{"id":16653,"date":"2019-02-15T12:00:28","date_gmt":"2019-02-15T09:00:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=16653"},"modified":"2019-02-15T12:00:28","modified_gmt":"2019-02-15T09:00:28","slug":"posta-redactiei-bis-e-atat-de-importanta-garderoba","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-bis-e-atat-de-importanta-garderoba\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u015fta redac\u0163iei bis: E at\u00e2t de important\u0103 garderoba??"},"content":{"rendered":"

Intro: Periodic, oferim iubire cititorului nostru. Nu, Gicu, nu sub form\u0103 de sex, stai jos. \u00cen schimb, lu\u0103m o dram\u0103 personal\u0103 pe care mi-o trimite\u0163i pe mail, pe birou@lorenalupu.com, \u015fi g\u0103sim o solu\u0163ie, pe care oricum n-o ve\u0163i urma, dar m\u0103car ne distr\u0103m.<\/p>\n

\u015ei misiva de data asta:
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Drag\u0103 Lorena,<\/p>\n

Am o maaaare dilem\u0103.
\nOare conteaz\u0103 chiar a\u015fa de mult felul \u00een care ne \u00eembr\u0103c\u0103m ca femei?<\/p>\n

Bine, \u015ftiu c\u0103 r\u0103spunsul e da. Dar m\u0103 refer \u00een contextul urm\u0103tor: c\u00e2nd se pune problema dac\u0103 un tip \u00ee\u015fi dore\u015fte o interac\u0163iune cu tine sau nu.<\/p>\n

Pentru c\u0103 uite \u00een ce situa\u0163ie am fost pus\u0103: am vorbit c\u00e2teva luni cu un tip de 24 de ani, eu av\u00e2nd 18. Tipul\u00a0 avea o baz\u0103 material\u0103 destul de bun\u0103, datorit\u0103 p\u0103rin\u0163ilor. Eu provin dintr-o familie cu venituri modeste.<\/p>\n

\u015ei efectiv am \u00eenceput s\u0103 m\u0103 simt prost pentru c\u0103 se uita chior\u00e2\u015f la cum m\u0103 \u00eembrac sau la alte detalii de genul, care \u0163in de starea material\u0103. \u015ei m-a durut, pentru c\u0103 eu am \u0163inut la persoana respectiv\u0103 pentru tot ce a \u00eensemnat \u015fi pentru discu\u0163iile s\u0103n\u0103toase \u015fi frumoase pe care le-am purtat.<\/p>\n

\u00centr-un final, ne-am desp\u0103r\u0163it \u015fi am r\u0103mas cu impresia c\u0103 nu am fost destul de elegant\u0103 \u015fi emancipat\u0103 \u00een acel mod pentru el.<\/p>\n

Efectiv, m\u0103 simt aiurea pentru c\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 nu-mi pot permite nu \u015ftiu ce haine, de\u015fi lucrez c\u00e2t pot \u015fi vara, \u015fi \u00een alte contexte. Dar at\u00e2t de mult c\u00e2nt\u0103re\u015fte pentru un b\u0103rbat chestia asta? Mul\u0163umesc anticipat, indiferent dac\u0103 vei citi asta sau nu.<\/p>\n

Te \u00eembr\u0103\u0163i\u015fez.<\/p>\n

X.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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Drag\u0103 X., <\/p>\n

\u015ei eu sunt o fat\u0103 dintr-o familie s\u0103rac\u0103. \u015ei \u015ftiu exact c\u00e2t de nimicitor moral e sentimentul c\u0103 toat\u0103 lumea din jurul t\u0103u arat\u0103 ca o armat\u0103 de fotomodele, iar tu pari extras\u0103 din tomberon. E un sentiment care m-a urm\u0103rit tot liceul \u015fi prima parte a facult\u0103\u0163ii. Dar guess what: e cazul s\u0103-\u0163i extragi capul din anus \u015fi s\u0103 ridici fruntea sus, pentru c\u0103 nu hainele fac pe om. <\/p>\n

Acum m\u0103 \u00eembrac absolut hidos \u00een anumite momente, deliberat, \u015fi lumea tot m\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2mpin\u0103 de parc\u0103 a venit Angelina Jolie \u00een vizit\u0103, \u015fi asta dintr-un motiv foarte simplu: oamenii care \u0163in sincer la tine au o profund\u0103 durere \u00een partea dorsal\u0103 legat\u0103 de cum e\u015fti \u00eembr\u0103cat. Iar eu o fac special s\u0103-mi anihilez total complexul fetei s\u0103race, o stare ale c\u0103rei cicatrici \u00eenc\u0103 m\u0103 marcheaz\u0103. <\/p>\n

Realitatea e c\u0103 oamenii care ne sunt dragi pot veni \u00een blugi, \u00een trelingi, \u00een saci de rafie, \u00een ce vor ei, \u015fi tot ne sunt dragi. Cu condi\u0163ia s\u0103, you know, NE FIE DRAGI. <\/p>\n

