{"id":17374,"date":"2019-04-27T10:57:48","date_gmt":"2019-04-27T07:57:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/?p=17374"},"modified":"2019-04-27T11:14:03","modified_gmt":"2019-04-27T08:14:03","slug":"posta-redactiei-am-44-de-ani-si-vremea-mea-a-trecut","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lorenalupu.com\/blog\/posta-redactiei-am-44-de-ani-si-vremea-mea-a-trecut\/","title":{"rendered":"Po\u0219ta redac\u021biei: Am 44 de ani \u0219i vremea mea a trecut."},"content":{"rendered":"

Asta e o edi\u021bie mai special\u0103 a po\u0219tei redac\u021biei, pentru c\u0103 persoana nu mi-a scris un mail despre v\u00e2rsta ei. Ci mi-a dat un comentariu. <\/p>\n

\u00cen acest comentariu, se trata de una singur\u0103 cu un ageism de mi-a dat ceacrele peste cap: “Am 44 de ani, \u015fi vremea mea a trecut.” <\/p>\n

DESPRE CE POOOLA MEA VORBE\u015eTI, FEMEIE? <\/p>\n

Cei mai mari scriitori ai lumii \u015fi-au scris marile c\u0103r\u0163i dup\u0103 ce au trecut de 40 de ani. Cei mai mari regizori ai lumii \u015fi-au f\u0103cut filmele valoroase dup\u0103 40 de ani. Cei mai buni oameni de afaceri ai lumii \u015fi-au \u00eemplinit poten\u0163ialul valoric \u015fi insight-ul dup\u0103 40 de ani. Cei mai buni politicieni ai lumii au condus cu \u00een\u0163elepciune \u015fi maturitate dup\u0103 40 de ani. <\/p>\n

Cea mai oribil\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u0163\u0103tur\u0103 gre\u015fit\u0103 a educa\u0163iei tradi\u0163ionale fa\u0163\u0103 de femei, cea mai cumplit de nasoal\u0103 minciun\u0103 pe care ai mo\u015ftenit-o spune c\u0103 nu mai valorezi nimic dup\u0103 ce \u00ee\u0163i pierzi atractivitatea de a atrage masculi. <\/p>\n

\u015ei multe femei chiar cred asta. \u00cen loc s\u0103 fac\u0103 un exerci\u0163iu de autocunoa\u015ftere, s\u0103 descopere lucrul la care sunt cu adev\u0103rat bune \u015fi s\u0103 profite de faptul c\u0103 a disp\u0103rut factorul footere la icre din via\u0163a lor, s\u0103 caute s\u0103 exceleze \u00een adev\u0103rata lor misiune pe p\u0103m\u00e2nt – se hr\u0103nesc singure cu sentimente negative pentru c\u0103 nu mai st\u0103 \u0163\u00e2\u0163a ca \u00eenainte, pentru c\u0103 nu mai st\u0103 popoul ca \u00eenainte \u015fi alte irelevan\u0163e asem\u0103n\u0103toare. <\/p>\n

Umanitatea din tine, suma lucrurilor minunate pe care le po\u0163i face e AT\u00c2T DE PU\u0162IN DEPENDENT\u0102 DE cum stau \u0163\u00e2\u0163a \u015fi popoul. <\/p>\n

N-o s\u0103 mai vrea masculii s\u0103 te foot\u0103. Dar dac\u0103 e s\u0103 fii sincer\u0103 cu tine \u00eens\u0103\u0163i, nu te-a interesat niciodat\u0103 s\u0103 faci turul complet al p*lelor din ora\u015ful t\u0103u natal. \u00cen schimb, c\u00e2nd oamenii nu se vor uita la tine prin prisma dorin\u0163elor lor sexuale, se vor uita la tine prin prisma umanit\u0103\u0163ii tale autentice \u015fi a lucrurilor speciale pe care le po\u0163i face. <\/p>\n

B\u0103rba\u0163ii, care nu primesc educa\u0163ia “cum s\u0103-i faci pe Gigel \u015fi Costel s\u0103 te vrea”, au \u00een\u0163eles lec\u0163ia asta de mult. De aceea, dup\u0103 40, cei mai buni dintre ei livreaz\u0103 poten\u0163ialul de excelen\u0163\u0103 care a z\u0103cut \u00een ei de la bun \u00eenceput, dar pe care n-au \u015ftiut s\u0103-l canalizeze \u00een tinere\u0163e, ocupa\u0163i fiind cu diverse chestiuni total irelevante pentru adev\u0103rata lor esen\u0163\u0103 uman\u0103. <\/p>\n

Cred sincer c\u0103, dac\u0103 te \u00eemprietene\u015fti cu tine \u015fi cau\u0163i s\u0103-\u0163i descoperi \u015fi s\u0103-\u0163i valorifici adev\u0103ratele calit\u0103\u0163i, maturitatea e acel urm\u0103tor nivel din via\u0163a ta \u00een care e\u015fti cea mai bun\u0103 versiune a ta. <\/p>\n

Pentru c\u0103 po\u0163i esen\u0163ializa, cristaliza, po\u0163i distinge gr\u00e2ul de neghin\u0103, po\u0163i seta o ordine a priorit\u0103\u0163ilor. <\/p>\n

Taman pentru c\u0103 fizicul \u00eenceteaz\u0103 s\u0103 mai conteze, \u015fi renun\u0163i la competi\u0163iile t\u00e2mpite de genul “Cum s\u0103 fiu mai mi\u015ftoac\u0103 dec\u00e2t Veta de la 4” \u015fi “Ce prostioar\u0103 s\u0103 fac, s\u0103 fie interesat Ionel de la trei la mine”. <\/p>\n

Sigur, se ajunge aici dac\u0103 ai \u00eenv\u0103\u0163at din gre\u015feli \u015fi \u0163i-ai permis, tu \u0163ie, s\u0103 acumulezi \u015fi s\u0103 simplifici. Dac\u0103 ai tr\u0103it fiecare zi ca un sclav \/ o sclav\u0103 a valid\u0103rii \u015fi aprob\u0103rii altora, dac\u0103 tot ce conteaz\u0103 pentru tine e “ce spun uamenii”, e\u015fti la fel de ageamiu \/ ageamie ca un \u00eencep\u0103tor \u00een ale vie\u0163ii, \u015fi ai trecut prin via\u0163\u0103 ca ra\u0163a prin ap\u0103 degeaba. <\/p>\n

Valideaz\u0103-te tu \u00een ochii t\u0103i, prin ce \u015ftii s\u0103 faci bun \u015fi prin modurile \u00een care po\u0163i excela. Iar maturitatea va fi cea mai frumoas\u0103 v\u00e2rst\u0103 din via\u0163a ta. <\/p>\n

44 de ani, spui tu? La 45, James Watt inventa motorul cu abur.
\nLa 45, Baruch Spinoza scria “Etica”.
\nLa 45, Marcel Proust lansa “\u00cen c\u0103utarea timpului pierdut”.
\nIar la 53, Leonardo da Vinci picta “Mona Lisa”. <\/p>\n

Habar nu avem cum le st\u0103tea curul, dar \u00eenc\u0103 beneficiem de roadele talentului, imagina\u0163iei, creativit\u0103\u0163ii lor. <\/p>\n

Bucur\u0103-te de cea mai bun\u0103 v\u00e2rst\u0103 a ta. <\/p>\n

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