{"id":17167,"date":"2019-04-06T11:31:30","date_gmt":"2019-04-06T08:31:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=17167"},"modified":"2019-04-06T11:47:56","modified_gmt":"2019-04-06T08:47:56","slug":"scurt-compendiu-de-violenta-domestica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/scurt-compendiu-de-violenta-domestica\/","title":{"rendered":"Scurt compendiu de violen\u021b\u0103 domestic\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"

Zilele astea, \u0219eful poli\u021biei b\u0103c\u0103uane a dat un interviu la radio. \u00cen care a afirmat c\u0103 femeile b\u0103tute de so\u021bi deranjeaz\u0103 poli\u021bi\u0219tii c\u00e2nd sun\u0103 la 112 noaptea \u0219i c\u0103 pot foarte bine s\u0103 a\u0219tepte p\u00e2n\u0103 diminea\u021ba.
\nCei care s-au sup\u0103rat pe tolomac ignor\u0103 problema de fond. \u0218i anume, faptul c\u0103 a\u0219a g\u00e2nde\u0219te o bun\u0103 parte din Poli\u021bia Rom\u00e2n\u0103, numai c\u0103 cei mai mul\u021bi \u00ee\u0219i aleg mai cu grij\u0103 cuvintele c\u00e2nd vorbesc cu presa.
\nRealitatea e c\u0103, \u00een mintea multora dintre ei, c\u0103s\u0103toria e o form\u0103 de luare \u00een proprietate.
\nVenea poli\u021bia peste proprietarul sadic din “12 years a slave” c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u015fi desfigura \u00een b\u0103taie propriet\u0103\u0163ile, pentru gre\u015feala de a fi respirat?
\nLa dracu, nu.
\nCe treab\u0103 are poli\u0163ia cu faptul c\u0103 un st\u0103p\u00e2n de sclavi face ce vrea cu ceea ce de\u0163ine cu acte?
\nNothing whatsoever. <\/p>\n

Lipsa absolut\u0103 de respect a poli\u0163iei rom\u00e2ne fa\u0163\u0103 de via\u0163a, libertatea, integritatea \u015fi demnitatea femeilor rom\u00e2nce continu\u0103 s\u0103 fac\u0103 victime. \u015ei e un fenomen r\u0103sp\u00e2ndit pe o scar\u0103 mult mai larg\u0103. Neghiobul din Bac\u0103u nu a avansat o idee nou\u0103 \u015fi surprinz\u0103toare. El doar a pus \u00een cuvinte modul \u00een care g\u00e2ndesc colegii lui, prietenii lui, subordona\u0163ii lui. <\/p>\n

Adev\u0103rul e c\u0103 \u00een Rom\u00e2nia, femeia m\u0103ritat\u0103 \u015fi copiii nu au parte de nici un fel de protec\u0163ie oficial\u0103. <\/p>\n

\u015ei de obicei, \u00eentrebarea pe care ne place s-o punem este: Dar de ce nu-l p\u0103r\u0103se\u015fte pe prost? <\/p>\n

R\u0103spuns: Pentru c\u0103, de multe ori, prostul devine \u015fi mai h\u0103r\u0163uitor, \u015fi mai violent, \u015fi mai t\u00e2mpit dup\u0103 ce este p\u0103r\u0103sit. <\/p>\n

Cu aprobarea tacit\u0103 a poli\u0163i\u015ftilor care, probabil, se poart\u0103 la fel cu nevestele lor. <\/p>\n

Tolomacul b\u0103c\u0103uan nu lucra \u00een Sighetul Marma\u0163iei, unde s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat aceast\u0103 crim\u0103 oribil\u0103<\/a><\/strong> acum vreo dou\u0103 s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni. O femeie era h\u0103r\u0163uit\u0103 de luni \u00een \u015fir de o mizerie uman\u0103 de care se desp\u0103r\u0163ise. \u015ei, desigur, se desp\u0103r\u0163ise de bun \u015fi iubitor ce era ipochimenul. <\/p>\n

Zice un martor: \u201dA spus \u015fi la poli\u0163ie c\u0103 o s\u0103 fie fapte, dar poli\u0163ia n-a crezut-o. \u00centr-una i-a zis: Du-te acas\u0103 c\u0103 nu \u0163i se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 nimic! \u015ei s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat. El era gelos, foarte gelos. Spunea c\u0103 o bate foarte r\u0103u. \u015ei cu b\u00e2ta \u00een fa\u0163a copiilor. Fata a venit \u015fi la mine de vreo c\u00e2teva ori \u015fi a dormit cu copiii\u201d.<\/p>\n

Jegosul a atacat femeia, tot cu cu\u0163itul, cu o lun\u0103 \u00eenainte, dar autorit\u0103\u0163ile n-au f\u0103cut nimic. Probabil c\u0103 exagerase \u015fi nu a\u015fteptase diminea\u0163a. <\/p>\n

\u00centre cele dou\u0103 atacuri, gunoiul uman a trimis o ton\u0103 de mesaje cu amenin\u0163\u0103ri. Suficiente s\u0103 \u00eel incrimineze pe baza unor legi clare. Ce au f\u0103cut autorit\u0103\u0163ile? Nimic. <\/p>\n