Am avut un tip cu bani \u00een perioada aia. S-a luat de nu mai \u015ftiu ce bluz\u0103 care, s\u0103raca, albise pe la cus\u0103turi de at\u00e2tea sp\u0103l\u0103ri. Dar eu, care m\u0103 chinuiam cu facultate \u015fi cu job, strict pentru a supravie\u0163ui \u00een Bucure\u015fti, pentru c\u0103 ambii mei p\u0103rin\u0163i \u00eel luaser\u0103 pe “n-am” \u00een bra\u0163e – \u015fi ajunsesem la un nivel de oboseal\u0103 fizic\u0103 \u015fi moral\u0103 \u00een care nu aveam energie de arfe \u015fi b\u0103\u015fini de oameni cu bani, incapabili s\u0103 priceap\u0103 c\u0103 din costul unei po\u015fete fancy tu m\u0103n\u00e2nci dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni \u015fi pl\u0103te\u015fti \u015fi c\u0103minul, \u015fi i-am t\u0103iat-o cam brutal: <\/p>\n

-OK, dac\u0103 ai s\u0103-mi faci cadou una mai bun\u0103, sunt deschis\u0103. \u00cen fond, tu ai bani \u015fi eu nu. <\/p>\n

B\u0103iatul a t\u0103cut. <\/p>\n

-Da, a zis el. <\/p>\n

\u00cen ziua urm\u0103toare, era la u\u015fa mea cu un sac IMENS de bulendre cu eticheta pe ele, c\u0103m\u0103\u015fi, tricouri, pantaloni, fuste. Vreo trei nu mi-au venit, am fost s\u0103 le schimb\u0103m. Dar n-am mai avut pl\u00e2ngeri legate de vestimenta\u0163ie pe urm\u0103torii trei ani. <\/p>\n

Punctez: \u0103sta era un b\u0103iat care m\u0103 iubea. \u015ei m\u0103 iubea prin fapte \u015fi ac\u0163iuni, nu prin baliverne \u015fi discu\u0163ii s\u0103n\u0103toase. Ceea ce v\u0103 recomand \u015fi dumneavoastr\u0103. <\/p>\n

Acum, dac\u0103 \u0103la are bani, \u015ftie c\u0103 tu ai o familie nevoia\u015f\u0103 \u015fi munce\u015fti ca turbata pe m\u0103run\u0163i\u015f, \u015fi nu sare s\u0103 te ajute, exist\u0103 trei posibilit\u0103\u0163i. <\/p>\n

a) E un individ egoist \u015fi un zg\u00e2rc\u0103. Ai nevoie de genul \u0103sta de partener \u00een via\u0163a ta? God, no. Acum pl\u00e2ngi, c\u0103 l-ai iubit, dar pe termen lung, ai evitat o rela\u0163ie unilateral\u0103 \u015fi plin\u0103 de suferin\u0163e. <\/p>\n

b) He’s just not that into you. Nu suficient \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103-i pese. Adic\u0103 da, \u00eei pas\u0103 s\u0103 nu fie v\u0103zut pe strad\u0103 cu una \u00eembr\u0103cat\u0103 lame, dar nu \u00eendeajuns \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 fac\u0103 ceva \u00een privin\u0163a asta. Din nou, ai nevoie de genul \u0103sta de partener \u00een via\u0163a ta? God no etc. – read above. <\/p>\n

c) Tot acest interes al lui pentru fe\u015f\u0103n \u00eemi sun\u0103 suspect. Sigur e atras de femei? S\u0103 nu cumva s\u0103 fi vorbit cu tine de ochii p\u0103rin\u0163ilor \u015fi ai facult\u0103\u0163ii, dar el \u00een secret \u00ee\u015fi d\u0103dea dates pe Grindr, unde nu pierdea timp cu discu\u0163ii s\u0103n\u0103toase \u015fi frumoase. <\/p>\n

\u015ei nu, nici s\u0103 fii o barb\u0103 nu-\u0163i dore\u015fti. <\/p>\n

Rezum\u00e2nd: hainele ur\u00e2te sunt mai mult problema ta dec\u00e2t un punct de deranj pentru oricine altcineva. Relaxeaz\u0103-te, \u00eenconjoar\u0103-te de oameni care te iubesc \u015fi, pas cu pas, investe\u015fte \u00een looks mai \u00eengrijite. Ca prim pas, dou\u0103 sacouri, dou\u0103 c\u0103m\u0103\u015fi, o pereche de blugi \u015fi una de pantaloni de stof\u0103. Astea, purtate prin rota\u0163ie, \u00ee\u0163i dau un look urban acceptabil pentru orice siluet\u0103. <\/p>\n

\u015ei dac\u0103 un prost se uit\u0103 mai degrab\u0103 la hainele tale dec\u00e2t la tine, NU pierde timp cu el. \u00cen general, NU irosi timp cu genul de mascul care-\u015fi g\u0103se\u015fte satisfac\u0163ie din a te face s\u0103 te sim\u0163i insuficient\u0103 \u015fi nesigur\u0103. <\/p>\n

\u0102la care te iube\u015fte e la u\u015fa ta a doua zi cu toat\u0103 Zara, Bershka \u015fi H&M. F\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 i-o ceri tu. <\/p>\n

Sper c\u0103 \u0163i-am fost util\u0103, <\/p>\n

Lorena. <\/p>\n

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\u00ce\u0163i place Po\u015fta redac\u0163iei? Po\u0163i sus\u0163ine \u015fi tu proiectul.<\/p>\n

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