferit unei femei"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Scandalul \u0103sta din ultimele zile de pe blogul meu m-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 meditez serios la acest subiect. Sigur, n-am fost eu vreo ortodox\u0103 \u00eenfl\u0103c\u0103rat\u0103 niciodat\u0103, \u015fi asta taman pentru c\u0103 bunicul meu dinspre tat\u0103 a fost pop\u0103 ortodox. \u015ei be\u0163ivul satului. 2 \u00een 1, ca Dove cu o p\u0103trime crem\u0103 hidratant\u0103. Unde p\u0103trimea era credin\u0163a &#8211; sau m\u0103 rog, vr\u0103jeala despre &#8211; \u015fi restul de trei sferturi, alcoolul.<\/p>\n<p>\u015ei, pentru c\u0103 era pop\u0103, lumea \u00eei g\u0103sea mereu scuze. De\u015fi, dup\u0103 logica mea, ar fi trebuit s\u0103 fie invers. TAMAN pentru c\u0103 era pop\u0103, \u00eemputernicitul lui Dumnezeu pe p\u0103m\u00e2nt, c\u0103l\u0103uza spiritual\u0103, ar fi datorat o conduit\u0103 impecabil\u0103, \u015fi responsabilitate pentru toate faptele lui.<\/p>\n<p>De ce, \u00een 2019, o femeie ar fi interesat\u0103 s\u0103 se investeasc\u0103 \u00een ortodoxie, s\u0103 asculte ce zic oamenii \u0103ia \u015fi s\u0103 ofere din banii ei acestei biserici?<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Datorit\u0103 faptului c\u0103 e\u015fti femeie, nu vei avea niciodat\u0103 acces la preo\u0163ie.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sunt femeile incapabile de studii religioase? Nu. Sunt femeile incapabile s\u0103 ofere mil\u0103 \u015fi \u00eengrijire s\u0103racilor? Dimpotriv\u0103, majoritatea ac\u0163iunilor caritabile sunt ini\u0163iate \u015fi \u00eenf\u0103ptuite de ele. Sunt femeile incapabile s\u0103 \u0163in\u0103 predici pline de credin\u0163\u0103 \u015fi \u00eensufle\u0163ire?<\/p>\n<div class=\"video-container\"><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"700\" height=\"394\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/GUCx6JszsRc?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Pe scurt, tot ce poate face un preot b\u0103rbat poate face la fel de bine, ba chiar mai bine un preot femeie.<\/p>\n<p>De ce s\u0103 fii membr\u0103 a unei biserici care \u00ee\u0163i taie accesul la orice func\u0163ie cheie strict pe baza unui am\u0103nunt irelevant pentru calit\u0103\u0163ile tale \u015fi pe care nu-l po\u0163i controla, cum e posesia unui vagin?<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Datorit\u0103 faptului c\u0103 e\u015fti femeie, nu ai acces fizic \u00een altar.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Se iau doi credincio\u015fi. Unul b\u0103rbat, unul femeie. S\u0103 zicem c\u0103 ace\u015ftia doi se roag\u0103 acela\u015fi num\u0103r de ore, fac acela\u015fi num\u0103r de fapte bune, sunt la fel de umili, genero\u015fi, buni \u015fi pl\u0103cu\u0163i lui Dumnezeu. Dar, minune. B\u0103rbatul are privilegiul de a intra \u00een altar. Femeia nu. \u015ei nu pentru ceea ce face, pentru ceea ce simte sau pentru ceea ce este ea ca om, ci pentru c\u0103 de\u0163ine un vagin. Pe care n-a ales ea s\u0103 \u00eel aib\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>De ce s\u0103 fii membr\u0103 a unei biserici care \u00ee\u0163i va oferi mult mai pu\u0163in dec\u00e2t echivalentului t\u0103u masculin, la aceea\u015fi investi\u0163ie?<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Datorit\u0103 faptului c\u0103 e\u015fti femeie, e\u015fti automat &#8220;impur\u0103&#8221;.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>At\u00e2t organismul feminin, c\u00e2t \u015fi cel masculin excret\u0103 substan\u0163e pe care le putem defini drept dezgust\u0103toare. Femeile produc, o dat\u0103 pe lun\u0103, lichidul menstrual, iar b\u0103rba\u0163ii, uneori de mai multe ori pe zi, lichidul seminal. \u015ei totu\u015fi, numai femeile sunt &#8220;impure&#8221; \u00een &#8220;perioada aceea a lunii&#8221;. Pe criteriul secre\u0163iei de lichide, b\u0103rba\u0163ii ar trebui s\u0103 fie &#8220;impuri&#8221; \u00een fiecare zi.