{"id":17340,"date":"2019-04-24T17:34:32","date_gmt":"2019-04-24T14:34:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=17340"},"modified":"2019-04-24T18:10:33","modified_gmt":"2019-04-24T15:10:33","slug":"o-gasca-bruscheaza-fete-cu-galeti-de-apa-de-paste-internetul-noi-nu-vedem-niciun-abuz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/o-gasca-bruscheaza-fete-cu-galeti-de-apa-de-paste-internetul-noi-nu-vedem-niciun-abuz\/","title":{"rendered":"O ga\u0219c\u0103 bruscheaz\u0103 fete cu g\u0103le\u021bi de ap\u0103 de pa\u0219te. Internetul: noi nu vedem niciun abuz"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Am ur\u00e2t \u00eentotdeauna, din inim\u0103, obiceiul udatului din Ardeal. Prima zi dup\u0103 pa\u0219te, veneau b\u0103rba\u021bii, de obicei cu cel mai ieftin \u0219i ur\u00e2t pu\u021bitor parfum (<del datetime=\"2019-04-24T14:01:44+00:00\">arm\u0103 chimic\u0103<\/del>) de la buticul din col\u021b, ei te stropeau, oficial pe p\u0103r, dar gen jum\u0103tate se credeau foarte \u0219mecheri dac\u0103 te f\u00e2s\u00e2iau pe \u021b\u00e2\u021be, \u0219i tu le d\u0103deai cozonac \u0219i alcool de diverse tipuri.<\/p>\n<p>Asta, lunea de dup\u0103 pa\u0219te. Mar\u021bea \u0219i miercurea, f\u0103ceai baie. Baie dup\u0103 baie dup\u0103 baie. P\u00e2n\u0103 joi, reu\u0219eai s\u0103 miro\u0219i \u0219i tu ca un om.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Dar nu se poate s\u0103 nu mai facem asta?&#8221; o \u00eentrebam eu pe mama.<br \/>\n&#8220;A\u015fa e tradi\u0163ia.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>O tradi\u0163ie grosolan\u0103, ur\u00e2t\u0103, inutil\u0103. Principalul motiv pentru care nu m\u0103 duc acas\u0103 de Pa\u015fte.<\/p>\n<p>Anul lui Dumnezeu 2019. Ni\u015fte masculi feroci decid s\u0103 se filmeze prest\u00e2nd tradi\u0163ia \u00een versiunea ei de la \u0163ar\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"border: none; overflow: hidden;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/plugins\/video.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Ferdofule.ro%2Fvideos%2F412716802853255%2F&amp;show_text=0&amp;width=560\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Trei b\u0103rba\u0163i \u00een toat\u0103 firea scot fetele de prin case \u015fi le toarn\u0103 g\u0103le\u0163i pline cu ap\u0103 pe fa\u0163\u0103 \u015fi corp. <\/p>\n<p>Fetele z\u00e2mbesc, c\u0103 asta faci la 16 ani, mai ales dac\u0103 ai primit o educa\u0163ie de cet\u0103\u0163ean de rangul al doilea, femeile sunt slugile casei, taci \u015fi ascul\u0163i. Z\u00e2mbe\u015fti \u015fi \u00eenghi\u0163i \u00een sec. <\/p>\n<p>Dar reac\u0163iile lor corporale, pe care nu le controleaz\u0103, spun tot ce e de aflat. <\/p>\n<p>Am dat share pe Page acestei monstruozit\u0103\u0163i, rug\u00e2ndu-mi cititorii s\u0103 d\u0103m report \u015fi s\u0103 \u015ftergem oribilitatea asta de pe net, unde nu \u00ee\u015fi are locul. <\/p>\n<p>C\u0103 nu se \u015ftie ce pulifrici jego\u015fi \u015fi complexa\u0163i o s\u0103 se inspire s\u0103 fac\u0103 exact acest lucru unor fete lipsite de ap\u0103rare, needucate cu ideea c\u0103 pot refuza. <\/p>\n<p>Faptul c\u0103 au venit reac\u0163ii nesim\u0163ite de la ni\u015fte masculi era de a\u015fteptat. \u00cen fond, pentru ace\u015ftia, cred c\u0103 e o pl\u0103cere s\u0103 agasezi \u015fi s\u0103 brutalizezi femei. A\u015fa \u00ee\u015fi dovedesc ei lor c\u0103 sunt masculi. <\/p>\n<p>Unii boi m-au \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 am habar cum e cu maghiarii din Rom\u00e2nia. Tocmai, c\u0103 am. M\u0103car de n-a\u015f fi avut.