Eu sunt Lorena Lupu. Nu m\u0103 v\u0103d altfel dec\u00e2t Lorena Lupu. Lorena Lupu e mai mult dec\u00e2t numele meu. E ca o pecete pe care o pun pe orice \u00eemi iese din m\u00e2ini. <\/p>\n
S\u0103 zicem c\u0103 pescuiesc \u00eentr-o zi pe\u0219ti\u0219orul de aur. \u0102la mi-l pred\u0103 la cheie pe Jared Leto, liber, singur, \u0219i dispus s\u0103-mi ofere o c\u0103s\u0103torie de respect reciproc \u0219i libertate absolut\u0103. <\/p>\n
A\u0219 fi complet \u00een limb\u0103, moart\u0103 de amor nebun \u0219i scurs\u0103 toat\u0103? Probabil. <\/p>\n
Mi-a\u0219 schimba vreodat\u0103 numele, chiar \u00een acest caz extrem de wishful thinking? <\/p>\n
\u00cemnu. <\/p>\n
Pentru c\u0103 eu a\u0219 r\u0103m\u00e2ne \u00een continuare Lorena Lupu. Asta e mantra dup\u0103 care m\u0103 identific. Nu a\u0219 putea deveni vreodat\u0103 altcineva. <\/p>\n
Numele e brand.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ai muncit zece, dou\u0103zeci de ani \u00eentr-un domeniu. Lumea a ajuns s\u0103 \u0219tie cine e\u0219ti. Ai investit ani de efort, creativitate, nop\u021bi nedormite, perioade de low, \u0219i acum, e\u0219ti cineva. Mult noroc \u00een a relua eforturile de construc\u021bie a brandului persoonal de la zero. <\/p>\n \u021ai-ai c\u00e2\u0219tigat apreciere ca medicul orelist Marcela Dumbr\u0103veanu? Vine un pacient care te \u0219tie \u0219i te caut\u0103 specific pe tine. <\/p>\n -Cine e de gard\u0103 azi? Numele e proprietate.<\/strong><\/p>\n C\u00e2nd eram noi mici, pe u\u0219a apartamentului nostru era scris “familia Lupu”. <\/p>\n De\u015fi, pe baza contribu\u0163iei fiec\u0103ruia la binele ob\u015ftesc, taic\u0103-miu ar fi trebuit s\u0103 fie exact ultimul citat. Nu ajuta cu nimic \u00een cas\u0103; nu contribuia nici cu bani, c\u0103 \u00een Ardeal e educa\u0163ia asta stupid\u0103, s\u0103 te a\u015ftep\u0163i ca cel\u0103lalt s\u0103 se simt\u0103. \u015ei maic\u0103-mea tot a\u015ftepta ca el s\u0103 se simt\u0103 c\u0103 o dat\u0103 pe lun\u0103 se pl\u0103tesc \u00eentre\u0163inere, lumin\u0103 \u015fi telefon, el dac\u0103 nu i se zicea de la obraz se f\u0103cea c\u0103 plou\u0103, \u015fi a\u015fa, maic\u0103-mea a pl\u0103tit din buzunarul ei toate cheltuielile casei p\u00e2n\u0103 la divor\u0163. <\/p>\n Cu ce era casa aia familia “Lupu”? Cu absolut nimic. Corect ar fi fost, pe baza contribu\u0163iei concrete a fiec\u0103ruia \u00een parte, s\u0103 purt\u0103m am\u00e2ndoi numele mamei. \u015ei dac\u0103 nu am fi avut conflicte majore \u00een adolescen\u0163\u0103, probabil c\u0103 l-a\u015f fi luat, mai ales c\u0103 e numele bunicului meu, un om cu adev\u0103rat minunat, bun ca o p\u00e2ine cald\u0103 \u015fi r\u0103u de gur\u0103 ca un Scorpion adev\u0103rat. <\/p>\n A\u015fa, mi-am construit brandul pe Lorena Lupu \u015fi e mult prea t\u00e2rziu. <\/p>\n E mai important\u0103 condi\u0163ia de om, dec\u00e2t cea de remorc\u0103.<\/strong><\/p>\n Tu e\u015fti Lorena Lupu. Tot ce faci e un serviciu – sau poate un deserviciu – la adresa numelui t\u0103u. Consecin\u0163ele bune \u015fi rele ale ac\u0163iunilor tale \u00ee\u0163i dau istorie \u015fi poveste personal\u0103. A ta. <\/p>\n Apoi, merg\u00e2nd pe premisa absurd\u0103 de mai sus: vine pe\u015fti\u015forul \u015fi \u0163i-l livreaz\u0103 pe Jared Leto prin Fan Courier. Prelu\u00e2ndu-i numele, abdici simbolic de la istoria \u015fi povestea ta personal\u0103 \u015fi devii remorca, secundul, trena altcuiva. <\/p>\n Avea sens pe vremea c\u00e2nd femeia st\u0103tea acas\u0103 \u015fi avea doar statutul de nevast\u0103. Da, conta a cui e animala furajer\u0103, c\u0103 poate te luai de cine nu trebuia \u015fi \u0163i-o \u00eencasai pe cocoa\u015f\u0103. \u00centr-o lume \u00een care femeile nu aveau statut de sine st\u0103t\u0103tor, preluarea numelui celuilalt era echivalentul vasalit\u0103\u0163ii. Luptai sub blazonul seniorului \u015fi pentru interesele lui. <\/p>\n Acum, \u00eens\u0103, nu mai are nici un sens. <\/p>\n \u00cen 90% dintre cazuri, e unilateral.