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cenainte s\u0103 sar\u0103 alt analfabet func\u0163ional s\u0103-mi repro\u015feze c\u0103 am ceva cu b\u0103rba\u0163ii: n-am. Dar biologia ne confer\u0103 egalitate \u00een impuritate. Ambele sexe elimin\u0103 urin\u0103, fecale, transpira\u0163ie \u015fi fluide sexuale. Nu are nici un sens ca numai unul dintre ele s\u0103 fie cel impur.<\/p>\n<p>De ce s\u0103 fii membr\u0103 a unei biserici care te discrimineaz\u0103 pe baza lichidelor pe care nu te-ai \u00eenscris tu personal nic\u0103ieri c\u0103 vrei s\u0103 le elimini?<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. Datorit\u0103 faptului c\u0103 e\u015fti femeie, trebuie s\u0103 fii automat &#8220;supus\u0103&#8221;.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Omul este o fiin\u0163\u0103 liber\u0103. A mu\u015fcat din m\u0103rul cunoa\u015fterii ca s\u0103 capete discern\u0103m\u00e2nt \u015fi s\u0103 fac\u0103 diferen\u0163\u0103 \u00eentre bine \u015fi r\u0103u, Discern\u0103m\u00e2nt pe care \u00eel avem cu to\u0163ii, b\u0103rba\u0163i \u015fi femei.<\/p>\n<p>Nu exist\u0103 un motiv real pentru care unul dintre sexe ar trebui s\u0103 fie cel &#8220;st\u0103p\u00e2n&#8221; \u015fi altul, cel &#8220;supus&#8221;. Strict pe baza organelor genitale din dotare. Exist\u0103 femei cu excelente aptitudini de conduc\u0103tor \u015fi b\u0103rba\u0163i care nu \u015ftiu s\u0103-\u015fi calce o c\u0103ma\u015f\u0103 sau s\u0103 ajung\u0103 din punctul A \u00een punctul B de unii singuri. Exist\u0103 femei care cresc \u015fi educ\u0103 singure o liot\u0103 de copii \u015fi b\u0103rba\u0163i care nu se descurc\u0103 s\u0103 se \u00eentre\u0163in\u0103 \u015fi mor homele\u015fi \u00een \u015fan\u0163.<\/p>\n<p>Se ce s\u0103 fii membr\u0103 a unei biserici care nu \u00ee\u0163i acord\u0103 dreptul de a fi st\u0103p\u00e2nul propriilor op\u0163iuni?<\/p>\n<p><strong>5. Datorit\u0103 faptului c\u0103 e\u015fti femeie, e\u015fti automat &#8220;ispit\u0103&#8221;.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u015ei aici e cea mai ridicol\u0103 contradic\u0163ie ortodox\u0103. Pe de o parte, trebuie s\u0103 te supui b\u0103rbatului. Tot ce vrea \u015fi cere el e sf\u00e2nt, pentru c\u0103 \u015ftie mai bine. Pe de alt\u0103 parte, dac\u0103 el \u00ee\u0163i pretinde sex \u015fi tu livrezi, tot tu e\u015fti de vin\u0103, c\u0103 e\u015fti o tenta\u0163ie \u015fi o ispit\u0103. Dac\u0103 el \u00ee\u0163i pretinde sex \u015fi tu refuzi, e\u015fti \u00eend\u0103r\u0103tnic\u0103 \u015fi nu prestezi supunere cum \u0163i s-a dictat.<\/p>\n<p>Acum: sau e\u015fti creier luminat \u015fi st\u0103p\u00e2n pe faptele tale, \u015fi-\u0163i asumi responsabilitatea de ispititor, sau e\u015fti coruptibil la ispit\u0103, slab \u015fi \u00ee\u0163i asumi c\u0103 nu ai for\u0163a interioar\u0103 s\u0103-\u0163i controlezi apuc\u0103turile. Nu prea merge \u015fi pe jos, \u015fi \u00een c\u0103ru\u0163\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>De ce, ca femeie, s\u0103 fii membr\u0103 a unei biserici care te pedepse\u015fte pentru propriile decizii, \u015fi \u00een egal\u0103 m\u0103sur\u0103, te \u00eenvinuie\u015fte tot pe tine dac\u0103 cedezi insisten\u0163elor?<\/p>\n<p><strong>6. Fiind &#8220;ispit\u0103&#8221;, dreptul t\u0103u la a fi tratat\u0103 om cu nevoi \u015fi sentimente proprii este egal cu zero.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>N-ai alte nevoi \u015fi alte sentimente dec\u00e2t admira\u0163ia infinit\u0103 fa\u0163\u0103 de st\u0103p\u00e2nul t\u0103u b\u0103rbat \u015fi renun\u0163area la orice e pl\u0103cut \u00een via\u0163\u0103, pentru c\u0103 altfel nu pupi rai dup\u0103 moarte. Pe c\u00e2nd b\u0103rbatul e b\u0103rbat. El face ce vrea, \u015fi nu datoreaz\u0103 socoteal\u0103 nim\u0103nui.