<br \/>\nAl\u0163i boi m-au v\u0103zut cu nume rom\u00e2nesc \u015fi m-au felicitat c\u0103 am plecat la Bucure\u015fti, recomand\u00e2ndu-mi s\u0103 iau to\u0163i rom\u00e2nii dup\u0103 mine.<br \/>\nPoate c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u0163i cump\u0103r\u0103 m\u0103-ta ora\u015f privat. \u00centre timp, rom\u00e2nii stau unde vor ei.<br \/>\nAl\u0163i boi m-au \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 ar fi fost mai bine s\u0103 fie o c\u0103r\u0103mid\u0103.<br \/>\nPentru c\u0103 nu-i a\u015fa, tratamentul decent nu e o op\u0163iune. Sau fur\u0103m un ou, sau fur\u0103m un bou.<br \/>\nAl\u0163i boi mi-au zis c\u0103, da, mai bine st\u0103 toat\u0103 lumea single pe Facebook.<br \/>\nCa \u015fi cum existau dou\u0103 op\u0163iuni: a brutaliza femei \u015fi a fi singur. A TRATA DECENT FEMEI NU ERA O OP\u0162IUNE.<br \/>\nAl\u0163i boi mi-au spus c\u0103 nu v\u0103d eu bine, c\u0103 fetele par fericite. Dac\u0103 te ui\u0163i la cum se chinuie s\u0103 z\u00e2mbeasc\u0103, po\u0163i s\u0103 te min\u0163i singur c\u0103 par fericite. Dac\u0103 te ui\u0163i la ce spune corpul lor, le vine s\u0103 fug\u0103 \u00een lume.<br \/>\nAl\u0163i boi care mi-au spus c\u0103 undeva o ur\u00e2t\u0103 cu co\u015furi sufer\u0103 c\u0103 nu e udat\u0103. De parc\u0103 ar datora cineva s\u0103-\u015fi tr\u0103iasc\u0103 via\u0163a dup\u0103 mentalitatea ur\u00e2telor cu co\u015furi. <\/p>\n<p>Dar na: te a\u015ftep\u0163i de la b\u0103rba\u0163i s\u0103 apere b\u0103rba\u0163i. S-au ap\u0103rat unii pe al\u0163ii din cele mai vechi timpuri \u015fi o vor face \u00eentotdeauna. <\/p>\n<p>Ce m-a oripilat \u00eens\u0103 a fost reac\u0163ia femeilor. Femei care pretindeau c\u0103 nu e nimic \u00een neregul\u0103 \u00een acest clip. Femei care se uitau la aceste adolescente \u0163inute de un grup de b\u0103rba\u0163i \u015fi bruscate cu ditamai valul de ap\u0103 \u015fi \u00eemi spuneau mie c\u0103 eu am luat-o razna \u015fi c\u0103 eu nu v\u0103d bine. Femei care aplaud\u0103 \u015fi se bucur\u0103 de umilirea public\u0103 a altor femei. Femei care m\u0103 acuzau pe mine de feminism \u015fi extremism pentru c\u0103 mi se p\u0103rea oribil ce li se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 acestor fete. Femei complici. <\/p>\n<p>Femei care \u00ee\u0163i aduceau argumentul: nu \u015ftii cultura, nu \u00een\u0163elegi. Ba \u015ftiu cultura, \u00een\u0163eleg, \u015fi de aceea sunt vehement\u0103. Dar chiar dac\u0103 n-o \u015ftiam. E normal s\u0103 treci cu vederea o crim\u0103 de onoare, pentru c\u0103 nu \u015ftii cultura \u015fi nu \u00een\u0163elegi? E normal s\u0103 ignori cum vecinu-tu o bate pe nevast\u0103-sa, pentru c\u0103 nu \u015ftii cultura \u015fi n-o \u00een\u0163elegi? <\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 cineva le-ar fi \u00eentrebat pe feti\u0163ele acelea, \u015fi le-ar fi \u00eencurajat s\u0103 fie sincere, probabil c\u0103 nici una nu ar fi vrut s\u0103 fie \u0163inta unor g\u0103le\u0163i de ap\u0103 \u00een public. <\/p>\n<p>Dar vai, gyermekem, cum s\u0103 nu fii tu \u00een r\u00e2nd cu tradi\u0163ia? Dup\u0103 c\u00e2te sacrificii am f\u0103cut eu pentru tine? <\/p>\n<p>V\u0103 rog, pu\u0163inii oameni decen\u0163i \u015fi cu bun sim\u0163 c\u0103rora nu vi se pare normal ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een clipul \u0103sta, \u015fi crede\u0163i c\u0103 \u015fi fetele au dreptul s\u0103 se bucure de un pa\u015fte civilizat, da\u0163i report. NU a\u015fa trebuie s\u0103 arate o s\u0103rb\u0103toare. M\u0103 doare \u00een plu\u0103 de tradi\u0163ie. <\/p>\n<p>Foto: Shutterstock. <\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>\u00ce\u0163i plac textele Trollywood? 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