<\/strong><\/p>\n Ea \u00ee\u015fi schimb\u0103 numele \u015fi \u00ee\u015fi anuleaz\u0103 brandul, identitatea, PIN-ul de dragul lui, dar lui nu \u00eei cere nimeni asta. \u0162i-l aduce pe\u015fti\u015forul de aur pe Jared Leto. Dac\u0103-\u015fi ia nume nou, pierde masiv la box office. Tona de h\u00e2r\u0163og\u0103raie<\/strong>.<\/p>\n C\u0103 buletinul trebuie ref\u0103cut, e una. Dar dac\u0103 iei alt nume, toate h\u00e2rtiile din via\u0163a ta trebuie ref\u0103cute. Iar asta \u00eenseamn\u0103 umblat, umblat, umblat. <\/p>\n Dac\u0103 a\u015f avea copii, a\u015f vrea s\u0103 duc\u0103 mai departe \u015fi numele meu de familie.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00cen fond, furnizez 50% din materialul genetic, plus chinurile facerii, corect? \u015ei \u00een cazul mamei, chinurile cre\u015fterii de una singur\u0103, \u00een timp ce tata gol\u0103nea din nou ca la 20 de ani. <\/p>\n \u015ei, \u00een definitiv, nu ai garan\u0163ia eternit\u0103\u0163ii vreunui leg\u0103m\u00e2nt.<\/strong><\/p>\n Doar pentru c\u0103 unul, \u00een exemplul nostru de azi Jared Leto, afirm\u0103 acum c\u0103 te iube\u015fte, nimic nu garanteaz\u0103 c\u0103 acest lucru r\u0103m\u00e2ne a\u015fa p\u00e2n\u0103-n vecii vecilor amin. Oric\u00e2nd, el poate vedea pe una mai frumoas\u0103, mai de\u015fteapt\u0103 sau mai talentat\u0103 oral, \u015fi poate veni acas\u0103 s\u0103-\u0163i spun\u0103: Cine st\u0103 la coad\u0103 peste tot, cu dosar cu \u015fin\u0103 \u015fi certificat de divor\u0163 \u00een copie legalizat\u0103, s\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi refac\u0103 h\u00e2r\u0163og\u0103raia pe numele dinainte? <\/p>\n Nu el, evident. Nu el a fost fraierul care \u015fi-a schimbat numele. <\/p>\n Sigur, toate acestea nu se aplic\u0103 dac\u0103, se zicem, te cheam\u0103 Mihaela \u0162iganu. Atunci e chiar recomandat s\u0103 \u00eenha\u0163i oportunitatea de cum se ive\u015fte \u015fi s\u0103 te m\u0103ri\u0163i ASAP. <\/p>\n Foto: pixabay.com. <\/p>\n ***<\/p>\n \u00ce\u0163i plac textele Trollywood? Po\u0163i sus\u0163ine \u015fi tu proiectul.<\/p>\n *** Acum c\u00e2teva zile, am primit ni\u0219te comentarii pline de iubire \u0219i entuziasm de la o tanti. 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\nApoi vine Jared Leto, te ia de nevast\u0103, \u0219i subit, brandul t\u0103u personal e redus la zero. Numele t\u0103u nou nu spune nim\u0103nui nimic. <\/p>\n
\n-Doamna Leto.
\n-Habar n-am cine rahat e doamna Leto, la revedere. <\/p>\n
\nA v\u0103zut toat\u0103 lumea cum a fost cu Prince, c\u00e2nd a devenit The Symbol, respectiv The Artist Formally Known as Prince, respectiv TAFKAP. Ultimele lui piese de care ai auzit \u015fi tu, care nu e\u015fti fan Prince, sunt cele de dinainte s\u0103 \u00ee\u015fi ia pseudonime.
\n\u00cen cazul b\u0103rba\u0163ilor, ideea c\u0103 nu au de ce s\u0103-\u015fi lase reputa\u0163ia afectat\u0103 \u015fi s\u0103 se cheme m\u00e2ine altfel doar pentru c\u0103 au jurat iubire etern\u0103 unei tanti e de la sine \u00een\u0163eleas\u0103. \u015ei atunci? De ce se mai a\u015fteapt\u0103 lumea de la femei la gestul \u0103sta? <\/p>\n
\n-Am ajuns la concluzia c\u0103 nu te mai iubesc. Hai s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2nem prieteni. <\/p>\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cafea-300x300.jpg?resize=300%2C300\")
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