\u015ei de data asta, nemernicul a venit acas\u0103 la femeie, a \u00eencercat s-o arunce de pe balcon, n-a reu\u015fit, \u015fi atunci a \u00eenjunghiat-o mortal, desigur, tot \u00een fa\u0163a copiilor. M\u0103car s\u0103 \u015ftie c\u0103-i traumatizeaz\u0103 definitiv pe \u0103ia mici. <\/p>\n

Revenim: a zis potera din Sighetu vreo prostie de genul: S\u0103 a\u015ftepte femeile p\u00e2n\u0103 diminea\u0163a? <\/p>\n

Nope. <\/p>\n

Dar atitudinea lor, nep\u0103sarea lor, indolen\u0163a lor, lipsa de orice considera\u0163ie fa\u0163\u0103 de via\u0163a \u015fi integritatea femeii erau exact acelea\u015fi cu ale tolomacului b\u0103c\u0103uam care a ouat porumbelul. <\/p>\n

Haide\u0163i s\u0103 revizit\u0103m \u00eempreun\u0103 o alt\u0103 \u015ftire<\/a><\/strong>. <\/p>\n

Un gunoi uman, de data asta din Gala\u0163i, a fost p\u0103r\u0103sit de so\u0163ie pentru c\u0103 era abuziv \u015fi violent. Femeia a fugit \u00een Anglia, probabil la munc\u0103.
\nA l\u0103sat cei doi copii acas\u0103, pentru c\u0103, spune ea, p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci jegosul a fost violent doar cu ea, nu \u015fi cu ei. <\/p>\n

De ce a fost nevoit\u0103 s\u0103 recurg\u0103 la acest gest extrem: fuga \u00een alt\u0103 \u0163ar\u0103? Din exact acela\u015fi motiv.
\nAutorit\u0103\u0163ile nu intervin cu nimic, nu protejeaz\u0103 \u015fi nu ajut\u0103 o femeie aflat\u0103 \u00een capcana unei c\u0103s\u0103torii de co\u015fmar. Poli\u0163i\u015ftii din Gala\u0163i nu au ie\u015fit public cu o afirma\u0163ie de tipul “s\u0103 a\u015ftepte p\u00e2n\u0103 diminea\u0163a”, dar atitudinea de miserupism suveran a fost vizibil\u0103 \u015fi \u00een acest caz. <\/p>\n

Ei bine, continuarea probabil c\u0103 o \u015fti\u0163i. Animalul s-a filmat b\u0103t\u00e2nd cu s\u0103lb\u0103ticie pe cei doi copii mici, cu pumni \u015fi palme, \u015fi a trimis filmarea pe net femeii. <\/p>\n

\u015ei poanta e tot \u00een \u015ftire: “B\u0103rbatul a primit interdic\u0163ie s\u0103 se apropie de cei doi copii timp de cinci zile.” <\/p>\n

A doua poant\u0103, \u00een rubrica de comentarii pe Facebook. Un c\u00e2rd de pizme proaste ca noaptea, care probabil c\u0103 nu au primit nici m\u0103car un ghiont \u00een toat\u0103 via\u0163a lor: “Cum a putut aia s\u0103 plece f\u0103r\u0103 copii?” <\/p>\n

\u00cen primul r\u00e2nd, c\u00e2nd abuzul, agresiunea, violen\u0163a ating insuportabilul, fugi pur \u015fi simplu. Fugi pentru via\u0163a ta.
\n\u00cen al doilea r\u00e2nd, s\u0103r\u0103cia e un lucru real. \u015ei nu m\u0103 refer la s\u0103r\u0103cia de Facebook \u015fi Instagram, unde ne v\u0103ic\u0103rim c\u0103 n-avem bani, dar m\u00e2nc\u0103m de trei ori pe s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 la restaurant \u015fi ne \u00eennoim constant garderoba, ci la s\u0103r\u0103cia autentic\u0103 de sat rom\u00e2nesc, unde te bucuri c\u0103 ai o coaj\u0103 de p\u00e2ine de pus pe mas\u0103. Femeia a plecat \u00een Anglia special s\u0103 pun\u0103 deoparte ni\u015fte bani, s\u0103 aib\u0103 CE s\u0103 le ofere copiilor. <\/p>\n

\u015ei p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, \u00eentr-o \u015ftire cu una care fuge de acas\u0103 \u015fi unul care se r\u0103zbun\u0103 desfigur\u00e2nd copiii \u00een b\u0103taie, \u0163ie \u0163i se pare prioritar s\u0103 clonc\u0103ni despre cum a putut aia s\u0103 fug\u0103? <\/p>\n

Which brings me to my next point, \u015fi anume: avem infinite mustr\u0103ri de adus femeii rom\u00e2nce c\u0103 nu \u015ftie s\u0103 fie mam\u0103 perfect\u0103. Dar cumva ni se pare de \u00een\u0163eles c\u0103 b\u0103rbatul rom\u00e2n e cel mai de kkt tat\u0103 posibil, c\u0103 nu \u00eel calific\u0103 nimic pentru a fi p\u0103rinte. Sau so\u0163, dac\u0103 tot suntem acolo. Ni se pare firesc ca mentalitatea lui s\u0103 fie cea a proprietarului de sclavi sadic din 12 Years a Slave<\/em>. <\/p>\n

\u015ei prin asta, suntem la fel de mult o parte din problem\u0103, ca tolomacul din Bac\u0103u. El doar a zis-o, noi to\u0163i endors\u0103m. <\/p>\n

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