<\/p>\n<p>De ce s\u0103 fii membr\u0103 a unei biserici care te neag\u0103 ca fiin\u0163\u0103 uman\u0103?<\/p>\n<p><strong>7. Toate sfintele ortodoxe sufereau de sindrom Stockholm \u00een diverse grade.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u015ei \u00ee\u015fi p\u0103r\u0103seau avutul lumesc s\u0103 se duc\u0103 \u00een v\u00e2rf de munte s\u0103 se roage la Dumnezeu, s\u0103 \u00eendure umilin\u0163e de la diver\u015fi \u015fi s\u0103 moar\u0103 \u00een diverse forme de chin.<\/p>\n<p>Mie mi se par mai degrab\u0103 modele de &#8220;a\u015fa nu&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Ca femeie \u00een 2019, s\u0103 optezi pentru ortodoxie e ca \u015fi cum ai fi un negru \u015fi ai opta pentru sclavie. E contraintuitiv, contraproductiv \u015fi nes\u0103n\u0103tos la toate nivelurile.<\/p>\n<p>\u015ei dovada e \u00een urm\u0103toarea situa\u0163ie: O femeie atee nimere\u015fte \u00eentr-o rela\u0163ie cu un nemernic abuziv. Femeia \u00ee\u015fi d\u0103 seama c\u0103 e un cerc vicios de toxicitate f\u0103r\u0103 sens, \u00ee\u015fi face b\u0103g\u0103jelul \u015fi-\u015fi vede de via\u0163\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>O credincioas\u0103 nimere\u015fte \u00eentr-o rela\u0163ie cu un nemernic abuziv. St\u0103 supus\u0103 ca o vi\u0163ic\u0103, tremur\u00e2nd de groaz\u0103: cu ce idio\u0163enie infinit\u0103 vine paricopitatul la interval \u00een urm\u0103toarele ore \u015fi cum s\u0103 fac\u0103 s\u0103-l \u00eembuneze.<\/p>\n<p>O femeie atee se combin\u0103 cu unul care cic\u0103 vrea s-o ia de nevast\u0103, \u0103la face sex dou\u0103 luni \u015fi pleac\u0103. Femeia trage o criz\u0103 &#8211; dou\u0103 de pl\u00e2ns, apoi se ia cu Netflix, prietene \u015fi job, \u015fi-i trece.<\/p>\n<p>O credincioas\u0103 se combin\u0103 cu unul care cic\u0103 vrea s-o ia de nevast\u0103, \u0103la face sex dou\u0103 luni \u015fi pleac\u0103. .Ortodoxa noastr\u0103 are impresia c\u0103 a fost &#8220;p\u00e2ng\u0103rit\u0103&#8221;, c\u0103 e obiectul \u015fi subiectul unei drame teribile \u015fi f\u0103r\u0103 sf\u00e2r\u015fit, \u015fi c\u0103 e cine \u015ftie ce cap\u0103t de \u0163ar\u0103. \u015ei c\u00e2nd colo, \u0103la e at\u00e2t de prost \u00eenc\u00e2t, plec\u00e2nd, i-a f\u0103cut cel mai mare serviciu.<\/p>\n<p>Femei, nu ave\u0163i nevoie de ortodoxie. Nici un trend, curent de g\u00e2ndire, religie care v\u0103 refuz\u0103 statutul de om complet nu e demn de aten\u0163ie. Alege\u0163i cu maturitate \u015fi \u00een\u0163elepciune.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>\u00ce\u0163i plac textele Trollywood? 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Sigur, n-am fost eu vreo ortodox\u0103 \u00eenfl\u0103c\u0103rat\u0103&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":16544,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16543","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spicy"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/ortodox-vader.jpg?fit=640%2C946&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16543","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16543"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16543\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16548,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16543\/revisions\/16548"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16544"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16543"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16543"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16543"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}